RichyBlacK:

The way I see it is this. When some people have seen so many marriages crumble (very common in the "home of the brave", they start to "arm" themselves for any eventualities in their own marriage. The trust is superficial at best, non-existent at worst, and the marriage reduces to "doing time" in some big house in, say, Dallas TX. When the alarm blows, the arsenals amassed will then be deployed. Many marriages have become some sort of armistice.

almondjoy:

Sure, go and get married first and then come back and tell us how truthful you can be.  Some cannot even keep one spouse and you are here talking about lies.  You guys are really dreamers.

Please ask your parents how they survived so long without splitting.  I am sure some have seen worse things than e-mails!

RichyBlacK:

I concur with you.

Some people have based their marriage on lies and somehow believe that it (lies) MUST be present in every marriage.

almondjoy:

I say you are dreaming. You think boyfriend/girlfriend relationship is the same as husband wife relationship?

My dear, just leave your parents own for now. When you get your own--then you can really have the experience. That boyfriend/girlfriend thing is "universal studio" or "disneyland" kind of thing. I say you ain't seen nothing yet!!!!

Dreaming nope , i work towards my dreams by accomplishing what I want in life, and we have passed the boy/girlfriend thing haba .

Na wa ooooo 4 these married people oh, just because am not married yet, doesn't mean i haven't faced some obstacles in both life and relationship.

And yes i know marriage and been in a relationship isn't the same

I know been married isn't has sweet like it looks, trust me

almondjoy:

It is so, so, so, so amazing that those who are not married are the greatest advocates of this "read your wife's e-mail" gospel.  To take it a step further, saying there is no privacy in a marriage.

He he he he he he he he he! I dey laff welly, welly!!!!  You are in your boyfriend/girlfriend stages of your lives and how many times have you let your the other read your e-mails or check your text messages?

You think it "healthy" to share everything with your spouse? I say I dey laff!!!! Well, ignorance is definitely bliss. Most of you will soon learn the very hard way and cut the crap out of your "puppy crushes".


Please go and get married first and after the first 2 years, come back to Nairaland and tell us "how body"?  That is if you are still together oh!

just because it doesn't work for you doesn't mean it won't work for others, and you thing hiding email passwords from your wife/husband is healthy

Islander:

[b]MOodylady , I didn't see that piece on my Cas, You better take your eyes off, He's all mine ( I will report you to E)[/b]We can't wait for you to come back to the Big A,

@topic
Siena where is my Babeeeelove? Please release her ( opps. I pray my other man Ferlie doesn't see this)

LOLOLOLOL,

No my dear it was just a complement and am contented with my love . Eya are you guys taking me free shopping or isn't that part of the fun lol am a freeloader

theboy0808:

Pretty Pussy - Lady Saw

By the way, what is the the name of the movie? I'm sure Oge Okoye was the babe in question and Jim Iyke was the Bestman. That makes Segun Arinze the groom. No wonder the babe wants to dump him .

Funniest comment i've seen today, my ribs are hurting sef