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missberrypop5:
eiyah. No.

Remove the make up, the fancy hairdo(natural hair) and use a normal camera. Then I can know if you're truely beautiful.

julisa2020:
you're very correct...@op...and even when a woman works hard to be successful,to her a rich guy is only a bonus..and not a ladder of upgrade...

What is d diff btw u and odas? You still want a rich guy, why not marry an average guy, so as to know u are serious with what you've written.

So, what are you waiting for? Shoot Jonathan and shoot yourself and all will be well.

MissMeiya:
1. Look who's talking about rudeness. I usually ignore you because you're such a pig.
2. You know you were wrong, but you said it anyway? What does that make you, if not a dumbáss? Rhetorical question.
3. What kind of stúpid question is that? What do you think?

Sweet dreams.....

Missy89:
Oh so u think women are at a disadvantage when it comes to marriage?

And you don't want them to be a "liability" even thou their rights would not be guaranteed when it goes burst?

When i say social norms, i meant most women are being trained to just go to school and marry and wait on their husbands to provide most of what they need. If you want that to change, there needs to be re orientation and opportunities should be created for women to be competitive as men from early stages.

The word opportunity as you have used is synonymous to empowerment. Are women not ashamed of asking for empowerment? Only someone who is weak and oppressed asks for empowerment.
I think people should stop blaiming society, marriage has to do more about instinct than society.

Pamcrest:
Op if u must know, many women are earning their pay n can help out if such situation arises. But can our ego tripping, arrogant, chauvinistic men take it? Many Naija men are too egoistic to depend on their wives oh.....they become touchy n defensive for no just cause....emotional n verbal abuse then ensues.....God help the sista! The only way to have peace is for d woman to deposit all her monthly earnings into his account n allow him do d spending
My humble submission

Hook me up.

tommiebuck:
lols,i do know there are successful men without the help of women and the vice versa. honestly speaking, it high time dudes understand there are women who can really do without them financially. i am a living withness anyways. dont say the way i think is weird ref to what you said the other time, just know i think and talk from experience, environment and situations.

Here comes the long awaited woman! A woman that can spoil me with money- an independent woman. Pls, hook me up. PM me and let's talk

MissMeiya:
His name was Turing. Not Tunning.
And he was gay, dumbáss.

You don't have 2 sound rude, expectially when infiltrating into other people's conversation. It may surprise you that I know it isn't correct.
You ended your ludicrous write up by telling me he's a gay, do gays have opposite sex as their betrothed?

UjSizzle:
I'm saying this definition of an 'asset' doesn't make sense.
Yeah women should work blah blah, but if this is the deal breaker for men, then I'm really sorry for all of you in advance.

My dear, most guys commenting are talking about their gf. I actually like the idea of housewives, if the couple can plan for future. My 2 cents is that, let's say the housewife dies, that is when a lot of people will know her worth.
You are justified by having pity on men that want working wife, if only they knew what a lot of men are passing through in the western world, if only they knew.

kandiikane:
I agree that every woman should endeavour to have their own money but to imply housewives are liabilities is far fetched because if we want to be technical, the man is also a liability to the woman because he also depends on her to take care of him. Liability doesn't just come from spending money but there are many other ways in which one can become a liability. If the husband was in a wheelchair right now and cannot work, if I was to go with what you wrote then he is going to become the liability because he won't be able to do jack shyt, the housewife is not just sitting at home doing nothing. I understand where you are coming from though just confused on which women you are talking about because it's an insult to housewives because they aren't, especially those who had no choice.

I have written several times that women should not live life just to become housewives but saying that has never been because I thought they were liabities, that has never crossed my mind because it's not true. The family rely on that woman.

I won't be economical with words for once. Being an housewife is not easy. I saw a woman today, she was sweating, with a baby on her back, she held her son at around 10'o clock, this boy should have been in school at 8. I'm sure that she was still going to work, cook at home and still satisfy her hubby.

UjSizzle:
The double standards in this country is really overwhelming. People wanting one person to be everything without giving back in the same proportion.
If you talk they'll scream "women are helpers!!"
Begs the question, what kind of help was God referring to? Help in carrying out your duties, or help in keeping you sane while carrying out your duties?

Methinks if a man can come home to peace and quiet after a hard day's job (even if his wife is a housewife), and omalicha food, he sure as hell has an asset in there. Are they selling peace of mind in ochanja market

Ma'am, what actually are you driving at?

tommiebuck:
sure u knw my age abi boss?? i am not being materialistic here. behind a successful man... we ll both be successful, but not ib hustling togeda, i knw what i am saying. i see u boss

I can list a million men who became successful without the help of a woman. Lets start from Alan Tunning- Father of computer. The infinite list has no end.

HARDDON:
Never knew id live this long to read such words from a female.......

All along, had tot you guys were structured for collecting , fashioned for begging and accursed with trade by bata.....

Had tot u enjoy sitting at home doing Nada and have him work his a33 out while u go on shopping spree with money u know not whence it came. The next moment, they wano tie d guy down with court wedding tins, so as to have legit right over some vast wealth shld he get fed up n wano roll!

Had tot beeping his phone was ur thingy (never calling, stingy)
Had tot the best u cud ever get for a guy was a pair of second hand briefs for his bday(ONLY!)!

Had tot d only thing u guys got to offer was some punana ( yet they go complaining when he cheats, calling royal guys dogs). Yea sure, he might be so willing to spend on u d first few outings but after hitting it, if that is all u got, he's mos def gon bounce - the next meal awaits

No man is a fool. And we all get worked up when y'all go begging for stuffs when y'all can pull stuffs!

If u must fight for gender equality, then first fight off ur laziness , stinginess n herbalist attitudes( always collecting)

NT: this is by no means saying there ain't this very exceptional group out there(very rare breeds) that supports their men tru good advice n all otherwise

Gender equality my foot! Though I acknowlege the fact that women are very greedy and selfish creatures, no court as far as Nigeria is concerned divides property into two, the worst you can get is alimony. When I tell my friends that I want a lady that can pay my bills, both male and female mock me. But its shocking that women looked very threatened by my disposition, 20 times more than men.
Afterall, it actually seems that women are more threatened by the prospect of gender equality. We men will actually loose nothing more than pride, but these lazy women like enlightenedsoul, who worship chalvary, are gonna loose a lot. Maybe you actually don't know how relieving it is that as a woman, when you fail in your career, you can fall back on a man, who is willing to pick you up.

caesaraba:
God bless you ma`am. We men are smarter now. Once we find your type, the next thing is a ring on a finger. My rule now is simple, I`ll only date a woman who has a means of livelihood going forward. Thankfully, that number of women is increasing in our society. No more painted-nails,open-hands and ready-to-suck-me-dry-women.

I object your statistics! The number of parasitic women are growing that is why there is so much complaints renting the air, if women of today are half as hardworking as our mothers, this thread and my moniker won't exist.

EnlightenedSoul:
Cut the crap , I'm not your editor. 'Sides, I'm still getting over your view on what an achievement is.

What further boggles the mind is how you so-called managed to "disvirgin 13 bitches" and marry the 14 w/o as yet figuring out that your penis is a sex tool. What did you "disvirgin" them with?

I sincerely hope you've retained the receipt and documentation needed to return your pair to the Master 'o dickks, Dick Masterson. At this point (and through your own admission), it has become evident it has neither shown potential to create something astounding nor has it proven a useful tool. Heh.

We're done.

Note: In two months time, you'll be thoroughly outdated. I suggest you change your name to Misogynist2015 with a quickness.

Oh I see! This post is the reason why the other deformed man left abruptly with a silly reply, women can be so predictable!
This account will continue to flourish, I will continue to manufacture more derogatory remarks to women in general, without minding any blackmail. You think I am in my forty's like a hag like you, come of it! I intentionally didn't reply you when u were blabbing.
It may beat ur imagination that I'm still a student with a 'promising future.' But how can a mere woman, who understandably, can't reason, who looses valuable blood read between lines. You so much clinged to d virgin spoof. What are your achievements, Mama Ejiro?
Yawns...... I've got lectures tomorrow.
Women, so grossly incompetent! I guess we should mourn for them as well.... Dick Masterson

EfemenaXY:
Awww....

So says the girlfriend/wife beater and räpïst with a sanitary pad between his bütt crack.

I don't interact with desperate eunuchs - but hey, have the final word on my behalf.

Adios!

Punk!!!

Asset!!! lwkmd

carefreewannabe:
How would you know what an intelligent contribution is?

The Roman Empire still exists.
WW III will start on the 15 of October.

What is the cause of the hullabaloo?

EfemenaXY:
I don't see your explanation of what ISIS is.



Okay, so you're a wife/girlfriend beater and a r api.st.



So the ra.p.is.ts get r.ap.ed? Okay.



That's beside the point. They're all exhibiting their internal whörèdom - as you so eloquently put it.



What else on earth, bleeds for 5 - 7 days without dying? It's got to be pretty unique - yes?

Now kiss my feet, Misogynist2014!!!

Islamic State of Iraq and Syria(ISIS), you foölishly read the first result.
I don't beat women but I can always beat the hell out of the weaker sex.
Your father and husband are räpists too, isn't it?
Like that guy rightly put it, the two scenarios aren't tantamount.
No wonder a lot of women like Enlightenedsoul cannot think, since she looses pants of blood every month.
Give me your daughter for one night stand, once I deflowed her, I will rush at your feet and kiss it.
Extend my heart-felt regard to your lord.

EroticAngelina:
lwkmtrowey!! babe is for girl to girl..u knw like babe how far when a guy calls me babe, I tell him he's not serious. I hate that word ehn, but its cool btwn d ladies

What is this one saying?
To me, women are overgrown babies, they need constant beating.

collinsobinna:
This whole thing is just about gender discrimination and the African mans misogynistic outlook. You ladies should support a lady in power,get the men to get used to having ladies in leadership roles and not trying to subdue them or have them sit in silence in the background. Stop being wall posters ,ladies,react. Pro feminism.


How else do you explain this:The Constitution of Nigeria does not create an office for the country's First Lady.

When are we getting first female president? Pro feminism.

What is this jati jati talking about?

EfemenaXY:
So many contradictory sentences in just one post!

Right, I'm not into abbreviations but I take it that by ISIS, you're referring to the Ancient Egyptian goddess of rebirth? And your MABTW means Men Are Better Than Women? I'll go with these assumptions but do correct me if you meant otherwise. Now, you claim:

~ Men don't attempt to dress seductively? Says who? Whether fat or thin as you can see from the pics below, men are also pushing the boundaries in exposing their internal whörèdom Now do you see women attacking them?

~ You say men have self-worth, yet it's these same men that can't take their eyes off women and given half the chance, would commit sèxual atrocities against women such as rapè. They have self-control yet for every encounter with the opposite sèx, they shamelessly rush to create new threads, regaling everyone unfortunate to read their posts about how they nearly lost self-control like our dear 5minsMadness.

~ If men are really that much better, more in control of themselves, have more self-worth than women, then why should women worry about being attacked by these same men, simply because of what they decide to wear?

~ Men aren't half as sèxy as women (you got that bit right) and you say they can't degrade themselves to be used by musicians? Strippers nko? Nor be men dey do am pas for hen nights?

Even man dey follow woman drag buttcrack.

Yeah, I can "see" just how much MABTW. Wharra a joke.

What a pity! You don't know ISIS, you deserve a round of beating. Tell your lord that I command him to beat you up. You see, women are synonymous to babies, you need constant beating.
Though I don't support räpe, I think its cool, you don't have 2 tell a woman you want something, you are a man, have your way. Let me tell you, a lot of men have suffered from räpe, more than you can you can imagine.
I was not talking about wearing seductive clothes at beach or for a photo, was talking of the streets. I guess you were blushing when you said there are a lot of male strippers.
It is even deminishing to say men are better than women, cos there is no room for comparison. I can't just imagine my self bleeding for the most valuable moments of my life. Gush!!!

EnlightenedSoul:
I see.

Tell me, is disvirgined an actual word lol? My phone doesn't like it. Is it the queen's English, or jibberjabber?

Pùssy, what one word should I have used? Nèanderthal!!!

EfemenaXY:
Just so we're on the same page, what part of the female anatomy are you referring to here?




Oh really?

So I'm now a stereotype? For calling you out on your claims that women in Nigeria shouldn't be free to wear what they want for fear of being molested by a bunch of thugs, to whom the word "self-control" in non-existent in their dictionaries? According to you, women should exercise caution in their mode of dressing in order not to "assault" the so-called men's fragile senses, and yet, it's okay for the men to dress in whatever they feel like without fear of admonition or sex.u.al attack?

So it's one rule for women and another rule for the men - so who's the real stereotype here?

An no, I don't ever need to resort to insults to get my point(s) across. If I've got something to say, I say it in very clear, unambiguous terms. You on the other hand are the emotionally unbalanced one, prone to "losing it" as you readily admitted:



By the way, the bolded bit of your sentence got me laughing! Honestly. Efe does not join the bandwagon. My views are my views, even if they sometimes are contrary to the norm, whatever that may be. I do not post on here to garner "likes" as you so eloquently put it. Besides, do I have any control over who chooses to like my post? But more importantly, why should that bother you so much?

You have to extend ur views to ISIS! Have you ever seen a man on the streets, not a mechanic or tout, I mean a normal guy who leaves out any chunk of his breast or dress seductively?
No one says women shouldn't expose their internal whörèdom, but can you defend yourself from attack? We men have self-worth, eventhough we are not as sexy as women, we cannot degrade ourselves to being USED by musicians. Why not accept that MABTW.

MissMeiya:
Misogynist is a troll. I mean, look at his name. My eyes just skip over his posts.

Simple sentence, you can't construct.




Who can give me a tangible reason why I can't beat the hell out of a woman?

EnlightenedSoul:
When, and with what did I blackmail you? And lolll @ "little emotion ravaged head".

I must say, you seem hopelessly confused. On one hand, you proclaim that anyone can achieve success under the right circumstances, and yet in that same breath you extrapolate the undeniable intellectual contributions of men, and diminish that of women w/o giving credence to that same self-indicated significance of circumstance. The resultant asinine implication that women's exclusion from education and intellectual circles until very recently, not to mention their inability to own property or exert will over their own lives, had no effect on their inclusion in academic accomplishment is so ludicrous, I can't take your comment seriously.

On football, that you were speaking of the 'quality we expect' as opposed to *whatever else*, does nothing to remove you from your perch as the giggling incompetent observer that you are.

On your "achievements", you disappoint. I don't know how asking about your achievements translated into a boast sesh on how many women you've "disvirgined" (egad, the cringe-worthiness of this word alone is inexplicable), or that you've married a virgin (yayyyy). I must say I was surprised to learn about that last bit there. Married, you say? Danggg O.o

The crossed out portion makes no 'effin sense. I can only suggest that you reread it, and come up with something a bit more coherent for consideration.

When I said you are emotional, you debunked it, yet read all what you've written, isn't it emotional, my signature says all about me, but your tiny head refuse to reason. People like me and my very good foe carefreewannabe, most times try to mix fiction, lies with reality just for us to entertain ourselves. From the beginning of our chat, you have always gone personal, but I've always avoided u cos u are a typical woman, emotion over objectivity.
You can't deny that you enjoy chatting with me, can you? Its just that your little head has stemed you from reasoning like a man.

vivalableue:
Oh sorry typo *but

Not again! These guys that live abroad still think Nigeria are under-privileged while their mates are making millions here, they pay high tax and work for the most valuabe moments of their lives and reach home, only to see there is nothing to boast about. Oh brainwashed generation!
The above was the lament of one of the friends of my cousins in UK. If you think you are in Canada that it means u are on top of 170 mil people here, then its best you know its an heresy, a blatant lie. No wonder they think us poor & useless.

Do you know what feminism has done in your 'country'? It has made men tolerate the shìt that emanates from a woman's brain, imposed emotion instead of objectivity and has helped in creating jobs for family lawyers and foetus for scientists. I really don't care about where u live cos there a millions willing to quit for me, if I just would give them my manly features.

EnlightenedSoul:
Correct me if I'm wrong. Having not been on a Nation's Cup team yourself only makes you what you've already admitted to being; a giggling incompetent observer.

But hey, I'm always open to a good success story and the inspiration that comes with, so I'll tell you what? Perhaps football wasn't your forté. Why not take the floor and regale me, the mere birth instrument/sex tool, with the astounding accomplishments you've achieved courtesy of your penis_. Who knows, I may just be impressed.

Now, don't you disappoint. Do 'Dick Masterson' proud!

Women can be so silly that they seek for blackmail in place of objectivity. If your little emotion ravaged head cannot grasp what I wrote, I can explain cos that's what the deformed males want.
According to my post which you couldn't reply accordingly, I meant that at 'right circumstancesg', everyone can be successful, but it takes A(not every) man(women are also present, they have achievements too, but that of the man covers it and makes it look dormant.) to make something astounding.
As per female football, I was only telling you the quality of what we accept from this bìtch called women. As per my achievements, I disvirgìned 13 bìtches and still married a virgin, I love pink pùssy and succulent brèäst!
All men developed from women, with the hope of becoming a man, those that couldn't make it developed faster(things of low quality easily reach perfection) and were naturally deformed by nature, for the purpose of giving birth to the superior and inferior.

What of Mercy Johnson? I see her akpu everytime.

EnlightenedSoul:
Lolll talk about a pre-school fairytale flashback. Is that what you read? So, um, what's eating Gilbert Grape?

I giggled when I watched the women's nations cup final, it was all about the poo women are made of apart from giving birth and sex tool! Under right circumstances, everyone can be a lawyer, doctor, millionaire, footballer, great blogger but it takes a man to do something astounding! No wonder a feminist(business organisation) ravaged country like U.S.A can't manage equal pay.


Women, so grossly incompetent! I guess we should mourn for them as well..... Dick Masterson.

What an emotional story! The love of father is like Gold, that of mother is like a wortless mirror .

cococandy:
Donpeey anybody can do what they want with their bodies. Shikena
But harming others is against the law and that what this man here has done.

We are equal now, why lamenting?