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That Lil' Break-Up She Initiated For No Reason
PROLOGUE.
Short Break-Ups: those brief periods when a woman just ups and leaves for reasons best known to herself that she'll never care to explain. and spend weeks and months out of the picture, only to resurface again willing to continue where you two left things off.
those short break-ups, they are not inevitable storms in Paradise, the woman is manipulating the weather....
1. THE SHORT BREAKUP AS A WOMAN'S WAY OF MAKING HERSELF IRREPLACEABLE.
When: usually at the early stages of the relationship.
after countless days and almost superhuman effort wooing her, a guy relaxes when the girl finally agrees to be his GF. however, as the guy settles down to enjoy the fruits of his labour, the new GF's real work has just begun... the guy who just won her heart has a car, a job and a nice place: everything a man needs to be happy; or to get another girl. for survival And longevity, the new GF's mission now is to blind the guy to that reality by becoming the man's sole Source of Happiness and by making herself Irreplaceable.
but how? she's broke, she's not a 10 lookswise and she's not the sweetest pussy in the land.
how does she make herself priceless to a man who has everything and irreplaceable to a man who has options? (he indeed can get another girl. He has options) : by taking matters into her own hands and engineering a storm that will break her man and subdue him unto her.
In nature, when the Lioness hunts, she first isolates her prey from the herd. alone, exposed, and vulnerable the animal becomes an easy kill. likewise, before breaking her man, the woman separates him from the "Herd".
How??
by acting CLINGY , like she wants the man all to herself. that's how a woman separates a man from the herd. friends And family are that herd. and so it begins, the Man's friends who're single the woman pushes away by complaining:" but you cant continue hanging out with your single friends, you don't have anything in common anymore.you now have me!”. My guy does those words sound familiar? Mhhmm?
Next her complaints are against those friends of his who are dating: "Your friends' GFs all hate me. maybe its because im a new comer...sniff sniff!" *insert fake tears here* and poof!!! the guy vanishes from his circle of friends. He figures he owes his allegiance to this woman he met barely a few months ago and in walking away from friendships that have lasted his whole life he feels he's doing his duty to his woman.
Lastly the man is seperated from his family. His visits to his family become few and far between. a combination of :"Your mother hates me" and"Your sisters are jealous of me"; from his woman now keeps him away.
the dumb love-struck puppy of a man is now separated from the herd. Whats-more, he doesn't immediately feel the absence of friends And family because the new GF is overdosing him with attention, love and sex. and so, inevitably, his life starts revolving around 1 person: the new GF. his WhatsApp profile now feature her pics with the words :" She' My Everything" blah blah blah. His money and resources only feel good to have as long as they are spent on his woman.
But then when friends and family have been cut off and the guy become fully separated from all who care about
him, totally dependent on the woman for everything from friendship and advice to sex, comfort and solidarity - when the prey has been fully separated from the herd - the Lioness finally orchestrates her Power Move and goes in for the kill. She strikes!!!
Suddenly, from nowhere, without warning, without explanation or any wrong-doing on the man's part, the GF throws a fit, moves out and withdraws her love. it happens so fast and at the highest sweetest point of euphoria when the guy is the most drunk in love and The most confident in her love... he's left dazed and lost in this darkest hour of confusion and mind fvcks. he has
pushed friends and family away, now pride and ego forbid him from reaching out for help and insight. he's in mental and emotional anguish and cant think straight. the once independent carefree bachelor finds he cant live without some woman who didn't even exist in his life a few months ago. his good life suddenly has no meaning. His money and resources no pleasure. he has been manipulated into looking to his woman as the source of his happiness. and the moment he fully cut off all friends And family and leaned fully and squarely on her of whom he had declared" She's My Everything", she stepped away, leaving him to fall.
Days of pain and confusion turn to weeks of pain that become unbearable. the poor guy is doing everything in his power to get his GF back. He begs and begs and begs through messages relayed via her friends, calls and messages. he apologizes for whatever he did to upset her.
after a long while; she relents and reluctantly forgives him, for whatever he did wrong. its never mentioned. (because it never existed). and every time the guy asks what he did wrong he'll get the sharp answer :"You know what you did" ; and scared to piss off his woman all over again he'll stop asking. The truth is, it was never about Right And Wrong, it was a power move. about Power And Control. moving back into the relationship and back to his man's house, the GF holds all the Power in the relationship now. the man has lowered his own value by begging her back. because in every relationship, THE ONE WHO LOVES LESS HAS MORE POWER AND THE ONE WHO LOVES MORE HAS LESS POWER BECAUSE THE ONE WHO LOVES LESS CAN AFFORD TO WALK AWAY ANYTIME BUT THE ONE WHO LOVES MORE CANT WALK AWAY BECAUSE HE CANT LIVE WITHOUT THE OTHER. from that point onwards, the relationship is on the woman's terms. and the man is forever dealing from a position of weakness. he's a broken man. a tamed stallion. where he was all confidence and command, his new vocabulary consists of weak
statements like :"I'll ask Joyce first!" and "Time for me to go, Sheila doesn't want me to stay out this late!" or "Happy wife happy life" blah blah blah.
the woman has done the impossible. She has made herself Priceless to a man with everything; and Irreplaceable to a man with options.
2. THE SHORT BREAKUP AS A WOMAN'S WAY OF CHEATING WITHOUT CHEATING.
When: usually at a later stage in the relationship
women hate cheating. especially if they really love you. yet sometimes a girl gets offered a dick her pussy cant say No to. or gets introduced to a man her heart cant say
No to. and so the girl does calculations in her head: cheating is an offense, a betrayal, that will cause
incalculable heartache and break all trust forever. on the other hand; she can pull the ultimate stunt: Breakup for a short while to be single and free to indulge... that way
No relationship, No betrayal, No broken trust and No guilty feelings on her part. she calculates breaking your heart through a Breakup is faster and cheaper to correct later than breaking your heart through Cheating. because breakups are not an offense so there is really no bad guy in the equation.
so the girl goes with option B: the Short Break-Up - to free herself briefly to cheat or to explore a possible higher-value relationship. and so; one ordinary sunny day she looks at you and says: "WE NEED TO TAKE A BREAK." words that hit you like a train that just appeared from nowhere. she'll give no reason why nor will she say for how long the break will last. she says "lets take a break" to leave a door open for herself. she's telling you she's going, but not permanently. she'll be back. and wants you on pause not playing on. she has things to do that she cant do while dating you. now, there are 2 things in this world a woman has to be single first to do with a clear conscience knowing she's not hurting any man: being a Nun and being a Whòré. single women make the best nuns and also single women are the biggest
whòrès out there. and being a Whòrè can be a 0 dick affair that's all about trying out a new romance with a better man at your expense, a 1 dick temptation or a fully-fledged multi-dick whòre-phase.
so your girl will walk and for the next weeks or months she'll avoid you, your calls, your friends and your favourite places (so the two of you don't cross paths). while you walk around in a cloud of pain with no relief, she's walking on clouds wishing it doesn't end. She is riding all manner of Dick and doing all manner of shet Or just going out on clean dates with a potential new man...... but all good things will come to an end. She will get her fill of Dick. Or that potential affair with a hottter man will fail to materialize. Either way she must return back to good old waiting you. her status updates on social networks will start conveying nostalgia and
regrets. and you, ever watchful and stalkerish, unable to move on, readily picks up on them, taking the hint your bird is coming back!
she'll start asking your friends how you're doing, if someone's taken her place. Your gullible friends will rush to you with news of how she misses you. unknown to their simple minds they're being played like chess pieces, preparing the way for her. because the minute they deliver the good news you'll drop any girl you may have started chasing and put your house in order. in time, communications will resume, meet-ups, ending with tears of reunion and sweet makeup sex. you are happy your girl is back.she's happy she found you waiting. you'll celebrate the re-union and rekindle the romance; but deep deep deep within her womb gallons of sperm from her sex-capade reside. who knows, maybe a baby is
even in the making.... who knows....and if a baby is indeed in the making guess who gets the fathering duties and costs??




Cc: ubunja


Read this DhanBaba

it's not safe at all considering the Covid19 and the ENDSARS aftermath.

The Government must have paid a huge sum to the NFF to drag this game to Benin all in the name of celebrating a second term swearing in.

Will there be Covid19 rules and guidelines? I doubt so.

Will there be adequate security considering the number of prisoners freed from various correctional centers in the state? I doubt so.


The Government and NFF will be endangering the lives of nigerians all because of a brown envelope that has exchanged hands.

Maybe we can create a WhatsApp platform specifically for Ijaws on nairaland where we can interact, support and educate ourselves with ijaw history, job opportunities et al.

adoooo

Jeboy:
Wow it's exciting meeting my Kins men here.

Una dooh.

Jude Oyinkuro representing Ammassoma in Southern LGA but based in Lagos. We can have a strong connection where we can identify and help ourselves with job opportunities etal.

Peace up guys Ahnn Izon!

Very nice and encouraging....nua binaowei

Covid19 is still roaming the streets oh... health is wealth

HRHQueenPhil:
what is love sef? GOD so love the world he gave his own son, husband love ur wives as Christ loved the church and Gave his life for it..
Simple things like giving her your time not looking for remote control of TV, buying her gifts, calling her thrice in a day to see how her day is going, completing her when she looks nice and her food yummy, praying with her And correcting her in love..making love to her.it can be d game changer for ur relationship

Zee world look what you made her say.

Anoth:
highest I've gone was 7rounds in less than 3hrs, the babe that day no let me go, after I pull out, she go grab me put am back inside, I did it until the last one I no fit cum again, I blast for like one hour, I got tired and pull out and slept.

my second highest was going 6rounds from morning till afternoon, with some wonderfu bj

Modified: our signature is funny

7 in 3 hours?

That's impossible....

HRHQueenPhil:
We were just friends and he insisted he wanted more . I agreed but noticed teething issues
1. He lives far from me, and since I go to see him,it's expensive for me..I use Uber and don't know how to ask him for transport
2. He dosent call all d time, I have talked about this but he refuses to change
3. He is not a strong Christian..everytime I invite him to church, he will say No..am getting frustrated as I cannot imagine dating someone who is interested in growing his spiritual life
4. He does not seem ready to settle down ..am not a kid so that scares me and I don't want to push.. he is secretive so I don't want to say it's finances that is stopping it

Apart from that, he is wonderful, sweet and so cute

Evening newsletter on the prowl

[quote author=Gloria042 post=95526146][/quote]Not so extreme....I don't want to hear anything Wo talkless of women.
I detest the female gender more than anything else

Obakashdee:
You people have not been to bayelsa before, ijaw men I greet Una

Ijaw men don't cheat... Bayelsa men don't cheat

Keep preaching and educating those of us that wants to be liberated and take charge of our entire life.


Guys will always doubt because they've not been dealt with, they're are yet to be dealt with, they're next in line to be dealt with and so they see everything that exposes the hidden female agenda as false (beta males syndrome).


Women don't love you for who or what you are but for what you have and what you bring.

Go broke, sick, helpless and see if they won't change.

I'm still a kindergarten in the red pill movement but open to more eye popping truths.

I have dedicated the rest of my life to this course and I now don't give a hoot about the snake gender anymore though I have this hard, no love and I don't care inbuilt tendency in me because I'm a system man (you know what I mean) but not consistent with it. I do go off and on but with the little teachings and books I have read and still reading with the explanations of guys like you, i have vowed never to have anything to do with them for the rest of my life.


Bring it on Bro

Which of Dem nau....and what's the moniker?

Madibah:
She's my type of bitch thick thighs and thick pvssy

Thick waist

Thick thighs

Thick butt

we are in same category but I'm a monk

You sef see this tweet for Twitter?

Threaten her back

What should you do?

She cheated on you

She denied you

She showed you her boyfriend and you are here asking what should you do?

Drink sniper and end your life since your life is revolved around a typical Nigerian farm tool.

You should be flogged severely for asking such stupid question.

Move on with your life.

Your manipulative tendencies couldn't work on the dude and he noticed how clingy you are.


You wanted a savior, he couldn't save you because he is not Jesus Christ.

Dude dodged a bullet...

Inerepamo:
Ari ma dign wari

Diri

Inerepamo:
wose kpeken biri ine kose yingi ere ma ebikise kose dau ma diekidie

Apo...nua dari

Eagles Vs Sierra Leone: Profiles Of The Men In Rohr’s Goalkeeping Headache
Super Eagles manager, Gernot Rohr could grapple with a goalkeeper selection headache in the double-header 2021 Africa Cup of Nations qualifying games against Sierra Leone in Novembeer.
Nigeria will resume competitive football at the Samuel Ogbemudia Stadium in Benin against Sierra Leone on November 13 and meet their West African neighbours in a reverse fixture four days later.
Rohr is spoilt for choice in the goalkeeping department with Maduka Okoye, Daniel Akpeyi and Sebastian Ogenna Osigwe in the main list while Francis Uzoho and lkechukwu Ezenwa are both on stand-by.
Cpmplete Sports reporter, OLUYEMI OGUNSEYIN, profiles the goalkeepers that Rohr will choose from in the upcoming clashes with Sierra Leone.
Maduka OKOYE (Sparta Rotterdam, The Netherlands)
Maduka Okoye recently impressed in the Super Eagles friendly ties against Algeria and Tunisia and the German-born Nigerian goalkeeper made his competitive debut for Sparta Rotterdam on Wednesday.
Okoye was in goal for Sparta Rotterdam but ended on the losing side after they were eliminated by ADO Den Haag in the first round of the Dutch Cup, an outing which held at the Cars Jeans Stadion.
The 21-year-old didn’t disappoint as he made five vital saves to keep Sparta Rotterdam ahead for most of the game after Danzell Gravenberch gave them the lead on 39 minutes before ADO equalised.
However, the former Fortuna Dusseldorf shot-stopper was beaten by Luuk Koopman in added time as the game ended in a1-1 draw and went it into a penalty shoot-out where he could not make any save.
Club football is very important to help keep shape and fitness but the surprising thing is that Okoye never showed porousness in goal rather
he was up to the task versus both Algeria and Tunisia.
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Daniel AKPEYI (Kaizer Chiefs, South Africa)
Gernot Rohr is boosted by the return of Daniel Akpeyi who was in goal for Kaizer Chiefs on Tuesday as they beat Chippa United 1-0 in a Premier Soccer League game at the Nelson Mandela Bay Stadium.
Having missed Chiefs 3-0 1loss to Mamelodi Sundowns, Akpeyi was cleared to face Chippa after missing the end of last season due to ill- health and after also obtaining a new South African work permit.
The 33-year-old is expected to keep his place when Kaizer Chiefs pay a visit to Orlando Pirates in their next match which is the semi-finals of
the MTN 8 Cup at the Orlando Stadium come Saturday.
Meanwhile, Akpeyi has been recalled for next month’s AFCON qualifiers against Sierra Leone to set the tone for a fresh battle of Super Eagles goalkeepers against Maduka Okoye who is the first choice.
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Sebastian OSIGWE (FC Lugano, Switzerland)
Swiss-born Nigerian goalkeeper, Sebastian Ogenna Osigwe has finally got his much-awaited first ever invitation into the Super Eagles even ahead of the AFCON qualifiers against Sierra Leone next month.
Osigwe has never hidden his desire to represent Nigeria despite being born in the Swiss city of Luzern to a Nigerian father and will be ready to grab the opportunity with both hands after being invited.
The former Flying Eagles goalkeeper trainee joined FC Lugano who play in the Swiss Super League during the summer transfer window after ending his six-year stint with lower leagueoutfit, SC Kriens.
Also Read: ‘He Has Settled Very Well’- Gerrard Hails Balogun’s Consistent Performance For Rangers
Lucerne-born Osigwe signed a three-year deal with Lugano, keeping him at the club until the end of the 2022-2023 season. He is yet to keep a clean sheet in four Swiss Super League appearances for Lugano.
But with the 26-year-old commanding a regular shirt at Lugano, it was pretty difficult for
Super Eagles boss, Gernot Rohr not to look towards the goalkeeper’s direction prior to next month’s fixtures.
THE GOALIES ON STANDBY
Francis Uzoho (APOEL Nicosia, Cyprus)
Francis Uzoho has returned to action again after spending over a year on the sidelines due to the injury he sustained during Nigeria’s 1-1 friendly draw against the Selecao of Brazil in October 2019.
The Nigeria nternational made his first appearance of the 2020/21 season as APOEL Nicosia went away to massacre PAEEK 4-0 in a Cypriot Cup contest at the Keryneia Epistrophi on Wednesday night
He took to the social media to celebrate the mportant victory and his return to action. “After 380 days here I’m back stronger IN CHRIST.ALONE,” the 22-year-old wrote on his verified Twitter page.
The news comes as a huge relief for Gernot Rohr as he announced his Eagles squad for next month’s 2021 African Cup of Nations double-header against Sierra Leone on Thursday, 29th of October, 2020.
Uzoho will now be looking to make his Cypriot 1st Division debut for APOEL who he joined on a permanent deal in the summer transfer window against Apollon Limassol at the GSP Stadium on Saturday.
Ikechukwu Ezenwa (Heartland FC, Nigeria)
Ikechukwu Ezenwa has never really been the first-choice goalkeeper for the Super Eagles as he has always had to play second fiddle and going into November’s AFCON qualifying ties, he is match-rusty.
The 31-year-old had actually disclosed his readines for the two games against Sierra Leone with his performances for Heartland back in March which had seen him keep six clean-sheets in ten matches.
However, the Coronavirus pandemic spoilt things and led to the suspension of all football activities for some months with the Nigeria Professional Football League (NPFL) new season yet to kick off.

Inerepamo:
Emi o ari ma digin biri?

Ari okpotulubou mo Eguebiri
Dau okpotulubou iyin Eguebiri

Inerepamo:
ikpo igbedi iyin ki igbedi doi panima

Apo....Dari tubara

You are not blind to the numerous handwritings on the wall I believe.

It is clear that you are not her choice, you are just an option.
Don't ever let a woman make you an option.

peradventure you marry her, I bet you that the children you will bear with her, none will be yours.



Run away from her as fast as you can and never look back or accept her back if she comes begging.


You cannot turn a hoe into a wife.

czarr:
Dem no dey ever kiss for film, but na dem get the highest case of rape for the world. na still dem like to dey masturbate for social media dey take dickk pics dey send our girlfriends...na still dem invent kamasutra sexxx positions. This people hypocrisy na special made.

It is a national law in India. You don't even kiss in public places.

I have watched movies where Indians kissed but the movie wasn't shot in India.

krownie:
emi o!!!

Nua

placeofallure:
I am tempted to say someone you know will be in her shoes - a sister, cousin, niece or just anyone. Then you will know what breach of contract is. The money is not even the big deal but the time! She could be married with a child within those three wasted years.

You call it three wasted years because a vagina person is involved, what if it was the guy?
If guys were to talk about their case, this matter no go end.

The guy did very well.

Trayceey:
you are a sick boy. I pray the girl shouldn't visit you again. I don't even know what she sees in you

I don't date farm tools(hoes) for your information.


I hope you have cures yourself from that gonorrhea you have been distributing to unsuspecting Simps?

Trayceey:
I blame the girl. Maybe you used jazz on her

E shock you abi E pain you?

Ntoor enter coke bottle or better still climb nepa pole begin to dance disco

PUSSYHOE:
get behind me hoe!!!!!

She is a HE...a male disguising as a female. She was busted by NL guys.
Don't fall, he is a scammer

Pierocash:
this is exactly what I told her, I also told her I want us to breakup and she should stop calling me that I don't keep Ex as friends.
She said I shouldnt take it that way ,that we can work it out,she promised to travel by December to talk to her mum in the village that I should pls give her till December.
I gave December as the last ultimatum ,if after that,she should prepare for a breakup

With all these hand writing on the wall, you are still giving her ultimatum?

Na wa oh

krownie:
hello guys I'm an ijaw from delta State ogbe ijoh/ Gbaramatu kingdom.

nua binaowei


tubara?