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cuteyspy: I wish I knew how to quote. Bt anyway the idea is not in the cheating itself. Its d mindset. Thy were young! Nd that was d best his friend could do. If It were sometin more life threatning,Yussuf wouldn't have behaved any less. He stood up for his friend! Dts rare!(A young lad for that matter). To me,he's such a good friend! This s not a criticism thred. Its a fun and appreciative one. Learn to see what's worth appreciated in each person. Jesus s still Lord! Acept him today.

Smiles. You didnt seee what i saw!

marieolae: This is actually what happened to my uncle. He met this girl which he had no interest in marrying. Just a fling. They were having sexx regularly and eventually she got pregnant. He insisted that she should abort the pregnancy but she refused. So in this situation, he was " forced" to marry. Her. And now I believe he is madly in love with her, not only because she is the mother of his child, but its something from within. I guess love after marriage is possible, but its not advisable to rush into things. The story doesn't always end in a glorious way. "And they lived happily ever after" may not be the case.

Your Uncle must have made a very hard decision,but I believe everything depends on the two artner involve.
Even if you fell in love before marriage,if you don't make a conscious effort eevryday to love your spouse,the marriage may hit the rocks!
For a marriage to be successful,the partners must makr a conscious effort to love each other everyday.

I pity the fans that look unto these ones as role-models or mentor!

I pray my wife won't end up coming to NL,i hope she won't even be a NLder,some comments i read here from some ladies is so scary...smh again.
This generation is producing "not so good youths."
Gone are the days when our gmamas enjoying cooking for their husbands but today? Smh again.
The Op is right,how will you call yourself a woman and you won't be able to cook? What kinda training do you want to give your kids?
Leave it or take it,this is one of the stuffs that leads to divorce!

DorisK: It's nt d cheating aspect bt taking up d blame wen they got caught nd receiving cane fo him

they won't be caught if they had not cheated!

viktor556: too much Hollywood .

:p

gorgeousnogo: what if its not raining?

I guess we will do that in the harmatan or under the sun.

Amadaz: you're extremely s.tupid

"a mad az" calling someone stupid? Its like a mad caling someone who doesnt even know him mad!

BANGERLEE1: Ode nie-

don't argue with a fool lest he sees himself as being wise!
Ignored!

alexis007: no complain...not @ all...till her teeth begins to clatter and she begins to fidget....beta still,since u like winter-weather tryst....[points hand to hand as if he's thinking deep]...i know this deep freezer that can contain two people....i'm sure you'd like being inside it wit her...

lol. You wana compare rain droplets to deep freezer? Interesting!

alexis007: and tu-face's 'dancing in the rain' would playing in the background?...see 1st-class ezuzu...'standing in the rain?'...wadafuq...so this is your idiotic style of getting her wet?

why you dey hate na? Say ur own make i say mine.
Afterall,she no dey complain:p

Oltabaks: It was 2007.I was in JSS 2.It was a public school.It was the third term examination,and i was about to cheat.My friend Yusuf was seated two seats behind me.As soon as the invigilator turned away from me,i asked Yusuf for the answer to the third question.Apparently,the answer was a long one so he decided to write it out on a paper.He threw the paper to me,but it fell halfway between us.The invigilator turned,looked me in the eye,and walked straight to me.She picked the paper and told me to get up.Yusuf stood up and said he wrote it.The woman told him to sit but he didn't.He said she should compare the handwritings on the script with the one on his answer sheet.She did and told him to follow her to the principal's office.I couldn't let it go so i stood up too,and i told her i asked him to write it for me.She took the both of us to the principal's,we got 15 strokes of his thick cane each and we've been laughing about that incident ever since.We wrote that paper again and he still taught me question number 3.
Don't be shy:Share the best thing a friend has ever done for you.

You called this best? Cheating in an examination is the best?thing a friend did for you? Classic!
So if i refused to help a friendcheat with a friend in an examination,i am not a friend?
This kind friendship na wah!

Nigeria shall be great!

I love all soup,whether draw or win.:p.
Hardly will u see a man that will not like atleast one draw soup,i doubt it!

There are so many things one can use to measure success,i think marriage is one of them,a successful marriage though, a home fillled with love and compassion, a home that has a Godly foundation!

I don't really know what to comment because an average youth will think of sex.
well,mine is walking together and holding hands in the rain,your hand around her waist while she rest her head on yor shoulder;all in the rain.
#if you are allergic to cold and you try this, you are OYO:p:p

sweetlady4real: . Divorce is NEVER an option ? Are you for real ? Even if my life is at stake ?

There is always a way out,i am looking at it from the Bible point of view,thats why i wouldnt wana say much!

obongproff: Am not a prophet of doom. But I see u breaking up with him by dis time next year. Cos ur already starting d process by dis post above.

Why are u comparing him with odas? Why do u use ur friends and oda ppl as a standard ur boyfriend must attain to?

Its obvious ur unhappy with ur relationship.

Does he hav a dream or a goal dat will improve his financial condition within 5yrs? Does he hav a plan to actualize dat dream? If he does, 5 yrs from now, u wd either regret u left him or be happy u stayed.

U ladies must undastand dat being broke and being poor are not d same. Broke is temporarily not having cash but having d capacity or potential to make a lot of money in d future. Poor is having no cash and lacking d mental capacity or human potential to make more money in d future.

Its ur choice sha

I love this post,there i wisdom in this post!
The op relationship will not last, for her to be comparing him to someone else is a shame! It is people like her that end up cheating on their spouse later in life.
I love your analysis on being broke and being poor.
the problem of so many ladies today is that they are short-sighted,they only base their life on the present,they don't know that things can change in twinkling of an eye. The fact that someone is broke today doesnt mean he won't be rich tomorrow. Ladies and contentment,na real wah! IF YOU DON'T BELIEVE IN SOMEONE OR IN HIS FUTURE,STOP WASTING YOUR TIME WITH THAT PERSON,JUST MOVE ON!

Godmystrength: That is not the point...
If you as a man don't like/want a woman with make up, there are lots of single ladies out there who have never used make up in their entire life..... why go and date a woman who makes up, you refuse to discuss your concerns about make up with her and then on the wedding day, you come up with the no make up rule?? not fair on the woman. If it has been discussed and agreed, then the woman won't be caught unawares. It might look like make up ish is so trival but it is the action behind it that makes it serious....


It is just like a man going to date a deeper life lady and everything seems fine until the wedding day when you now present the make up kit and jewelry box you bought and tell her that she MUST paint her face, use earrings, fix her nails, fix her hair etc. Imagine the kind of shock it will be to the lady especially when you never gave her a hint all through the courtship period......and imagine how she will feel when some people tell her to obey for her to have a happy home.....

and what kind of happy home do you intend to make with an unhappy bride? I used to think a happy home is where both parties ARE HAPPY and not ONE party happy with turning things around to his/her favour while the OTHER party is unhappy and doing things just to have peace.....

I understand what you are saying,but is that enough reason to stop the wedding? Nobody even talked about talking things out with the husband,the next thing is "we gotta stop the wedding"?

Divorce is never an option. There is always a way out of every situation!

The devil is at work. Thwarting God's plan for sex and marriage!

Smh... Some women sha, choosing vanity over a happy home.
I remembered a story a friend told me about a lady who wanted to cancel her introduction because the husband could not give her the required 12k to make her hair! The husband gave her 6k and she went gaga!
Smh again!

And to think that he almost divorced his wife too,though not for another woman.

I hope this story is true, because traveling all the way from lekki to ota is like traveling to Ibadan from Lagos, its doesnt make sense at all.
I work in ota and one of our raw materials comes from lekki,most times this RM takes a whole day to get to ota due to traffic and all that!
Again, it is foolishness for the woman to be coming to ota from lekki every sunday,it is also unwise for her not to have listened to her husby,i doubt if God would answer the prayers of a disobedient woman. And i am sure she must have been disobedient in some other areas too!
This is a very hard one,especially for the husband,It will take great grace and heart for him to forgive her and himself!
God is everywhere,He is omnipresent!

Empty barrel.

Better.

I don't even know! But i guess i won't be where i am today if i didn't go to school,no?:>

Travelled across 3 states to see her!
I hope that is not crazy??:>

"Be fruitful and Multiply..." I guess you can't do that without getting married?
Hence God is the authur of marriage,he created the marriage institution!

Cry ke? Untop wetin??:/

EPHESIANS 5:
But sexual immorality and all impurity or covetousness must NOT even be named among you, as is proper among the saints
(vs 3). For you may be SURE of this, that everyone who is sexually immoral or impure, or who is covetous(that is, an idolater) has no inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God
(vs 5). Therefore do not become partners with them(vs 7). Take NO part in the unfruitful works of darkness, but instead EXPOSE them(vs 11). For it is shameful to speak of the things that they do in secret(vs 12).
How are you all doing??