Killz.:

+1000

KarmenK: Thanks everyone for your advice really appreciate it.
After reading my own post =Gods Time is the Best ( which part of me knw I just like to hear others opinion)
And to the ones callings me desperate thank you. Kmt.
I mean without blowing my own trumpet I'm 25 with a degree a very good job with Arsenal football club
Have my own flat I pay my own mortgage with a nice car.
BUT money can't buy love. I was simplying asking is Gods time the best or shall I get on the case as I feel to old
i dnt wana leave it to late to settle down making it harder for me to find a decent lad.

KarmenK: Thanks everyone for your advice really appreciate it.
After reading my own post =Gods Time is the Best ( which part of me knw I just like to hear others opinion)
And to the ones callings me desperate thank you. Kmt.
I mean without blowing my own trumpet I'm 25 with a degree a very good job with Arsenal football club
Have my own flat I pay my own mortgage with a nice car.
BUT money can't buy love. I was simplying asking is Gods time the best or shall I get on the case as I feel to old
i dnt wana leave it to late to settle down making it harder for me to find a decent lad.

tttn726: @Karmenk

Quoting what job, car,mortgage makes you even more intriguing (scratching my head)

Hey, I was at Arsenal recently for a "digital creams event"...depending on what you do at Arsenal...you probably won't know about the event.

The other thing I notice is, for those who grew up in this country (primary/secondary/uni), they're the ones likely to be 25 (relatively youngish for a Nigerian import) with mortgage, car, Arsenal job (hopefully..a decent one)

Hey, talk to me...you get to see Arsenal games for free? I bet you have autographs off of the likes of Van Persie, Walcott etc ?

some-girl:
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Sly

Not impossible if she has affluent parents

tttn726:

@some-girl

@some-girl which part of my post are you calling sly

If its what I think No no...I don't mean anything insidious or what not. I'm just intrigued not doubtful. The sector I play in has a lot of under 30 multi millionaires.

bittyend:

Yo, you need to stop begging for pu/ssy; you're acting too desperate...

tttn726:

What part of my post sounds desperate?

If its the multi millionaire thing. I didn't say I was. Meant to say...achievements quoted are not a big deal (relative for some others). Working whereever is nothing in itself except you make something of it.

Yes...I like pu/ ssy @bittyend and I don't need to beg for it if I wanted it right now w/ anker

Now...lets see if you are a troll

tttn726:

@some-girl

@some-girl which part of my post are you calling sly

If its what I think No no...I don't mean anything insidious or what not. I'm just intrigued not doubtful. The sector I play in has a lot of under 30 multi millionaires.

bittyend:

Keep living in denial, clown.. The girl has accepted her faith, stop keeping vigil over someone whom I doubt would fancy you.. Phucking desperate monkey!!

Step your chics game up!!

bittyend:

What the heck?? Your written English is poor, I feel like smashing my laptop. This just shows that we black people in the UK are being treated as slaves, if you went through the educational system, and still can't write English to save your life. I wonder who's going to employ you - with the double dip recession in the UK.

Good luck with your search for a bf, I won't date someone like you - with your crap spellings and written English.

some-girl:


Not impossible.

A mortage is afterall a huge loan.

'haves' however, are less inclined to blow their own trumps than "have nots".

tttn726:

I would say though...anonymity here (online) is powerful and many of "us" just let it out.

KarmenK: Thanks everyone for your advice really appreciate it.
After reading my own post =Gods Time is the Best ( which part of me knw I just like to hear others opinion)
And to the ones callings me desperate thank you. Kmt.
I mean without blowing my own trumpet I'm 25 with a degree a very good job with Arsenal football club
Have my own flat I pay my own mortgage with a nice car. [b][/b]
BUT money can't buy love. I was simplying asking is Gods time the best or shall I get on the case as I feel to old
i dnt wana leave it to late to settle down making it harder for me to find a decent lad.

mamalola19:

if truly u schooled abroad u r very daft for the bolded statement
explains why u are desperate for a man declaring ur assets in a public forum where members have been dashing emails like a beggar on the street
so even if their motive was for marriage at first, u have become meal for scammers and fraudsters

i dont know who is releasing all dis monsters going around advertisizing their desperation for marriage and age
i bet its d same sick emotional wreck looking for a husband with different IDs
very typical of nl members to believe everything they read on nl
as for op even if u r looking for a husband u r going about it d wrong way at 25
if i were a man i cant marry a women who has a running mouth n results to a public forum meaning if u eventually married any ish in ur marriage would be publicized on nl.

u r too lousey abeg too much details about urself. very soon when d men giving email as food know ur identity fu ck ur pathetic life put it on tape and rip u off like other nl women victims in d past u would claim its d devil.
na real wa, nl has become some peoples homes cant u deal with ur issues away from d public eye.

KarmenK: I'm about finishing a degree this year. Ive only dated two guys one of two years and the other I ended last night after 4 months.
Both who are in there 30's were just wasting my time with no goal or plans for the future.
Their own concern or goal was to make money and wear the latest garms ( clothes).
I find guys in London are immature too much on a hype. The I dated for 2 years ( a ghanian ) told me he wanted to settle down at 40.( I mean come on)
All my mates are married with kids or have a kid and on to their second. I can't even mingle with these girls to say I'm scouting for potential bf

I dnt have a problem getting a guys it's keeping then long enough to like me more then my physical shape. I thought by now I would be in a serious relationship, pregnant or planning a wedding.
I'm I rushing it. My Nigerian name is Okemute = there's a time for everything. I know Patience is a Virtue. But I'm to damn inpatient my attitude is if I want something I'm must have.
I feel at 25 as a female I'm too old. Im also the eldest in my family I dnt to be 30 and single still with no kids let alone no husband. I've even considered moving to Nigeria in search of a bf potential husband.


So NL is Gods Time the Best shall I learn to be more patience. My mum keeps telling.

Or shall I get on the case and do fast.

KarmenK: I'm about finishing a degree this year. Ive only dated two guys one of two years and the other I ended last night after 4 months.
Both who are in there 30's were just wasting my time with no goal or plans for the future.
Their own concern or goal was to make money and wear the latest garms ( clothes).
I find guys in London are immature too much on a hype. The I dated for 2 years ( a ghanian ) told me he wanted to settle down at 40.( I mean come on)
All my mates are married with kids or have a kid and on to their second. I can't even mingle with these girls to say I'm scouting for potential bf

I dnt have a problem getting a guys it's keeping then long enough to like me more then my physical shape. I thought by now I would be in a serious relationship, pregnant or planning a wedding.
I'm I rushing it. My Nigerian name is Okemute = there's a time for everything. I know Patience is a Virtue. But I'm to damn inpatient my attitude is if I want something I'm must have.
I feel at 25 as a female I'm too old. Im also the eldest in my family I dnt to be 30 and single still with no kids let alone no husband. I've even considered moving to Nigeria in search of a bf potential husband.


So NL is Gods Time the Best shall I learn to be more patience. My mum keeps telling.
Or shall I get on the case and do fast.

::Andrew:::
nso abasi nam? udiongo ke ntogoyem yem owo dok. ya ami nkong ayem nfege

buJu-234:
you guys should get one thing here; this lady although a Nigerian is not living in Nigeria; over there some ladies of her age
should have gotten married because they start their lives on time (atleast 18-20)..

but here in Nigeria; a lady of her age; still dey groove; infact most are either still in higer institution or still grooving in
singlehood...

so those of u saying why the rush; her equivalent in Nigeria; should b a woman btw 33-36yrs...

I mean without blowing my own trumpet I'm 25 with a degree a very good job with Arsenal football club
Have my own flat I pay my own mortgage with a nice car. ..

very rare to see a Naija babe that have those things at 25yrs old in Nigeria...

so madam; plz dont b slow & also dont b in a hurray.

also u must knw that these days; u have more boys than man esp. in the western world..
guys still wan to groove; irrespective of the age (esp. btw 20-40yrs)...

so try and look back to Nigeria.. but u have to b very very very careful of gold-diggers... ( they re abt 90-95%) of Nigeria single men..
who will marry u jst to get UK visa; after dat disappear.

if u decide to come to Nigeria; try to b as simple as possible; in mean simple life style...;
u may have the better chance of meeting a responsible matured man that will marry u....

goodluck...