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greyboy5000:
really!
Now you see the world like a ruler with straight edges
As if anything is certain, as if love is easy to find like a cup of rice
You mean the lady should leave like that and find a sucessful guy like the nigga is just waiting to be bought off the market

So what happens if these richer guy were to loose his money or source of fund immediately they started dating
Don't tell me because i know your answer; the lady should move to another sucessful guy
You know what society call those type of ladies that move around looking for gold

On the insults
You need to read where she painted the picture of a broke guy in her post and come back to tell me how she was glorify them

NwaAmaikpe:



Ice Prince has been at the recieving end this year.

First Maima dumped him,

Then Davido beat him up,

Now HushPuppi has trashed him...


Worst still, he has not dropped a hit.

This is so much for the failed rapper. He should just quit music and become a barber.

Tapout:

Brooke60:
I need space please.....I want to faint!
Try this in this century and die immediately.

realpoacher:
I will be very blunt with you. There is nothing you can do for her to dump the guy for you.

Reason:
She has "FELT" the guy's pain/sweetness over time coupled with him being her first love for so long that she has been caught in his spurned web. In a nutshell, she has crossed the Rubicon - a stage of no return.

Forget about what she tells you. Right now she is not in control of her emotions, the guy is actually(even though she doesn't know this or will not admit it, but her actions are obviously telling the true story).
As a matter of fact, she is actually using you to pass time and will always run along when daddy(her boyfriend) comes calling. Even if she breaks up with the guy, your paroles with her won't work. No matter what you do or don't do it won't work. In gamers word... The guy don press her MUMU button.


Only feasible solution:
From my experience, the only person who can save her from the guy is She herself by herself. Whenever she reaches her saturation point only then will she break free from his spell and begin to view the world through her own eyes. That is when she can be free. Even after that, she will need enough time to heal first before you can begin to date her.

*Remember that she has to reach that saturation point only on her own Accord. Devoid of your interference. In order words, do nothing to help her rather do everything to help yourself,like becoming very selfish in all things*

My advice:
Forget her for now and move ahead. But if she always comes around you or call you, relate very well with her but drop all these Mr Nice Guy attitudes and be very firm. If you have the opportunity fuucck her well and be emotionless about it. Whatever you do henceforth, do not prioritize her and go get other girls worth your attention. Careless about her paroles with the other guy, infact refuse to listen to his gist anymore.

I didn't say that you should be rude o! Or that you should start giving attitude like a sulking adult baby o!... I said maintain normal paroles with her, laugh, play and crack jokes but be firm with what you want, drop Mr nice guy attitudes, zero her from your mind that this can't work and go find someone else for yourself.

If in between things work out fine for the you two fast.. Fine! But if not... Fine too!... All that matters is that you won't babysitting an adult who doesn't know what is good for her.

My humble two cents

Ussy4real:
Kemen be feeling like a celeb..we never forget o!!!

swaystunna:
Shout out Harddon nd all gurus.
The thread is the shii, ive read from page 1 to this point.
I must say my thinking av really changed.
I av a lil ish i need yall input on. Here it goes!
Thrs this choir girl in chch i av been eyeing for a while, buh ive nt had the opportunity to approach her cos she stays the whole services nd they go home late.
Cut long story short, i met up with her sunday after close of one the services, went to buy smetin nd thr she was coming, herez hw the conversation went
ME: Hey u look familiar, she smiled, i said u look that one beautiful girl that disturbs me in my dream that she wants to marry me.

HER: laffs* ur funny, sorry good morning.

ME: morning dear, *i actually got stuck* dint knw wuh ti say next i js said hey im in a hurry, brought out my fone. Told her input ur digits, wld contact u on hw mch groom price cost, she laughed nd typed her number. I left.

Nw based on this logistics, i need to if thrs a way i messed up + im supposed to call her soon (after 2days). Pls i need cocky funny lines on hw to push the conversation on the call nd wuh to do next.

Thanks.

DaCharis2016:
HARDDON, dnt u fink diz one; "I dont want her to fall in luv wit me too n hv your dad come knockin down my door" so arrogant?

Newboss:
You were not qualified. Shell is highly competitive and usually pick the best amongst the best applicants. I guess you were the least amongst the least applicants . Sorry

ModCaller:
You're right. They are hoes meant for sex and babies.

Just use her and dump her. No time for love.

But the problem is that I am in love with a girl right now. LMAO LWKMD

Redman36:
lazy army man...see how u bring ur children into dis world come gbese leave them.

Opinionated:
I am sure many Nairalanders suffer from Nomophobia.

LordOfSamosa:
Guy make we talk truth, you worwor sha that your ex must be the queen of ugly.

Nor vex o, but i gat to say the truth..

KINGROLAND1:
20yrs in nollywood. even satan will not tell such lie.

daewoorazer:
[color=#995500]You my friend,

you see, here in d zanga, we dont chase such chicks away, we just take our mind off them, continue d pretence of love and continue fvkcing them till God knows wen.


Now do d above while u search for a loyal chick


thank me later.


#zanga[/color]

Feranchek:
bros you don madt finish!! Lmfao!!!! We go need you for 'awon weyrey gang' na your type we need! Iamkingzlee coman see this guy!

Padiimii:
Firstly, I have to admit I created a new account to get this much needed help.
Ok, So I met my girlfriend sometime last year and just recently we celebrated our 1 year anniversary as lovers.
Truth be told, she is an amazing personality; submissive, loving, caring, intelligent and hardworking. Infact, she's got a large portion of attributes that any man would want in a woman.
When we first met, I noticed really that she has alot of online friends whom she usually chat with as close friends (or maybe lovers sha). I kept cool thinking it ll just pass when things get serious between us. During this period she told me how she got close with one of those online guys that she requests porn clips from him. Fortunately or unfortunately, I know this guy ( he is my friend gan sef), I just allowed the matter lay low and warned her never to ask him or any other guy for such things as it reduces the respect any person has for the lady and she promised not to. This is because I dont want anyone disrespecting and disregarding her whenever she s been introduced to family and friends.
Alas! I caught my babe, requesting porn video from another of her online friends (I don't know this guy tho..) Once more. She assured me that she just did it coz she hasn't seen this guy before so its safe to ask him, Unlike the previous guy that they do see.
After this occurrence, I ve caught her flirting with friends on facebook messenger to the extent that they refer to her as 'my love' some even call her 'my wife'. More saddening is that some of them are mutual friends and are guys I really know. She claims they are the ones disturbing her and she has no feelings for anyone of them except me ; Her First love.
Fast Forward to present day, we started having a bigger issue now which is about to bring the relationship to halt. Four days back while we were chatting she asked if I know any guy answering so so name. I check my friends list and answered NO. That question kept pondering my heart so I decided to log into her facebook account. (I Later got to know her password after I helped her change password once). I came to understand that the guy she just asked about and herself had just been friends and as usual, she is showing this guy green light and flirting seriously with him (someone that she's yet to see o and just met for that matter)..
I decided to break the relationship. But surprisingly she kept reaffirming me that there s nothing between her and the guy that its just facebook friendly chatting.

PLEASE ladies and matured people in the house. Is it really possible that she actually mean what she is saying? do ladies still really behave this way after which they are in a relationship with someone they claim to love Or maybe I am the one overeacting here?
EDAKUN EPP ME

AggressiveFucker:
Abegiii

boobz na boobz


i dont give a damn if uve got lemon like boobz or water melon like boobz
so far uve got a pussy good for aggressive fuckin am good

squash47:
Big breast na achievement na im ma grandma no carry award...tcheew,see as e be like pawpaw...
sha if u gimme,i go suck o,

me self like better thinq

carzola:
Afonja and farm

Just like 5&6.

HARDDON:
DRILL NUGGET 16 :
No Sex Before Mariage

So you just met a new gurl. Finely Pick packed perfect! Having almost all you ever wished for in a woman including a sleek sense of homour, fashion fitted with Wit n a dazzling aura.

Her smile lit up d whole heart room. When u hug her, it feels like butter melting into d embrace of a wantom meatloaf . You think alike, bond in brains n flow in grace.
Every word drop from her sparks your thinking cap to life. Every pose pitch perfect, every touch softacore! Dazzling wit her kitchen skills, wud rather luv to make u a meal than u guys meal out! Respectful

Every day after hanging out, u lift up ur head n thank d heavens for bringing her ur way!
N u want nothing more than this angel in human cloak of flesh. U r enchanted

martineverest:
well said bro.... As an edo man, our Oba will never do this

Temysteve:
did you even know if your father marry ur mother?

EaglesT:
We call them PapiSmith