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~He made such an ASS of himself!!

~The ASS is a family of horse-like animals~


~Wound~

~Nairaland ~



~Tnakf~

~Wut do you want to know?

~Pea[b]cocks[/b]~

~A Proof That Experience Is Of No Use, Is That The End Of One Love Does Not Prevent Us From Beginning Another ~ Paul Bourget

~Happy Valentine's Day~

~Aaaw thats a Very Good Choice,avent heard it in a while,Thanks

~Sharing The Love

~"The Greatest Happiness In Life Is The Conviction That We R Loved~Loved For Ourselves Or Rather, Loved In Spite Of Ourselves."


~Love Is The Irresistible Desire To Be Irresistibly Desired~Mark twain


~Hope Y'll Have A Lovely V.Day ~

~Soo Its that Time in the year when You can't go past the store without realizin Valentine's Day Is Upon Us,Love Songs Albums hit the stands~Tv wont shut up about it So For sentimental reason's i thought it will be a good time to ask y'll Your favourite Love Songs N who you'd crown THE Daddy/Queen of Love Songs !!


~Some of My favourite Love Songs will be
~No Ordinary Love~Sade
~It must Ave Been Love~Roxette
~Lets Get It On~Marvin Gaye
~Hero~Enrique Iglesais
~Always N Forever~Shania Twain
~These Words~Natasha Beddingfield
~You're Beautiful~James Blunt
~I'll Make Love To You~Boyz 11 Men~
~Nothing Compares To You~Sinead Oconor
~When You Say Nuthing At All~Ronan Keating
~All My Life~K-ci N Jojo
~Still the One~Shania Twain
~Another use to be~Joe
~Sweet Love~Anita Baker



~Barry White~Enrique Iglesais~Brain Mcknight~Julio Iglesias~Luther vandross~Frank Sinatra ~Andrea Bocelli Rules !!!



~Mariah Carey~Sade~Whitney Houston~Celine Dion~Dionne Warwick~Toni Braxton R  Crowned My Queen of Love Songs To start off the Post!!

~I'd like to dedicate These Songs to my Hubby

~Always N Forever~Shania Twain
~ Somebody's Me~Enrique Iglesais
~These Words~Nastasha Beddingfield

~You can go on yahoo music N check out her songs~

~Love her songs,wish i can say the same about her   Love her collaboration with Mark Ronson "Valerie"


http://music.yahoo.com/ar-8206256-videos--Amy-Winehouse

~I bet its too late to celebrate it today huh? It's always better late than Never anyways N you get to have your very own special Valentine day celebration wen he comes back !!

~You'd prolly know more than us wut ur hubby will appreciate more so i suppose you ave time to figure something out before he comes back!!

OR

~You can always do something special for him before he goes anyways,may i suggest you hide him a card/note somewhere he'll find it while away,somewhere u know he'll prolly discover it tomorrow{mayb his Toilet Bag}

~My Hubby is working tomorrow as well Soo am celebrating mine tonight Come the stroke of Midnight am a Minx

~Good Luck!!

~Small~

~Remember,Today Is The Tomorrow You Worried About Yesterday ~ Dale Carnegie ~ ~Soo  Live For Today N let Tomorrow Worry About Itself 

~yes ~



~wud you rather b doin something else instead of answering my Q?

~Nuffin much bro ~

~Ditto on that~It had a lot of acclaimed reveiws so i was anxious to watch it, But i wasnt left feelin "WOW Great movie!!" i suppose am forgiving b/c its Denzel,N he can do no wrong in my eyes

What if a friend shit's on you and removes you from shit [quote][/quote]~LMAO ~ U forgive the friend N try to wash off the smell of the shit if you can

~@ Bblak Thanks hope your week turns out the way you expect

~I feel Soo blessed to ave had a great Impact from my father,he was the best daddy any girl cud ask for,he nurtured me N my siblings~we lacked nuffin~he'd rather we asked foolish questions than play dumb~he stretched our imagination beyond our years,he guided us through the complexities of growing up,the importance of education~he was a diverse individual~One very Special Papa he was!!!

~As a woman I've learnt to fly, I Can go to my limits, I Can push boundaries N get to where i want to go~ I ave climbed  mountains N reached the peak N i daresay i continue to climb with my Papa's rearing as my backbone!!!

~All Grown Up i prayed if i found me a man that attributes half of what my dad was then I Will Be A very Lucky girl,i settled for second best b/c there's no man like my Pops!!!

~For making me The Spolit~Headstrong~Versatile~Proud Black Woman That I Am Today,i say Thank You Papa God I mIss You    RIP Bleep

~Life must be understood backward ~ But it must be lived forward ~Soo. . . . I defy some rules N be who i want to be Regardless

~I Prettty much  let Tomorrow Worry About Itself!!

Abraham Lincoln once said "The best thing about the future is that it only comes one day at a time" Soo i take each day as it comes ~ There will be Uncertainty~ Challenges~ Adversaries ~Laughter ~Tears ~Joy ~Misery ~ whichever comes each day i wake up,i manage a smile N say "Thank U Lord" N hope Tomorrow is Better!!!

i'd wish for more happy families not broken homes if i were you.[quote][/quote]~Well You're not me !! N Given the Topic,In This Specific Circumstance i see nuthing wrong w/ my wish!!
~There's a large percentage of kids born out of wedlock anyways ~ Soo what are the chances of happy families/ broken homes 

~Ave got a lot of Admiration for Single Dads,i wish there were more of You,it wud make such a huge difference!!

~Like Single Mums{My best mate is }its a challenging experience but well worth it!!

~There R not Always The best Answers to their{kids} Questions but Your Inmeasurable Love~ Support N Stability count for everything else!!

~Maybe You shud join a forum of Single dads to help You tackle some of the Issues as they'd be in a better position to share w/ you their experiences!! Good Luck!

~Imagine~John Lennon
~I will survive~Gloria Gaynor~Almost Every chic knows the words to this song, ,sure heals a Broken Heart
~Hero~Mariah Carey ~Makes Me Never Give Up !!
~Thank U Mama~Sizzla
~I don't Want To Know~Gladys Knight
~Beautiful,Hurt N Fighter~Christina Aguilera
~A Wing N A Prayer~Marc Beeson
~Family Portrait~Pink
~We All Sleep Alone~Cher

~Too bad his mama isnt here to share in this achievement ,nevrtheless am happy for him,he deserves it!!

~No b say ar no sabi una pigin ooh,e b say me yon pigin diferent!!

~Biggie smalls was GOOD But 2Pac was BETTER N THE BEST !!!

~Biggie had rhymes~Loove some of his songs~Didnt always feel connected to his songs!!

~Noow 2Pac was Passionate~A great Poet~He really was the Rose that Grew from the Ground!!

~They both R very special N Missed in the music Industry!!

He has been looking for a job for over 10 years, he comes back each time to say he can't find a job. I give him a little money monthly for upkeep, hoping he will get something to do. but till date nothing. What can I do.

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~Ten Years Now thats taking the Piss,Too bad we can't choose family sometimes!!



Am I the one spoiling him? or do I need to assist him more. I just want him to stand on his feet.

~Yes You Are the one spoiling him~He's taken your love N support for granted!!
~Only assistance he needs is a heart felt man to man convo w/ you,let him know how he's let you down,by believin in him to make good of his jobhunts/business ideas,stress on how you've never held back from supporting him >> You know how you feel let him know!!If you're lucky he may ave a heart/consceince to change!!



Any time he says he wants to travel to look for work, I give him any amount he asks for, but he uses a little part of the money for the job search and spend the major part of the money on other things. I gave him money recently to start a business, I gave him 30% more than he requested for, He spent 20% on the business, and spent the remaining 80% in furnishing his house and his asking for more money now saying the 20% he invested in the business is gone.


~Your brother wants to enjoy the fine things in Life without hard labour N you seem to ave given him a free ride for the past ten years,he's Sooo NOT going to hop off that ride!!!


What do I do, do I ignore him? do I give him more money?

~Give him an Ultimatum~be very Adamant this is his Last chance to make good off his intension to start a business!!You prolly would ave worn a hole on "Your Last chance" but he kept coming N you kept giving him some more money,so he wudnt make much of you saying that,so i suppose you'll have to stick by your words,Untill You Do,nuffin will change!!


If I ignore him people might say I abandoned my only brother.

~Why would you be bothered about what people say?? As long as you have a clear conscience you've done all you can do to get him stand on his own!!! bsides "balckman" will always find something to talk about especially when it doesnt concern them,might make you wonder why they didnt say something when he was blowing away w/ your hard earn cash!! really pisses me off that!!



If I give him money for business, am sure it will be wasted. What do I do?[quote]

~Have you Queried any of his business ideas?By your own admision,you think KNOW he's lazy,so clearly he's not motivated enough to want to succeed because he knows he can always come running to you Soo untill YOU give him a Kick on the backside he needs it,am afraid you'll be totally responsible for all his financial needs till kingdom come!!!

~I know w/family its hard to take/make certain decisions but this one calls for TOUGH love,he'd likely thank you one day or NOT But you know You Tried!!