₦airaland Forum

geezyk: You've just said everything I intended saying,IMO going through breakup is just another step in life's enormous teachings,

You must have a fair share of the bad before you can be able to appreciate the good that comes your way..

I've had my own fair share of breakups even in this past year 2012,I lost a relationship that was really dear to me,that didn't make me decide to be bad at all other girls... Infact it taught me more about how to respect and treat girls the more...

My candid advice


If you feel insecure about the relationship,feel free to sit him down and talk about what you've been thinking.. Listen to what he says carefully and review/compare it with what you've seen,from there you'll know the way forward either by staying or leaving him
Finally @cutejay... You're still very young to be feeling this way there are a lotta people in the outside world looking to have you as a wife to be,don't waste your time on wishful thinking cos it hurts much...

My 2cents

ensure, u re not loving him out of pity; otherwise it becomes a burden to you; thats when u wud decide to pull out!.. buh he might ve eatn u deep!; there after goin back or forward becomes a problem...

Akpan107: May God protect our President! Even if he is doing nothing, atleast, for the fact that, power is not in the hands of those who hate us with passion, i am very happy. coming 2015 my vote with that of my family woudl go to Mr. Goodluck Ebele Jonathan. God bless Nigeria and Nigerians. I pass him 90per cent!

GEJ... is givn governance a good bite! to ensure Naija becomes beta.... than ever! governance with decency is not easy though..! excellent work GEJ.

talk2me006: .

hopeful, he gets beta shaaa...

ProGSM: That Gov is not doing anything in our state. Sometime I consider Occupy Abia ......

dnt worry about his Obama congrats... its just formalities! the man no even send am..!.....ish

[quote author=nuges...1]I jst like this girl...don't really know why[/quote]she is just all too gud...! .........ish

Shakara123: Ok. I pray the letter gets to him. Thank God for social media and the internet. We are getting informed. There is always a tipping point.

It is at such moments I aprreciate the works of the Edo state governor, Adams.

fair brawl...

obongtunji: .
Thank you very much you have said it all. We like to be forced to follow law and order........lop

we nid to ensure decency and oderliness in our doings! sure

gen2briz: Olusegun mimiko - ONDO STATE IS BROKE

Gov. Martin Nwanchor Elechi!!!.... duin his best! satisfactory for the nascent state...!

WORDALIVE: be guarded wit wat u say to anybody because u will eat d fruit of your lips good or bad,the word that we speak is spirit and life.

the bible stipulates and enjoins all pastors not to prophecy in void or speculations!... cos of the repercussion dat will flw suit... so! does doubtn, dis prophecy shud allow God to determine the fate of it all...!

[quote author=d_truth]@ akshw u again?.... i am sure u are the son of a poor pety farmer.. poverty has blinded ur sense of reasoning...[/quote]Bab OBJ.. accept our regrets!...

dridowu: I need to work hard also , so dat I can make it. With God all things are POSSIBLE

Sure; it takes a man to do a mans job!

[quote author=Atheist:-D]Exactly.

We go shopping with our other halves and we spend numerous hours buying everything and anything. We get home and when I want to quickly see the match highlights (a match we could have watched live if not for the shopping spree) she starts grumbling.

Women. [/quote]well football and wrestling happens to be my favorite sports! so ladies queue and enjoy it too!

kwangi: Better ways like...?
Nigerians are fvcking funny!
When you see a swordsman draw your sword!
Don't recite poetry to one who is not a poet!
How else do you handle such problem as exists in NFF?

nawaoooo! this is not just a way to reward our compatriots..!!! for just complaining! @least he is not yet a pensioneer!!!!... naija nids to be technologically advanced. yes

tosenbaba: we grew up with these words,but i thank God now when i look back,thought they were bad words but some were used to set us back on track and make us stay focus and also to bring out the best in a kid...So its not all that bad for a reasonable kid

All this words are rather mild for a typical african child! like me, i endured and coped with much harsh and worst environment as a tender lad! but today; its been testimony all through, cos even does ma guardians are too fond of me now, and even appraise themselves for doing a good work in my upbringing! so, a reasonable african child should knw wat to expect in life.. cos this more like what our tropical environ demands...

Truckpusher: YOU DESERVE SOME FLOGGING FOR EVEN BELIEVING ON THOSE PROMISES IN THE FIRST PLACE AS NIGERIAN.

our naija is not such miracle driven and enabled country! so, its up to us youths to reinstate such philosophy so dat we can pamper dis our naija till wen the ball will be in our court!! yes!

PortHarcourtBoy: @Op, you can call when Kornji calls

I don talk my own

you can call only if you want to ameliorate issues with ur Ex.....!!! buh make sure you dnt love again out of pity!.. cos caln will simply bring back the intimacy; afterall wats der to discuss after the dump!

mmmustapha: Kaduna state should b on dis list

kaduna guber. election was the worst i ve witnessed!, der wer incessant multiple voting!..... too bad..

mmmustapha: Kaduna state should b on dis list

kaduna guber. election was the worst i ve witnessed!

[quote author=#80million]*speechless*

MAULAG,
no be Unilag o![/quote]i still maintain that EBSU! Ai.. is amongst the list! @least we are decent and well groomed!

olybob: guy u gt ham well all dis semi American movie me I no knw o. OUR OWN NA OUR OWN.

Naija best collections unravelled; i watched dem all... very interesting indeed!!

ziccoit: Kidney dialysis or transplant? Seriously there are some articles of news that are supposed not to be made public.

Nigeria is a joke. Is this an achievement for a government in this century? Dialysis!

I need to read this article many times possible.

its a landmark achievement!

Freezle: Great work by the federal government, but still more work to be done.

this work has proven dat GEJ... has the political etiquethe to be a pace setter and to bring about meaninful development to our country naija.... much is still expected!!! from him.. though.

speedyboi: Anyway, here's my own epic

1. Agbara Nla: the Ultimate power (1993)- very scary movie!
2. Ireke Onibudo (I met the cassette in the house it should be around the 70s or early 80s)
3. Ayanmo Ife- very funny stuff I can't stop laughing now
And so much more.
Funny I still have some of the videos in My closet. The last time I dusted my VHS PLAYER to watch 'em....I couldn't pass the first scene. They are as crappy as f/uck.

Except Thunderbolt, saworoide and a few others

Nollywood use to be resourceful in decades ago!, whereas; she is now more of a source now.!

OlowoTee: And, why was I thinking this got to do with the Maltina Family Dance show?...poor moi.

Op
Yes, we did use it in primary school in the eighties.

i cudnt read when i was in ma early primary; maybe! i had a carryover in reader! self.. who knws

eccentric: Ha ha! Mad cow disease! A new strain must hav hit Onitsha this season. Or The poor cow was just defending it's fundamental mooing rites!

yea, its all gud! attack is still the best foem of defence!

dany2k: smh..its a pity

how cums the hunter is now the hunted! the man forget say attck na the best form of defence.....

siobahn: You are a cow thought you were human.......my bad!

This cow looks real! buh no make ups anyway!, nid applysome blushes

johnstar: if u dnt wnt 2 rply, y did u comment, 9ja mentality ehn, I noe ur 4rm aluu ,

Ebonyi State.. salt and crude oil Enabled

Ikwere fist son: 4 benue yes bt 4 west na oye soup

Thank God its in Ebonyi.... i pray it vrings development......

[quote author=Red-Light]@post congratulations to the winners [/quote]Chei.. No naija name @al, even our big boi self! Mikel i vote u, neva mind

Slyr0x: https://jemblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/smh.gif

Can make do with chinchin, malt, and meat