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biacan:
nop she will encourage you on how to make the next millions when you have spent on her......

story for d gods. all these hungry wicked girls. know you're struggling and still want to finish the little you have. slay them all

biacan:
never you must take her out

then she must give me brezz and ponyor

biacan:
never you must take her out

then she must give me brezz and ponyor
it's the law

biacan:
why must you complain when you take a girl out because she refuse to sleep with you......what about her time you waste in the outing

she coulda stayed home

inkdbetty:
If I come and spend money on you myself, make sure we do the do oh. Even though you have taken a vow, or even if I cook or clean for you. Hope I can take my reward in kind too? You owe it to me. As long as I do anything for you, I own that body man.

if we don't find you yansh able we don't collect your money. simple. but greedy girls think they can eat and have their cake

ariesbull:
Today, I will share with you my journey to feminism and gender equality and how I have been able to make a sense of it all especially in a patriarchal society like Nigeria.





In 2004, I started a monthly email series to my friends, their friends and basically every woman who had an email address I could grab and add to my mailing list.

After I wrote the first one, I read it over and over and I still wasn’t confident it was good enough. So, I sent it to my friend, Akin, to help me have a look at it and give me a feedback.

When we had a chat on yahoo messenger, he said my piece was good, but he was concerned about my closing remark. Below my email I had put something along this line “Please, note that this is not a feminist initiative.“ It was written in bold red letters.

“Why did you write that?” he asked. I said, “Because I didn’t want people to think this is a feminist thing.”

He didn’t think there was anything wrong in being a feminist, so he struggled to see my point. He later sent me some links to some articles on feminism and told me I needed to understand what feminism is all about.

It didn’t take me too long to figure out what he meant – I had written a piece about women rights and yet I didn’t want to be called a feminist.

It has been 12 years since we had that conversation, but I will always be grateful to him for helping me find a world I never knew existed.

It will be so lovely to say I lived happily ever after as a feminist, but to be honest, the more I read about feminism the more confused I became at the time. There are different types, ideologies and movements but at the root of them all is one main goal I have been able to identify with – women should have political, social, and economic equality to men.

Image result for feminismBeing equal to men does not mean becoming men – because I want a girl child to have access to education like a boy child doesn’t mean I want her to grow a penis.

Being equal to men does not mean I want to take the place of men

yes it does

– because I want a girl child to have access to education like a boy child doesn’t mean I want to take away the boy’s access to education.

Gender equality does not say women and men are the same, it says they have equal value and should be given equal rights and opportunities.

[/quote]yes it does

[quote]No family member should be able to take a widow’s husband’s property away from her when it has not been willed to them.

that's just greed on the family's part and weakness on the woman's. (nothing a axe murder rampage can't fix)

No family member should stop me from inheriting my father’s property JUST because I am a woman.

yeah they should
if you won't fight for it

If I marry a foreigner, he should be able to get citizenship in my country just like a man who marries a foreigner can get for his wife.

course he can

I should not be forced into marriage as a girl child.

more greed due to poverty

I should not be denied education because I am a girl.

no
you're denied cos of opportunity cost and scarcity of resources

I should not be paid less than a man who I do the same job with JUST because I am a woman.

name one job that pays less to women

I should not be stopped from owning or renting a property because I am a woman.

na your fellow women cause dis wan
don't pay rent on time as well as nag always plus boyfriend drama

I should have a right to be free from all forms of violence against women.

so would Libyans Liberians and Sudanese
so stop dreaming

When any criminal act is committed against me, the justice system must not be partial or dismissive because I am a woman.

how many females lawyers willing to do pro Bono work
more weakness

I should have control over my body, my reproductive health and sexuality.

who hol you?

If I am qualified to hold a political office, I should not be denied opportunity to contest.

see above

I should have a right to vote and to political participation.

I should not be silenced because I am a woman.

no
you're silenced cos you say dumb shit

I should not be hindered from progressing economically because I am a woman.

how
lots of successful women

I should not be subjected to cultural beliefs and practices that are harmful to me because I am a woman.

but the men should ba?

I should have a right to sexual pleasure, so don’t cut away my clitoris or labia in the name of circumcision!

there are no rights in life
just privileges
fight for them
except cut clit is permanent so
sorry

If you believe in what I have said so far, then you believe in Gender Equality. It is that simple.

But, in a country like Nigeria, it is extremely hard to talk about Gender Equality without putting it in the context of marriage. Here are my thoughts on that;

Two consenting adults have a right to run their relationship/marriage the way it works for BOTH them.

precisely

In some relationships, the man takes the lead and they are both okay with that.

feminists no gree

In some relationships, the woman takes the lead and they are both okay with that.

feminist still no gree

In some relationships, they are are equals, and they are both okay with that.

no such thing as equal

Marriage is not a one size fits all thing. So whatever works for BOTH of you is nobody’s business.

agreed

It only becomes the Law’s business when there is violence and abuse of any form.

divorce due to
cheating nko

And if for any reason what worked for you in a relationship yesterday has stopped working for you today and you want out of the relationship, you should have a right to make that decision.

nobody hold you o
but as you no gree wan pay your bills nko

So here is the thing, Gender Equality campaign is not here to tell you who should cook, who should hold the DSTV remote control or who should be on top when you are having sex.

but that's what it's doing

Gender Equality is about demanding that men and women should receive equal treatment and not be discriminated against in the society based on their gender.

have you ever seen two human beings updated equally
stop deceiving yourself and get on with it

So, women – whether single, married, divorced or widowed – should have equal rights and opportunities as men in the society.https://etimes.com.ng/gender-equality-and-feminism/

glossy6:
And those living abroad see every Home based Nigerian as a miscreant

cos all the home-based know is how to demand for money like its their birthright

mpowa:
Who's a Cry baby? What's my business? I'm a Nigerian, just saying things the way I see them...Winning doesn't mean anything if u don't even know how to do the job, all some of you keep saying is he won, he won, as if that's all that matter, Now the guy can't get down to work, still in election mode, still running campaign all over the place, he like the campaign, he doesn't like the Job, he should get down work, he's writing his legacies already and they aren't pretty.

he won

mpowa:
So because he won election through the backdoor now, their rights should be thrown out of the window? I don't Get it.

which backdoor? Don't be a cry baby. He beat democrats plus republicans plus media using just twitter. Just cos you don't like him doesn't mean you should tell lies

selflessposhheart:
Your data

not the data fault I'm broke

selflessposhheart:
Awwwww sorry love

sorry about what.

selflessposhheart:
cos its maybe

k
whenever you feel comfortable to
Bout to use up last of my data

selflessposhheart:
Maybe

why maybe

selflessposhheart:
Lol oya I'll talk

whatsapp?

selflessposhheart:

not an answer

georgee:

Shebi you say no to decoder

selflessposhheart:
lol here to help you out

doubt it. Wanna talk cos it seems you have my time tonight

selflessposhheart:
it's all good boo

you better stop sending all this kiss kiss emoji ahnahnn stop causing konji o

selflessposhheart:
Love ain't aggressive don't be

me
Aggressive
No
Just stating the facts
Don't mind me
Don't like writing
Too lazy

selflessposhheart:
Take it easy do you

No matter how good Or bad you are someone wi always love you.

take what easy.
That's not love that's desperation

selflessposhheart:
Ok boss but remember there are girls who suffered with guys and still get dumped without doing anything

Having several girls its u DAT will get burnt and hurt at the end dose girls after been hurt will find anoda guy but u will find ursef lol every body wins

The girls chose disloyal idiots unwisely. Friend zoned the good ones.
No hurt if you put them on pay as you go
There will always be other girls

iammo:
They are really showing trump what democracy is all about

they should've shown himon election day. This is stupidity. Crying after spilt milk. Ignorant uneducated mofos

selflessposhheart:
Not suffering with any guy
Not suffering for any guy any more I wasn't born to b suffering

Ready made men it is

na ready-made worst pass. I pity any girl that near, me when I'm made. Una no wan suffer now ba, don worry dem go hiaram as side chicks and concubines

Addicted2Women:

This is 2017, who in the hell still uses decoders ??

I bet you guys still uses DVD players too

what do you use

selflessposhheart:
don't like loneliness

Toh thought you said you're enjoying the baby mama
choose one
can't eat cake and have it
gotta make compromises

also choose right guy instead of ready made

selflessposhheart:
I'm a happy baby mama I don't need no hubby

ooooo Ooookkk no wahala if you're sure you like loneliness

selflessposhheart:
Oya gbefun mama the mama

Please preach!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Can't come and suffer cos I wanna marry

my church guys nearly ate me raw wen I said I'll use washing machine to wash my husband cloths.

I can't suffer cos I want to b a wife!!!!!!!

No wonder some baby mamas are better off than some wives fact!

dog wen go loss no de answer hunter whistle
Guys are telling you what will make happy marriage
Na the wan wen assure 42% divorce you wan do with stubbornnes

OK o

Dude
He always wants to gbensh
Always

eal actress
So decent on the show but a hoe in real life

Deattorney:
How much you don donate??

you de mind d mumu

Tajbol4splend:
Where

in the article she said 8 guys duped her

InvertedHammer:
Like Freeze, like FFK like Odumakin.
Once life gets out of hand, get an Igbo lady to put a life in order.

If Omenkalives or Sarrki could be fortunate enough to land an Igbo lady, they will be in Umuahia serving kolanut in Nnamdi Kanu's house.

wetin do odumakin