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i need a shop too, a 50sqm shop or a 2 bedroom flat office space in magodo, ogudu, palmgrove or ikeja, budget 300 - 500,000 pa

poster, wat do u mean by distance ? the question is how often do u both see, once in 3 months, 6 months, yearly thing , every 2 or 3 years or no idea yet. i will give u a few tips, (1) regular contact, mornning, noon and evenning.this would make both of u forget that u were in a distance relationship, but he must hv the cash to de halla ur phone morning noon and night because the phone bill at the end of the month na wahala if he is not the big boys type, (2) Trust - this is another part u must not joke with, u hv to trust in him , (3) No distraction - keep away from any kind of intimate relationship with any other guy, it will never work if u hv another guy around. that is a big fact. I know somebody into it and it is working perfectly well for them, i can go on and on and tell u the best way to think and behave urself for it to work out

poster you may also agree to convert to muslim and after the marriage you send ur quoran and their cloths into pit and dump the religioun

more information plz, only shop or with room , toilet, wat is the size in sqm, how much pa and how many yr contract

how big is the space in sqm

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by fuke(m):


A 32year old guy is but a boy when it comes to handling women issues.

He could have done those things care-freely without taking necessary precautions.

He is just getting to be a man and he may very well end up being a good husband and wife.

I ask you guys there, how many of you will get a wife if all your relationships
had ended with babies. I mean if if you had not been 'careful", very careful.

Follow your mind girl. That is the best advice anybody can give you.


instead of you advising her to try to make the man go back to his wifes and children u are here supporting her and advising her to go ahead with the man, b4 u write this crap did u ask urself, how come out of 3 women none is gud enough 4 him to be with ? u called it a mistake or done without precaution, so the first one - a mistake, second one - a mistake and the third one also a mistake, with 4 children all a mistake ? answer me . only God knows how many women he must be screwing at the moment while still waiting 4 this one to join put, she only knew of the baby mamas and their kids wat of the other ones without kid yet ?

i sensed deputee hidden from family till life don tyre am, if not how can he tell a total stranger he just met in the bar all his way about, secondly since he claimed he truely came from america and had wife and chidren, is he telling us that there is no nigerian living around his negbourhood or any nigerian organisation that he can write or call to help him reconnect with his family he can even ask nigerian embassy and that wont be hard 4 them to do 4 him and why cant he go back to us now if he was not deputed since american embassy here can always help him out. boy make ona no believe this man

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( 1 ) how can u even be thinking of marrying a woman that is not yet officially divorced, that a
woman had misunderstanding with her husband and separated temporarily does not
mean they could not be reconciled.


Listen to the good advise from fellow NLanders

( 2 ) Theben(m):
This issue ain't what should be taken lightly. Op you need to really try and find out the reason why she got divorced in the first place. I presume you've already accepted whatever she must have told you is the cause of her breakup with her ex-husband. Please try and research the cause yourself. Who knows, her character might be the reason. I don't have anything against marrying a divorcee or a single mother but you need to take your time, study her.
As for your parents, i don't think they'll be much of a problem. Once they know that she won't be a problem to you, trust me, they would give you their blessings.
So poster, the problem here is not her being a divorcee, the real wahala is when she's not what you think she is.
Thanks

( 3 ) newcreatio(m):
dude...i think you gotta be careful mehn...My take, people aren't just divorced, did you hear da full story? perhaps the other dude's side? was cheating involved? how about her family? Did they support da divorce, if all this poo ain't properly investigated, you might be the victim of her 2nd chance...

( 4 ) klas if she was married for only 24months out of which pregnancy would be for 9 months that mean she left the child at just barely a year of age. It will surely be a very serious matter for a woman to separate from her child of such age. Please probe further.
( 5 ) Emiye Her asking you to make her plan B, is most likely she wants to make re-union or keep the door open for the possibility of it with her husband Plan A, and you plan B. though she would never let u know that but beleve me that is the meaning

Hi nairalanders, I need a big warehouse for sale of building materials in a good site around ikorodu ketu or mile 12

@ negro nts, if you dont know about something you better dont say what u dont know, if no ordinary individual or group of individuals cant send somebody like OBJ to ICC then who can, you mentioned that it is only a country or government can sue somebody in icc, then ask yourself this, why were sitting president or head of states like president al-bashir of sudan sued by the people of darfor region of south sudan in the ICC and he was subsequently issued arrest warrant and ordered interpol worldwide to arrest him whenever he gets out of his country, if dafor ppl of south sudan could send their president to icc, the tiv people of benue could aswell send OBJ to ICC to answer for his crimes. period.

well done

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