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whizqueen:
My friend sent me this thread last night but I had too much to say so here we go.

I (A Nigerian girl living in Canada) will be responding to the OP's points and some other comments I found on the thread.


Are Nigerian Ladies in Canada lonely? Ofcourse we are! Are Nigerian girls in NIGERIA lonely? Hell yeah!!! Are Nigerian girls in other countries lonely? Absolutely!!!!! Being lonely is not a factor of location or person. It's about not finding the right friends/partner you vibe with.


Why did we immigrate? Bros are you kidding me? Canadian govt is paying me $2000 monthly and other benefits for losing income due to covid-19 Is that happening in Naija right now? All the money donated by philanthropist in Nigeria would soon disappear into the thin air without our govt giving explanation of any sort. Ofcourse, it's not bed of roses abroad neither were we expecting a man wrapped in a gift bag but please don't let your sentiments cloud your reasoning as to why people make immigration decisions abeg.


I personally feel attacked I recently posted a video on my YouTube Channel about finding love & online dating in Canada. It's asif this hope saw my video and wanted to attack me


What makes you think we would be interested in you to begin with? Don't pride yourself too much plis dear


If you like let the OP influence your decision and stop you from chasing your immigration dreams, last last it's up to you to decide what you want for your future.


Whilst I would agree with growing together with your partner and building with them. I think it's just shallow minded of anyone in this age and time to ask for women to chase marriage first before career. Marriage is not the ultimate not everyone sees marriage as an achievement. These days, if you crave for sex so much, you can pay someone to do it or get yourself a Love Machine, if you want a child, you can literally just buy a sperm and save yourself lots of stress. Most of us are yet to keep an open mind to these things, however if you want something badly there;s always a way to get it.


Most Nigerian men hate to see it happen, there are laws that protect women here and they would prefer dying single than to see women as their equals. A good number of them are control freaks and would rather their woman be at their beck and call for everything as opposed to having their marriage work as a partnership. Nigerian married man knowing the laws of the land will still go ahead and cheat on his wife with a girl living in the same condo with his wife. Una no even dey fear or respect una madam. If atall you really want to cheat, you cannot travel to Nigeria and secretly mess with girls that fancy IJGB crew or allen avenue. As expected, some women do exploit the situation but if you find yourself a god-fearing person and you do the right thing, no divorce laws or child custody issue would stop y'all from flourishing.


White men dont find us attractive? Laughs is Swahili
On the contrary most men of other races have FETISH for Nigerian girls and Black girls in general. Maybe not long term in all cases tho but they reaaaaaaally fancy us and admire our enthusiasm towards life. Whilst most Nigerian girls would likely not wanna go for the likes of 'Ryan', 'Billy' and co it's not cos we don't find them attractive. Firstly, Naija guys are smart, intelligent and goal oriented. You see the average ones already have plans for their future and working towards it unlike the counterparts who are comfortable with just a high school degree. If a Naija guy is even into technical jobs he would try to be the best at it and work towards starting his own company in the near future. Secondly, coping with someone with a different culture, lifestyle, food, etc is honestly stressful. I was talking with one Persian guy and he said before we can kiss or hold hands, we have to be temporarily married. The other chinese guy is only about 5ft tall, I'm just wondering what he would look like in that department

In Nigeria, when you visit a guy at home, some would expect you to know that's express ticket to get laid with them. But here if you visit a guy at home, you can be almost certain that if you guys have sex it's cos you wanted it, no guy will try to lure or manipulate you to straff them or tell you when you came to my house what were you thinking. They know it's important to ask for your opinion or even avoid the whole situation altogether.

Something the OP failed to address is that the Loneliness spans across both men and women living in Diaspora. Even the white people find it hard getting a partner for themselves much less an immigrant that would probably take some time to fully settle in. The system is built to have everyone mind their business, that togetherness or family-spirit is missing.

All the naija guys and ladies in Toronto have finish dating themselves. It's such a small city, everyone knows eachother thru another person only a matter of time before you find out that; the guy toasting you is ex with your colleagues' friend. Or the guy you matched with on the dating app went on a date with your housemate the day before. Some would be married and they would be on the dating apps lying to other women.

Some of us don't even mind going back home to bring men here, but 'em guys just they find paper. Only few genuinely love and care for you. I kuku know people here already do that as business tho, some ladies/guys now charge up to $30,000 to marry people from home to help them get residency here.

There are tons of Nigerians in Canada groups on WhatsApp and Telegram some are just for singles and you find people of age 35, 40, etc filled with both women and MEN. Some guys eventually resort to going back home to marry the less exposed girls, but guess what happens once they reach YYZ airport? Oh well your guess is as good as mine. Their eyes go open finish.

A good number of Naija guys are single and desperately finding love as well as ladies. Truth is, we all crave for love. And that's not a bad thing to want. Finding a good match or significant other is a honestly a game of chance. Home and Abroad, White or Black race finding a partner is truly difficult and if you got lucky finding that one special person, you better love and cherish them truly.

I rest my case; I am in the comment section waiting for someone to jump on my mention and before you do so just remember: Opinions are like as5holes and everyone is entitled to one. So this is my opinion, I have free time today

Link to Original thread https://www.nairaland.com/5782313/chai-nigerian-girls-canada-lonely

@whizqueen link me up to the whatsapp group or telegram group. I will love to connect. I am in Nigeria though but I hope to migrate to CD. +2347035516744. No ulterior motive intended. thanks

eletu11:
Same issues as urs...I was told the hard copies are submitted today in Abuja...till Tomorrow den..

which school please? uniben is playing us wiyo

misstiq:
The same problem I'm having. Saw my name on senate list yesterday but when I proceeded to register, I was told I can't register because my school hasn't fulfilled the mandatory document submission. Uniben sha.

I spoke to the man in student affairs he said by Tuesday 30th we should try registering

spartan117:
I've been hearing this all day But I just did mine at maingate and it went smoothly.

Really.. when did you register at student affairs..

The registration portal has opened.. but uniben students can't register it's saying school yet to submit required documents.. any idea

portal already open for stream 2 registration but uniben students can't register because it's saying school yet to submit physical document.. please anyone with such issues?

I heard for those of us that our names where uploaded late that we will be able to register for stream 2 from 24th Oct.. pls how true is this?

Harbioye:
Jamb regularisation takes some time.
It's only after ur new jamb registration number has been forwarded by jamb to ur mail, that you'll be able to verify ur admission status.
Check ur mail if it has been sent

I heard its the same jamb registration number, it doesn't change..

please did the NLC strike affect Jamb office.. does jamb work on weekends?..i did regularization since Sept 14..my admission status is yet to reflect and NYSC reg starts nxt week.. pls I need a response

queensera:
In a recent interview, Nigerian controversial blogger and journalist "Kemi olunloyo" reveal that pastor "Adeboye" and "Oyedepe" are drug dealers before they invested in church business.

When the interviewer ask kemi Olunloyo if her father (Omololu Olunloyo) is a ritualist like she claimed.

She said:

Yes, my father is a ritualist, he always go to herbalist when he was a politician but he has gave his life to Christ. She further disclosed that she knows some other politicians that are ritualist too.

Watch The Interview Video Below:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VUw6SbV25-M


Video Source By @Nairaplus

Source:
http://www.nairaplus.com/2018/02/my-father-is-ritualist-and-pastor.html



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qzjrs_bP1o0

op this title is misleading, she said there were drug addicts in redeem and Adeboye opened a rehab center..


please be careful how you put things online

imustsaymymindo:
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DLondonboiy:
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You keep wasting your mom's money on exams....and you keep failing them..rubbish!

you are a looser for condemning him.. rather than encourage him to try harder

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November

Uyi Iredia: @ apache: If Nigerians truly vote Jonathan in come 2015, I must consider them, once more, fools. I can understand the sympathy for his humble start, being happy with his CV and his good luck bit all that changed Jan 2012. If Nigerians forget that and still vote him, moreso given this ASUU strike and the carelessness with which it is handled, I must compare them to a wife who returns to an abusive husband, which they've been over the years. I hope I'm proven wrong.

.u talk like a premature humanbeing wen obj increase fuel price 7tyms nobody talkd o,nw jst once dat gej did u speakin jagonz,u are nt d mouthpiece of nigeria,speak for urself.u wud be xo suprised in 2015

[color=#990000][/color]u blind critisizers are the önce movin backwardz nt me.Nigerias problems are nt only the leaders bt the followers too.i Believe in nigeria and i wil continue to pray for the leaders whether good or bad,i advice u 2 do the same,because the truth is everytin has its limit,nigerias problem wil subside oneday,but u the abusers 2geda wit the bad leaders may not be partakers of the new nigeria because u re guilty.jst pray nd critisize the ryt way xo u wont be a victim in d transformation.God bless u.

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