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enyinna4:
Hello people, my friend works in the bank and also running her post graduate program in the same state. She will be starting her exams very soon but her boss won't allow her go for it, and she has been pleading with her (boss) but to no avail, now she(my friend ) is contemplating on resigning.

Please advice me on what to tell her. 'Jobs no easy to come bye oh.'

Isn't she part of a trade union that can help her? Her boss cannot simply say no without sound reason.

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Niklausa:
First of all, don't quote me if you don't know how to quote someone. You don't expect me to edit your posts all the time before I quote you.

You are so naïve, gosh. So you haven't heard of people whose business empires crumbled in just 24hours? Or do you want me to take you on a little trip through history?

Why would I waste my time being a gentleman to silly ladies like yourselves. Like I have always opined, you ladies are not worth me stressing myself over.
You keep on saying "possessed rat", "possessed rat". It seems you are very conversant with such a being, or do you have such as a sibling?

I don't need to observe any of you before dating you. You all are all the same.
But guess what, all guys like me do is use, fvck and dump you, because we know you are not useful in anyway.

I replied the original post in that manner, because it didn't sound sensible and reasonable.

since we are all the same on a scale of 1-10 just how worthless are your mother and sisters? unless they are men

Niklausa:
Look at you. You see how childish your reasoning is. See your mouth like "enough investments". What do you know?
Haven't you heard of people whose investments crumbled in a day?

my parents havent complained about me being a full time student, so why is it giving you high blood pressure? If you make good investments you dont crumble in a day.



[Quote] 'Insulting' you is for your own benefit. So that you will have small sense and act and think properly and differently.
I am looking for a girl who would earn my respect. And they are only few. Ladies like you that flood this forum are a huge testament to the fact that those kind of ladies are almost extinct.[/quote]when you act like a possessed rat which lady would want you around her? You are far for what anyone would describe as a gentleman and yet expect God to give you a lady? You dey mad?
This is why you always end up with though in your league, village champions!

How will you know a materialistic girl when you haven't started dating her? Is it written on your faces.
In fact, 98 percent of you girls are materialistic...that's a FACT. Prove me wrong if you can.

thats because you are stupid enough not to take time to know a girl before you ask her out. 5mins after seeing a beautiful girl, you are already talking about taking her to the moon and stars and then you complain when she disappoints you.

You girls place too much emphasis on superficial things. And those are the things that fade away too quickly.

thats because you focus on superficial things too thats why you keep going same group of people and still keep getting the same results.

The hungry, frustrated person here is yourself, Moana.

yet the points raised by the OP pained you

Niklausa:
You see how ambitionless you are? You see why I said you are an individual that lacked well defined goals?
Like I asked before, if the allowance they give you doesn't come, what will you do? If something happens and they can't anymore provide for you, what would you do?

they dont live from paycheck to paycheck, they made enough investements so we will have nothing to worry about in the future. So i dont see why its still frustrating or affecting your life?

You think life is a bed of roses? You are sited in you room watching that boring animation, South park, and you feel you have it all right? I can only but pity you.

well south park is more sensible than the rubbish you have been posting since you started insulting me. Life may not be a bed roses for you but i gave you candid advice. Look for a girl who doesn't have high expectations from you and you will save yourself the headache.
So you think insulting me will change your life? Please when it does come back and tell me.

Instead of being a sensible person and taking my advise you decided to act like a possessed rat. Why will you go for a materialstic girl if you know she will frustrate you with her demands? It is only a fool who will dive into the ocean when he knows he can't swim.

Mind you I have eaten twice since I woke up and I haven't even had my proper breakfast yet. So food isn't really my problem. I can fend for myself and fend for 20 of you combined. But you ladies are not worth spending on, for real.

so why are you still acting like a hungry, frustrated man?

Until now this is something i have failed to understand about some Africans, you could always send your kids to school abroad when you can afford it. We have heard to many cases of people who run away from paying their bills after giving birth in western countries, why go through all the stress for something you can't afford?

Niklausa:
If my younger sister was half as silly as girls like you, I would have slapped the hell out of her so she won't think like a proper lady. But guess what, she is educated, engaged and soon to be married, unlike money mongers like you who crave rich men so they can build a financial empire on the wealth of these men.

Look at you. You are still collecting allowance from your parents at your age. When that finishes, what next?
Aren't you old enough to work for your own money.
You see why I said ladies like you are not worth it.
You are just a parasite. You have nothing to offer us guys. All you do is take take take, and you never give anything, except of course that slacked hole between your legs and when we are done with you, we just throw you away like a used match stick.

No girl can reject me. That's impossible. I can get any girl I want. It's the easiest thing in the world.
My problem is getting one who is worthy of my respect, love and commitment.

im a full-time student and unlike you 30something, unemployed, single and broke. How does it frustrate your life that i still get allowance in my early 20s? There have the right to do whatever they want with their money, even if they decide to keep sending me money until i retire, how will it afftect your life

Like i said. Too much beef out there and none in your fridge. You mad cause you hungry.

wristbangle:
Babe . U self too dey talk. How u take know say him broke? Hehehe

look at the post above

Niklausa:
No need making you feel pathetic, you already look pathetic, in fact, you are "pathetic" personified.
You are so pathetic that you had to look for a picture of Rihanna looking all frustrated and pathetic to use as your dp. Perhaps it reminds you of who you are.

By the way, you should be able to distinguish insult from truth. What I said was the truth and you know that.

biko maybe thats what you sister does do feed herself but my parents always give me enough allowance to take care of myself. If i was pathetic i would go around NL angrily calling every girl a slut.

Im not the cause of your rejection from girls. Stop taking it out on me. Make something of your shady self and you might have a less frustrating life.

If you having troubles with figuring out where you will get your next meal. Be nice and i may paypal you something so you dont always come on NL hungry and frustrated

Kelvin0:
Impatience and greed be leading youths to their early graves....... all this cock and bull stories about how they where deceived into traveling abroad with their traffiker sums up to the aforementioned. IMPATIENCE ....GREED

Yes some people may go into it knowingly but most young girls are really deceived into it.

Niklausa:
Like I said before, you are not worth stressing over.

yet you took so much time to insult me so i could feel as pathetic about myself as you do with yourself. Well sorry not gonna happen

wristbangle:
Baba, Take it easy oo

you can never understand a frustrated broke man, as if its me who made him broke anyway going back to watching South Park. I surely hope he knows where he will get his next meal for the day

Niklausa:
I didn't insult you, I just stated a certified fact.
See your mouth like "I gave you the truth" what truth? What does someone like you know, asides trailing wealthy men around, with the sole intention of dipping her greedy hands into their large pockets.

A dumb lass like you isn't worth being bitter over.
You are just meant to serve a single purpose, which is to be used, fvcked and dumped.

you are not bitter but you are insulting me for no reason? okay tell me when it has put money in your bank account

Eeeh?

jaybee3:
Someone is jealous

im not jealous. I was admiring am

Niklausa:
Shut your trap. Who are you to give me advice?

It's girls like you that chase wealthy men around. Greedy Insatiable, hypocrite like you.

Cheap girls like you that are so easy to please. All I have to do is just wave money in your face and you will open your legs like a woman who is about to give birth.

Money monger.

insulting will not change your situation. so because i gave you the truth as it is, i have turned into a money monger. Eyaaa may God take away you bitterness in Jesus Name
Take the truth as it is and you live a less bitter life o. The truth is rarely pure and never simple.

Shame on you Hot goats this could be someone's wife that you are objectifying
She has a booty for days though.

Niklausa:
Look who is talking?

im just giving you advice that will save you from a lot of headache.

Exporting food items to China.

Niklausa:
What sort of thread is this? Who created this thread? The person needs to be flogged in a market square for all to see.

Anybody can ask a girl on a date in all of those places you mentioned. It's not just restricted to broke guys, by the way the explanation you gave isn't even sensible.

Where are the mods? Please close down this rubbish!

there is nothing wrong in accepting you are a broke or stingy guy, accept it and try to date women that have no preblem with your financial situation. Its as simple as that

blesoh:
when we meet we are alwaz fine,but she talks @ my back.which i dont really see as anything.shez too possessive dont knw if because she has 2kids,my husband nd d sister.she said i ve changed her son,he was once mummy's boy lol.

well he is a grown man and she will just have to accept it. Well so long you are just managing her then you are all good

blesoh:
lol i swear very interesting family,d woman can pretend for africa.i alwaz try to maintain my lane.lol

i pray one day she will come back to her senses and you guys will eventually get along just fine o

This one must be a xhosa woman

I dont understand, why is that guys always term a woman "angry" if she decides to reject them. Sometimes you shouldnt blame the ladies. You politely reject a guy's advances today and tomorrow he will keep disturbing you like a lovestruck puppy and he will only leave you alone after you have been rude and direct then after that he will call you an "angry woman" haba nawa o. Accept your advances have been rejected the first time and walk away while you still have your dignity na.

Checked on google and this is what i found
http://erasmusu.com/en/erasmus-innsbruck/student-housing

blesoh:
my dear its true,last week my MIL told everyone dat wish to listen,dat i didnt help her carry her handbag untill she asked me to.
Lol,i ve my own handbag hw do i manage wid 2 bags but i carried to avoid problm yet she stil told pple abt it.MIL no easy oh

eeeeh ordinary handbag kai you married into one interesting family o

IdJack:
I know a lady that wishes her mother inlaw to be dead...but as I am writing this...the guy sent her parking and her life is worst than when she met the guy.

Pride, Pride, Pride will kill ladies of this days....As if she will not grow old to be the same mother inlaw she disrespect.
SECRETS: YOU WANT YOUR MAN TO LOVE YOU THE MORE....LOVE HIS MUM

you should be willing to do the same with her mother as well even if she is somewhat difficult

Lolz

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Tpave:
To be frank, I love making love but that's the essence of marriage. She is threatening to leave that I want to kill her with my Dk that she's been bearing it but couldn't keep it any longer. I pleaded with her that I didn't train myself keeping girlfriends outside my marriage but she is encouraging me to do that, but she is insisting that she can't take it any longer unless I will agree to do once in a week or 5 times in a month which is not possible for me. I am confused right now cos this marriage and I don't think I will continue like this for the rest of my life and she is really really furious about the matter. Pls I need advice on this.

You may have to sit down with her and talk about it to get a better understanding about what it is she doesnt like about having sex with you everyday.

Maybe you are too rough or the positions could be too uncomfortable for her. She may have challenges with getting it wet down there and because of this the intercourse may get painful.

Its very abnormal to hear that a woman is even encouraging her husband to get it elsewhere. The situation is really that bad.

You may need to find out what makes her tick and when you do you capitalise on that. After that she may be the one who will start frustrating your life for some good loving