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dangerousdaddy:
Good evening people. Please don't mind my English. My post is actually out of pains and frustration and i may not type with the correct words.

I'm a 31 years old guy. I'm actually very bad with spending because when i have money, whoever asks from me gets. I am under alot of pressure lately especially from those around me. I am the 1st child of my parents and have so many responsibilities.

I got my girlfriend pregnant and she moved in with me. My parents were never there for me so i vowed i was going to be there for my kids. Hence i do all i can to make sure my daughter and her mum are OK.

The girl in question is a torn in my flesh. Totally different from when we were dating without a child. Nowadays, as soon as i get my salary, she wants to buy this, she wants to buy that even though she knows i receive less than a 100k and i have multiple loans i am paying back because we moved out of our old apartment due to space constraints especially after she delivered.

Whenever i don't have money, there is never a happy moment in my home. But if i come home and bring money, we become very good friends. She wants to live a good life which is not wrong but I feel when she knows how i am managing, she ought to understand and bear with me.

The last straw that broke the camel's back was, i was yet to be paid, i had 700 with me. I gave her to make some food because we had the basic food stuff in the house.... Rice, beans, ogbono, spaghetti, garri, Egusi.... Palm oil. So basically all she had to buy was fish or something to put inside the food.

I came home after a hard day at work and met an empty kitchen. When I asked for my food, she asked me what i expected her to cook with 700 naira. I got so mad and left the house but since it was late (it was close to midnight), i decided to come back. In my anger, i started asking her why she's treating me badly. And the next thing is, she called her mum to say I'm fighting with her and that i pushed her to the ground. Her mum replied and said that if anything happens to her daughter, she would hold me responsible. That she didn't give me a wife......

Now I feel i should just end everything and let's go our separate ways before it becomes a case of domestic violence. I never want to see my child grow up to see me fighting with her mum always and being unhappy. I believe a child that grows up in an unhappy home is always at a disadvantage. Please help me guys. I am in pains.

I hope this makes front page

na wa o.

Lol. Kerosene of 100 naira?

konjifide:
Make una help me out na like this job wey i dey manage this man don decide to close am o.

Abeg make person help me i wan go into learning of Barbing then i go use the night learn small coding but like this i no even get shishi to start.
I need to get form 1k and pay upfront of 5k and subscription to start learning my IT skills through youtube videos but i no get shishi.




Big men make una help me abeg make me sef blow small bcus like dx even as i dey see ladies i no even fit approach them for Bleep bcus i no get job to boost my self esteem...

Please bosses help me out with some token to start i know say scammers don spoil things for us that need help.

Pls help a young nigga in his early 20s

How many hours you go learn the barbing?

Billionsclub:
There is a trend I created sometime ago about a twin in my street who are orphans. I said they have not been going to lessons since the covid19. so I decided to employ someone to be teaching them even though it was going to be easy considering the fact that I am a teacher. I won't be chanced to teach them because I take home lessons in different houses.
I finally employed someone to teach them but the person employed to be teaching them complained to me that they were not ready to learn,so I went to the twin and the grandmother they are staying with, and spoke to them that they should change but they refused. I did spoke to them on two occasions but they refused to change. The teacher I employed told me that once one of them is not ready,the other one will follow suit. I even promised to buy them biscuits, just to encourage them. But they didn't change. I had to stop the teacher because they were not ready to learn.
Should I take them to the private lessons I am taking or should I take them to a lesson where people are much ? on a second thought, the parents of the children I am taking for home lessons may not accept, because they prefer private lesson teacher to enable you concentrate on their kids. These twins are like 5-6 years old. They are orphans. They live in a one room in my street at Ikpoba Hill Benin. What is the best thing to do?

Ignore them. Them go wise up las las.

The effrontery

Abort immediately

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Nawa o

Lol

Red mud...

Mihzwhitesutana:
Hello.i don't know how to really start this thread but I will try my best to explain. I started my teaching career in 2019 after job hunting with nothing coming. I applied to a school and I was able to manage the salary while applying for other jobs. Since that was part of my intention for taking the job.

Since I have been teaching, I haven't been able to go for other interviews. The proprietress of the Primary school I work made it categorically clear that school opens 7 and any teacher that comes after 7:30 is late and we close 3:30 except on Fridays.

There were days I went to work hungry without nothing to eat and being tempted to share in my pupils food but I quickly remind myself that it's the height of stupidity... the devil is really strong. Sometimes I wish I had a laptop or a good phone so that I can learn how to work online. Since I used to see such post on Nairaland.

Since 2019 I have been teaching, I can't even point to clothes or anything I have been able to save while teaching except the joy seeing the kids brings to me. All my shoes are spoilt on this same job and I can't even afford to replace them. I can't even say anything about my clothes that are either torn or worn-out.

The height of it was before the covid. Even before the lockdown in march, we were paid half salary which is 7500. We were hoping to get the remaining and then covid happened. I have been borrowing to survive and depending on people I should be the one helping. I am posting this out of pain. I have seen other people who are private school teachers like me posting but I have been shy about it because asking people for assistance is really hard and people make mockery of one.

I had no money nor nothing to eat today, except I had to prepare the remaining hot water starch and little sugar I had left. The starch I used to make use for my old clothes was what I ate. Things are really hard and I have been borrowing to keep alive. I am hungry and have nothing on me. Please I need your help help

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Touching stort

I recommend divorce.

WTF

Go village go ask.

Nice.

I weigh 100kg.
How much mass am I resisting?