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HardMirror:
So why does this your God allow children to be raped? If it was your father in the same room where the rape took place how wld you feel abt such a father?

I Honestly do not have a befitting response to the issue you have raised as it is very sensitive one. There are so many unanswered questions but in all, I have chosen my path and you have chosen yours hence the quote I posted. I wish you well.

Have you watched Bruce Almighty(2003) ?

Funny thing is she might even end up getting married to a single guy(with no child)She doesn't have to limit herself to divorcees/widowers/single fathers. Just enjoy life and be happy, Do the things that make you happy, whatever you think makes you reminisce bout your past, trash it! Having a child doesn't make you less of a woman. Go to the health section and see the number of women praying to God for the fruit of the womb. A man that will love you and also love your child like his will definitely come but while he is on his way, don't kill yourself with worry, you don't want him to arrive and see you looking disheveled. Now Op say cheeseeeeeee

GdexFolami:
thanks sir,but don't u think using the idea 'when he feels up to it' might make things late and also consider when you wanna start eating ur fruit of labour frm ur children.for example you marry at the age of 35 and gve birth at the age of 37 ,when your son z still an undergraduate at age 20yrs you're old @57.just my thought thou.thanks

What's the point in getting married due to unnecessary pressure? There is really no point rushing into marriage if the parties involved are not ready for it. I have seen people get married for the wrong reasons and most times the union doesn't last. Don't be pressured, because at the end of the day, you are the one that will be in the union and God forbid, you marry the wrong person, you might end up making the mistake of a lifetime. Better late than never.

PS: I am a lady.

Toks2008:
Many people now use flimsy adjectives to buttress their premeditated act of divorce..emotional abuse,irreconcilable differences bla bla bla..

Talk about physical abuse and i will agree and i mean wife or husband battering...any other reason is a facade.

But then as i wrote, investigate and you wil know if the divorce is justified.

Ok, let's look at this scenario, a man that has been sex-starved by his wife for more than a year (for flimsy excuses) decides to ask for a divorce cos he doesn't wana cheat and he needs to remarry as they have no child(ren) yet.Will you imply that the man isn't justified enough?

Dear OP, focus on your strength(s) and develop them. Hang out with friends in your spare time. Channel the excess energy into making your child happy. Do not try too hard else you will get your fingers burned repeatedly . Make yourself happy first! Find inner peace , be confident regardless. The right man will come knocking when you least expect him. Goodluck.

If you eventually find someone and you give him a chance, if things do not work out well. Pick the lessons learnt and move on!
Live life, Be happy, stay strong, stand firm for there is light at the end of the tunnel
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There is no perfect age IMO, A man should get married when he feels up to it. He should also bear in mind that he will be the bread winner of the family so he should put into consideration his financial capability(ies) regardless of the wife's status (financially).

#Flawed . Hasty Generalization Toks.
So if a lady/guy is being emotionally/physically abused and it gets to a point where he/she can't take it anymore hence a call for divorce, it means the individual will always have a reason to divorce again and again? I actually wish you posted this in the family section but oh well...

TrapQueen77:



Hail the True QUEEN

WELCOME BACK MISSY MIMZY

Lolz. Thanks dear, don't mind him. He's just being naughty

Explorers:
Wife Leaves Husband For Being Too Nice And Caring.


A woman complained to the judge that her husband was being too nice too her.

After hearing this, the judge gave her a baffled look. The judge called the wife ungrateful and self-centered, lecturing her on not realizing how good a man she had.

While this reason does sound silly, it’s not placed higher on this list because she most likely perceived her husband as boring.

Perhaps she needed to have more passion in her life, and she knew her husband wasn’t able to provide that for her. A passionless marriage is an unhappy marriage.


* Ive experienced this though back in school, like told her friend am too cool, too quiet, caring for liking.

That i cant even scold her or hit her for once, so she left.

Different strokes for different folks. Smh.

SmellingAnus:
is this my darling or a counterfeit missed you so much.... Your what's app is not even going tru... Even ifthe devil decides to use this name, I don't mind being friends with the devil for bearing this name...

Main line has been off for some time. I'll be back online soon. How have you been?

I am sure you know that you didn't do a good job of hiding the preceding digits. Do well to modify your post except you do not mind her receiving unsolicited messages/calls.