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my dear,It is well,all will end in praise,I can feel u so our case is similar but I will say mine is more complicated.
maybe I should use DS medium to pour it all out. I know DS is not d right medium for it.
I know most pple keep wondering what kind of moniker is "Missing",yes am missing in d mist of it all.

it all started about 10years ago.
I met DS handsome dude,we latter because friends,den lovers.
I was very fertile,any accidentally discharge result into BFP,I got d BFP on 2 occasions but he said he wasn't financially ready so I always results to D&C.on d 3rd occasion I bluntly refuse to do D&c again,and he gave me 2 conditions.1)d&c or 2) keep the baby and forget me.i want with 2.
for 3years I was all alone, depressed, frustrated, taking care of my child all alone.refusing to give love another chance.
after 3years i met DS persistent guy.single,good looking,and OK financially.after so much persuasions we started dating eventually we started making plans for marriage.
did know how ex was able to contact present.told him all abt d D&cs and many more silly things.(all lies).and to avoid repeating previous mistakes,I was using posnor2 to prevent BFP b4 marriage.
one day present caught me using posnor2,he got angry dat I was not ready to give him a child dat I only wanted a father for my child.in d heat of the agurement he confessed all ex has told him and called off d plans for marriage.
after so much intervention from both families,it was concluded dat d marriage shd be propone to when I get a BFP.it now 1year down d line BFP no show face.
can u know relate to why I was contemplating separation,why I am pissed,why I refuse to say hbd,why so much is going on in my head,why hubby constantly tell me he doesn't need drugs.
all test ave done shows OK.

mamatwiny:
Thanks for your concern dear.
I had a tete a tete with the lab guy after d suspended hsg. I told him ppl are given injection so they won't feel pain.He told me their hospital doesn't give injection, BT if he had known I will have DT level of pain, he would have told me to buy buscopan injection while coming. He said if I don't conceive in the cycle after the hsg, DT I shld come on my CD 10 and complete it. Today is my CD 3. I've bought the injection already. Waiting for my CD 10 so DT I can complete it.

Its well ooo. My embittered ex and hubby had some communication.... I can't say who called d other. Ex told hubby all sorts of things. DT I was taking pills so DT I won't conceive. DT no man can tolerate me, bla bla bla.
Immediately after d conversation, hubby couldn't control what he heard. His attitude changed. I was so so angry and fired back at him, he didn't know when he opened up and told me about the communication.
This is just 5 months ooo. I then wondered what ppl DT have been in this journey for ten years pass through. I never double dated. I was a virgin till 28 yrs.It was DT same ex DT wasted my time. I stuck to him when he had financial issues. I took postinor when I saw he was making efforts to get me pregnant without doing the right thing. I only used postinor twice.

Anyway, hubby later came to his senses and apologized.
Ahead ahead. It will end in praise!

forget to add dat d so called ex is now back begging to reconcile saying he said all dat in d mist of rage,dat y shd I just forget him like dat....he claims he is now ready to marry after 5years of abandonment

Adiahaakwaibom1:
Lol, l also dislike this waiting period. I just wish d thing can just skip also.
This is d period u should be aware of phantom pregnancy symptoms- cos Na dis period our body dey simulate pregnancy symptoms wella. As am typing right now, my mouth sef dey bitter but after this period; d bitterness will miracously disappear . So me no just send d body again sef till 2 wks time. Plus l do less ttc-related things now, so bp no go kill person.

I think say na only me d thing dey do.....I dey feel bloated,d feel slight cramps in my lower abdomen,my throat dey taste one kind,Kon join with neauseness,d feel of dizziness no be here, breast dey do e own .i just tire for d body

mummykyrti:
ehhyy mama you are enjoying ooo, adiahaakwaibom1 I just wish I can sleep and wake and see myself that I've missed my flow 4 like 1week . the anxiety ehn can kill!!!

enjoy me,d anxiety I dey feel no get part in as much as I no to TTC DS cycle,my mind just dey dere.i just dey pray make AF no show in ugly face.with each passing day am anxious to get a BFP.

lavivaavril:
Good morning mamas how are we all doing? Fingers crossed for all of us in our 2WW

A BIG AMEN oooo,am in CD 25...

Adiahaakwaibom1:
@ all sabi mamas
Something strange happen today.
I no dey wear pant stay 4 house. I just dey like waka Abt with a small gown. So today after watching tv 4 a long time on d settee , when I got up; I saw plenty whitish stuff / Abi discharge sef that was quite slippery to feel on d settee. Make I no lie; fear catch me small oh, I no if it's EWCM or something else ( this clomid just make this my cycle one kan)
Currently on my CD18; Abeg sabi mamas; Na so EWCM dey resemble

@ Mummykyrti
Ur own better oh!. Abeg if him no complain ; make u sef no complain

from the university of Google,if d whitish thing be like egg white abeg kpekus well well,cos dat u most fertile period and d thing go drag dh fuel go inside well well (it makes a slippery slope for Free flow of semen to the uterus).

mummykyrti:
my dear for some men its fear / ego, what if he does d test and it shows ders a problem? am sure that's what he must be thinking hence d lack of interest in doing it, even if u use cunny way to obtain his se-men and do SFA, should anytin b wrong God forbid, how would u get him to tke d necessary drugs? just keep praying and showing him love and care.

please don't even consider asking someone to talk to him for u bcs it might worsen ish , please wish him happy birthday, tell him u wanted to be d last person to wish him. I know its hard and frustrating but all this would be a thing of d past one day. am sending you lots of big big e-hugs okay? oya cheer up...ur babies are looking at u right now o, wondering why mum is franking her face..lol

thanks alot.....u brought a smile to DS face was babies asking y mummy is frowning her face.
my sister d man get my buttons for hand Jare....has he come back begin tell me say all him ex,and present girlfriend call to tell am happy birthday,some even offer to take am on a date, him refuse,say the first lady for house no call or carry am go anywhere,him reach house,na frowning face him see.na WA oooo.
I quickly change my face,type msg program am for 11:58pm(telling him I wanted to crown all d wishes and prayers with my own) come give am serious kpekuing as birthday gift, come tell am with faith in my heart say I will make him a father b4 his next birthday.

caon:
@missingribs,I know how u feel,jst try takin it easy on him.most men are like dat.u wil hav to persuade him to c d reasons behind ur request.most of all,prayer is yea

I have persuaded, begged, cajole watin I nova do fight join self,at the end of it all I hear is"I know am OK,i don't have any problem and I don't need drugs to impregnate u"
At a point I was putting vitamin b12, inside d water I use to make tea for him but had a rethink (cos u no our African pple,if person go see u dey put something inside him tea,dem no go hear say na cos of TTC,dem go say u dey use black power for am).
am just tired of everything noni

am I d only one in this category or do I need help,am getting moody with hubby this days, anytime am around him I feel pissed,
imagine today his is birthday and I refuse to say happy birthday cos I feel what is the celebration all abt,he is 47 no child and he is not seeing anything serious about it or is it dat he is pretending not to get me hurt or is it dat he has a child outside so he is not border (lot of things running through my mind) although ave not caught him cheating.
am even thinking of ending DS whole marriage (maybe we should both go our separate w
ays and try with others)cos am the only one doing scan, using drugs when I tell him,he keeps telling me he knows he is ok.
am getting tired of his non challant attitude



so sorry for my outburst and vibration.......

I have faith that no shall be barren in the house and also that how barn shall be filled with children and children children......if u have such strong faith has mine then say this prayers for u children.
Pass on to your Mrs.

Prayer Points from Mother's Summit by Funke Felix Adejumo-

My Seed is a Champion

1.Oh earth, I speak to you, begin to yield your increase to my seeds.
Let everything i put on this earth germinate

2.My seed will not be a servant to their enemy.
I will not beg my enemy for my seed.

3.My seed will not bring me shame!

4.Father let the good things of this earth locate my seed!
My seed will not borrow or beg

5.My seed will be a palace pillar in the kingdom of God

6.No evil, stray bullet, sickness will touch my seed!

7.Father make me a wonder

8.Father let it be difficult for the devil & people to explain me

9.Father whatever it takes for a woman to have honour respect & dignity, put in me

10.Father, clothe me!
I shall not be naked in Jesus Name.

11.Father my children shall not be wasted

12.My seed will not be a victim of evil substitution! They will not die another's death

13.Father reward me for my sacrifices as a mother & a wife

14.My children will be kind enough to take care of me!
They will marry into good homes.

15.I crush the skull of Every Abimelech (Alakoba) plotting against me

16.My feet & that of my seed shall not step into trouble!

17.While I am young, ì will not become a widow!
Also,My husband will not bury me!

18.My seat shall not be vacant!
No one will represent me on the day of joy of my seed.

19.I shall not be a victim of anyone's error

20.When it is sweet for me it will not suddenly finish

21.God fight for me & for my children

22.I will see, reap & eat my harvest!

23.Lord,the 3 things that accompanied my seed when he came into the world will not accompany him when he is going (blood -i.e. assassination, accident, crying/tears and unclothedness)

24.My children shall not be terrified in life

25.I curse every devourer over my children's academics, health, finance, work, business, marriage

26.Lord Deliver my children from group afflictions & corporate embargos!

27.I receive & declare championship academically & mentally, maritally, financially over my children

28.My seed shall not stumble in Jesus Name .

As a mother, pray this prayer With one hand on your chest and the other on your stomach.

1. Every child that sucked these breasts and passed thro my womb shall not be slaughtered by devil's cohorts in Jesus Name.

2.. I cover my children with the Blood of Jesus.

They will always escape the traps of the enemies.

3. I will not weep or bury any of my children.

4. My children are my garment of honor, therefore they shall not be ripped off by the enemies.

5. Blood of Jesus, avail and prevail over my children.

So shall it be In Jesus Name. Amen.

From the VOICE OF THE PREVAILING MOTHER.

PASS IT ON TO MOTHERS AND MOTHERS TO BE. AND YOUR CHILDREN SHALL ALWAYS BE VICTORS AND NOT VICTIMS. In Jesus Name. AMEN.

piouslola:
Help me to thank God.
I have been using my dh acc b4.

God has finally done it for me.

I went to hospital last week for check up. I did 4 test again only for the doc to tell me that I'm 10weeks bfp.

I was extremely happy after 10month of ttcing.

I pray to God to answer all our prayers and provide us all with a wonderful and precious bfp.

I wish everyone of us success.


Off to pregnancy thread.

congratulations....H&H 9 month.... I tap into ur testimony

activating the faith in me.........my baby car seat, bathtub with a baby dresser and milk extractor (as them be two,I go need to extract if I want to go baby friendly easily)

am already preparing my children's room abeg watin oyibo dey call am nus......watin
call thing as if they were and dey shall be......my ejima are coming......that I have a strong feeling off.and am also shopping for there thing
abeg na my baby crib be this.my sisters is it ok

mummykyrti:
....lavivaavril, orney, loisemm, adiahaakwaibom1, afagha mke una update d house howfa na....me my edd is Oct 13th, I claim it...I even set my period calendar on pregnancy mood and brought out the baby clothes I bought 2 years back for sun to sama it ( alto I do it a lot)... our babies need playmate so pls state your edd o

for me.....na twins chewgum me one boy,one gal and my EDD na Oct 7,baby dedication go be Jan 23.

pweetymii:
@missingribs,i said it in my mind that some of una bd ministry don reach permanent site,you is professor emeritus you haff just be coding yourself..kwantinu!

Haaaaaa,............

pweetymii:
@missingribs,i said it in my mind that some of una bd ministry don reach permanent site,you is professor emeritus you haff just be coding yourself..kwantinu!

Haaaaaa,............

[\@Missingribs, I am also very very Hot during ovulation period. However, I have some romance films and series I watch often, they help me get into the mood at other times with dear hubby./]

I think say na only me Waka DS kin Waka.....

mummykyrti:
@ aunty missingribs even me too d thing affected me, during fertile period I go dey into kpekus, after den my libido go just die till next fertile period. this one wey ur hubby don sabi u, u have to surprise him, remember how fun kpekus used to be when u weren't TTC, kpekus all thru even when u no dey fertile, atimes God works wonders. just like a mama here that only kpekus twice bfre cd 10 or thereabtand went to school but still got her bfp, so who knows??
the lord is your strength my dear, very soon all this would be a thing of the past...

I will try my best to get the groove back on.....no b my fault na

pweetymii:
@missingribs,haan haan!you is a wikid somborri oh,how can you be so selingfish,if is you nko will you not be vexing?oya,arrange yourself and get your groove.Don't let him know you are on ov,infact don't calculate this cycle,just try to play sexy,be more romantic,tease him and when he is ready for show tell him you just want to play not do,naim go begin chase you,then wen you are on the track again,don't go back to clock work oh.

thank you my sister but u no go blame me na.....the thing just tire me ni

beg someone come to my rescue oooo.ttc dey cos something oooo.
I noticed dat (even hubby to don notice am too)I only feel like kpekuing during cd10-cd14 during this period I can kpekus for Africa bring am anyhow, anywhere, Anytime,I go collect no matter the dose, every other time asidebds period am no more interested (not in the mood). when hubby notice that an ready to play match(during cd10-cd14 )he go throw way face no matter what I do,no matter my seducing techniques, matter how I play with d fuel pump go just Waka pass or sleep off.abeg watin I go do

fpeter:
This morning my husband and I got into an argument and he insinuated that i couldn't get pregnant despite all the "liquid" he was supplying. He then finished it up by saying "No Let Me Talk O"....i was very hurt and it dawned on me that no matter how nice and understanding these men are somewhere in their heart they secretly have their reservations...At this juncture, only God can be trusted and depended on to see me through this TTC.

just be calm and collected, this our men can miss Yan atimes, don't take it to heart, when he is calm talk to him about it "LET HIM TALK O" now so there won't be any unpleasant surprises latter on.am talking from experience,my fuel supplier use to tell me Everytime (jokingly)that me I no go get belle ABI,me too will tell him I no go go pluck am for tree.
one day he said if u no get belle I go go play away match ooo(still joking)me I tell am say anytime him play d away match bring am come house,me I go shift,say d house big for us,
in as much as he is joking abt it and I no has not start playing away match,me am preparing my mind for the unexpected anytime,so it won't be an unpleasant surprise.

MummyJJ:
@ Adiahaakwaibom1 God will restore back your home. I know it's hard to forgive him completely but you have to do it for yourself not him. I hope he hasn't gotten a child outside? Even if he has still forgive. Those evil women are waiting for you to vex and pack out so they can take your place. God forbid. Please both of you should seek a counsellor, Probably your pastor.

@adelolo congratulations you will carry to term and be alive to nurse your children. Did you see your period before testing? Saw you said you saw blood for 1 and half days.

@curvilicious the Lord I'd your strength. From Christmas till about a week ago I went into a deep bout of depression. Crying everytime, not wanting to be left alone but still didn't want company. I employ you to pray and tell God how it feels and then reduce your thoughts on TTC. That thing can kill. Just occupy your mind and soon you will be better. Depression brings stress and make it harder to conceive. The joy of the Lord is your strength.

On another level I dreamt I slept and when I woke up they said I gave birth thru CS to 4babies. I saw them all ooo. I was shocked and surprised I kept asking my husband how possible he said I was 36wks and I said but my stomach was flat. Heheheeheheh. I even called my parents in the dream the encouraged me to rest. All 4 babies were wearing different onesies as we no prepare for them. Don't know who dash them . My husband said he has given them English names that I should chose Yoruba names for them. I choose am ooo. Hehehehehehe. In the dream I kept asking myself is this the Pleasant surprise baba Adeboye talked abt? Naso I wake up see say na dream. I was even thinking how I will come to NL and update una in the dream. . They were two boys and two girls. Was even asking DH in @the dream if all 4 will be sleeping with us on the bed as no baby cot.

Chaie am becoming Josephine ooo. TTC no easy ooo. I just prayed that biologically, spiritually, career wise and my business, I will birth my children and name them.

na real Josephine..but the good Lord will make it a reality.

@adelolo congratulations wishing you a stressfree, health and pleasant 9month(agbo owun iya ATI Omo loroko Jesus)i.e,we go hear d cry of baby and d safety of mother in Jesus name

@ada mama,pls just forgive him and let ur love be like dat of pradaya in zee abeg....I help am beg

@adiaakwaibom1,my sabi sabi mama....I hail u,abeg no vex plenty, just vex small forgive d man..this our men na only God go save dem....my dh once tell me like play like play say me I no go get belle ABI,Sha na until him go do away match....just forgive him.


abeg my sabi sabi mama......am confused here I got my vitamin B12 today but as I was about to take it I discovered dat folic acid too has vitamin B12.can I combine b12, folic acid and vitamin E.hope it won't be over dose of vitamin b12

@adiaakwaibom1,my sabi sabi mama....I hail u,abeg no vex plenty, just vex small forgive d man..this our men na only God go save dem....my dh once tell me like play like play say me I no go get belle ABI,Sha na until him go do away match....just forgive him.


abeg my sabi sabi mama......am confused here I got my vitamin B12 today but as I was about to take it I discovered dat folic acid too has vitamin B12.can I combine b12, folic acid and vitamin E.hope it won't be over dose of vitamin e

pls are this exercise go for a TTC,cos my fuel supplier (hubby) dey complain say I don dey grow fat,I decided to do exercises him still dey complian say I dey do exercises say how d Belle go take stay......that y I run come met my sabi mama to ask if this exercise if affect my conceptions

ogunbekun:
@missingrib, the leaking fueltank is called eda in yoruba language. If you have a very good alagbo, they have the medicine for it. My friend had the same experience as you. She said she doesn't leak before, but after she had miscarriage, she started leaking and joined the TTC league. Her mil brought the agbo for her, and after she used it, she stopped leaking. She say everything go inside, none dey comot. She don born now.

So you can try.

thanks alot........ I will try

good day my mamas in the house..... happy Sunday.pls can someone tell me the cause of leaking fuel tank.....my fuel tank no dey leak before but as I dey TTC,I notice every detail,since something in Jan 2016,I noticed dat my fuel tank dey leak, science say it not a problem but am concerned.

Adiahaakwaibom1:
Hello.....my darling sabi mamas
Happy new yr...
Am back 4rm village with plenty plenty village orishirishi
Abeg, make I go read older pages; I no wan miss any better story / info

welcome back,abeg if u dey distribute d orisirisi,make e reach me sef

lavivaavril:
Hahaha, sorry for laughing but 'vein inside the womb isn't breathing' 'Taking too much cold water' so funny! I don't have any experience with Ijaw women but this one sounds suspicious.
God pick our call so we can stop wakaing up and down and buying drugs oo

Your case sounds like a chemical pregnancy. I might be wrong though

i was diagnosed with an empty gestation sac(anembryonic gestation) also refer to as blighted ovum.
initially my enemy was said to have etopic pregnancy but I was referred to island maternity for a second opinion test that was were it was diagnosed as having anembryonic gestation.my sisters it was easy I cried for like 2days after 10 month of ttc, regorious calculation of ovulation(following d thing from bumper to fender),kpekuing every fertile period atimes husband go use me do shakara dey form am tired,atimes devil go do him own( ovulation period fight go happen btw us after ovulation peace go rain), countless lifting up of legs after wrestling make d thing for flow enter cos I experience sperm flowing out after wrestling alot.
during the period of my BFP my husband treated me like a queen come see emergency love (bringing food for me on bed, asking me not to stress my self to work, me sef go form "am weak I can't cook"
but ave left it all behind,this year have decided to give myself 3month break from TTC abeg,I plan to do my bitterleaf therapy for the 1st month(a cup of bitterleaf juice 1st thing in the morning or last thing at night)and folic acid.
2nd month I will continue the bitterleaf therapy but in combo with folic acid,vitex and vit E
3rd month dem try again.
Abeg my sabi sabi mamas (sorry don't mind my manners,am not good with remembering moniker) help me touch light my plan e go to go

crustypearl:
Please mommas in the house help me understand something o. After doing fertility tests(me and my husband), they said we're both fine. A friend of mine recommended that i go see one Ijaw woman. Truly as i got to her place and she examined my tummy, she said that i have too much fat in my pelvic region and that my hubby's sperm isn't going through(sorry for TMI!!).. last week when i checked my weight it was 72.5kg and im 5'4 . She gave me one mixture to take, says it's going to make me purge and that i should be at home throughout...pls has anyone had thid issue?? I haven't taken yet cos i need to confirm. Please help a sister.

my sister all DS ijaw women dey fear me.....
my case with one was after pressing my belly button,she said I take too much cold water that d Vien in d womb is not breathing,d she press hand inside my totoyo den say the womb as come down that she needs to reset that I should bring 30k.
getting home I told hubby,he was like I shd not mind her that some of them are fake.
my sister that month I tested positive,3weeks down on morning I started spotting blood,I rush to hospital,doc do test it came out positive but scan was showing nothing in my uterus,no heartbeat discovered.,till today I can't explain what happened.
I just know as I bleed for 3days like my normal AF and life continues

Redeemed:
@ifylicious/Cionnion, you brought me out from my peeping mode today, I'm shaking my bumbum for you. God be praised in your life, you shall carry to full term and deliver safely in Jesus name.

@all, it is well with our soul in Jesus name.

Make I go back to my siddon look mode, I don cry so tay my head don begin to ache me seriously when AF just showed up yesterday uninformed.
How I wish I could just sleep and wake up tomorrow and realise that this phase is over.
Oh Lord my God, when will you make my weeping come to an end and my morning come? Don't let me loose it completely, I'm just tired!

after a recent miscarriage,like 1week ago I was feeling weak, neasea, sleeping Everytime,tender breast, bloating, frequent urination etc for my mind I began happy say God has console me again.....only for me to stay to see spotting 12days past ovulation (DPO) I think say na implantation bleeding.next day AF show.... I just vex put pad, thank God and move on......
so don't worry for everyone looking up to God,2017 I decree triplets into ur life.

Loisemm:
My people, una thank you o. I am not so angry with her. She is a good woman but what I feel is embarrassment at her continual reference to my age and this feeling that she is subtly threatening the future of my marriage.

Some of my mates and aunties are yet to get married. I married on time to the glory of God and I am still young and fertile by His grace.

When she keeps saying men can reproduce at anytime but women are limited, I undastand but I feel she is also implying another woman will come and take my enemy's place since men are so 'fertile'. Smh. Abeg, I no want to dey hear all that kind talk. Its kind of insulting. We are yet to go for any comprehensive test so we dont even know where the issue is from. I have only done pelvic scan and all came out clear except tiny cyst that doc said may likely be functional cyst that comes with period.
If na her Son get issue nko? (God forbid), Wetin she go talk? No be to go silent and be encouraging me to try.
My mother calls too but doesn't make me feel tensed, afraid or insulted that I dey old. Old for which age?

I no vex cos I know she feels we are not serious on TTC matter but na we know ourself. Her son has urged me to not think about it and not allow myself to be pressured. Yesternyt, I wept when we made love. Imagine. Hubby talked and counselled me. Luv u guys. Take care.

my sister no vex for MIL, thank God ur husband is with u......
what will you do in a case were hubby is 47, u are 35, everybody is telling u watin dey happen, hubby refuse to do any test, even if u talk him go tell u say him no say nothing do am(once had BFP but miscarriage@6weeks and 3days)
no comprehensive test just TVS that shows all is cleared.

mummykyrti:
that means you are 2 or 3days ahead of me...wow we are almst cycle mates...God will do it soonest

we are cycle mate my started with spotting on d 29th Dec.

mummykyrti:
my sister I don ask o, even asked a gynae he said its irregular but uncle google said its not irregular that having period with differences of plus or minus 5days isn't far from it.. but I've seen people that their flow comes always dsame time I.e 28days cycle evri time, iz ur cycle like mine too?

yes oooo,my sis and I don't know how to calculate my ovulation period