₦airaland Forum

Ilekeh:
Anyway, I was an atheist for a year or so.....I'm going back to that to save my sanity.
Even Christians can't decide which denomination is the true one. What a hoax.
And trust me, I've been a protestant, Seven-day advent, jehovah witness, catholic, and many more. They ALL differ in ideology, in how to obtain grace into the kingdom of heaven, in christianity practice, in how a true christian should dress etc. One religion that is so diverse in belief is a divided religion.

It's a hoax.

Look at NL. Full of religious freaks, yet its full of ungodly behavior. Just like the world we live in.
It's easy to claim the title and easier to not practice it.

contactmorak:
A woman in Gbagada some years back married her fiance and when they asked her what she saw in him, she said he was tall, dark and handsome and God fearing. But few years down the line, she broke up with him when she found out he had been sleeping with their 14 year old maid.

Ask many ladies today what they look out for in a husband and they will tell you that he must be tall, dark, handsome and Godfearing. Though, you can automatically tell a man's height, complexion and good looks, how do you know if he is Godfearing?

faithugo64:
most ladies believe that a guy who loves you would never want to sleep with you untill he marries you.so here is my question

is it possible to love someone and not have the DESIRE to kiss,hug or have sex with him/her?

Please i don't mean having sex with the person,i mean is it possible not to have the DESIRE(wanting) to be intimate with that person.

NOTE: HERE AM NOT TALKING ABOUT AGAPE LOVE O!!!

blizard44:
God knows that I won't marry those pea-size-brained women they've got there...
Wtf!

Too much for freedom of decission.

She just dealt his brand a big blow.

ilotriouzAY:
If to say na nigerians,am sure d husband wud av beaten d wife to submission

U must use it by force

Abeg vote kiddablingzz for mr nairaland

okeke00:
I was brought up to to understand that Jesus Christ came and died for my sins.
I am a human and can't be perfect, I do fall in love with my opposite sex and there is 90% probability of engaging in sexual activities with her.
what I don't really understand is the doctrine of me still going to end up everlasting in a lake of fire even after Jesus died for my sins.
am just thinking of those soldiers who recently lost their lives in the fight against boko haram. they fought for our lives and safety and yet people still go to media to criticize them, calling them all sort of names.
can someone help me to explain how Jesus death has benefited africans and Nigerians?
i still get confused with religion

ifeness:
Your brain is resetting lol Welcome to the free world,hopefully you will make it.

Jesus dying for anyone is pure bullshitt! It was only a tool of control,to control peoples minds. Some have escaped the mind control system,while some are deeply rooted in it.

This is probably the beginning of you questioning everything and believing nothing without concrete evidence.

Goodluck

addempsea:
cause there are lots . If religion were 1, nobody would doubt.

F117AA:
Who are these so-called feminists anyway, and why haven't i met them in real life?
As an engineer, i come in contact and interact with a lot of top-class female professionals, and i have not seen them practising feminism, or atleast the kind of feminism being propagated on NL.
Watching a feminist display in real life would be fun.
I would probably laugh my hearts out while she fools herself to stupour.

Pr0ton:
So you call this a proof?



Reason well before posting craps... At bolded, children believe in Santa... Their belief doesn't affect his existence anyway, good one.





Blind faith...? Even a freethinker would take atheist scientists rationally than those who just solely believe in a book whose most writters are unknown, whose most characters have no real life existence... Who have blind faith too.




I had to calm down while posting this... Is my disproving your God's existence annoying you that much?

You just lack an understanding mind when reading people's posts.



lol



Even your first discovery doesn't make sense.



So then you yourself can't explain/prove the supernatural now, huh?




at bolded... So that's what hanging means to you



So the right meaning is the one you gave up there?





Well then... Let's see who has a faulty brain here:

You've never seen Jonathan with your eyes. You only see him on TV and his pictures on Newspappers. So you don't think/believe Jonathan is the president, huh? Bro argue with your complete senses and stop throwing out posts and insults anyhow like a chronic lunatic. It stains your personality.





No. You acted like a normal being there by accepting the defeat, because only an abnormal person would still persist in arguing.




The verses which I gave you from Psalm 139 shows clearly the total omniscience of God, but here you are opposing and contradicting it.

Bye!

pashaun:
Bullsh*t

ileobatojo:
Gender equity can never be divorced from gender equality. It is really pointless to claim to support one but not the other because they are both closely intertwined. Gender equity is like the 'affirmative action' through which true gender equality is achieved. It simply gives women extra benefits to help them achieve equality. Levels the playing field. So thanks to all the "anti gender equality" people who support gender equity. More benefits for disadvantaged women? We'll take it.

SirShymex:
Lol, each one, teach one. And perhaps, you'll be a catalyst to change this angry black woman syndrome that's rife everywhere now.

The black man never changes nor complains - he just adapts to whatever life throws at him.

That's why he's still out here surviving and breaking new grounds. And Nigeria has the highest population of black men on the planet.


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Shirley07:
Unfortunately, your imbecíle of a mother failed to bleed you away after coupling with different men, thereby stinking the place with a stupid brain dead bastard with no father. Don't blame me, blame your mother.
Like mother, like son.

Edusouls:
eehh men re expected to do much and deliver, a lot of responsibities on their heads thats why they do the things you just said, because very talkative and greedy girls like you are the ones that indirectly push them to do it, because when they come to you, you bleed their pockets dry in the name of una fake and wicked love, and karicateur with them that they dont have money to take care of a woman. Foolish girl, see that same thing we re just complaining of women of nowadays,very senseless, erratic, stupid and vry irritatating creatures, please were did these generation of men killer women emanate from,weren't our mothers women?

naijababe:
I am not a fan of stereotypes, so in general I often avoid people who like to use labels. That particular trait has and I believe will continue to serve me well.

I love black men; in fact I love Nigerian men . When I was shipped to Britain at 18, I knew within a few years that nothing but a cocoa brown of the naija variety would cut it for me . Some of my friends were keen on white men because they wanted biracial kids and they supposedly make better husbands. I was having none of that, it had to be a nucca and a naija nucca for that matter, it didn’t matter if he descended from the east, west, south or sahel. All I wanted was a naija man with his usual special brand of swag and ‘toasting!’ Certain lines are particular to Nigerian men, I have not heard non-naija men use those lines

If I am interviewed today and asked what mould of men I consider Nigerian enough to be married to if I wasn't married to my true Naija hubby of course , my first answer would be King Sango of the old Oyo Empire, he may have been arrogated all sorts of mythical powers but any man who could marry women as strong as Oba, Osun and Oya was no weakling and certainly didn't need to demand respect from his wives. From contemporary times, I can only think of the Late Rev. Oludotun Kuti, husband of Mrs Olufunmilayo Kuti and father of Olikoye, Fela and Beko Kuti. Rev Kuti in particular is ultra-special because he made all his marks in education while his wife Mrs Kuti was all about politics, a mean feat for their times. The other man that comes to mind is Dr Ekpo, the husband of Margaret Ekpo; in fact the history of NCNC as a political party would not be complete if the names of these two women’s were omitted, what Mrs Kuti did in the West, Mrs Ekpo did in the East. Two strong Nigerian men married them and did not stop them from achieving dreams; the fear of their wives stealing their thunder apparently did not come into play.

The history of Babangida’s regime as terrible as it was will not be complete without mentioning Maryam’s mark. She is behind the creation of the ‘Office of the first lady’, maybe someone here can convince me that Babangida simply could not control his wife. We can't possibly have forgotten Stella and Turai so soon; strong women even if their strength was to our detriment. I have heard many oral accounts of the rifts between Awo and Akintola being largely fuelled by their wives, might have been hearsay but mama HID and late Mrs Faderera Akintola were no pushovers even if the office first lady was non existent.

The truth is that Nigerian women have always been strong and independent even if there are good and bad kinds. That some women are all about money is not new, many of our musicians sang about it, I remember the apt descriptions of some women as a kid as being 'Olorunsogo' women, but the men who coined the that term also described their opposites as 'Surulere' women.

Has the world changed so much that some of our men only want ‘yes’ women as wives? So much so that strong women can only be described as rude and disrespectful. I can’t think of anywhere else where Nigerian women in particular are bashed as they are here on NL. Some of these men need to start taking responsibility for their behaviour. You are what you attract after all.

Elantracey:
its good to do things differently but there are other unique ways to do that , she clearly showed that she can't be bought , what if she wasnt ready for marriage?

coogar:
i want to pay bride price - it's our tradition. i have been doing my research - i want to marry a woman where the brideprice is the most expensive. it would be hard for such a bride to demand equality.




the idea of the brideprice is actually a good concept. why should inlaws trust the suitors with their precious daughter if there's no evidence he's financially capable to take care of her? this was why the idea of brideprice came from. there were some traditions where men have to wrestle & the winner takes the bride. the concept is simple - they want the best man for the women.

however, our african women are now trapped - they have an identity crisis. they don't know whether to adopt the western norm wholeheartedly or stick to the african norm wholeheartedly. the super-fraudulent ones want the best of both worlds which is hypocritical in principle.