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[quote author=maysimsimple post=51732751][/quote]Baptist Girls' College. Idi Aba.

Spot on.

9jaBloke:
If your fiancé is from a different tribe, learn the basics of her culture. Especially how they relate with elders.

Your appearance and comportment matters, so dress well and be confident (be careful not to appear arrogant). You don't get a second chance to make a first impression.

The Dad will want to confirm that you are capable of taking care of his daughter, so be prepared to answers questions about your career and future plans and choose your words carefully.

The mum will definitely be interested in how you really feel about her daughter, so your actions and gestures around your fiancé will be observed.

Relate freely with her siblings, their opinion will count when you leave.

Meanwhile, breathe in, relax and say a little prayer. You'll be fine.

Deshalom:
Thank you ma, Your words are very helpful.

Uw Sir.

maysimsimple:
You're quite right. Moving on is d hardest, but so far so good, God has been wonderful. Thanks for d advice. We can be friends if u don't mind! I base in Abk.....

Yeah. It's usually hard to move on but time will naturally heal your wounds.

Nice, my alma mater is in abk.

Just be yourself. Relax too and be composed.

Don't start what you cannot finish. If you do not feel like buying them anything, then don't.

Your FIL will like you or otherwise regardless of what you try to entice him with. All the best.

Yes I will. Provided I've got the required fund to set it up.

maysimsimple:
Who knows, we might also hit something up from here if u believe.

Dear, I might be wrong but I feel that what you need right now is friendship not a relationship. I feel you should give yourself some time to heal from your last experience.

maysimsimple:
I will teach u how to do it. Will buy u all the rest..

How sweet of you.

maysimsimple:
You looking radiant. Can I know u?

I don't know how to sew or dig worms. I don't have boats and motors too.

Hold off getting intimate with her until you're sure of her status.

You can't really force her though. The best you can do is to try to persuade her.

sirhot:
Okay, I met this new girl at the banking hall, we got talking and then started dating. Few days ago when she visited me, I talked about us going for a test but she seems to give excuses each time I talk about going to the hospital for a test.

At times she gets on the offensive that there's nothing wrong with her that I should stop disturbing her. I think at this point in time that she is hiding something from especially her hiv status, I'm not sure.

But why would a lady reject medical checkup that is free?

maysimsimple:
Must be able to clean, cook, sew, dig worms, and clean fish. Must have Boat and Motors. pls send photos of Boat and Motors... Thanks

Huh

It is really pathetic.

It is only in Nigerian churches that the pastor/G.O. will have numerous bodyguards and will tell his members to buy anointing water for protection over their lives.

How ironic.

kayzat:
You can't really blame them now because that is what our brand of religion leaders are storing on their members brain . Common headache now in this country is an invitation for long periods of deliverance and stories of spiritual attacks.




Nothing happens naturally in this country anymore without linking it to spiritual attacks from some imaginary enemies.

I just tire. If the couple ain't careful, they will soon start spending scarce resources to chase witches and wizards that are non-existent. One needs to apply logic at times, it's not all the time that a case is spiritual.

Even when the problem is glaring, my sisters and brothers will still love to attribute it to the handiwork of voodoo. Smh

Richy4:
My sis, I hate when they blame the witches when they were practically innocent and were not even looking their way

I believe that the landlord was not there when he was spending his money....Besides, who got that kind of time to charm someone to spend his or her own money...He cannot tell me that he did not invite few friends over to his house to come and see his girl when she arrived Nigeria...When money is only going out without coming into the account, what did he expect..

I think Nigerian movies.... with their creative acts/ imaginations has so brainwashed a lot of people, that you can't even differentiate a learned person and .....

jejemanito:
Can only relate with this

I didn't go to a boarding school

You missed out then .

herzern1:
Mimzyy.

Some of the pictures aren't displaying.

And BTW don't you think the thread will have more viewers in the Romance section.

It's not related to the romance section na. Lol. Yeah, I've modified. You should be able to view all now.

KingRex1:
Haha..
Oya komole!

8. All the seniors they punished because of you just start looking at you like:

https://res.cloudinary.com/big-cabal/image/upload/v1475065684/IMG_0651_ztbxli.jpg

7. When they finally graduate and leave you behind.

https://res.cloudinary.com/big-cabal/image/upload/v1475065673/IMG_2407_p9ldud.jpg

6. Once you tell your school-parent you’re feeling any kind of head ache or body-pain

https://res.cloudinary.com/big-cabal/image/upload/v1481049799/doctor_wsvwyw.gif

5. When you complain about how algebra has finished confusing your soul and they take the time to explain it to you.

https://www.reactiongifs.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/hug.gif

4. Those times when your school father seized other people’s contraband, then shared it with you.

https://res.cloudinary.com/big-cabal/image/upload/v1475065676/IMG_0111_llabhg.jpg

3. When they ban juniors from Social Day, but your school father was mouthed and he lets you in.

https://res.cloudinary.com/big-cabal/image/upload/v1475065673/IMG_2401_zelm7m.jpg

2. When you tell her you’re hungry and she makes it her mission to feed you

https://res.cloudinary.com/big-cabal/image/upload/v1481049028/happy_tears_lm55ym.gif

1. When that yeye senior in SS1 tries to punish you, but your school mother in SS3 steps in and shows her who’s boss

https://res.cloudinary.com/big-cabal/image/upload/v1479996987/BzNdARAIUAERF-x_iafoxf.png

Op, are you a lawyer?

Phewww. Thank you. I was almost beginning to believe that everyone on this thread is superstitious when it's just money management that the intending couple lack.

Richy4:
My brother, Nothing was wrong with where you were living....You did not know how to be prudent in spending......If you and your girl knew how to manage money, you would not have been in this situation...Your girl was in states and she doesn't watch Suze Orman show...

I suggest you move out. not because of the landlord, but because you cannot afford the payment anymore. get an affordable apartment man, when things became ok again, then you can decide to buy or live in an affluent suburb...Everyone needs wisdom in terms on money management...

One last advise, In future, choose your friends wisely...Do not go for all weather kind of friends....They are not good for keeps...

Plenty plenty pipu. In no particular order.

- ONA
- Jaybee.3
- Smellymouth
- Mum.
- My sisters.
- MakyDebbie.

Phewww!!

adaksbullet:
we profesor are normally write on a different ways, asked Mr prof wale soyinka

Joker

Lolz. Blame Buhari!