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denzel2009:
Look who's talking. Infat ko inlepa ni.

Be polite and, let a kiss come with your order.

Outstrip:
       
This is serious. Are you people serious. I don't even care so much about the baby talk. It is the lying in bed and hugging his mother that is shocking to me. The fact that she was a snigle mother makes it even more disturbing. I will use my leg and kick her out of the bed and then shove her son out with her. They can go and do that nonsense in her bed. What sort of shamelessness is that. Goo goo gaa gaa my a.s.s

Gbam!!!

Guess, wat home boy jumps on?,  a snake.Massive mother of a snake,in 1 sec the thing wraps around his leg for like 5 mins,but God in his mercy made homeboy to stand so still as in the guy was frozen in shock.so all this while his friends that they sneaking  out together are calling out to him but homeboy cant move.so after like 5 mins,i think when the snake noticed no movement from the guy,it just unwraps itself from his leg & goes off, as homeboy was telling us the story

OMG! I'm 'shaking' already. I swear, if I were the one, I'd just die even before the snake hurt me. See fear! 

So share yours if you got any

I haven't been there before but I always tear up each time my mum narrates hers and she's done that over a million times.


Thank God for you . . . Not everyone was that lucky.

fireyfiona:
Hi, not really, im not trying to tear them apart, its just that, you know the two of them are always hugging and pecking eachother all the time, it makes me feel like an outsider, it makes me very uncomfortable. I have no problem with the love the share, but the physical closeness is irritating! Its like im sitting on a chair by the bed, while they are lying down hugging and whispering into each others ears and giggling, i generally get up and walk out but it upsets me.

I'd also be worried, if I were you. The issue of they were that way before you got married doesn't hold here. Certain things change as boy&girlfriend relationship becomes marriage.
Whoever he chooses to be 'close to', you musn't be left out or made to feel left out.

Keep telling him how you feel about it and, I agree, the mother needs counselling.

E get as E deh do me - Psquare

ogugua88:
Lol. You don't have to look better than another person for your opinion to be valid.

Touché!

When you two are done rolling on the floor, touching yourselves, please leave my kitchen. Customers are waiting.

REAL TRUTH:
@MissyB,,,so in all you have said what is your conclusion in a logical form?

A)There are risks involved in the traditional way of dating
B)There are also risks involved in online dating, but the risks involved in online dating surmount those in the traditional way of dating
C)Where A and B have one and the same scope, it's therefore safer and more rational to consider A.
I'm yet to have yours.

REAL TRUTH:
For every students of Economics,, its a common knowledge to know that taste and fashion changes over time,,

You'd do well not to bring Economics into this.

REAL TRUTH:
How in this world would you say that I do not understand the concept of TRADITIONAL even with clear cut explanation or definition that times and tides of the trends of the day,time or age defines what traditional implies?

Your previous comments suggested so, not I.

REAL TRUTH:
In real sense I do not see any need to respond to your posts because you re only aggravated by the fact that you can't accept or do not want admit reality of online dating.

Misconception, my dear.
I made myself clear enough in my first post on this thread. While I do not fancy cyber-dating, I do not advocate its nullification either. While O D satisfies the yearnings of some, it's causing great harm to some, too.

REAL TRUTH:
In the US and Canada,,its a way of life,,,and there are countless single sites that has met several individual needs for spouse(s). There re a couple of sites such as eHarmony,,Christian singles,,etc,,,if you re based in Nigeria,,you definately would not be able access simply because of certain people fraudulent act,,,
Now as I speak to you,,there re people(even Pastors) in Nigeria who have singles network where eligible bachellors and spinsters meet to see if there is a connection that would culminate in to love and ultimately marriage.If online dating is not pronounce activity in Nigeria,,its only going to be a matter of time.

I do not argue against the existence of dating sites, I just chose traditional dating.

REAL TRUTH:
When suggest that a young upward going young man should change his environment cos of meeting a lady of his environment,,,the question is what is the possibility of meeting with such lady in the environment he relocates to,,,when you re in a eharmony for instance where you would meet thousands of young eligible professionals looking for a spouse,,why would you want to change your environment when you can actually bring the world to your door step?

How does it sound, that out of the more than 58695786587678457658 people you've met or could meet outside the WWW, no one is suited to you?
Confidence and 'safety' are found online where no one knows you, and people would likely believe everything you say, isn't it so?

REAL TRUTH:
Funny!! Having gone through all the posts or comments here,,,One thing I discovered is the very poor and weak abilities of Nigerians to handle very intellectual and serious debates/discussion. This is a debate you can not just come here and make s statement or phrase or a sentence to prove your point.
Coming here saying its traditional or its online dating without giving very logical and intellectual submission is a clear exposure of our intellectual deliduencies,,,

What ridiculous confidence!

REAL TRUTH:
When backward people discuss on serious issues,,they would always take you backward and to the cave. Years back who would ve thought that you can chat and ve a discussion with someone from the US while you re in Africa? who would ve thought decades ago that you could actually go to the space and discover breathtaking discoveries. Who,, I mean who would ve thought that you can actually fly from Africa to US in less than 10hours?? Who in their right senses seven decades ago that you actually transmit information to all over the world in less than a second??Who would have thought that by january this year a revolution would be sweeping the Arab world via the use of internet??absolutely no one.

Excuse me, your point is?
Change happens and, rapidly at that. This is expected and normal, otherwise, the world would be stagnant and there has never been a time that the world stood still without any progress taking place.
Who equally would have thought, 20 years ago, that one could get sexual gratification from someone one has never met in person, much more known? Who would have thought that one could lose his hard earned money to a complete stranger online?
My friend, you have only succeeded in giving me advantages of the internet which is irrelevant to the topic and if you want, without reluctance, I would give you disadvantages too.

REAL TRUTH:
The traditional kind of TV set is black and white,,,people should now tell me hw many people right now ve Black and white TV even in Ajegunle??If you fail to get along with the trend of the day,,the future would definitely leave you behind.

REAL TRUTH:
If you re a traditional person,,,you should not be commenting on here using english language,,you also shouldn't be using the internet to pass your information,,the proper traditional people in Nigeria are the KOMA people and the proper traditional people in the US are the AMISH people(pls google amish, am sure that 99% of the people on NL would be coming across the word Amish for the first time).
Its hypocritical to hold claim to been traditional and you re not in real sense. If you re babe and you wear pants(jeans trousers) you re not traditional,,if you live in the city,,you re not traditional,,

I'm afraid you failed the discussion from the start. I would have addressed your posts ealier, if I knew its content . . .Fortunately, I just didn't bother to read prior to now that you drew my attention to it.
Apparently, from your comment, you do not understand what the poster meant by the term 'traditional (way of) dating'. He wasn't referring to the primitive way of dating where your gramps and grandma prolly choose your partner, as you think. But, to the customary way of dating which is strictly based on a see -me-, i -see -you- before -we -start  condition.
So, modernization really has got zilch to do with this.

REAL TRUTH:
As a guy,,a young man who is highly driven and upward going,,and he desires a wife who shares such passion,,if all the girls he sees in his neighborhood re backward driven without a focus,,,would you advise him to stick with such girls? my answer is NO!!  My personal advice is this,,Don't limit your self!!!!

Perhaps, change his enviroment?

dremoney:
we dont have to look at it that way or pretend, do we? You are now much wiser compared to years back, isnt it? Social Networking sis  and i dont get what,''Real world versus internet'', Like are we all Ghosts? Net is a world in itself and ''REAL''

Well, you cannot exactly prove to me that you're not a mere product of my imagination or a 13 year old boy typing for his gramps, dremoney or a web robot or a ghost or an old woman or a cripple etcetera. How then is the internet real, since I'm going to have to work with whatever you tell me? Blind faith huh?

Good! Now, would you be nice enough to help me do the dishes, please? I'm so tired, I need to rest.

Are you through with the fruit?

Mama gee, you shouldn't be here.

OAM4J:
You are the best jare  , will join you soonest 


BTW, that Guinness you served Alj Uche go put am for wahala o. He is  Alhaji Uche Harem from a Sharia State.

Alhaji, don't vex eh. . . . . .Return ma gulder I wan dash someone else.

OAM4J:
Missy B,

Been a while. For he next 3 days I want just fruits, all sorts. I guess your kitchen cater for that too.

I will also like to relax for a while after eating some fruits, so pls get the room ready as well 

https://howtomakefruitsalad.com/images/How_to_make_fruit_salad_1.jpg

When you're through with this, meet me in room 5. I have sum'n' to show you. 

Alj Uche:
i am ohhh

can i have bitter leave soup and pounded yam

please put poomo and dried fish in it ooo

thanks

We do not have bitter leaf soup at the moment. Please, make do with this.

https://farm5.static.flickr.com/4030/4609099029_35773b9e41.jpg

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nurabela:
more and more hot girls and guys are going on the web, and thus increasing the desire to join on-line dating because most of the hot people are on the computers these days searching online dating sites.

Blatantly false!

Although I've never been on a dating site but I've always had this notion that, those who frequent dating sites are largely people (in the late stage) of the middle age, who are actually searching (a mild way of saying desperate)  and for some reason(s),
cannot find someone in real life or wants to try something different.
I mean, less likely would a 'young', hot [as you put it] person leave all the potential
partners in real life and go online searching for a soulmate in a faceless community.
When this becomes a rising trend among young people, then there would be cause  
for alarm.

However, two individuals could meet on an ordinary site [not a dating site] and from one thing to another, start dating. This is a different situation entirely and, is cool with me whereas the 1st isn't ( with respect to young people).

nurabela:
What do you guys think of the growth of  online dating compared to  real world dating?

Young people should get off dating sites (if there are young people there) and allow the 'more advanced' in age to mingle there. It's already true, and enough problem that too much time on the 'net inhibitssocialization, it becomes pathological when one, without any impeding problem, would rather seek 'love' from faceless people than from those around him/her.

I, for one, wouldn't intentionally go seeking for love on a www.date, love and marry
me.com. If I met a dude on some site, liked him and exchanged contacts with him, having weighed every factor and we're fit to date, I wouldn't turn him down
simply because I met him online.

nurabela:
Do you think online dating has/is overtaking traditional dating?

Nah! We aren't there yet.

Traditional dating all the way.