₦airaland Forum

kevinberry:
If there is any body having problem or being @ fault here it the woman,she is the one that brought the idea of no sex till after marriage,I always support sex before marriage for compatibility or to be aware of any disease whatsoever...and the fact that the woman cannot give any reason why she is denying the man sex make me angry...let call a spade a spade....

okay never mind i should have asked a sane guy that question. Clearly you werent able to answer it.

How will you feel...after looking for something for a very long time,then someone promise you that on so so day,by so so time the stuffs will be ready only for the day and time to come..the person cannot provide the stuff..and to make matters worst does not have any reasons to back him/herself up for failing to provide the stuff

Haba..be reasonable na

most normal people usually sit down and talk to each other or they get counselling. By normal im actually referring to civilised people.

Im a woman and i know that no one would refuse to have sex with a man unless there really is something wrong with him or she suspects something is wrong with him.

If you use violence to get sex, it makes it rape! There is no way sex will be enjoyable after forcing someone to do it unless you are a rapist or sexual sadist. I will not be shocked if this is something you are into.

We need more pics of the places not playes and plates of food please

souleymon:
So why did you go to school if you intend being a Nigerian barber abroad

stop being mean, you know the unavailability of jobs is forcing people to do other things just to survive.

kevinberry:
Yeah,she just woke up and discovered that he has sti...pity

Women will always support anything on skirt..

I guess you did not read the part where she said until after the wedding before she will have sex...

Well she is a barrister...she is @ fault already,this is called breach of agreement...

no sensible woman wouldnt want to have sex to her husband because she enjoys too, unless there is clearly something wrong with him and i doubt her being a lawyer has anything to do with it. A sensible man wouldnt have to beat up his wife just to have sex if there was absolutely nothing wrong with him. You are the one playing defence for the guy without using reason. How many normal (sane) guys do you know that have to use violence to get sex?

CFCfan:
It was about robbery (shop lifting). The defendant refused to pay for some store merchandise. The store manager then alerted the city PD. The D was eventually arrested.

At his arraignment, he plead "not guilty".

talk about wanting to have your cake and eat it too

sukkot:
hausa boys too dey steal ?walahi i have never seen a hausa armed robber before

arent they the same people fighting for boko horam and robbing people on the highway?

There must be a reason for her refusing to sleep with him. What is she suspects he has some STI and there you are just calling her wicked without getting to hear he side of story? I dont think refusing to have sex with someone is a good enough reason to beat her up

CFCfan:
Jury duty calls..

what was the case about?

Some options, check www.booking.com

Blonchilli:
Please explain what you mean by "emotionally mature"

you cant let things go and move on. You hold on the every little irrelevant thing, what will you do if you face a real big problem?

Luyeanka:
You see that number 5? That's a major problem. Many women neglect their husbands as soon as they give birth. They shower all their love on the child at the expense of the husband. That's why many men 'abandon' their wives after birth. It's a real marriage breaker.

there is a solution most married men aren't willing to do and thats co-parenting. if you help your wife whenever you can it will make the task easier for her and she will always have time for you. its as simple as that.

if you expect her to change every diaper, feed the kids, pick them up at night whenever they cry,put them to bed, cook, tidy up the house and still work 9-5 the next day, how can she possibly still make time for you?

Blonchilli:
Thanks. Before we started dating tho she did something really silly. We were chatting on whatapp and we were yabbing each other. Playfully oo but next thing I knew she copied and sent the message to a male friend who next thing I knew started bombarding me. I got angry and if not the guy respected me, it would have gone far so he advised me to forgive her. When I called her, she kept insulting me and I hated her then. 5 months later after her friends and mine begged I started dating her again but I feel I haven't really let go of it and I still have anger towards that. Don't know why.

its best you leave her so she can be with someone emotionally mature

controlling her husband

can't believe someone would kill and burn someone for material things that will never last.

God forgive u dklef

Be careful you might be eating someone's uncle or aunty

Kufie:
I remember when I almost fell for this crap years ago when I was in Lagos. Thank God I was so broke I didn't have credit to contact them

chai truly hard times

RIP gone too soon.

plaetton:
You Should be thoroughly ashamed as a woman, of writing this nonsense and ignoring the fact that he allegedly forcefully penetrated her.
In any civilized society, that is called rape.

It is stu.pid women like you that make soo many rape victims ashamed to speak up and seek justice.

don't you know its only roadside mechanics, garri sellers and jobless men that can actually rape, the moment you are rich and famous you cannot be associated with such a dirty act

Why do you think there is an increase of rape cases you see on nairaland. People have been thought that the victim is always to blame, hence more people do it, believing they will go scot-free

sweatlana:
What if he actually raped this girl?

don't you know its not possible for him to rape her because he is rich and famous? i'm sure he doesn't even shit too

this was so funny

harlyon:
And don't ever live in areas where there majority of South Africans....Never Never Never

all areas have majority South Africans so what are you talking about?

You can still see her beauty. But it takes true love to overlook ones flaws. I wish them well

BTT:
While dating my wife, she did that and more.

It was very difficult taking things from her but she managed to improve the quality of life that I lived through her unconditional dedication. Today, we are both better for it.

People see me doing awkward things for my wife today without understanding the foundation of sacrifice she has laid.

God bless my wife today and forever.

amen!

layinkakeem:
Tell me how many girls out there can do this to their bf, if the boy truly loves her !

its my flatmate's bf's 21st today and she got him Jordans. You have just reminded me i have to say hbd to him. He has been celebrating his bday since the beginning of the week like a little girl

If he is worth it, then definitely go all the way for him. I have done it before, but not with sneakers though.

osifred:
Take Winnie Madikizela Mandela off the list she was Mandela's wife, at no point was she the first lady of South Africa. Infact Mandela denying Winnie of that position despite all the pains she went through because of Madiba is my gross with Mandela. For the record if I were in Mandela's shoe a woman like Winnie will still be my first lady cheating or no cheating.

biko that woman become dangerous, a civil war almost broke out amongst SA tribes when she was in control of ANC while Mandela was in prison.

And that Graca Machel babe self na husband-snatcher how many times did she want to be first lady sef?

Naledi14:
You dont mess with southern african women they will show you flames!!! By the way all the men "presidents" listed are known womanizers. I dont blame any of them.

they simply got their match

LesbianBoy:
This stoopid geh that like producing movies on how 'bad' men are. If its not "lies men tell"......its "Games men play" or "Things men do" mstcheeew! I thought with all those stoopid movies she won't get married. See her yam leg sef. jeez! *spits*

those yam legs belong to someone 5,000,000 times hotter than you. jealousy makes you nasty

kilode100:
Correct mamas.

Who wan chop ogbono forever?

see your life

okorocha na fine boy

youngalex:
and who said is not affordable,don't you think a child having dual citizenship is more disposed to a wider horizon than just Nigerian Citizenship

im talking about situations where the mother uses a visitors visa to go abroad, give births and leaves without paying the bill. They risk getting a 10year or lifetime ban by doing so.