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On the norms, 15 year olds aren't expected to be thinking about that less getting involved because "it's adults business" but we all know what growth hormones do ➕ my personal inclination that kids these days are old souls in a young body lol... To answer you in plain terms anyway, it's OK so far the 15 year olds know to play safe and never get caught.

Lol

QuinieR:
This food wanna make me puke ..not presented well

I'm sorry the presentation made you want to puke but trust me, that's how a typical middle class Nigerian serves his meal.

Rice and beans, efo elegusi with them snail and egg wey don carry pepper enter brain. Come slice small garden egg and small honey-coated ginger join am on one Sunday morning like that.

Ebo kanka tii kagun laya... Humongous sacrifice that makes the vulture tremble�

Hustler ni bobo yi sa

Negativity so stuck up in ppl's subconscious these days... Why is nobody talking about a Male Logic of Men who put up with em crackers daily in other to support family and give their kids a life they weren't opportuned to have?

I don't know if anybody here will agree with me that the author of this thread is not in any way pursuing a honest romantic relationship. Instead, she is a scientist on an experimental feat trying to study human male courtship/sexual behaviors. It beats me how someone would just wake up one day and decide she is going on a sexless romantic relationship with a male adult. Like yeah, if it were to be that she be on a pure religious level where intimacy were uptight and borderline forbidden, would have gotten it. But talking about this white man 21st century style, I don't just get what she's on.

MissRaine69:
Does not change my point of view.

OK.

I begin to ask myself what the price paid to amass such stupefying riches must have been ...

MissRaine69:
Wait what??
This is your criteria?
“fully financially dependent girlfriend...?” What’s wrong with some men?
You will die a poor and bitter man as you set your bar below the ground. If you expect nothing you will get nothing.

Should've taken time to read his underlying footnote tiger, maybe then you'll not have misconstrued the author. He's at crossroads because he has fears his current financial status might not suffice for taking care of his new love who happens to still be schooling.

Declare it

erico2k2:
Assumption might make you get fired cos from this post, You never read the Original post.She has not been on leave for long,as a matter of fact it was stated there.More so head office said she can take as much leave as she can, so your own policy would be different from Head office right? or did you not see that the manager and teh staff are being employed at same terms?
In teh west thesame HR laws governs everybody.

OK.

The agony! I can't even imagine. This demonic rule of "we must get an official police report" whenever things like this that involves the establishment happens tho, it's high time it's reviewed to curtail avoidable death. What's the essence of living peacefully with this Nigerian system when life means something close to nothing though? Where are the radicals at ??

Whoever has the money should pay. High time life's questions had straightforward , unambiguous answers!

Where is she from? She doesn't look Nigerian, or is it me?

It's a question of definition. What's romantic to a Frech shouldn't necessarily be captivating and arresting to a Nigerian. There are so many factors to it, I hope you remember that.

Mrbolt565:
Stop being needy! Its is a huge turn off! Don't just jump into relationship like that because u see all ur peers doing it. It is stupid! I hear guys saying all sort off rubbish like "she dumped me" or "she used me after spending so much money". Why the fvuck not? When she saw how stupid you are. It's common sense. See ehn, Ive never been in a relationship! I will will never cus i don open eye see! All these girl are fvucking leeches! Fvucking parasites waiting to suck on its prey(men)!. Anyways, If you want to be in a relationship with any girl, Never! I repeat, Never! Should you put in more effort than she is! Its a 50/50 thing. She puts in her 50, u put yours. U just see one fine girl today, u start chasing her like a fool, buying her all sorts of things, worshipping her. Now tell me. How tf would'nt see use you? When she's seen ur stupidity! Mahn u guys really need to wise tf up. Its not by force to be in relationship. It does'nt pay for shiit. Single life is too sweet. Let me tell you. They are also these set of foolish guys that just want to be in relationship because u want to impress others? See ehn, nobody gives a fvuck about you and ur relationship with a girl. Never do things like this to impress others naw! Grown up men, i no suppose dey tell you things like this naw. U supposed don reason all these things na. Hmmmmm..


Im out!!

I disagree. Even though it is irritating when grown ass men begin to whine over anything and everything when their relationship with a significant other goes sour, preaching a total alienation from and denial of love or anything that relates to it would not necessarily be the solution. Healthy relationships are built over time and energy. It is not one built over cheap WhatsApp correspondences like people do these days, one actually have to live through many things together to build it. Keeping this prerequisite of a relationship in mind, it should be easy to understand that there is no gauge to measure how much either party has to contribute because when it is healthy it is unconsciously built. People (ladies and gents alike) must have simply forgotten how to live correctly and that might just be the reason for the epidemic lackeys evident from incessant breakups, abuse and repeat cum depression ensuing from emotional stress... These days, it's like once the material whims of riches and/or bodily requirements of intimacy gets placated, every sense of romance disappears. It's a problem of misplaced priorities IMO.

erico2k2:
Chey U don see say if U was the Manager you for don lose your JOB

I disagree with you! I wouldn't have lpst my job because my original position was one that assumes that the lady has been on leave for a long while which interestingly is not the case here. You get my drift now?

Dear Nigerian ladies, Don't ever siddon look your husband go on a trip to South Africa alone, those who've allowed that have bitter stories to tell... A word they say is enough for the wise

These oyinbo ppl have alien alien perspectives about love and life that makes you doubt their sanity but when you dig into the story behind the madness you get bewitched enough to forgive, forget and understand

I don't do etiquettes because I forget. I just try to be nice

Luxuryconsult:
ayam normal my broda even over normal self. I'm just emotionally dependent. Dazol. I don't need anyone in life except me... That's just it. I'm not the only one trust me.

OK.

I beg to agree with the boss. This story doesn't seem to me as if this incidence of her taking work leave is a first. She must have been on the leave for so long it's beginning to affect work and those who cover-up for her. . . My deductions might not be 100 but the gut feeling is too pressing to ignore.

Luxuryconsult:
lol. You really haven't meet people in life.

Maybe. But that doesn't make you normal, does it?

Luxuryconsult:
I mean relationship wise. As a cancerian i'm very emotional buh only in the issues of life, when i see people suffering from anything (Disease, sickness, poverty and the likes) buh when it comes to relationship wise, trust me, i'm probably the strongest man in that aspect. I just don't need anyone to complete me, not a friend, not a partner. Nothing at all. Though i was raised a loner and it has really helped me to be emotionally dependant in life. You just can't see me sad because an opposite sex i call a partner does anything or from a friend action. It's like no one can hurt me emotionally friendship/relationship wise though.

A neighbor and i got talking the other day and he was telling me how he almost died because his girlfriend wasn't there for him, it happened that they both agreed to meet that day and the lady changed the plan, i was just shaking my head for him. A grown man with 2 kids ooo with another woman though. And so also i remember this neighbor back then in Ib city also, he always complain with sadness and bitterness all because of a woman.

With few things have seen, and seeing how weak people are emotionally in relationship, i just can't buh thank my parent for raising me a loner. In my house, no friend, no girlfriend/boyfriend. Driver take you to school during high school days and come to take you back after school. Infact if anyone come asking for us, you might be looking at us sitting right in front of you buh if mum says we are not around, then we are not around. Hehehehe. That's after rigorous questions ooo and if you pass her questions, then she'd call whosoever you've come to see and you must talk just outside the building, you are not going anywhere. Back in those days, it wasn't easy for we (the boys in the house) seeing all of our friends getting laid, gisting us how they do the do and how social they were then. My parent are not wicked, infact my mum is more of a friend to us all than a mother. Buh both Mum and Dad are loners so they made sure we all inherited that trait. And it actually paid off.

Most of my ex thought it was just plain wickedness buh i no fit do pass myself now. And till date, since i was born i only have 3 friends. And my social life is about 30%. I don't regret anything anyway, i just wish to know how many people out there are like me.

Like Emotionally dependant like me.

Your story is all shades of weird. From your parents getting to consciously ensure you and your siblings inherit the 'loner's trait', to you having a gauge for your social life up till you having only 3 friends makes the Harry Porter story look normal. To answer your question, you're one of a kind. Your type grace this part of the Universe only once in a thousand years

I love to share, indeed. Another private one sent to me again. What do you all make of this take on the ongoing suffering of the Tiv and Benue, Plateau and the over all Benue valley communities?
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#truthbetold @restmovement: a little history lesson for those who really want to know the TRUTH!
Edited ( _emphasis ours_ )

*CATTLE COLONY AND FULANI EXPANSIONISM*

FACTS, as told by *Zamani Lekwot* and *Col. Yohanna Madaki* .

(Read so that History does not repeat itself in our time!)

*Cattle colony is not a new thing in Nigeria* . It has existed long before independence and it is called *Zango* (a word in Hausa that means colony).

Zango has existed in many areas of Yoruba land. Till today, there is *Sango Otta* , the home country of our former president (Obasanjo). Know this, *Sango* is a corruption of the word *Zango* .
There is *Zangon Kataf in Zonkwa* , Kaduna State.

*When the Fulani's came there, they did not tell the natives that they were coming to settle. They just asked for a small land by the market as shed to sell cattle. This was granted them.*

The Fulani's soon gained entrance into Kafanchan town and before long, they turbanned one of themselves and addressed him, *Emir of Jemaa* . *Jemaa in Hausa* *means, ALL* .
When the natives raised eye brow, they said the emire was going to be their own king, not the Kafanchan people.

During the military government, the Southern Kaduna people got a local government with the name, *Jemaa Local Government.* Later, Zonkwa got a separate local government and the local government was named *Zangon Kataf Local Government* .

The emir of Jemaa got a first class stool and the entire Southern Kaduna became tribute paying enclave of the Zazzau emirate. *The cunning jihad became a success. The Southern Kaduna people were banned from buying or selling commodities in Zangon Kataf local government save for what the Fulani's permitted.*

In the process, burukutu and pork meat were outlawed. The protest to regain the market from the Fulani became the greatest Zangon Kataf crises that consumed many southern Kaduna lives leading to the arrest and unlawful imprisonment of the most prominent Kataf son, *General Zamani Lekwot and many other Christian leaders.*

The people of Ilorin cannot tell their story as Kwara State without their Fulani Emir (in a Yoruba speaking state). So is the Emir of Muri in Jalingo who was deposed leading to the _forceful and untimely retirement_ as well as _removal from office_ of governor of *Col. Yohanna Madaki.*

The Fulanis have a history of claiming wherever they had Zango (Colony) as their own territory and from there begin expansion by bringing more Fulanis from Niger, Chad and Senegal.
The sole aim is to drive away all other tribes from Nigeria or waste their lives and take over the land.

When NTA broadcasted for several weeks that one *Alhaji Maikudi founded Makurdi,* they are most probably talking of a Zango (colony) located by River Benue.
Anywhere they stayed, the first Fulani to enter the town is the founder of that Zango (colony), and wherever they had Zango (colony), they will host a Fodio flag for occupation. ( *those little flags you see hanging around their settlements that look like the Nigerian flags we use to tie along the road when celebrating October 1st* )
*NOTE* : Those states thinking of opening up colonies or new Zangos for Fulani do not know what they are doing because in no time, they will get an Emir and Fulani will claim the whole state as their own.
*For so long as Nigeria permit voting Fulani to be their president, federal monetary allocations will be made to buy more arms for Fulani to come from Agades and other desert places in Africa to come and live in their new colonies and begin fresh ethnic cleansing.*

Culled from Franka Obih

SEND TO THOSE IN the MIDDLE BELT AND EASTERN PARTS...they need to know what they are dealing with!
#wiseup

The inventor of hydroponics in Nigeria? What is that supposed to mean?

This i's already being done. I watched a program on NTA over the weekend that showcased the steps being taken to bring it back... What is the "Islamic agenda" by the way?

Fellow Nigerians should please try to calm down and put their thoughts together before jabbing at the keys, proofread before pressing the send button. Most submission here by hommies has been an eyesore.

Afamed:
Unfortunately most of the critisms here on Nairaland are not constructive but pull it down at all cost critisms.

That kind of criticism is good for business if you ask me.

XhosaNostra:
There was no need for an escape because I didn't go into anyone's private space.

In the 1st incident, I was outside the car. He had his pants down. Plus I was just in front of my place, so even if he tried to chase after me, I was only a hop away from safety.

2nd guy, I was inside & he was outside.

OK, Cleared. Nice story!