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PabloOmoEscobar:
And you just have to create another thread

bro, you can insult me accepted but calling me a gay. Over my dead body.. How will they feel if i call them prostitute?

Berbierklaus:
The truth is always bitter for men like you.
Keep looking for pity on Nairaland.

Bye Felicia

Truth bitter?

Are you listening to yourself?

Probably because your guy is not faithful to you doesn't mean all other guys are like that.

You can call me anything but referring me to as a gay, Nah, it is an insult to me

Regarding my yesterday post https://www.nairaland.com/3543360/think-gynophobia

Real people gave their advice which I really appreciate.. But my concerns is those who are tagging me as a gay.. Like seriously? Is that out of jealousy or they are frustated..
Below are their rcomments;

Berbierklaus:

I was thinking the same too,and saw everybody giving advice as if the good women will fall down from heaven on OP's laps.

My question to you Monogamy is that are you worthy of true love yourself?

You see men who are not even good enough claiming not to see a good woman, or woman that is ready for a serious relationship,meanwhile their lifestyles is something else.
You claim you are not the shouty type,I am not either and there are a lot of women like me out there,so please go out there and meet women,stop whining in your room and on Nairaland.

Bitchvibe:

People like you dont need advice. You are too picky. It's either you go to wrong places, are attracted to a particular type of females or you just don't know what u wnt.

In this time, age and era where some women will do anything to have a serious rel leading to marriage, you're saying they don't..........

Maybe u re looking for perfection. You won't find it.

FortuneTeller

The post title implies you are a gay. Liking women is not by force. Remain free.

Nigeria can never develop if these set of people referring to themselves as future leader.. How wonder the kind of kids they are going to raise.

If una like, make una hug transformer na una headache..

Berbierklaus:
I was thinking the same too,and saw everybody giving advice as if the good women will fall down from heaven on OP's laps.

My question to you Monogamy is that are you worthy of true love yourself?

You see men who are not even good enough claiming not to see a good woman, or woman that is ready for a serious relationship,meanwhile their lifestyles is something else.
You claim you are not the shouty type,I am not either and there are a lot of women like me out there,so please go out there and meet women,stop whining in your room and on Nairaland.

Abeg wetin concern Tiger woods with football? Not everybody would be like you guys. Sincere people had already gave their advice..

So please stop taking panadol on someone's headache

Lezzlie:
Maybe you're still living in the past and never truly detach yourself mentally from your last relationship.

Do you compare your ex with every prospective date and involuntarily compare your last relationship with any potential one?

I think you're still carrying the baggage of your last relationship around

Actually not really. I set a target for myself

FortuneTeller:
I just replied you in the other thread. There I was suspecting you of being a gay. You have now confirmed my suspicions. Please don't deceive some poor girl.

Like seriously? I love your style..

Thanks no thanks

stealing is not corruption

Michelle55:
very good,then you're fixed on the right path!

Thanks my sister.. Not that i am worried about being single.. I just need to cross check and balance if I am on the right track

Michelle55:
you are welcome.. Yeah,with time everything will fall into place,until then do what makes you happy and remain blessed!!!

I always do that.. No retreat no surrender

Michelle55:
true love do exist as you've said but its very rare. The right woman that will make u experience that kinda feeling again wil breez into your life when you least expect... Meanwhile let go of the past baggage and keep an open mind about love,women and relationships.. Be good

Thanks dear.. I believe everything is time.

BlackDBagba:

With this your laugh hen.. Hope you are not one of those guys?

I had an encountered with lot of gay guy during my outing. I always feel awkward when they approached and feel like hitting them on face. Though I have never being violent with any, I just treat them as one of those lost sheep..

How do you handle a gay guy?

seunny4lif:
Most ladies want thier man to show off
It's normal to them
They love it both white and black

I can never do that.. If you are real, you wouldn't expect show off

BaEnki:
I believe you'll definitely meet the woman that soothes you with time. So for you to find the right woman you have to let go of the past events, and come out of your closet, good and virtuous women still abound around us, you just have to look closer.

Yes i believe.. thanks for the courage

seunny4lif:
Ok o Oooh
But money is the answer

May be you have never been in the situation.. Money is not everything..

I always try to live a low life but I guess ladies always want someone that shows off

BaEnki:
Hehe starwar fan! may the force be with you too, to the poster@monogamy, if you'd found joy in your solitary lifestyle and you're happy with the life then what else? To me women/ladies are not for me, I'm a recluse and I derives joy in that, if you don't choose a right lady, then you just get into one hell of a life, so take your time to get the best of them, anyway I'm not in any relationship neither have I been in one, to me relationship sucks! So I might not give you the best of advice.
I wish you the best sir.

Bro, I had tasted real love before and I know how it felt.. Just that it is hard to find real person these days

seunny4lif:
I'm here to read comment

Just give a lady belle and forget your story only if you are rich like 2face oooooh

Ask 2face what he is facing and then you will understand that everything require proper plan..


As per money, money is not everything.. More than 5-6 years with money but no real love

AntiNigerian:
OK o! Goodluck with your life and may the forces guide you!

Thanks bro.. I just hope I could work things out.. My main problem has been me junketing around .. Nigeria is not a country for a reasonable person to stay cos our government do not care about her citizens.

Sexxkillz:
[color=#000030]Time is not running out. . . That's just a societal cliche bullshit notion that unnecessarily puts undue pressure on people to get married early. . . Ask them the benefits of early marriage, and they'll tell you "to have kids early". Bullshit!

Are you getting married to have kids, or to have a companion for the rest of your life? You do not rush into marriage because you feel time is slipping, or because you want to make anyone happy. . . There is a time for everything. If it is not the right time, it is not the right time.

Don't depress yourself with that "time is running out" talk, else you'll put undue pressure on yourself and end up with the wrong person. [/color]

I Depress? Hell no

Sexxkillz:
[color=#000030]Time is not running out. . . That's just a societal cliche bullshit notion that unnecessarily puts undue pressure on people to get married early. . . Ask them the benefits of early marriage, and they'll tell you "to have kids early". Bullshit!

Are you getting married to have kids, or to have a companion for the rest of your life? You do not rush into marriage because you feel time is slipping, or because you want to make anyone happy. . . There is a time for everything. If it is not the right time, it is not the right time.

Don't depress yourself with that "time is running out" talk, else you'll put undue pressure on yourself and end up with the wrong person. [/color]

I am not the type of guy who do follow follow. Even though most of my friends are married now but the kind of married live they live, I do not want that. Like I said, I am not desperate

AntiNigerian:
let me say Prestissimo, that you need some 'help' however, getting any girl to like you isn't going to be easy... Are you a handsome man or a Normal guy? If you can control and command the English language properly, then any girl goes to you... try to relate with them first before anything else m, get to know them and every other thing will be added unto you.. that's all I know (unless if you want to start living like Japanese men )

Woman is not really my problem.. I do have a lot of admirers but as time goes on, I realised they are not who they claimed to be. Having been in a sweet past relationship, I believe true love exist and that is why I am taking my time but I do not think time is by my side

solid3:
Hope u are not in your 30s yet. Otherwise, b4 u realise there's no time, time wld have gone already.

That is the problem.. I am in my early 30's but like I said i am not desperate.

My last relationship which i can remember was 2009, which was sweet and memorable but ever since then I have been single.Thought I do make move to approach a lady but at the end of the day i realised they do not have noble intention of what relationship meant. Actually, I am not really desperate to be in a relationship but I think time is running out.

Note: I live a good life without ladies but I just have to get hooked up with someone.

I need an advice

P.S My post is not about meeting anyone here..

Hey, this is just for fun. I have heard so many ringtone when the game is being played at the other room. Both men and women have different ringtone, but the woman own heh, no be today oo.

Below are the list of ringtone I have heard

Ouch! Ouch!
Harder Harder
Oh yeah Oh yeah
Jesus Jesus
yes! Yes!
Haha Haha
Enter Enter
Holy Ghost!

Add yours

Result from ward 10 polling unit 4 in Akungba

ACCORD 6
AD 76
APC 192
LP 16
NUPN 3
PDP 115
SDP 41


source: facebook.com/forum9ja

engineerboat:
So all those claiming to be in Ondo State, its time to show your face and give your Eye-Witness Report

yes oo.. polling booth is not in Aba, Kano or Ogun state.. only Ondo for today.

Op, more grace

Good luck to all of them

Imagine the 2 of them one..

Some set of people referred FFK as the role model ..#wtf
Jimoh Ibrahim contesting for a state governor.. #mogbe

Chai, our problem no be today

lordhugo:
No Bigotry please.

We are all from "one side" - NIGERIA.

(I am the OP and I am Igbo)

Ekaasan

Noted !!

One love

omofunaab:
See op, no point correcting these people.

What Reno omokri told them is what they will believe, Reno omokri already knows his audience and his message has already been passed to them.

Op These people won't counter your wonderful submission but will instead abuse you

I agree with you. It was only meant for his audience which are our brothers from the other side..

Na only go dem hear, stop no dey their dictionary

Op, thank you for this research.. Another lie bursted


I am waiting for whom to counter this post