₦airaland Forum

virginprincess:
Maybe you should try to appear bright and smart anytime she with you, be friendly play, talk, laugh with her, i know it will be difficult,since you said you are the shy type but you have to do it to pls her, or you let her go then look for a girl that can tolerate you.

1. Never take the advice of a female in relationship issues because her advice will always be in support of her gender.

2. Never do anything to please a woman, you will regret it later.

3. Do the opposite of what she just advised you.

4. You are your real self, don't change yourself because you want to please a vagina.

Liposure:
how about this tribes: kolotunu, atissa, ekpetiama,igbriran, biseni, nembe, ogbia and ogbein

There's no ijaw dialect like kolotunu in Bayelsa state.

They are all ijaws or ijaw tribes but speak different ijaw dialects.

virginprincess:
There is peace of mind being single, nobody monitors you, you do whatever you like, no idiot will disturb you for sex, you have a whole lot of freedom when you are single.

in other words, Hoo loo shoo

virginprincess:
They are not few they are much, insentitive people on nairaland are more than the sensitive ones, by their comments you shall know them.

And you are the most insensitive amongst all...the day you go get sense, naija go celebrate one week of uninterrupted power supply.

virginprincess:
Non, i don't like the rubbish most nairaland boys type.

Are you different from what they type?
When they tell you exactly what and who you are, you hate them.

dukeprince50:
No man. u said u are Bayelsan but doesn't know every Bayelsan is not ijaw? lol, I doubt u are from Bayelsa, even me that lived their for 6 years only knew

Every Bayelsan is ijaw.

The same way kalabari, Okirika, Andoni etc say they are Ijaws.
Bayelsa is the only homogeneous Ijaw state in Nigeria.
Every Bayelsan is ijaw.
You cannot tell me anything about my state, I know my state.
As you Don see me before to doubt if I be Bayelsan na


Are kalabaris Ijaws?

dukeprince50:
no, ijaw is major tribe in Bayelsa, every Bayelsa is not ijaw

Every Bayelsan is ijaw. We just have other ijaw sub dialects like Nembe, ogbia, Epie-Atissa etc

dukeprince50:
ijaw girls are big bootied girls. I school in Bayelsa, though I'm Kalabari but Bayelsa booties is outta this world

I'm from Bayelsa state and I can testify

Ruhuoma49:
Ok, thank you. So do you think he means well? Am just so scared you know. You can never be too sure.

He means well, any man who puts his future and well being first means well for himself and his would be family.

He doesn't want a scenario where he will be having difficulty in managing his immediate home.

The guy is highly responsible, sensible and compatible.

He wants to run his home affairs by himself without third party influencing hence his hustling to foot the marriage bills.

Do you want a situation where his mom and sister will contribute to the marriage and be dictating for him since he is the only son?

That guy is rare.

Ruhuoma49:
I wouldn't be in this quagmire if it were that easy mister. It seems you're bringing your personal problem into this post. Please need advice, not your biased opinion.

if you can't wait for him to be fully prepared for marriage then you can tell him or break up with him and marry the other guy.

Ruhuoma49:
You say this because you're not a lady, you don't know how hurtful it is to date for five years without meeting even a sibling. It's not about the properties mind you, I only referred to that because he has assets and income yet using finance as an excuse. I do have properties in my name given me by my father. If I wait and it doesn't work out, you sure will hastily call me stupid.

Go and marry the other guy and leave him alone to better his life and that of his family.

Since it is marriage you want, there's another proposing it to you, accept and leave this brother to build his life and future.

illicit:
Ijaw girls....

have you lived In an ijaw environment?

so because you guys have dated for 5 years, he should marry you hastily?

You are 24 years and he is in his mid thirties and you want him to marry you because to you, he is due for marriage age wise?

You know he is the only son and he has properties that's why you are with him because you see his future prospects but cannot wait because you already have someone whispering marriage to you?

The guy is a real man, he wants to better the life of his mother and sister and also better his life which is the most important thing to do. Those women cannot be replaced but you can because you already have another man in your head.

He wants to be financially comfortable and independent before starting a family hence the reason why he is taking his time and working towards it.

He doesn't want to introduce you to his mom and family and likewise see yours because he knows how desperate you are. All what is inside your head is marriage because someone is sounding it to your ears.

Leave him and go get married to the other man and allow him develop and better his family life.


You want to dictate, Manipulate and push him into something he isn't prepared for.

Wow, I'm highly impressed and motivated.
One of the few nice post from a female NLander.

stop giving her your food, you are not father Christmas.

You are too soft and forming Mr nice.
Being nice won't take you anywhere or won't give you the kitten. it will only give her the needed push to continue using you to catch cruise.

Hisense4life:
How do you mean.

He didn't put all his eggs in one basket which is the best decision and most ideal thing to do.

You can say that again.....weed is life...weed is the greatest herb created by the most High.

The guy is a real gentleman.

diztantjustice:
Is sextexting a married woman, having very explicit conversation via video call or sharing nudes equivalent to sleeping with another man's wife. Does it attract the same fate as someone who directly fvcks another man's wife. Asking for a friend so I can advise him accordingly.

Yes it is.
Sex texting and sharing nudes is just one step away from penetration. in other words, it is the romance or pre-intimacy before the actual deed is done.

Once you have seen the unclothedness of a married woman, it is equivalent to sleeping with her.
Why do all these stuffs if you don't want to sleep with her?
Seeing her unclothedness and talking dirty and making video call is same thing as penetrating her.
If she was to be with you, won't you grab her?

If your friend hasn't slept with her yet, he should with immediate alacrity cut and severe all sexual ties with her.
Let him not be someone's prayer point or a home breaker.

Sleeping with another man's wife is not ideal.

virginprincess:
You talk as if you men don't insult women too, i don't abuse people anyhow, most of the people i insult here are always the first to attack me, so stop making people think i am sauce, i am not, everything thing that happen here i take them as fun.

saucy not sauce....are you in JSS3?

Traits of simps

AWALT

Betrayal

thesilentman:
Perhaps.She does not keep me in the dark about her toasters.And she doesnt hang around with co-tenants because i have warned her.It was alway during her sweeping task that he must have had any syllable of tete~a ~tete

ok.
ask her if she dresses provocatively when sweeping and equally asks your Co tenants if their wives have complained to them about the landlord too(for the married couples if there's any).

Ask around if the landlord has such trait.

Get a credible, visible evidence before taking any action.

Before the landlord wooed her, maybe your wife and him must have been talking to some extent and that must have given him the confidence to woo her.

Sorry to say this, your wife presented the platform (unknowing to her) for him to do what he did.


Solutions
1. Let your wife set a boundary on the kind of discussions and ties she has with the landlord.

2. Don't rush to confront him because you don't have proof or visible evidence but you can watch the body language of your landlord and try to close mark him and give him that kinda I'm monitoring you.

3. If it persists, if you are capable move out from the vicinity.


Use your brain and not your heart or emotions.

JovialJune:
You are so evil, marriage of barely one month and you want Op to doubt his wife? Someone truthful enough to tell him what's going on? Why are you like this? Most of you are so damaged it's a pity.

E shock you abi?
Guilty conscience

It still doesn't change the fact that 98% of this generation women are transactional, leeches and hungry farm tools.