₦airaland Forum

vedaxcool:
Bleaching mumu, if they had given you automatic ticket it m and they are strong since you didn't get their ticket now you mouthing off like a pained loser. Please face your PRP. PMB will never abuse democratic process for ingrates like yourself. If weakness means following due process and allowing the will of the people prevail I prefer it to your arrant foolishness.

Which due process are you talking about,for your information PMB is a threat to Democracy , he's abusing the democracy.

ghuzy01:
Obviously, it's a tourism motivated move...am just impressed at the growth of the country bearing in mind the struggles and scars they 've had over the last 2 decades

A Nation with a good leadership who has a visions, Kagemi is doing a wonderful work he's just too good for Rwandans.

ghuzy01:
Can someone tell me the kind of business collaboration between arsenal and Rwanda. Am not understanding this visit Rwanda on all arsenal Jerseys.

To attract more tourist to their country, it's just an advertisements.

xeros20:
I witness the scene. The news is true.

NWAOOOO , na wetin self ? I don dhey fear for this life.

emmykey0128:
How did she overpowered the mumu man,she was stabbing the husband and the kids sat down looking until she came to kill them one by one and kill herself too abi?d story get kleg jare

NA so they never talk wetin happened maybe they were even murdered.

Oyimzy:
I went to the house, and according to wat people around said

They said the woman stabbed the husband to death while there were arguing in front of the children,
So she probably killed d children too so as to cover up for her crime

And she also killed herself in d fear of going to jail before the neighbors broke down the door.

Guy this story doesn't add up , how can she kill her children to cover up and still kill herself.
She either kill her husband and herself not to kill her children .
There's more to this story .

soliddust2020:
How can a mother kill her own kids after killing her husband. Entire family gone. Police should also check the possibilty of them murdered by other peole.

You make a valid point.

SEGLIZ:
.... never heard of such ghost bank in this country before now (pardon my ignorance). 2 out of the facilities used in siphoning our soft currency to boost their system and make their currency harder, has just closed shop blaming Mr President for tightening the economy against them.
the report has blame Mr President, let wait and the first person to blame APC and Buhari for this.

ABEG NA WHO DO UNA THIS STRONG THING.
NWAOOOO BRAIN ABI SENSE NO THEY UNA HEAD AGAIN OOOO.
Even foetus knows very well that PMB is momentum failure.

[quote author=Menal99 post=72644548]one thing I can say about the period we've found ourselves in a LDR is the fact that we haven't lost the bond. Apart from being lovers, I cab categorically say we've been good friends even when the 'I miss you're begins to sound tiring to the ears sometimes

I MISS YOU BEGINS TO SOUND TIRING TO THE EAR SOMETIMES. here got laughing

that's how it use to be sometimes but don't give up if I tell you my experience with my girl eeh .. Mmm .

Just always remind him of the future, profess and express your love for him and always ask God for Divine Directions.

Menal99:
I'm not Ibo nor Yoruba. Sincerely, I don't know the requirements for a marriage in my tribe but I do know the bride price is very little but the list of things to get is. He has actually asked Me severally about the requirements but I was only able to get little information. I'm the first daughter of my family

My sister I don't think you are the person who is to get the list .
I'm from Igbo by tribe Anambra State to be precise but grew and bred in Yoruba land. But to be candid with he's the one that will come with one or two people to collect the MARRIAGE LIST from.your family not by sending you .BTW he can do a low key event just like me low key event has always be my desires of which I have discussed with my girl and she's fine with it EXCEPT you or him want to do something big .

P.s
Low key events has not to do with financial status of the people involves but by choice and circumstances.

OneSentence:
yes I believe so. the man is just playing smart

Funny thing now is that this girl is just trying to justify his reason the guy reasons and give in to the guy request.
No bi say he wan marry before, make him marry fast and put am for house and dhey chop am any how he want am .

Thou at some points I understand the guy frustration but he has to hold himself to avoid making unnecessarily mistakes.

Don't give in to his request because CHANGE is constant that MR perfect for now might turn to a beast tomorrow.
I wish he understands that your type are very rare to find this time around that immoralities are the order of the day.
You haven't nothing to lose , I just pity him because if he truly want the marriage he will wait after all he has been waiting for the 3yrs so is it less than 12 months before you guys settle down will kill him..
Using cheating on you to threatened you is absorb , how sure he's hasn't be doing it for the past 3 yes .

JONNYSPUTE:
If he truly love you as he claimed or as you believed,why are you two still dating and not married? 3yrs,hmmm. Be careful, some guys can have all the patience in this world just to get at a particular pussy. If he loves you he should do the needful. Don't give in to his request,build your self esteem and confidence.

That's the points.

OneSentence:
if I'm gonna be blunt with u, more often than not ladies like u end up heartbroken so be prepared for that possibility. he could already be cheating. your is to try ur best to keep him but don't let him cut you. he'll come back after he plays around and realises there's none like you. it might hurt but if it happens and u can forgive him then fine. this might not happen but I'm preparing you for the worst as well as being realistic. There's no fairy tale love anywhere anymore

Seriously the possibility of him cheating on her for the past 3yrs is very HIGH BUT has been cleaning mouth without been caught.
Funny thing is now that he's threatened her with cheating on her lol. Na how many man weh no dhey cheat on his woman before.

dairykidd:
Waiting for things to change before making the move is time wasting & wasting time might cost u guys a lot... Seeing ur parents doesn't have to be a money draining. He should make do with what is available... I'm just saying

God bless you for this wonderful advise BTW op where are you from because this advise is applicable to Igbo people talk more of If you are Yoruba lady because their marriages requirements is very affordable at some point.
Having a high class wedding is good but never translate to happy and successful home .

Menal99:
I really appreciate your contribution... all you've mentioned above, I have done it. I know he loves me. I'm really sure about that.
I remember when we started, he once mentioned he doesn't care if a woman is a virgin or not as there are many other important things that make a good woman and yet, being a virgin is a thing of pride.
This period we've been together without sex has been wonderful.
Now, situation has made us find ourself in a distant relationship and that's y I'm more scared. I am beginning to feel insecure which isn't good for a relationship. He is this kind of man that ladies like people like easily:both male and female.
He tells me all about it. once, he told me about a lady who's wooing him and how he is trying his best to avoid her his reason being that he might fall because he hasn't had sex in ages

It's seems that you have made up mind to fall for this gimmicks because CHANGE IS CONSTANT, He can change.
Telling you that he has a lot of woman trying to get his attention is fallacy because it's very normal for any guy who is good both in physiques OR in characters.

Long distance relationship is for mature minds ,for people who really knows what they want from each , their plans for future and the bonds that's exist between them , such as care, trust , faith , love and intimacy which you have given him EXCEPT SEX .


I SPEAK FROM EXPERIENCES BECAUSE I'M IN LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP DIFFERENTS COUNTRIES
I HAVEN'T NOT FOR ONCE COMPRISED MYSELF EVEN WHEN MY FRIENDS ARE MAKING FUNS OF ME EVEN WHEN LADIES BOTH MARRIED AND UNMARRIED ARE MAKING THEIR INTENTIONS KNOWN TO ME.
IT'S NOT ONLY BY PHYSIQUES BUT PERSONALITIES SUCH AS CHARACTERS ETC BECAUSE BACK IN NIGERIA I HAVE DATED AT LEAST TWO LADIES WHOM APPROACHED ME FIRST AND NO BI SAY I FINE OOO OR SAY I TALL OOO & THEIR FAMILIES ARE VERY WELL LOADED SERIOUSLY LIKE ×10 OF MY FAMILY NA ISSUES OF MARRIAGE MAKE ME RUN LEAVE THEM OOO AND THEY ARE VERY YOUNG AVERAGELY BETWEEN 22 AND 24YRS
LDR, IT'S CHALLENGING BUT IT WORTH IT IF YOU ARE WITH THE RIGHT PERSON WHO YOU SHARES THE SAME GOALS AND FUTURE.
IT'S HAS A LOT OF UPS AND DOWN OF IT , IT CAN'T BE ALL ROSY BUT IT'S ALL ABOUT THE PEOPLE INVOLVED.

YOU GIVING HIM WHAT HE WANT IS STILL 50/50 CHANCE
OF HIM STAYING BECAUSE LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP INVOLVED NOW AND BECAUSE NOT EVERYONE CAN HANDLE IT.


P.S
I'm very much okay and normal it's a decision I have made for years and I believed that I and my girl shares the same view about our future because I believed that she possessed all I want in woman In as much I can be able to manage her FLAWS because theirs nothing like perfection it's all about fatansy we created.

So my points is if he really sees you as woman he want to spend his entire life with he will surely respect your decision , treasure you and do the needful because marriage planned between this and next year is still the same, it's just differents if months.

OneSentence:
menal99 don't let him pressurise you into sex but give him the undoubted assurance that you are his. don't fight him over it but always calmly reassure him to wait. don't listen to those aggressive voices here cos that's how u will lose him and won't find another like him then your story will be like theirs...all men are scum...
don't give in but assure him that he'll have all of u at the right time. the danger of giving in is this...after waiting for so long if he has it he will think to himself that is this what he has been begging for all the while? make sure you are useful too to him in ways he can't do without u. that way even without sex he'll have reason to love u as u have loved him without money. all the best dear
things will def get better

Kindly listen to this advise.

Menal99:
Thanks for your contribution I really appreciate

Pls kindly ignore this advise if you haven't abided by it.

docadams:
...agreed it was a smart step but to the benefit of Atiku and Atiku primarily, PDP is of secondary interest and Nigeria's, please don't deceive yourself. The lobbyist was hired most likely for 3 purposes
1.to deflect Trump's administration attention from Atiku's sordid past,
2.gauge the administration perception of an Atiku's candidature,
3.and gradually find a way to get that elusive U.S visa for Atiku. Despite the public posture to the contrary, Atiku needs the visa like he needs life.



You might be the one that is dumb here because Ballard has been Trump's lobbyist even before the later became president
"Ballard, Donald Trump’s lobbyist for years in Tallahassee"..,
https://www.politico.com/interactives/2017/politico-power-list/brian-ballard/

You funny sha BTW is Atiku going to be president of USA or Nigeria. What is the fuss about Atiku going to USA.
Abeg make una spare us the trash and give us a tangible reasons because we all know that PMB led administration has failed Nigerians.

FriendNG:
May Jannatul Firdaus be his final destination. Remain to prosecute those Berom Christian terrorist that drive joy in killing Innocent Muslim travelers passing through the state.

ALL THIS MOSLEMS RELIGIOUS FANATIC SHA

So na religious flight be this one now ABI BTW since when has Christians becoming terrorist in the world.

#religion of peace indeed.

HisSexcellency:
Discard it and replace with what exactly
Restructuring that we're yet to agree on what it actually means, where is the report on the confab that huge amount of money was spent to hold.

That confab own pain me ooo BTW I Wonder why PMB and APC Government failed to adopt it.

asuustrike1:
No wonder. Am sure she would soon delete this or even ban me

Don't mind her.

asuustrike1:
Is the admin an APC fan?

YES ,mynd44

slimfit1:
I'm AAC Sowore supporter

That's great sir , be thinks say na all this BMC for here.

slimfit1:
Their intention is not of Nigerian interest obudu Ranch is there they didn't use it, these are signs we must not ignore. Our leader must promote local content to help local businesses. Going to Dubai to impress who really.

The same way PMB and Yusuf goes medical treatment abroad .
TRASH.

Headlesschicken:
Here to read comments bout how y'all would kill yuh husband's whom you've yet not married... Mind u we r watching....

Seriously I'm speechless reading ladies comments here. What is this world , Africa ,Nigeria to be precisely turning into.
See the way the way they are attacking the op , to the best of my knowledge polygamous family is not good because of the offsprings and for the peace of the family but no woman born of woman can stop a man from bringing another wife if he desire to do so EXCEPT na woman she married in man's form .

My advice to any woman that get involves in such us either seek divorce or manage the circumstances but I don't advocate for divorce because is not really an option here because it's doesn't involves domestic violence YET which is inevitable in this circumstances and if not properly handle EXCEPT if managed properly.(ii)why I won't advocate divorce here is because of the kids involved to train child alone is not beans and it's has a lots of sides effects on the such children upbringing, physically, psychologically, academically emotionally etc .

P.s

Abeg any man weh wan marry more than one wife abeg I take God beg una make you get money wella oooo because better soup na money kill am , because you gotta be ready for separate apartments and make both the mother's and their children comfortable in every ratification for peace to reign.

Also I take God beg all our ladies whom might finds their self in such a circumstances make they take am easy oooo , make una no go break or kill the man ooooo but just handle it with care because of the kids involved and no think say you go get better man outside abeg make we reason well.


At aspects of thinking positive and confessing positives according to some people with die hard Christians mind abeg life no bi like that oooo sometimes na life dhey give us wetin its has for us with the permission of OUR LORD just the way he did with story of JOB but na we go they Ask God for divine directions and Grace to comes out victoriously at the end because trials must surely come our way that's why we are Christian but our abilities to handle it matters and also defined us as TRUE CHRIST-A-LIKE.

SHALOM.