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JoeBlocks:
How do you know?

If he believes in God now and he eventually finds out that he doesn't exist in the hereafter, what does he have to lose? Nothing. It's self explanatory baby.

HardMirror, this isn't a true interpretation of the bible/God's love. Haba.

Going by what the speaker said, everyone is going to hell 'cos of Adam and Eve's sin and that's so not true. Common, God's aura is all around you, his mercies endureth forever. Even if He doesn't live, you have nothing to lose in the hereafter if you believe in him now.

I'm not a religious fanatic but I'll keep praying for you especially. I love you and God loves you too.

HardMirror:
Cc Mimzyy
I need answers too. But I can guess it is cos the whole bible was fabricated by men, so they wrote based on their own personal morals. Why wld a god be more concerned on banning shellfish and eating pigs than banning slavery.

Morning bro. Leme sift through. Brb.

I'll read this tomorrow. It's late Abeg.

CorGier:
I can handle it.
But the problem starts when she wants you to reciprocate so she can save face.

One time, my ex even had to stand at the bathroom door, insisting I let it out in her presence.
I'm just not the type.

Hilarious

I can actually picture you begging her to just leave so that you can fart in peace .

Twaci:
Be like say everybody wan travel

....or needs a partner this xmas

I tire . Thank God for your thread

Is this thread on fp?

Adaksbullet.

swisswire:
thanks for your advice but u forget that marriage is an issue of a much higher act that needs caution because it is for eternity. I will not try to explain why giving my parents the full gist because one day, it will be known. better now than that time, because it will be a family problem. I didn't expect my parents to react in the way, they did! I know they are right but still confused to accept. their reasons are cultural, traditional and morally based!
more importantly, we are just recovering from another shocking experience (story for another day) involving marriage, and also last male child among 3 women. I don't blame them!
i know what to do but just looking for different opinion on this issue.

By all means, carry on. Let her know now please. The earlier, the better.

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I can only say, it's all gonna be ok. Sigh!

Phewwwww. Really deep!

5minsmadness:
She is not a piece of rag.
She is the most beautiful thing he ever set his eyes upon. He remembers the lovely fragrance of her hair days after she has left his company and that alone makes him smile. He stays up at night and watches her sleep, not believing how lucky he is to have found such a gem. She can do no wrong in his eyes, no wrong at all. Her kiss has more meaning than all the other kisses he has ever experienced, heck, he is blind to any other woman around him. She is all that he sees. She is everything to him.
She is his queen, and he has known her even before they met.

But life is not perfect. People, tribe, the past keep bearing down day after day, night after night. Family and friends fight him and those he holds close to heart offer him no help, no help at all. And the worst if it all is, she begins to crack. She isn't strong enough. Her flaws begin to show. He tries to be strong for the both of them but her mother wont let her see road. His parents are already against him. His blood are already against him.
Love has a surprising way of quickly turning sour. Love alone, sadly, is not enough. And when she begins to act insecure and he realizes those men didnt leave her, she left them because she is fickle...then the sacrifices are all for nothing. Nothing at all.

Only if you promise to tell me the story behind the quote (behind the scenes ) yes or yes?

5minsmadness:
Lol, yeah, that sounds very romantic. He should go ahead despite all odds and marry her, regardless of what his parents think. True love conquers all. I actually wrote a topic on that once.

I was wrong.

But hey, I'm not against the lady here. Or even him. If he loves her enough he can go ahead and face whatever comes of it.

Hey mimzyy. Be a dear, delete that last quote will u

Now you're being edgy. Uncalled for. Smh

Modified.

What if she was maltreated by these two men and she decided that she couldn't take it anymore?

What if she was forced to live with the other man 'cos her parents considered him financially stable and he promised to get them out of their financial misery?

Yes, she might have made poor choices but when a man comes along and she bares it all to him, if the man feels he wants to marry her along with her bag and baggage, then by all means, so be it. His parents will not be there when he eventually marries the woman with no baggage and he isn't fulfilled/happy.

5minsmadness:
"Everyone deserves to be happy" is a false statement.
Does Hitler deserve to be happy? Does the guy who beheaded a kid in the name of islam deserve to be happy?
No.

She already had a kid for one man.
Cohabited with another man for years.
Has a controlling mother.

Why she left the first man after the kids death, we don't know.
Why she left the second man (indeed, why she agreed to stay with him in the first place even when she didn't 'love' him) we dont know.
Why her mother is forcing her on these men, we don't know.

Why his elderly parents woukd rather die than see him marry her, we don't know.


Tooo much baggage. Very bad start.

His parents have refused. Let him seek love elsewhere.

If I may ask, what baggage are you talking about exactly?

That she was once a mom?
Or that she had another failed relationship?

You have already assumed (based on your response) that the lady must have been the one at fault. ( I stand to be corrected).

Everyone deserves to be happy and if the guy is genuinely in love with her regardless of her past then why on earth can't he marry her?

5minsmadness:
Marriage is for life.
Pick the best you come across.
Dont marry out of pity.
When the troubles start, and they will
You'll be the first to start singing the popular song "had i known".

Leave her. Look for better options with less baggage.
This may sound very harsh but its the truth.

Op, confirm receipt o or you're waiting for the money to be 1m before you confirm receipts?

You just shot yourself in the leg with these fake transfers.

ifyalways:
You believe that?

Okay na

@ Scammer Ali, how far na?
25 + 40 = 65K confirmed.

Confirm receipt na abi alert never enter?

Abi o. He asked for 17k and he has gotten 65k already. It's more than enough for the need to be met but he will not confirm receipt cos those two accounts that 'transferred' money to him are his sobriquets.

I just wonder how he feels when he comfortably defrauds people of their hard earned money.

porshuch:
Check your acct i just transferd 40k for you.

Are you the op's alter ego? Or are you for real? Did you bother to go through the thread before sending him money? Oh well, it's your money after all.

Oh well. If he's truly a fraud, then God will judge him for collecting other people's hard earned money fraudulently.

We can't really tell people what to do with their money though, even with the presented facts, some will still go ahead and give him regardless. It doesn't make them stupid, the op is the one bringing a curse upon himself instead and the day he will truly need help, he might not get it.

DucheSsMerezz:
Baybee.. How have u been?

Good good. Missed ya .

[quote author=DucheSsMerezz post=51739528][/quote]Babe..

ElsonMorali:
But I think courtesy demands that he goes with at least a bottle of wine, especially if he is being invited over for lunch.

Yeah, that's fine. He shouldn't go overboard by getting the whole family gifts like a poster suggested except of course if his pocket is very friendly with him atm.

Chukwu94:
I really missed those days.. Federal Government college, Ilorin. My alma mater

It was like hell back then. Looking back now, it was fun .

Her husband seems comfortable with it so what's your business?

Explorers:
Sup?

Chilling bro. Morning.

Confused Admirer Dimwit .

[quote author=maysimsimple post=51732836][/quote]No prob.

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If that butt isn't padded then she surely had implants.