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Her bf be like craze

Trypa:
Dear Tiwa,
Show me a marriage without
challenges and I will show you a
virgin in a maternity ward (birthing
center): Most marital crises happen
prime of the bliss. This is no
different from what our parents went
through and what we, the people
that ventured into marriage would go
through or are experiencing, these
times of our lives. These wahalas
come with “the territory”.
But what makes your palava unique
is the arena chosen to out this
perhaps usual roforofo fights: the
social media. Your celebrity status
accelerated the speed of the spread.
Everyone on social media has an
opinion, even those that don’t know
what and how you feel. Don’t blame
us, Tunji invited us. And you
privileged us gate pass to your
faltered family.
Tiwa, after watching your Pulse
television interview, I felt your pulse
and Teebillz heartbeat from a
distance. You both cried out for
help. You are hurting. Teebillz is
also hurting. He is a coke head. He
is human. The environment and
nature of your business influences
entices and encourages such social
behaviors. He stole your money:
greed… so what. Sometimes, you
take from the one you love. He must
have spent it on you and or the
family… am not giving excuses, but
Nne, words are like weapons, they
wound you sometimes.
You publicly stated, while avoiding
eye contact with the Television
camera that the marriage was over.
Tiwa, your pronouncement did not
match your body language. You are
angry. You still love him. What is
missing? you and Tee are too busy
engaged in the limelight, washing
your designers’ linens in public. The
cracks were getting deeper, but you
both did not communicate to
address your problems. Teebliz
loves you. You love him. Life can be
short or long. Love can be right or
wrong.
Mama T, go after what you love. You
are stronger than pride. Go get your
man and seek help. Take a trip to a
marriage counselor and offer him
drug rehab. You too need to go into
rehab. Forget everything. You both
love each other; hence, you reached
out to us. Tiwa, Teebliz is human.
You are also human and woman.
Those encouraging you to drop him
or let him go are not your friends.
They do not care about you and your
child. Go and get your family back
together. You both made mistakes.
It is time to seek help as a couple
and a young family. There is nothing
out here but home wreckers services
at work. Talk!. Talk!!. Talk to your
husband. I felt your pains: you are
still trapped in love. I believe he
feels the same ways too.
You stated your mother always
urged you to work things out: I think
you should listen to your mother.
Forget about the whispers, the
comments, and the silly Facebook
babbles and vitriolic nonsense from
mostly losers, on social media and
Nkworbi joints. Teebliz’s outbursts
were an attempt to open up a
dialogue with you: although he
chose the wrong platform. He
misdirected his plea to you to see
his pains and love for the family.
Your heart is young. Your love, still
fresh, Tiwa, do not be deceived by
several advisers and negative vibes
to support you. These are from
hangers-on that want to be there for
you. The truth is, they will never be
here. You do not need anyone’s
advice to mend your broken hearts
and rescue your young marriage
from collapse.
You need two hurting hearts to
meet, sit down as adults still in love,
communicate and resolve your
differences. Let your feelings show
and go. Those advising both of you
now, don’t feel the loneliness and
lonely nights under the bedsheets,
or mornings alone on the couch
remembering how love came by and
swept you off your beautiful skinny
feet, the memories of gracious and
seductive moments, the temptations
to text him, or checking the cell
phone every ring or minute, wishing
secretly that he called or text..Or
sleeping alone at nights in the bed
you both shared some silly real and
genuine moments of love, unlimited:
holding his favorite cloth or T-shirt
just to smell his body scents; the
little things both of you did in the
beginnings that made each fond of
the other, the crazy memories when
you both thanked God for making
each the other’s selection, when you
gave affection to get each’s
attention. You, my dear, can work
things out.
Don’t say it’s over. It’s not over.
You still love him. He still loves you.
To hell with what people will say.
They have already stated their worst.
They will continue to say more as
long as you’re alive and successful.
Don’t let that stop you from your
love. Mama Tee. Waka after your
man. Save your marriage and seek
help collectively so that you will
amaze the world with a second
chance at love. I wish you best as
you listen to your heart. Regards to
your lovely son. Be strong.

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