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Asalam alykum waramatullahi wabarakatu

How was your day, my regard to your cutie

ifyalways:
Hello Iya Fauziyat

Hi ma, am here

Count down to December 18

They are great and kind people here they are ready to help if they find out and see you truly need help, g.mama@ ifyalways she was to first to extend a helping hand to me, she is wonderful person ,cheerful giver I will forever be greteful to you ma and everyone that help me financially and with word of encourage. For the op try to post and evidence to show you are affected

Gboliwe:


Rest your mind Mami. You will be amazed at how she would pick up. I mean, she is just 5.she hasn't and won't lose anything.

All the best in the operations. I am sure it will be very successful

Amin. Thank you so much sir

AceRoyal:
Hello Everyone,
This thread is for us to share our biggest problems, challenges and frustrations.
It's a faceless forum but I'm sure people can reach out and be of help.

Please it's not an avenue for begging, it's just an avenue to open up and air out your mind.
If someone that's capable of providing a solution is touched by your problem(s), they're free to render help/assistance.


Opening this thread to help fight against depression.

My daughter she will be five next month can't write anything apart from one due to cataract.


Though she will be operated soon for cataract thanks to nairaland family ( ifyalways,zanie,gboliwe and many more) they come to my aid in my time of depression.

but am afraid of complication

how will she cope after the surgery, she is very active ,

will she be able to comply with the rules that come with it.

How am I and her teacher going to teach her so she could catch up with her mate

ifyalways:
Good morning ma. i will try another way.

.Good morning ma.

Momot:
Urgently in need of sales girl in abeokuta ogun state...contact 08063225346

Good afternoon ma,Is it still available or do you know anyone who need a sales girl
Help pls

Motirayo2018:


You will testify insha Allah. You will carry your own children and your home will be filled with happiness

The pain of marriage without a child is unbearable

May Almighty Allah(swt) gladdens all TTC with blessed child

ifyalways:
Iya Fauziyat, thank God and take good care of our baby.

Alihamdulillahi I will try my best

TheMadame:


Madam,
Good evening, I salute your and your daughters courage. Rest assured that God will always find a way to take care of his own.

Thank you for your kind words. Your children will always be a source of joy to you ma.

union123:
I’ve been married to my husband for some years now, I had a car when I married him and we used the car for over 2years until he bought his own car, he insisted that his name should be on it, which I did. I bought the house furniture including bed and some other stuff in the house when my business was bumming, for once I never complained, all his clothes, wristwatch and shoes where bought by me, wheneverAllah
.colleagues sees things on him they will jokingly say is madam that bought this again because he doesn’t hide that fact from them. We never had issues but we’ve been waiting on God for a child, we’ve done several IVFs but no pregnancy yet.
My inlaw are putting pressure on us and this is getting to him more, I’ve decided to keep at arms length till God answers me.
These days when any of his relatives calls him especially the siblings and his mum he will go to the room to receive the call. I found out that he told his people that he had a dream that my mum is behind my waiting knowing fully well that we caught the younger sis about 4years ago when she said she went somewhere and she was told is my mum that is taking me around so that he can love. I was pained the day I found out, he apologized and we moved on.
This year I bought a license from govt to run my business and this requires a lot of money, I’ve put bulk of my money in tbills for immigration for us, so he came to my rescue. He went to his bank and collected loan, I borrowed money from my mum too.
We are both directors of the business. Lately my husband has been telling me that I should write out how much he has given me for the business and we should both sign it. I didn’t answer him, I told him that the money in treasury bill is both our money. Last night he wrote out the money including bank charges and sent to my mail and also to my whatsapp.
I remembered that the dad wanted to buy a land for us, he didn’t have the money then so I gave him and I insisted the name on the doc should be Mr and Mrs. The dad bought the land and didn’t put my name and he never gave him land doc, so he returned my money.
The car we are using was bought by both of us.
I feel he has a plan
I do all am supposed to do as woman eg laundry, cooking and taking care of him.
I’m saddened
I told him we should adopt he said no, I told him about surrogacy, he said that can only happen if we relocate and his family are not close to us. We went for his Dr friend birthday and the Dr told him about surrogacy and he said no.
I’m in tears, God please answer me.

You will testify insha Allah. You will carry your own children and your home will be filled with happiness

LadySarah:
so happy.
The surgery will Go well,amen

Amen

ifyalways:
Dr Abiola, God bless you beyond human comprehension and increase you in all you do.
Im so happy for Fauzayat.

Amen

ifyalways:
No wahala at all. Zaynie will sort out the payment later. Take care of Fauziyat.

Thanks you so much ma for always been there for us

TheMadame:


Good day ifyalways
I just saw your mention this evening because I haven't been regular on Nairaland for some time .
Please can an account be provided for my contribution to Fauziyat.
Sorry for the late response.

Good evening ma ,thanks so much for your response

G mama Ifyalways ,mummy zaynie I paid for card and consultation which is 2900naira but I was refunded my money by Dr abiola

ifyalways:
Already? . Nice but i hope you went with Fauzayat and the test results?

Good morning ma , we are giving December 18 for the right eyes surgery which will be free.
The free program is closing in December and the second eye surgery(left) is schedule for January 17..

They said the surgery fee is 60,000 naira

Motirayo2018:


Good evening ma

More blessing

zaynie:



The 20k donor withdrew 15k and left 5k for Fauzat.
New total is 69k

Cc
Ifyalways
Motirayo2018

Good evening ma

ifyalways:
Already? . Nice but i hope you went with Fauzayat and the test results?

Yes ma I went with her and the result.

Motirayo2018:



Good evening ma
Yes I have collected it

Am in Ibadan

ifyalways:

Welldone. Were you able to go to LUTH today for the test results?

Good evening ma
Yes I have collected it

G mama Ifyalways ,mummy zaynie

I was called by Mr emeka from Ibadan to come on Tuesday.
So she could be check and book for the surgery

JstBrave:
Mama Ifyalways and mama zaynie
People like u are the reason why I haven't given up on Nigeria yet. Kind hearted Nigerians still exist. May God reward you bountifully mas.

Motirayo2018, may God perfect all that concerns you and your baby. Fauzayat will be fine, just be strong for her.

Amin. Thank you ma

Motirayo2018:



Thank you so so much ma,you have been a wonderful person l to me, I will be in luth on Monday

Good morning fam,

Happy Sunday, may this week be a week of new beautiful things in our life, the year is going to the end.

We shall witness more fruitful years in life.

Thank you all for been there for me in this trying times.(eniyan LA asho mi)

I received a test yesterday also from her to send her name,sex,age,mother fullname and phone number.thank you so much for the call and everything

ifyalways:

Its safe to say we wont be needing donations anymore and maybe will issue a refund to some of the donors. Any donor that wants a refund can PM Zaynie pls. Thank you so much guys.

Fauzayat will need post surgery care though so the donations will still come in handy but this is optional for the donors.

Thank God. Motirayo2018 please contact Zaynie and endeavor to go to LUTH on Monday to collect the test results.

Thank you so so much ma,you have been a wonderful person to me, I will be in luth on Monday

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Another anon donor of 5k
And another of 2k
New total 85k

Another NLer has offered to link us to an NGO willing to do the surgery free of charge.
Please Motirayo2018 kindly post your contact details so that I can forward it to
the person[/quote

I have received the call,am so so happy.
Thanks to everyone .
Thank you ma@ zanie
Thank you g.mama@ ifyalways you have done a lot for me.am so grateful one

zaynie:


Not this Monday though, the upper one.
Since she still needs to see the Dr this Monday, I guess next week can work

I got another anon donor of 2k this morning.
New balance with me is 77k

Thanks to all that contributed financially and with word of encouragement. Mercy of the lord will always be with them. Allah will replenish their pocket

ifyalways:
Whats the point of going to Ibadan now and starting afresh again? I think its better to get it done and over @ LUTH.

OK ma .

Motirayo2018:
Dominique can you please help move to front-page so I can get more assistance

Lalasticlala
Seun

Good morning

Vulcanheph:
Lala Snake Jokes in 3, 2, 1, .......

Why is all snake post always on front page.

I have been begging for my post to be move to front-page for two month.
Nothing was done