Earthquake1:


What are your assurances and conditions somebody has to fulfill before entering your 'sacred space'

I too have a space but I realized that as much as it is protecting us, it is preventing us from reaching to others we love

I have made very good friends here and it was by sheer coincidence we bonded over something that peaked both our interests. I cannot tell you the exact formula as I don’t believe that’s how friendship blossoms
It just happens.

Earthquake1:


Ok but people still want to know you

Can you hide away from them for so long?

I have managed for a few years so yes

Earthquake1:


Why do you hide so much Miss Raine

Because this is the virtual world away from all this I have a full life and I like to keep those two separate. Not a crime last time I checked.

Dudeweedlmao:
You have anger issues.

I will just put that down to you having a bad day on your part.

SaucyBenks:
Lol... Believe me as I'm about to tell you the truth about us men...


Almost everyman (80%) wish all girls they have agree to being friends with benefits but then, as the girl continues being nice n homely, then the man becomes convinced to take things serious with her... If left for men, friends with benefits is bae... I wish you know how good a man feels while straffing a girl who agreed to being friends with benefits

I wish you could be a man for 24 hours... This is related to why men cheat too, in a way though. And after a man takes you serious (relationship), that's why it hurts us men the most when a lady we love cheats on us... If you cheated before we even begin the relationship, dishing you without remorse won't even feel wrong one bit.

Another thing is, no matter how guys here would deny it and insult me for this, ladies listen... When a man looks at you or approaches you for the first time, if there is an easiest way to convincing you to just furk them that moment and that instant and then exchange contacts just to meet and furk, they'd do it and be contented... Forget all these guys trying to be gentle and not requesting for sex in the first meeting... They wish deep down that you'd just take them to a corner, your room, agree to ride home with him and initiate sex first... And again, any guy that rejects you, it doesn't mean he doesn't want you... Deep down he can kill that moment to get in between your slippery tight hole but would reject either for the following reasons;
"HIS DICK ISN'T WORKING
" HE'S TRYING TO MAKE YOU SEE HIM AS A GENTLE MAN
"HE'S SCARED YOU'RE POSITIVE OR HAVING A DISEASE OR WORSE, A DESTINY SNATCHER..

You will find women have this area covered very well, most just play the victim for the sake of keeping up appearances.

2dice01:
Gifted in what exactly?

I thought that was blatantly obvious?

2dice01:
i have a friend thats what she want but her male friends fall inlove/lust with her after the Benefit

She must be gifted?

MariaLavina:

Relationship is naturally a business transaction, let's not sugarcoat things.

Nigerian style , yes predominantly elsewhere not so much.

Biglittlelois:



Regardless, sex at first date doesn't portray dignity.....

That is your opinion and it matters not.

MariaLavina:

There's a difference, one is direct trade the other is indirect trade.

Money is involved in both instances so it’s basically semantics.

Whatever you want to call it

I asked this question before as I could not see the difference between a prostitute and a girlfriend. If a man has to pay you for your troubles how are you not a prostitute?

If most women did this a lot of guys would not be miserable
Simple!

Biglittlelois:



But seriously, why would a lady spread her legs on a first date? It doesn't make sense.

Process of elimination.
Why stay with a n*gga if he is terrible in bed?

ericsmith:



You are confusing yourselves ... no be when you sex drive a guy u go know d size .. so you ask guys to open there dick to you before you can date them ..wehdone

I wish I could find an iota of care
But I don’t have any so think what you want to think it changes nothing,

FortifiedCity:
Keep deceiving yourself Pamela. Decorative kor,

Like a chandelier .....or a pond with koi

ericsmith:





You mean did she not look @ his fingers ... like nigeria gurls do on 1st date

Do you just buy a pair of shoes without opening the box or trying it out for size?

FortifiedCity:
Don't be silly. She's obviously better in reasoning .

What will now happen to your toto, succulent breastsss and womb? It's like you like wastage. Repent!!!!!!

They are decorative pieces .....aesthetics if you will

FortifiedCity:
Sharap you must have kids. If you mother had decided That she wasn't gonna have kids, would you have been born?

I am not my mother

2buffagain:
OP congrats!

Baby mama life will be a life changer I'm sure.

Your congratulations are quite premature ......
Secondly why are you personalising matters?

FortifiedCity:
You don't need to hold the candle. You can easily direct the prick

I see where this is heading so let me turn your head round
1. That test is not my test
2. I am not that stupid
3. I am never having kids

She made the bad call....the fault lies with her! Did she not look before engaging?

We are never going to have a space program

Charelsz:
Blame me,see question.

Fine
It’s your fault!

FortifiedCity:
You are to blame

I am not there holding the candle while coitus is taking place how is it my issue?

So this question is for those who are in situationships or some forms of rendezvous that are not quite defined in terms of objectives and direction. And are hitting it or receiving it raw.
If this happens whose to blame?

PromiseUche:


Men wearing condoms does not fit in here
Stop shielding yourself, because you know the process I described above entails a woman's body accepting/meeting the male fluid first, before you start a process of getting rid of it

You are really not that clever are you? Ffs
Condoms contain spermicide so if you are killing the sperm based on your Nobel prize worthy argument you are committing abortion.

Dracoe:

Abortion drugs that are inserted exist ..Yea,read up on that;misoprostol and mifepriston.Can be used up to 9 weeks after conceiving,but it’s about 80% efficient.
And about vaginal pessary or intravaginal pessary used for abortions ,I just read a whole lot of pages on google and there was no place explictly saying that it can be used to terminate a pregnancy.

Vaginal misoprostol alone is used to induce a termination especially after the first trimester. You can argue all you like but I am aware it’s done on a regular basis.

Lionessza6:
But why is it always Nigerians ?

That’s a valid question I have met other nationalities in different Asian countries most go about minding their own business but our country people have a knack of doing things the unspeakable.
Next in the news it will be Thailand and Israel....things are starting to gather momentum there.

Which Nollywood movie is this?

PromiseUche:

I can't argue.
Once you try to halt, kill sperm, induce menstruation in a bid to get rid of reproduction process, it's abortion.

So men wearing condoms or pulling out before they cum are doing what exactly? Your thought process is intriguing.So if we use your argument men are also aborting?

Dracoe:

Taking postinor 2 is nowhere near abortion, it’s only when you are pregnant you can abort .Postinor 2 only prevents pregnancy after sex, if you are already pregnant there is nothing postinor 2 can do .
And I’ve never heard of people inserting drugs in the vagina to cause abortion ,that and the others are just plain dumb.

Abortion drugs that are inserted exist
A Vaginal pessary or intravaginal pessary is used in termination of a pregnancy past the 1st trimester.