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i seriously hate this silent treatment thing, the lady has no way of guessing when it's going to end or what he's thinking so she'll be constantly on edge and that's enough punishment on its own. I'm not in anyway implying that she doesn't deserve some form of discipline for her actions but the man should come out of his cocoon and let them decide if their marriage would survive or not, the earlier they start-the better.

dude was already tipsy otherwise I see no sense in him walking out on his wife-to-be and her family. no matter the attitude they put up, there's always room for negotiation and besides he's the one who needs a wife so no need for the haughtiness.

^^^^ some guys really don't have a clue unlike women who are born with natural maternal instincts except for very few who choose to deaden theirs.

interesting, kudos to the writer

Sounds like fiction to me

nerodenero:
Four years on,I don't think Jonathan can pull enough votes from the north again.Jonathan has really failed many but I doubt Buhari is the right man to take over.

Inasmuch as we seek change, we should bear in mind that posterity will judge us at the end.Whoever ends up in Aso Rock should serve the people and not his pocket because Nigerians are tired of bad leadership.

I concur, GEJ has really failed several Nigerians and I don't see Buhari being the knight in shining armor either but as for posterity judging anyone, tell it to the marines.

there should be a better explanation, this sounds absurd. how can two grown men drown just like that?

i wouldn't put anything past these nollywood or yoruwood people, they are highly capable of rubbishing this movie like others they've done in the past. smh for the Nigerian movie industry tho

Hahaa..these people aren't serious, what was the need for the drama?

babyosisi:
Buying that for a little girl is like buying your daughter a demon
Who wants a faceless doll

I concur darling..bless you

God knows I really love to laugh..thanks to all contributors

neoapocalypse:
Wait! she got married to Daddy Jesus ?

she also wrote "most happiest"..maybe it's all the excitement that's making her type like this.

such wickedness exhibited at his tender age, may God help him

this is good information...thumbs up op

Lol Op, you are funny jare..

In creating this, I think the essence of the child owning a doll has been ultimately destroyed. A doll is supposed to look like a human being, it should be all or nothing. Can't imagine growing up with faceless dolls..totally not nice

I admire this lady, takes a lot of courage to totally accept 'the other woman' the way she has..can't imagine this happening in our beloved country though

they are both so cute

i do not really buy the idea, your son may become a stranger to you by the time he finally gets back to you. if it is financial constraint, why not let your hubby save up enough for the three of you before you join him?

congrats, happy married life in advance

naijaboiy:
Still no "LIKE" yet?

Hehehehe..this thread is rib-cracking, can't stop laughing

Infomizer:
It still is..

I agree

it started for a good cause

Wow still trudging on...

@op, can't your friend apply for a loan at his office or from his bank?? What's the point of coming here to ask for a loan on his behalf?

I think you should just steer clear of anything that concerns her, she may be seeing you as her enemy already-getting news like this across to her can even result in more resentment. You've already confirmed her ungratefulness, another lesson isn't necessary. Remember once bitten, twice shy. Goodluck!

Lovely..your story is just wonderful and inspiring. I wish you both all the best life has got to offer :-)

Since she isn't bothering you for any aid and you've been financially responsible from day one, I really see no reason why u shouldn't let sleeping dogs lie. If she's as vile as you claimed earlier, then you may expect more trash-talks the moment you start paying her monthly or after you give her the lump sum.

Sweetie please tread with caution okay? There are already tell-tale signs of deceit and you have to get to the bottom of it all and conclude wisely. If I were in your shoes, I'd be a bundle of nerves by now..lol... Its not easy finding out disturbing news about someone with whom you might have already envisioned a future together. Keep asking him for answers, this is not a time for him to be unresponsive and if he still refuses to give you clear answers or he claims you are disturbing yourself or him, please calmly move ahead.

Well I thank God the man at least kept them together in a school instead of scattering them among relatives as helps. He deserves to be jailed..a man who's this heartless, who knows if their mother doesn't even know what this man has done with her kids-he may equally have refused to divulge information about their whereabouts to her. I really hope a responsible family member sees this and alerts the whole family to the situation.