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AgentOfAllah:
Evolution does not dispute god because god is a vague idea. What it does, however, is that it disputes specific gods like Yahweh and Allah. Thanks to evolution, we now know that the phony account of Adam and eve is fairytale.


The emboldened has nothing to do with theory of evolution.


No scientist knows what existed before the bigbang theory. Anything you see out there is mere speculation.


If god created everything in 6 days and a day is equivalent to 1,000 years, that's just 6,000 years. Man evolved several billions of years after the first primitive life form. That account is just hokum!

Yes, it's work in progress.

Not true, Einstein was Jew by ethnicity, but had spinozist (impersonal, passive universe) view of god.

I heard about this movie. I will see it soon.


That's the doctor's personal opinion. Nothing to do with reality.

If you read the genesis account well, you will see for certain that there was water and land and that means the earth existed before the 6 days of creation. If evolution were actually true, it won't still remain a theory. As per the case of Adam and his eve, its a detailed historical record, which can answer any question except the evolution hoax.
Let me ask you a question: does nothing exist?

jumbotron:
I am utterly confused by what is going on in the minds of young Nigerian men and women. If someone had the time to write this lengthy list and expect everyone to agree, fully insult people with different opinions, we should have more young people at the fore fighting for a better Nigeria with the same passion.

I am a mother & wife and what many young men on this forum would call a feminist due to my beliefs, unfortunately a lot of us do not even know the difference between a feminist and an obnoxious woman. Apparently, to the nairaland man once you have a differing opinion, you are a feminist that will die a lonely spinster with 30 cats.
I have a very happy family and a Sig. Other who respects who I am and I in turn worship the ground he walks on because he does not try to stifle my voice and he knows his place as the head of our home, he does not need me to do a special dance, walk on egg shells etc to proof it to him. I feel very sad because we, the mothers have raised entitled men who do not know that their place is at the top and when the family structure is broken or breaking, it is due in part to the heads being slack in their duties. I am not a fan of the uptick trend in divorces and single motherhood but SirShymex, these women that you look down on are not divorcing themselves or reproducing by themselves. There are some (a small number by the way) who enjoy the fantasy of having babies but as a man, as a potential head of a household, you should be mindful of the women you lay with. Yes, the woman bears the brunt of an unwanted pregnancy and she should also be careful but I am addressing my young men because y'all are screaming we are the heads, we are superior and you are acting otherwise.

Our "Heads" are failing woefully and I do not know if it is pride, ego what you might call it but nothing is being done to correct this problem. You pass out these lists to women and what are the men doing to prepare to be better husbands and fathers...nothing. What are you doing to prepare yourselves to pick compatible spouses? Instead, you are steady picking women that are not ready to fill the roles you so badly want them to fill.

Please do not get me wrong, there are some misled, downright horrible women out there but the rate at which some of you complain on here, one would think all Nigerian women are neck twisting, man bashing, control freaks. Gentlemen, if you are running into "unfit" women time and time again, check yourself.
If I was not married and I did not know other married couples, I would be scared of what this upcoming generation of husbands will look like. Rants and rants, threads shouting down anyone that dares speak up for herself(are some of the ladies going about it the wrong way...yea) but please talk to happily married men, let them tell you what they are doing right. Don't be a man that is quick to call a woman out by all kinds of names...wow. A good woman still embarrasses the tenets of marriage but you will get kickback if you continue to hold an oppressive mentality (afterall, you can only hold a person down for so long).

When people complain about Naija, they do not blame anyone but the "Head", the blame does not go first to the 2nd in command. Young Men, you need to take your place as the heads and stop being so whiny (no offense). The breakdown in the family structure is not solely the woman's fault.

As for the list, I thank goodness most men are not walking around wielding To Do's in the faces of women. Look, find a woman that is compatible to your vision and goals in life. If both of you are on the same page, you will grow together in love and raise a family of champions. All these lists smack of a whole lot of something bad. I am truly worried for some of my young brothers on this forum.

Forgive the length, I tend to be wordy.

Story for the gods! Guys out there, if your wife is rude to you, cain her until she submits, Allah doesn't forbid it. Marry as many woMEN as you can afford, never give your power to these girls. Women actually think they have a say. Woe betide a woman that does not submit, divorce her and send her back to her father's house. Nincompoops!!!








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Sophyrocks:
Hhahahaha. Is that a threat? So you wan theaten women because of what? are you gonna force people to agree with you? Abeg go and find better things to do and work on your self esteem. Its too low for our liking. Your type chases away good women. We love men who are real men not babies like you. Any small thing, you start crying so that we can pet you. is that a real man? No. so go and work on yourself.

You sabi cry well well!! If I were your husband, I would have forgotten my cain in ur p*u*ssy a million times. Who told you that women have a say? So you self know say women are too emotional.
Women are like babies, they need to be seldomly cained in order to reason like a man. If it were in my power, I will give men the ability to give birth then I will command the entire inFErior males to be fed to the lions. It is better being an im..becile to being the only animal that bleeds for the most valuabe part of its life.NEANDERTHAL!!!

msmon:
It's not a gain saying that guys can be very funny when a lady they love keep saying 'NO'.

I have a lady friend(just friend) whom a guy was really in love with but she keep turning the guy down. The guy try so hard and did everything to impress my friend but she keep turning him down, so I decide to talk to her 3 days ago that I hope she won't lose the guy who truly love her because that's what I noticed from the guy.

In her response, she told me she's trying to find a place in her heart for him but it's just impossible, she explained that she detest him because he's trying to hard and even go to the extent of crying in a public place.

On a personal note, I have cried as well because 'she' said NO to me but not in a public place (never will that happen).

Here are some of the funny things I see guys do if a lady they truly love keeps saying 'NO'.

CRY: Either privately or in public.
REPORT TO HER FRIEND: a guy will talk to her friend to assist in wooing her.
FEAR HER: Because he doesn't what to do anything that will further create hatred


So guys, what is that funny thing you did because she keeps saying NO?

Ladies on the tried should share with us what funny thing they notice guys do when they keep saying NO.

Let's go there!

lol.

kibi:
he says its meant to show her submissiveness...thats the part that puzzles me.

She should submit it or pack out. A real man should by now be preparing a young girl to fill her vacuum.

I was just thinking about stuffs like this, if I 'accidentally' get married, I will tell my wives to submit their damn salaries, I will add mine and I'll draw a budget, the remnant will be shared equally btw me and my wives. Doesn't that sound better than a fat azz spending valuable money on cosmetics? ................spits on ground

crackhaus:
Crowd/mob mentality - one attacks, the rest follow.

On here, most are all about fronting 'girl-power' and 'sistas before misters', but in the real world they can hardly stand themselves - constantly nitpicking, competing, and tearing each other down.

Sometimes, I actually wonder if these women actually live in Nigeria. I really think feminism on nairaland will die when men stop responding to these troll. Nairaland 'feminists' are a pain in my man a~ss!!!

SAMBARRY:
So as I was saying.

Go f*uck the devil, gambari!!!

SAMBARRY:
For them op fans

I really don't see a need for this post, beat her up and she will submit. As simple as a,b,c. If she doesn't, marry another inferior male.





Women are hopelessly stupid.

Deformed men roaring like deranged lions again!!!

ifeness:
Bible calls it a sin,Common sense and science calls it human nature

Even american atheists on twitter couldn't attempt my question.

ifeness:
Bible calls it a sin,Common sense and science calls it human nature

Answer this question, all other notable atheists have chickened away, but I hold you in high exteem.
Does nothing exist? If it doesn't, why does it have a name?

plaetton:
No dear.
I am so flummoxed by the question, I could not possible attempt an answer.

What of the second?

plaetton:
Wow!
What an Einstein question.

DO YOU HAVE AN ANSWER?

kekakuz:
mubi has been taken over by boko aram
and you are here talking ushe shombos stomach
we no well for this country
we arevnot united anything.

I wonder o my bross! What's so special about POPPING OUT babies?
In another news, a mad woman in my area just popped out a bouncing baby boy and an extra baby, a girl to be precise.

Hope its a boy.

Atheists are a pitiable bunch of fööls, I haven't encountered just one with a good sense of reasoning.

@Beretta92 , I haven't even asked you hard questions.

Shaolin soccer in the making. Those guyz whose bum is like that of a woman can't play anything.

Beretta92:
Why do you think "someone" has to create the world for the world to exist? If god created the world, then who created god?

If God doesn't exist, who created magic and how does rat turn to bird? Pls don't give me silly excuse for not answering me, go to anywhere sango worshippers perform, they swallow fire, eat inedible objects, carry mortar with their mouth.

Beretta92:
Why do you think "someone" has to create the world for the world to exist? If god created the world, then who created god?

Does nothing exist? If it doesn't, why does it have a name?

Beretta92:
Well, Christianity isn't an African thing either. For me, I can't say I chose to become an atheist. In fact, I wanted to remain a Christian and deep down I wanted to believe in god. You know, the idea of a loving super father who cares for you is a very soothing one, especially in this part of the world. But in my everyday life, I found stark contradictions between reality and what the Bible and the church said. Praying was tantamount to talking to the air. No evidence of a god in our lives. No god anywhere around us. I became really distraught and confused. I wanted to believe in god but reality stared me in the eye. I eventually became an atheist after an intense struggle.

Atheism for me is a consequence of the compendium of all my life experiences, observations, thoughts, etc. Several of which were determined by forces beyond me. I never planned or chose how my life would play out. In fact, a few years ago I couldn't even understand how anyone could be an atheist. I'd read books that recounted stories of famous "atheists" that attempted to repent while on their death beds. And they were all said to have gone to hell. I remember some books that referred to Robert Ingersoll as a very "wicked" man. I even opened a thread asking atheists what they'd do in the face of death.The responses I got amazed me. Plaetton said something about me not understanding what it meant to be an atheist and a host of other things. Truly, I didn't understand then but now I perfectly do. I don't know how to make long, elaborate and sophisticated arguments like several chiefs on here but I do know now what it means to be an atheist. I faced what seemed like certain death recently and even though thoughts of "repenting" before dying crossed my mind( no thanks to my former hyper religious life), I brushed it off while awaiting death. That would have been unthinkable and impossible a few years back.

Pls, if God didn't create the world, who did?

Truckpusher:
You never see anything.

Girls can burn your cable.

No mind them. Its the fault of of our forefathers, they knew for sure that men can do without marrying woMEN, but they made us think a man is not compleat without AT LEAST a wife. Women, just like mondisweets love marriage just like Archimedes loved circles.

Just like mondi said, they want us to hunt them like ram, once we don't hunt them, they become impatient, thinking their flesh and fur are not needed again.

FrancisTony:
It doesn't explain my question.

By the way, going by your context, what does the prefix 'Wo' mean?

'wife of'

FrancisTony:
Why would a man in his right sense have a mistress at first?

Why would a woman in her right sense keep mute after knowing?

Cos he's a MAN and she's a woMAN.

Mondisweets:
hey truckpusher where is your wife-to-be?

Truckpusher:
What was that?
I ain't getting married for God's sake
When I'm too old to take care of myself I'll find myself an old ho that will take care of me.

Mondisweets:
hey truckpusher where is your wife-to-be?

IYANGBALI:
no be small. Her toto no dey sell again due to old age

Are u jealous?

Wise woman! She won chop her own . It is either lalasticlala is a mod on Nl who is trying to sell his web or he's using woodoo.

Dcmg:
I was waiting for the ladies to answer this question,but all of them seems to have gone blind.
Arguing with a woman is never worth it!Rubbish Thread.Just giving me more reason to despise women.
Like seriously,is it just Nigerian girls that are bringing up this characters?
Unfollows!

I don't hate women, I'm only being critical of women. Nija women are the ones with the most strict gender roles principle. They will tell you to your face how unmanly you are if you cannot take care of them, and they cannot stand seeing themselves sponsoring a man. Since they don't have feminists or govt that will help them to divide the property of their man, they prefer to cling to the Bible, quran, men's apetite for women and culture to carry out the money sucking activities.

I once watched on tv, where a group of women organized a seminal on how to make their husbands recognise them when writing his will. People think its wayward attitude that has led to the decline of virgins, no! Its because its through their back and dressing skimpy that they can have money. So why the hell did you think she was going to answer me? Women love men that would 'take care' of them.

I don't care if a lady cooks for her boyfriend in his house, but when the guy has started doing his 'husband duties', by spending on him, you have to deliver your 'wife duties', by cooking and sexing him.

FrancisTony:
Where are the misogynists? Tallesty1, Misogynist2014, Truckpusher, TV01 etc

Congrats Madamemoiselle.

You must be out of your mind. Show me one of my posts where I wrote that a woman cannot succeed and I will deactivate this account. Punk!
Even if you read through my recent posts, you will see where I mentioned Alakija's prowess to carefreewannabe (the self proclaimed German .)

lezz:
The worst thing that could happen to any female is to have an identity crisis. Not knowing how and where to function in a 21st century world.

You become a she-man at best, a self loathing sadist at worse, and you grow older, uglier and sader faster than the speed of your natural biological clock. You are confused and in need of help.



Your moniker is a deep reflection of your cravings for a wayword life without a sense of purpose or responsibility - a life answerable to no one.

I still find it hard to believe she is married, with kids and has a job in Germany. These things are enough to weigh a woman down. I think carefreewannabe studied german in university and was taken on excussion to Germany, which she is trying to use to gain popularity. All those overseas that I know, hardly use an hour on nairaland, when there are better social networks like facebook, twitter, whatsapp, instagram, not to talk of a married woman.
She uploads pics of feminist celebs that you beg to wonder if a married woman would be concerned with such frivolities. Upload the pic of you wearing a carefreewannabe tee shirt with your children and husband on the streets of Germany, or a video of you singing carefreewannabe anthem on streets of Germany or I DON'T BELIEVE YOU

carefreewannabe:
Take care of the mess in the place where you live.

Don't worry about my life, I live in a civilized country.

Slave in a foreign land. Do you actually think you are better than us in this 21st century, when your mates are here making millions, you are there surfing the web, serching for pictures of slums, while your fellow women like the industrous Alakija are making billions from black gold.
People like you are still of the opinion that Africa's largest economy is lagging behind. Yes we have a lot of poor people, but if you get to where money lives, you will drop that self-loathing attitude of yours.
Some people have forgotten that our opinion on nairaland does not matter and that no one gives a 3some that you are a slave(black monkey) in a foreign land.

I still wonder the kind of work that you do in the 'civilized world' that gives you so much time to use the internet? Add an hour to Nigerian time, at 12.00, a good housewife and mother is still on internet, barking like a toothless dog, as if those in power care about her existence.

lezz:
lol, you can imagine a country who waits for the UK to send yearly aid before their national budget is passed. The only difference between the pre-independent ghana and this one is that the UK allowed them to own and fly a flag.


They can't make laws except the UK approves. Ghana has successfully redefine a new hallmark for neo colonial dependency. Slave state.

Don't mind them, the Ghanian cedi is worthless, we are generous enough to supply them with electricity. They still haven't recovered from the 'ghana must go' saga, where we sent home 2 million gorillas and their bearded wives(husband ). One of their shaolin soccer players almost killed Uzoenyi, out of rage.
That apart, what's ur take on this topic?