₦airaland Forum

ndy87:
madam entitlement mentality.so u can't use your own cash to buy food for your friends? now she is trying to use the guys brain, so he will feel bad. some all Nigerian babes can fall hand o.

Oyindidi:
I don't like this

Partnerbiz:
Leave the fat ones for us biko.

We want them big

joa2013:
My wife and her family members are driving me crazy. Their involvement in my home is becoming embarrassing. I may have to give my wife the red card asap. Her family poke noses into all my affairs. How I spent my money, who I give my money to, who I visit, and so on. All they want is to continue to expend money on them and live my life for them. I got their daughter a job, her salary isn't enough for them, how can I be taking care of able bodied men who have refused to work with their certificates, looking for jobs with good pays before they'll work, their pensioner father is not also helping matters, very difficult to please. I have made it known to my wife that our marriage contract did not include pleasing her family members but she won't listen then I worked my transfer from Lagos to Abuja, yet they're on my neck. My wife's younger brother is presently in Abuja without any clear cut mission other than to come and monitor my affairs. He called me around 7pm yesterday to tell me he's in Utako and that I should come and pick him from pack, I told him I didn't invite him to Abuja so why should I pick him up? I asked him if he didn't have a mission before coming and why he should get to Abuja before notifying me that he's coming to my place. I shunned him and switched off my phone. I switched on the phone now only to read 3 abusive text messages from my wife and one from her father threatening that if anything happens to his son, I'll be held responsible. My people, can you see my life? My pastor have been trying to broker peace between us before I left for Abuja to no avail, what I intended to do is to settle down here and get her relocated so that if she's a bit far from her family, things will work out. I'll instruct a lawyer to file divorce papers tomorrow, I can no longer take it.

EniHolar:
Eeyah... Why not tell her (them) all these directly instead of pouring out your anger here? Sorry o

MissRaine69:
That went South rather quickly.
Have you given some consideration to the fact that perhaps you approach relationships with an “emotional brain” rather than a mindful one?

pinkguy:
I'm in my mid 30's and have never been in a relationship.

I didn't wanna do that long dating stuff,because I had always thought I was just gonna get a lady whenever I'm ready to settle down,cos I never believed in dating.

I want to know why ladies find it hard to believe?

Gabrie300:
Hello Guys my name is Gabriel Johnson,Am 31 years.I have been married to my wife whom is 29 years for the past 7 years..We are blessed with two kids.
But the thing is that,I see her chats with a Guy she knew 2 years ago. My wife says the Guy is her best friend nothing else.
Though I have not seen anything related to sex or that,but I don't feel comfortable with her chatting with this Particular Guy all the time.She claims the guy is married and I am not interested to know.All I want is for my Wife to cut him off.She's married for Christ sake.
Please narialanders help me with advice.
Am already loosing it.

ibrutex:
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blacktallest:
Gosh, you sound so pained.....let go already biko....

Radiant1020:
What would have happened if you knew her then?

kandi006:
[s]Like the old saying goes, you never know what you got until u finally loose it[/s].

Biglittlelois:
True, especially guys that let go when they see someone more attractive, forgetting [s] the one that stood by them through thick and thin[/s], they can never ever have someone that special and worthy again!! #fact

ImaIma1:
I do.

My point is people have also have it bad in life but it doesn't make up dread life.

KadunaMafia:
I'm sorry for the boy misrepresenting everything I typed. I still can't fathom why Nairaland boys take out their frustration on ladies

extremelygolden:
Dear Mimimile93, kindly change your generalization and orientation about Nigerian girls/ladies. Believe me, my brother, there still exists good and godly ones among them albeit few.

I pray God to give you the woman that will erase every bad memory and experience you might have had in the past, and cause you to be happy always.

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