FiremanX: But seriously some men out there are very foolish, how can you pay someone 3 million just to talk to her? this is why most of these girls brag around
Broke niggas like u won't understand the Power of money
Alesa3341: Hello Guys, please I need a sincere and matured advise on what to do. This will be long, please bare with me.
I'm 27, am a businessman, I have this girl I really love so much and intend to marry her this year December, but one thing about her is her bad character. She challenge me, talk back at me, shout at me, get angry with me for days, refuse to cook when she is angry, disrespect my family, most especially my mum, always trying to paint herself good and paint me bad in presence of people, these are just little of the things she has done to me.
When she lost her job, and had nowhere to go, I had to bring her to my house, and provide everything for her, food, I change her hair twice a month, subscribe unlimited for her, I just provided everything a woman need to be happy for her. Last year November, she told me she haven't seen her mum for 5years and wanted to travel to see her, I spent close to 200k to take her to and fro, including other things she needed. She insisted on collecting the bride price list for me when coming back, I spoke to her mum and they gave her to give me. I was planning to finalize all on the weeding this year.
Last year DECEMBER, I took her to my family to introduce her, but this was the biggest mistake of my life. She was completely disrespectful to my mum, talks to me anyhow in presence of anyone, even to the extent of refusing to cook for me anytime she is angry, I go to kitchen and prepare food myself.
I love this girl so much but I still thought of continuing, with all this attitudes, I advise her everyday, I also took her to my pastor who advise her too most of the times, but she never changes.
Fast forward to 2days ago, we had issues because she told me to join her in washing and I refused because I was working on a client project, she got angry, washed the clothes and when it was evening she brought the clothes inside, folded her own in the wardrobe and just threw mine into the wardrobe without folding or arranging them. I was angry about this, but I kept mute. The next day, she sent me "sorry" on WhatsApp, I told her to come to me physically and apologize but she told me she can never do that, and why was she even apologizing, that she did nothing wrong, we exchanged words and she left my house.
Today, she called me and told me she is pregnant, and that I should send her money to remove it. I was like "just like that"? We didn't discuss about it, how will you just tell me you want to terminate my pregnancy, I told her to go to hospital and confirm it and also get the test report, she did this and sent to me, it was true she is pregnant, but she insisted on removing it, I persuaded her and she still refused, claiming she can't be a single mother. I told her I will take responsibility, but she insisted on removing it, I told her to go home and think about it, and she told me she can't leave there without removing it. After so much persuading I decided to give her the money, and told her if she removed it, that it's on her, that I didn't consent to this.
I asked her why we can't keep it, and she said because my family is bad, we support evil, if the sky is blue, we say it's red, that my mother is a bad woman, and she doesn't want to come there. She said so many bad things about my family, I was shocked! I asked her, how are they bad, she said "how can my mother be telling her to wash my clothes" I was just confused, After all I have done for you, is it bad if you wash your husband to be clothes, I left her!
Later she told me the doctor referred her to another hospital, I still tried to persuade her and she said her decision is final. She asked me to give her money to go to the hospital she was referred to, I refused! I insisted that we keep the baby, she told me "I'm a nobody, that she will call now and she will get money to go" I angrily blocked her. Later, she called my other line and told me, she went to the other hospital and the doctor told her, the cost to remove the pregnancy is 125k, she told me and I insisted on keeping the baby.
Please guys help.me, I don't want to terminate my first child, the girl is too disrespectful and rude, I don't want to continue with such woman, but she is carrying my baby, what do I do? And if she later agree to keep it, how do I go about it?
You all are just saying "don't marry her" what about the baby? Should I agree to abort it and give her the money?
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So want to make her a baby Mama and dump her. So u will go ahead and marry someone else n u leave her taking care of your child.
Her being a baby reduces her chances finding a man for marriage.
Update: Besiktas want to cancel Nigerian, Dele Alli's loan deal and send him back to Everton, but it is unlikely to happen as there is no break-clause in the midfielder’s deal. (Sky Sports)
Nigerians should pray for the career of their son, Dele Alli
You can do this son, rise and get your shooting boots on.
Slynation: The only thing I have to tell you is to forget long talks and apply logical thinking... That is why some of you believed whatever Lai Mohammed and APC tells you...!!
Same can be said of you. Cause u applied no logical thinking with what you posted earlier.
Ceenachi: The story get K-leg, the parents are not saying the truth, you sent her to buy kerosene at 8pm n she goes to Madonna university, nah fire wood una take dey cook n still afford Madonna fees
Learn to think properly b4 u type. It could have been an emergency likely d gas had finished.
southsouthking: I've been on Facebook since 2009, I've never for once uploaded my picture there. I value my private life so much that sometimes people thinks I'm a sadist.
Learn to stay low-key, not everything should be on the social media space.
Thermodynamics: Hello, I saw this guy's video on YouTube who talked about how the field of software development is now oversaturated with millions of Indians and just people in general from both 3rd world and 1st world countries rushing in and learning how to code, creating a huge amount of competition
Another major point out there is that the entry barrier for a software developer is very low, anybody from any field can become a programmer, someone with a degree in theater art for instance can learn how to code and become a competition for you who has a computer science degree, I personally have a child hood friend who studied history in the University and is now employed as a software developer. In some cases there are even people who have gotten employed as a software developer with no undergraduate degree. It's just like a field for everyone.
Also, a point the YouTube guy hited is the fact that machine learning and artificial intelligence is taking over, most of the jobs that usually need to be manually done by a software developer can now be automated and done with some software that can be operated by anyone with just some basic computer skills.
I fear for the future or this field, it seems like in a not so distant future having a skill in software development would be as common as having a skill in Microsoft word or Excel.
Here is the YouTube link if you want to watch the video:
ppogba: There are things that Mbappe can do that Haaland rarely do. For example, dribble. Haaland does not have the speed of Mbappe. There is hardly anything that Haaland can do that Mbappe can not.
Aurelius1: Point of correction, not everyone wants to have a taste of nonsense. She has zero sex appeal and besides, she's too stiff for my liking. I prefer my woman to be soft and big boobed.
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