hamid6249:
Us always want every other country of the world to lick her ass

It’s not about licking anyone’s ass Huawei argues it is independent of the state yet the Chinese government is heavily invested in Huawei . It’s a technology giant and if a state especially China is involved that makes any country Huawei is operating in a target for state sponsored spying. China is notorious for that. Huawei has issues in Canada and Europe read newspapers it helps.

nigeriapenmedia:
US always feel the are the boss, Chinese no go gree o. This is just the beginning of the story

It’s not just the US that has issues with Huawei, Canada and most European countries. Understand the reason why Huawei is having these issues and it has nothing to do with wanting to “ feel they are the boss” .

y3mi:
Hope you do realize that hyper-libidinous males who jerks off haven't the balls to go whoring at the red light district the way non-wankers do, or whatever you meant by live vajina, is even beside that fact, suffice to say sexual gratifying ventures particularly those related with coital activity is an expensive hobby in this part and I hail those who do

It’s expensive if you choose to make it expensive....
Secondly that was said tongue in cheek I take it you are familiar with such?

Mustiboy:
thanks. But you and I know you were diving into something else.

My apologies though.

I am innocent .......I merely observed how you are an ardent observer.

Mustiboy:
are you trying to say the wife and I are having an affair? Just spit it out.

I don't know why Nairalanders often resort to throwing jabs at someone when it's obvious a healthy discussion is going on.

Ah but sire where did I make mention of any adulterous intentions? It is you that has raised matters I merely commended you on your keen observational skills .

finest0007:
I think she does have a point. Initially a woman may be blinded by love or belief in the dream that her potential husband's fortunes will change and actually pay it for him. However, progress is key.

If the wife makes steady improvement while the man doesn't, it's technically impossible to command respect. The lack of respect over being unable to pay a ceremonial sum of money shouldn't be the main issue.

So there is more to this than the bride price issue?

Her Bride Price Like I Did, You Are Not Her Husband But Her Wife' - Afia Schwarzenegger says
Controversial Ghanaian media personality, Afia Schwarzenegger took to Instagram to share this lovely photo of herself and dropped a message for some men who collect money from women to pay their bride price. She wrote: 'Dear Men, If your woman gives you money to pay her bride price like I did...You are NOT her husband but her wife!!!! Stop looking for respect where u can't find it. Good day!!!!


Does she have a point or not?

Yes it’s a business
If it was at home it’s a different matter.

Mustiboy:
Just this morning, I was woken by some noise coming from my neighbour's house. My neighbour lives alone with his wife, and they've been married for only a couple of years. The Husband is a pauper and is regarded as one of the poorest men in the neighbourhood. His wife, who is a petty trader, is not any better financially. She is beautiful but not very neat—if even neat at all. She leaves her compound unswept oftentimes, cooks openly with firewood and with the dirtiest of pots, and only brings her clothes (hers alone as she doesn't wash her husband's) outside to watch only once in two weeks. All in all, I still don't think she's dirty.

So this fateful morning, other neighbours and I could hear the wife bawling continually. We approached the house and saw the wife sitting on a bench in the verandah with her chin resting on her palm ; she was already sobbing this time. We asked what the problem was and she continued her bawling. Just then, the husband came out and greeted us all. He seemed calm, and he explained what happened to us, the men, while the women sat with the bawling wife to console her.

The man had wanted to have sex with his wife very early in the morning, and she had asked that the husband pay her before he's allowed to have anything sex with her. She insulted him, called him a useless, jobless man, and even said no food for a lazy man, not even sex; with this, the husband got infuriated and was forced—out of annoyance—to hit her severally. This is what alerted us, the neighbours and required us to come out of our respective houses to find out what happened.

The husband has said he is sorry and has asked us to help him apologize to his wife, and we have done so.

So I decided to bring the matter here . What do you guys think of the wife and the husband? Why would she(the wife) ask her husband for money before sex in the first place? That is where I think the wife has gone wrong.

I have to commend you on your observational skills and attention to detail especially where it pertains to your neighbours wife and her activities. You even know how often she does her laundry!

Anyway back to the matter at hand they don’t have a marriage it is a situation. And in situations things like this happen.

y3mi:
Well, imo, the observation of that writer however right, still isn't true for all but only correct to the degree of said family's leaning towards westernism(southerners) and arabicism (northerners), only at times does parent-children relationship reflects qualities that are indicative of those who raise and are raised in ways customary to the tribe associated with the ethnic group they hail from.

You can be from any tribe and be emotionally demonstrative towards your children as well as be emotionally available personality traits are not dictated by tribe .

icon91:

I don't think so dear, the stress and histrionics involved in it will actually make him go back more than before

Stress affects libido I know what I am on about

Avater0147:
Aviod anything pornography my guy n just try to occupy ur mind anytime the thought of it cross ur mind. It's not easy I know but u will over come. And one more thing, pray. Masturbating is also spiritual something

Yep there it is.... addiction = spiritual
Only in Nigeria

ledamaster:
Physical solution. stop watching porn, you are addicted to porn I guess? yes? Delete every porn in your fone, start going to mid week service and indulge in any geoup that takes away your time. When ever you want to wack it, remember that it also kills your shaft man! weakens your errection and reduces the sensation, to the extent you will have to take off your condom to enjoy sex. This makes it very dangerous, coa you stand a chance of always getting infected with diseases. Masturbatiin also reduces your creativity and imaginative power, when.you let off your sexual urge it reduces your capacity to chaee or work hard towards your dreams and potential.

Spiritually someone addicted to masturbation.will.never become.rich. Worsting sti, they attract spiritual wives or husbands. if you are spititually sound, you would notice some strange aura or movement in your bedroom roof as soon as you get the urge, or before you masturbate, those are demonic spirits gathering to feast on your destiny. Please stop. its even.better to have sex with a lady than .masturbating.

Nothing reminds you of Nigeria then my people’s ability to attach religion or spiritual to anything.
No other nation can boast of something like that.

crowley:

Real live vagina!!! God have mercy.. where them dey sell am? i for like buy

Look outside your window ....see all those live ones?

Replace your hand with a real live vagina. All the stress & histrionics that come with a live vagina will compel you to forget your ritual of self gratification.

ibkayee:

Sorry dear my head is actually in the clouds, when I said that I was thinking I was responding to you saying that you couldn’t hug your father, but it was actually your friends I was referring to smh. Just realised it wasn’t you

You’re blessed to have such a relationship with your parents

Come back to earth

ibkayee:

@ ripe with fear

I was surprised since you’re female, when you hear about father’s not hugging their children, it’s usually their sons.

One could argue that some parents want to be different parents compared to the parenting style of their own parents. We are a very tactile family ( 6 boys + 1 girl) emotion is not repressed and it’s not gender related.


For example the grandparents were very very conservative but are very tolerant towards us the grandchildren

ThothHermes:
Yeye talk.
Oyinbo families are still far more dysfunctional.

Provide. Teach. Discipline.

All the Hollywood love is overrated.

Hug my Papa say wetin happen?

Gather your thoughts and return with something more cohesive rather than those bellicose utterances. I will wait.

ibkayee:

Wow, basic hugs? That’s sad

I have been to households were the father hardly ever acknowledges the children ...the air is just ripe with fear

ibkayee:
I didn’t experience this personally but from what I’ve seen of others, it seems like the typical Nigerian parenting approach is to focus on providing their children with the ‘conventional’ basics - food, shelter, education etc. Often forgetting or not even knowing that emotional intelligence and affection are also fundamental necessities.

Many aren’t in tune with their emotions themselves tbh, so it would help to start with their own personal development first. But with the way Nigeria is set up, you can’t even always blame them.

I would very much agree with the latter
I had friends who were astonished I could joke with my father or even hug him.

Deepfeel:

First of all a normal healthy d*ck can never be 2 inches unless its an unhealthy deformed D*ck, secondly the most sensitive spot in the vagina opening the G spot is not located 9 inches in the vagina, but just 5 to 8 cm deep so every normal d*ck that's not deformed will touch it comfortably , So my point just cancelled what you just said

The part of reaching an impasse still stands

Deepfeel:

Not only about women I have encountered, there are a lot of women who don't have the time or complete privacy to seat in front of a mirror for 20 minutes to know their vagina, if not for technology and easy accessibility to all these information on Internet, a lot of women never knew what female ejaculation is a lot of women never knew the clitoris they have gives sexual pleasure all these different sex positions been practice this days wasn't known women were satisfied with just missionary position all these complains of small size d*ck big d*ck size wasn't there as long as the d*ck is erect enough to penetrate the vagina they were satisfied, but the mind set of women towards sex has been corrupted now
There are women that no matter how big your D*ck is if you don't s*ck their pussy they won't be satisfied,
There are some no matter how big the d*ck is if you don't f*ck them doggy it's a waste of time,
My point is this the size of the d*ck doesn't matter, it's all in the mind
Sorry for the long comment

pas de problème
Point of correction the vagina is internal so even if she sits in front of a mirror she cannot see inside.
Most women are ignorant of their own bodies because learning is stifled by religion with normal biology being classified as demonic or sinful so you have a situation were female adults have such convoluted notions of female reproductive health.

That said size does matter. We can not argue 2 inches hits the same spots 9 inches does. We need to look at this at this from a pragmatic perspective.
Perhaps we have reached an impasse?

Share your views.

Daguccizgreat:
Bad gurl

Perhaps

Deepfeel:

No we are not in the same field, and yes you might understand your vagina perfectly well, but you see most women don't

Regarding the women you encounter perhaps you consistently aim low in the IQ dept?

naturalwaves:

That is why the woman said ladies like you should be dumped when you complain that a man's joystick is too small. In case you do not understand, what she meant is that one should move away from people who body shame........she does not mean to say that some people do not have it small but that the least you need is someone who will body shame you and lower your confidence. Your statement about "we could not both have clits" is very disrespectful because those who have it small just saw it like that. This is something that is more or less like a random distribution and you take whatever nature gives to you. In all your write-ups, you have never failed to show logic/intelligence and I am surprised this came from you.........Your initial post was the worst to ever come from you as it is bereft of deep thinking or perhaps you are a sex maniac.

Having said that, no one is disproving the fact that they do not give the same experience....a small member may not be able to give a certain type of orgasm but there are about 5 different types of orgasms....It is more about knowing one's onions and knowing who one is dealing with. There are some ladies that no amount of furious banging can make them cum whereas, a couple of clit brushes in 1 minute will make them shiver.
In all, the summary is that do not body shame anyone and if someone body shames you, move on to another person who would not body shame you.

Naturalwaves I do desire we may be better strangers......

blackslayer:


Adult psycho !!!

Great supine protoplasmic invertebrate jelly.

blackslayer:


lol...psycho!!!!

Adolescent

Deepfeel:

Lol a lot of women with vagina don't even know how it works, some women don't even know their most sensitive spots cause they haven't really taken the time to explore themselves, I might not have one in between my thighs but I have examined it close enough to speak about it

I am not one of those women who is flummoxed by her vagina. Working in female sexual health and reproduction means I have seen more vaginas than you unless we are in the same field?

Deepfeel:

A finger or two, can be felt right, so no d*ck is smaller than a finger or two, how long it can last during sex it's more important than how big or small it is

You are vaginaless therefore cannot argue on this matter. If those that have vaginas state size matters you can’t attempt to rationalise with your “one finger/two finger” theory.
Size matters ......