₦airaland Forum

OfficialJayy:
For you to say that medical school is almost free in Nigeria simply means schooling in Nigeria no matter the course is free.. because medicine is actually the most expensive course to study in Nigeria, and lets not forget the number of years people spend in med school these days.. imagine spending a whole 6-9 years of your life reading book.. imagine going for clinics between 8-1pm.. then going for classes 2-5pm, then coming back for night calls by 6-till you're done.. then in all, you will still try and figure in times to read your gigantic textbooks.. one nelson pediatric textbook in medicine is more than the combined textbooks of some 4years courses.. then after all the stress, insults, unnecessary expectations,,, you will still expect someone to be earning 5k as hazard allowance.. you try oo.. God bless you

if motivation is only financial then doctors in Nigeria are not patriotic and are too dull to compete. Doctors in Cuba are one of the lowest paid in the world but are one of the best in terms of practice.

Drchindo:
U call them ungrateful while senators collect over 2M+ plus as hazard allowance for just sitting down

The only qualification required to become a senator is secondary school cert. Go join them and earn you 2M+. Even the doctors can join if its easy.

ahnie:
Confused human beings.

all you do is to yap nonsense. You think governance is like going to the market to buy fufu.

dre11:
https://dailytrust.com/photo-el-rufai-kneels-before-buhari-at-aso-rock

this is tradition period.

Xscape1993:
May crisis never cease from APC. APC and crisis will continue to be friends. I never believed the evil party proganda for one minute.

talking stupid and rubbish. Attack the message. If it does not make sense say it, not this rubbish.

cherishmichael:
Abegi gettat!!
Over sabi!!

when you try to educate low intelligent human beings they resort to insult

cherishmichael:
See confirm country this is what they call country, But go and watch the one a Nigerian female soldier proposed to a cop Guy or cop guy proposed to a female soldier anyone sha!! they just disgrace the both of them giving nonsense law nonsense rule.

you people like talking rubbish. The female officer was on duty not off duty. She was being proposed to by her assignment which is wrong. What she would have done was to have cautioned the proposer reminding him of her duty. There are so many things you don't do while in uniform that you see as a non issue. Like you don't drink, you need to behave yourself etc. Yes, so many officers are guilty of these actions but that does not mean it is right. Nobody is saying she cannot be proposed to in uniform while off duty/assignment.

Kriss216:
You didn't add Tinubu and his bullion vans that was left off the hook .

before you spew trash, can you tell us what's inside the bullion van that requires the owner of its content to be arrested? Or is it a crime to hire a bullion van? Rubbish.

Emeka511:
Na them... This topic is really for you...
Once you mk sex ur daily routine nothing will be upstairs apart from sex...

I don't have time to suffer fools.

Legendguy:
Who have noticed that fulanis herdsmen killings and farm encroachment is hardly Reported this days unlike in the past where days won't pass without hearing of fulani herdsmen for the wrong reason.
Even nairaland is no longer reporting their atrocities.

Could this be as a result of recently passed anti grazing law?

Or they calmed down cos of election?

there was nothing like a fulani herdsmen issue. It was a propaganda by PDP to humilate the government.

binarymachine:
Source: https://flipmemes.com/2021/11/17/5-reasons-why-having-a-high-body-count-as-a-lady-is-bad/

the problem with this your long epistle is that you are viewing women from their vagina. As if women are all about vagina and nothing more. We
African's see sex as everything. We sleep sex, eat sex, work sex, think sex, Instead of thinking of what a woman has upstairs (brain) you are thinking of how many dick has gone through her privates. Does that change anything or the price of garri in the market?
Sex is nothing. Fvck 100 prick, it does not change who you are.

Brexxit:
Osinbanjo the lying pastor,he is a disgrace to the christian community and the Nigerian nation.

Man is too weak to rule a nation like Nigeria.

He owes the Nigerian nation an apology for fake promises he and his boss made to Nigerians.

see one of them. They claim to be democrats but their heart is indeed wicked and full of envy. You owe nigerians an apology for this nonsense you wrote.

Supreme145:
There is this motion that giving birth to children is an achievement in this country. I see young guys in mid and late twenties rushing into marriage while they are barely standing on their feet. From someone that comes from a family of 10 I'm sure if my dad is given a second chance he won't give birth as much children again. Let me share some of my experiences as regards giving birth without proper planning or sustainable income.

I've a neighbor in my compound, he's 32 and in his final year in the university, I can hardly have decent conversation with him without hearing about how he wants to get married. I would always remind him that he's living in a one room apartment, still a student without a strong source of income, but he would counter me saying that he can always start small and grow with his wife. Moreover when he gives birth he would have an investment.

I've have another friend that was a classmate in secondary school, he graduated the year I got admission though he had some issues with his results. One day he called me that he's married and I was surprised, though he is an artisan into all those parapets and pop stuffs I know he wasn't financially buoyant enough to carry a family. The last time I visited him he was looking malnourished and unable to sort out his issues in school almost four years after because according to him any money that he gets already has a pending issue waiting for it. He's looking far older than his elder brother who's still single, he looks 38 when he's just 30. He consoled himself by telling me that even if he doesn't have money he already has two kids which he sees an investment and a great achievement. Meanwhile they are cramped into a single room apartment and none of the kids are enrolled in school.

Last week while we were training in the evening, an argument broke out between two young guys. I was just by the side observing what was happening, I kept hearing stuffs like....why you dey argue with that guy? you no know say na person father he be? that guy don born two children o abi you think say e easy to born, na big achievement be that o. Now this is a guy that is about 25 years and has no sustainable means of income, he works in peoples farms and other menial jobs to make ends meet.

My next door married neighbor has become a torn in my flesh, he's always borrowing from me without paying so it's obvious he's struggling financially, factor in the constant arguments with his wife due to shortage of funds all the time. I once asked him why rushed to get married without a good source of income and he bluntly told me that he had always been broke while he was single and still broke now that he's married the only difference is that he can boast of his kids as an achievement unlike when he was single that he had nothing to boast of.

I have no issues what so ever with how anyone choose to life their life but considering the economic condition of this country now bringing in kids without proper plans is not the way to go. If my dad had given birth to maybe 3 kids I'm sure he wouldn't be stressed out the way he is now and the resources used in training 8 kids would be better managed on just 3kids.

Personally I feel that one of the surest way to perpetual poverty as a young guy is to get married while struggling financially. Like one of the examples above, he cast aside his personal development and aspirations just to cater for his family. Supposing he's still single I'm sure he would have cleared he's outstanding school fees and maybe get his certificate.

Well since I'm still single and still struggling I don't judge anybody, every mallam to his kettle. As for me no marriage till I'm financially stable enough to afford at least 3 bedroom flat, a small car and substantial savings. It would be an abomination for me to bring a child into this world to pass through the kind of life I had growing up.

like you rightly said, all mallam with him kettle. You cannot plan life. Live it as it comes. Let me tell you a story. In 1997, when I was in year 3 in a 5 years course, there was this friend of mine who impregnated his girlfriend and insisted on her delivering the baby. It was not easy for this guy and we were laughing at him. We said all what you just said. No marriage or children until ego arrive. Today, that guy has a graduate daughter while us laughers are still with 8 and 9 years old kids at 50. Also, you can have a good job, thinking all is well, get married and then get sacked from work. Do you then send your wife and kids away? Life is not all about what you have but about the potentials and belief in you. That is what makes you a man. If you say you want to make it first, we don't pray for failure but what if you don't make it or it comes very late, then to what end.

Very simple. Right now, your wife still thinks like a single lady. Give your wife belle. After she born finish and this nonsense still dey continue, sit her down and let her know the implication of a broken marriage to a woman with child. Let her know that if there is a divorce, you will take your child from her. Nobody go tell her to sit up.

yanabasee2:
Lai Mohammad made his way into this report....



The report concluded that there was no killing..... How can this be?


The people claimed that soldiers killed this people and took away their bodies....

The panel asked the people to come out to tell the world that their sons or daughter left for the protest and it's yet to return... The people claimed that they're being threatened....


If the government wants this to work.... thy should allow people to really come out with the real evidence and not try to shut the real people with evidence down...

This report is as good as nothing..... Just like Giwa who got killed for nothing ...

I pray that one day, we will take back this country by force and we will restore sanity and good morals....

rubbish. The same people that went to the deputy governor's office to protest. An office that is guarded by the military, mopol, dss, swat and npf put together. These people went there to protest! They even slept on the road tarmac. These are the people that are afraid of sending a petition or attending a panel. Make una use that brain small now.

Mercychen:
Hi fam.

Something has been bothering me of late and leaving me emotionally and mentally stressed and drained for the past weeks and I'm cut between the devil and the deep blue sea.

There's this bro we're trying to see if we can work things out. though, I never really wanted anything relationship again or at least for now until I'm decided later in the future on what I really want for myself.

Before, I delve into the main discuss , let
me quickly highlight how it all started.

Some months back, My publisher came to deliver the books I ordered for. So while sorting the books, he just got teasing me like " Babes, na wa o. What's up with your romantic life now?. I've never seen you pulling with anyone. It's always work, biz Money money money I see you pursuing. Lol... I just told him, guy, free me abeg and I went on counting the books at the boot of his car.

He now walked up to me and said, on a more serious note, what is happening? So I told him it's a personal choice cos I dont have the strength for relationship brouhaha now. He agreed with me that truly its not easy and even as a married man, he too feels the heat but the good thing is, he married in the Lord. So I should choose wisely from among the brethren.

So he said, he has this family friend, an eligible bachelor, who wants a decent lady and I'm the one that comes to mind each time the guy mentions it because since he's be dealing with me, he can vouch that I'm a very honest, hard-working and decent lady. So he would want the bro to have me.
That was how I got to meet bro.

Now fastforward to the main reason of this post.
There was this particular day we tripped out to cool off and discuss about US. So we got talking and planning on how to build our home in a way that we will not be caught unawares with some setbacks and unplanned responsibilities. So the issue of children came up and I suggested we have only one, which he reluctantly accepted after much convincing. So we tried to look at ways we can maintain that decision and I suggested a vasectomy. citing the possibilities of health risks (as a result of mismatches ) and failures that might occur if the family planning is done on me but with vasectomy, no issues. He looked me in the eyes and said, "my darling" no!

I was dumbfounded.... And became a little worried because, if he has no plans of having more children, why would he kick against the idea of a vasectomy?

If we are going to be one and follow one course, why shying away from a plan that will benefit us as a couple and a family?


Could it be, he only agreed to have one with me and plans to have more else where?
Is vasectomy a life threatening condition?

I was still trying to wrap my head around his refusal, when he said, it will be done on you ( the family planning). That instant, I felt all alone, like im on my own. So I told him I needed to cool off, and he said feel free.
I left the tent and went to the waters prentending to be playing with the water. He came and dragged me out of the water. we strolled without a word and I asked him to take me home. He did.

He called when he got home. I was cold to him so, he promised to call again but since then Ive refused to pick his calls or reply his texts.

The big question is ..
WHY DID HE BLUNTLY REFUSE A VASECTOMY?

COULD HE HAVE ULTERIOR MOTIVES?

IS IT NOT BETTER TO OPT OUT NOW THAN PRETEND I DIDN'T GET THE MESSAGE AND END UP IN REGRETS?

WHAT DOES IT MEAN WHEN A MAN KICKS AGAINST VASECTOMY?

the guy is very right to have refused that your so called vasectomy. Yes. You want one child, have one child and stick to it. Don't force other to do what they don't want. Tomorrow, when both of you have issues, you will be the one that will start insulting a man you deceived into becoming a eunuch. You cannot eat your cake and have it. At least, after one child why do you want to keep your reproductive organs? Ok....... So that tomorrow when run away with another man you would not be termed infertile.

NovesaTillie:
The parents who abandoned their 12 year old in a boarding school have failed woefully in parenting and should be arrested and charged for negligence and murder

so sending a child to boarding school now means abandonment? it seems you don't have a brain.

Ammishaddai:
People were killed and this evil government is hiding it through intimidation and threats . But God who lives forever will surely visit those who are covering this matter with death

they were afraid to testify before the panel but bold enough to go to the deputy governor's office to protest. What is it they want to tell the governor that they cannot tell the panel

Omooba77:
https://www.facebook.com/1340173454/posts/10225808466261925/

this man is ranting like a small dog. He does not know why the panel came about in the first place. The panel was set up because endsars protesters claimed over 78 person were killed at "the lekki tollgate". The government of Lagos state, the FG and everyone know that after rumours of a massacre which led to a riot, there were deaths and injuries. These protesters burnt government properties, private properties, killed and maimed policemen and innocent citizens, and so much more. So what is this unqualified lawyer saying? That Lagos state should not pay compensation to these victim of circumstance?
Mr lawyer, for the last time, the LASG is saying that there were no deaths at the tollgate on 20/10/2020 between the time of 6pm to 9pm when the army left. The LASG is not saying there were no deaths after the riot started.

JOemmy:
This country will definitely crumble like packs of cards some day u can't build a nation on lies, deceit and wickedness.

Rubbish talk. Only in nigeria people talk rubbish about their country. You think its greener on the other side? You be still small pikin.

cuteralph101:
It's a difficult thing to bring out a panel report without errors. Why did LCC refused to give the camera recordings? Why was it removed. This is something questionable however government wants to take this they can't cover this lie. They can fault the report all they want. Someone who was shot can't bear witness? Sick. Sick. Doctor that treated gunshot injuries aren't saying the truth? How else can one go in unraveling the event at Lekki Toll gate.

you're still asking why why why when the report has been submitted? Where were you when the panelists called for petitions from the public?
Ok Z Z Z.

jaynom009:
I get video too buh if I publish am Dem go say na fake

publish am first make we see. At least, even if people say it is fake, their conscience will say otherwise. Conscience is like an open wound. Only the truth can heal it. We need the truth.

Theunbothered:
Hoodlums were attacking protesters, bystanders and burning properties days before the massacre even happened.

Now who has the short memory.

At least you admitted that you are a bloodthirsty person who loves seeing Nigerians, who weren't even involved in the destruction, killed by the same people sworn to protect them.

It should help onlookers easily make up their minds on who's wrong here.

who burnt the tollgate and on what day? Your memory is too short

Theunbothered:
If people are killed why isn't anybody in prison yet?

Are you that happy to see Nigerians killed by the military and police?

yeah, you guys have short memories. Yes. After spreading lies that a massacre was taking place at the lekki tollgate. Hoodlums started burning government properties and killing people indiscriminately. Now you accuse government of the killings.

Help2020:
Saying nonsense as usual without evidence to back it up.They gave you names,if the names are actually not victims prove here instead if yarning nonsense.

who is jide, tola or wisdom? Are these the names of goats, dogs or monkeys? Rubbish

Help2020:
It take the panel 1 year of painstaking investigation to arrive at the conclusion that there was a massacre with the names of victims published. But it took Lagos Government 2 weeks to undo the report of the panel which got released after a year. This government is a miracle government.

yeah. The miracle performed by the panel were too hard to swallow. Pray tell, why put imaginary names like jide, tola and wisdom with no link whatsoever to anyone home or abroad in a report. Why claim living people as dead. Those panelists went there to eat awuf money. On realizing that the panel was coming to an end they just wrote some rubbish as if they've done a good job.

FuckkME:
so wo are those that Sanwo Lou visited at the Hospital

get this into your dense skull. There was a riot in the lekki area after the stupid endsars protesters spread rumour that people were being massacred at lekki toll gate. Even the tollgate was burnt that day. Policemen and innocent bystanders were murdered by these hoodlums called protesters. Sanwo olu had to visit some of the injured and those that were murdered by protesters/hoodlums.

DropsMic:
..

All our problems are Self inflicted.

Igbos do not want to be part of Nigeria.. The solution dey simple organize a referendum and if the majority vote for it you allow them go. But trust the black man to always choose the hard way out. blood must be spilled. Same thing is happening in Cameroon, Ethiopia and many other countries in Africa. Our ways are just different. Everything about us is just different.

taa! Speak for yourself. Igbos don't want to leave Nigeria. Infact they would rather die than leave.

masterflowx:
Pictures of Donald Trump's that you're show us here is just one picture that was edited. Likewise, Jonathan pictures.

Unlike Bubu's pictures that was taking in separate offices.

Use your brain Mr Man.

you be mumu. Take two different pictures of the same person. Mirror them , pick one of each and join them together. Mumu.

Haters will always castigate. In 2006,OBJ set up a judicial panel of enquiry to investigate Atiku. Atiku was indicted. He went to court to challenge his indictment and the court pronouncement was that a judicial panel was not a law court. With all the lies in that report, it cannot stand even the simplest of test. It is a scam

Karmaisme:
You need to be in a cage because you reason less than my German Shepherd.

see one of them . when their brain capacity is that of a slowpoke and they cannot answer the question, they result to insult

Eriokanmi:
The parents I told you about are a proof. Their Children went to lekki and they've been there with protesters from day one . One of them was a journalist under internship and had been recording events from day one. Don't worry we have enough video and pictorial evidence. We're only choosing our words carefully at this stage, to avoid being attacked by the government of the day cos their dogs are everywhere. As you can see , one of the panel members was attacked openly and lying critically ill as we speak. so, they're that desperate. When the right time comes we shall meet in court .

Mind you, if you know Lai Muhamed, tell him to choose his words carefully because he might end up at the Hague. The CNN he's been attacking aren't stupid. FYI, I was at kekki myself and very active. CNN was visibly seen with their drones covering events from day one they had copies of all the events from when the military came and left. We invited a couple of foreign media as well so we were so organised. Those bodies taken away by the military was the reason Lai was insisting that no massacre took place. The military must produce them by fire by force else they'd know that nobody is above the law in the world criminal court. They should learn from world leaders who are eating beans in prison today. Justice will be served , I promise you this.

Just calm down. There's no need to argue over anything. Just what as events unfold.

TRAAAAAASH! your statement is full of rubbish. A judicial panel of inquiry was set up to investigate this your stupid massacre for a whole year. Now you're coming up with this silly " we have the video and pictoral evidence and we are choosing our words carefully so that the government does not bla bla bla". this is the rubbish of the year. Why can't you leak the videos or pictures, why didn't you submit the evidence secretly? Now you have evidence! Mister please go and eat your evidence. Even goats have owners who look for them when they get lost.