₦airaland Forum

dododawa1:
why the old politician still picking for the new generation,is it oby the most intelligent woman in whole of Anambra.

Please kindly keep mute , you don't have any reasonable reason jare.

P.s
Check her CV and we should throwaway compent person because she's old.... BTW others are still unknown. Abi you Sabi pass soludo ni

Candidlady:
She told you to hire house help.... Your fiancee not yet a wife ooo ...


And am here thinking am lazy... Toh!!!


Op abeg correct this your topic... It is confusing me

Asin eeh fiancee not wife self.

dan9ice:
Op you go like fresh fresh food oo.,.
Since she's working, why not tell her to cook varieties of food on weekend then store it inside the fridge(portion them)?


I bet you, 80 percent of nigerians doesn't take breakfast... You can take brunch

Breakfast is good though..
Op wake up on time and make breakfast yourself
Abi na eba you they like for morning?
Most breakfast na bread and tea na
If she sees you doing it often, I swear she'll join, and from there she can adapt..
No let because of breakfast you pursue better person...
Man can not live by bread alone but by every bread and beans

80% of Nigerians don't eat breakfast....dan9ice 2022..

This is absolutely Nonsense

Greatzeus:
Op,stop this Buhari Buhari you're shouting up and down. No Matter how good or bad the economy is,some will have it bad,while some good.
If you're broke,go and learn a skill with the data and phone you're using to engage in chronic stylish begging online.
Even Gej tenure you guys claim is good,I was jobless and broke,now I'm gainfully employed,also have a digital skill that's picking up slowly. Your life is in your hands,get up your black butt and go to do something meaningful with your life.

Stop attacking people, things might be Rossy for you today , in this Buhari-APC time doesn't mean everyone is getting it easy even with your world best skills, just pray let Grace found you.

It's not about working hard or smart , you need Grace, you need Luck and you need Mercy from both God and man to succeed in this life...

Greatzeus:
Social monetary hierarchy has already help in boycotting you and your family. Because you can't afford the school fees.So stop sweating unnecessarily. Gerrit?

Thanks so much just that paying 2m or below tuitions fees will be the least of my problem as of today .
Firstly I never marry self and with where my God has placed me today tuitions fees BELOW 2m will not be my problem today talk more of in the next 10-12 years that my kids will be going to secondary school.
Secondly I have already discussed severally it with my woman before hand that all my kids secondary schools will be in Nigeria despite say she never gree but my mind has made up about it ,I just need to make her see reasons and convince her .....
Thirdly Dowen is never Among the school I intend any of my kids to go because I don't know about their existence
Last but not the least.... I'm from Okija in Ihiala Local Government Area of Anambra State and since the news of GONZAGA JESUIT COLLEGE, (GJC ) OKIJA launched their 4th branch in Nigeria and it happened to be my own town ,I have checked their academic RATING first and then the price, I mean the tuition fees and it's good is what they can afford even if I die because each of my kids will get inherits AT LEAST ,I mean MINIMUM of 1 to 2 buildings 4 storey building on their names as well with landed properties even at my demise, things will still be pretty easy for them.

P.s
It might interest you to know that I have gotten some building already sir and by the GRACE of God before they get to stage of going to secondary school in Nigeria fund will not be a problem for them even at my demise...

SHALOM.

InTheCloudySky:
1. It doesn't matter if you're dating someone, or are married, no means no. Whether na your babe or wife, rape is rape and is a crime in both instances.

2. Learn to read. He said "recently", meaning her refusal is recent, not over a long period. Even if it were over a long period (which isn't the case), the right thing to do would've been talk to her or seek professional help together to get to the root of the matter, not abuse and rape her. Forcing anyone to have sex with you, whether na your babe or wife = rape.

I don't support abuse of any kind but let's not be sentimental here....

Beating and Forcing his way to his legal wife is not actually heavy to compare other RAPE and BTW it's an ABUSE not RAPE , there's no law that back that up at least not Nigeria. In as much I totally condemned his actions....
And secondly here is exact statement of the OP.... Recently, she barely give me sex. Infact it would take a whole month before I could see Just the color of her undies and I wasn't happy about it......

Certainly there was underlining issue already or how can you explain how a wife will refuse her husband sex for a period of a month or so without tangible reason such as health related or religious beliefs at least let her husband understand what's going on or see a reason to let her be for those period of time.

All the same I still condem the both actions of the man and that of his wife too..

backnbeta:
Spousal sexual abuse is terrible, can't just be excused! You should have addressed the reason she stopped having sex with you in the first place. Was it because she had a personal issue? Did you do something she didn't like...it could have been due to any factor but you ignored the cause and dealt only with the symptoms which was her withdrawal from you emotionally. That said; she messed up by not opening up to you on why, and subsequently denying you of sex. You should continue to apologize, seek wise counsel if there's any around you until you are able to sit down for a real discussion where both of you must find a way forward

You are the only one that makes sense here among your genders.... At least you addressed and faults both husband and wife...

complexBoss12:
I was expecting this, people just love hugging the spotlight.

Better than you that contributes nothing.

Let's learn how to appreciate because he owns you or them nothing.

CamusMidas:
And you typed this with a straight face?

Why crying on his opinion.

Antoeni:
He is eminently qualified for the position,there is no doubt about it,however,Can he declare his intention to run against his political benefactor? That is main question that is demanding answers from people.

That question to should be directed to Osinbajo not him .

osuofia2:
He started the insults

My bad brother.

uglodoh:
The guy he quoted abused his father first.

I actually don't know, my bad.

osuofia2:
Foolish hungry fool, So in your small minds, parental care is all about making provisions. NA ogun go kill your papa

Cursing this man is very uncalled-for , it's seems you don't follow the whole story , I can't comprehend your initial comment because It's different from the from the whole story.

frozen70:
She looks lazy because you do things for her most times

By the time she puts to bed, you may be the one to nurse the baby while she breast feed the baby and that's all

At times, we use madness to correct nonsense behaviours

Let her keep subscribing until she can no longer do so, you can watch match on your phone subscription

You have to fashion a way to handle her before you finally becomes the house help

Even if you buy the car, you will be the one to service and fuel it

Let her show signs of commitments before you invest or spend more

God bless you abundantly,if he like make take this your advice if no like make him leave am .

Speaktruth88:
I am waiting for you to publish where the state got permission and money from.

Money from Anambra State coffer Without borrowing from Fed govt or Chinese

Permission is now an excuse , BMC una work hard Abeg btw you people can't cover the incompetent of Buhari and APC.

Bahamas95:
Any wise parent would withdraw their child(ren) from this school without waiting for a babalawo or prophet to tell them first.

Aswear sir , they don't have human feeling at all.

AgreatMan:
For what?

When you lose your love one and the Case been swept under the carpet, you will understand.

traveladdict:
this seems like the best thing to do, they killed this case already!

It's very unfortunate imagine the audacity.

I think it's high time to boycott this school.
They will just open their rotten mouth and be talking Nonsense like whenever Buhari travel abroad to give speech.

brandsoncharlie:
I think he see it as needless when he knows he can go for the latter to get it with ease.

Probably true Brother...

brandsoncharlie:
That man from the way I see him is worth close 2 million dollars. How many people can afford to buy a house worth 45million naira in Nigeria not to talk of doing wedding with it.

If he worth $2m and how wise is he to put down $1-1.5m to get Green card.

Bro the money Don finish be that nah... The best he go for countries such as Malta etc

EmptyGarden:
My sister you really sabi something... Meanwhile, she's not picking wrong men, she's rather a terrible woman with a terrible personality... There will never be a 'Right Man' for such women.

You lied because he's not a saint as well btw second wife gone...his own dey him body too.

brandsoncharlie:
Someone who can afford to spend 45million naira for a wedding is capable of getting American green card at ease, he can just pay for a fake arranged marriage and boom he will get it.
You can't point the bad deed of this woman only to spit nonsense, don't she have a job and family to take of rather than spending all her time on social media.

Not as easy as you put am , the best he could do is to buy citizenship of another countries with easy access to USA and other western world btw USA citizen by investment has been increased from $500k to either $1m or $1.5m see am say e no easy jare.

boolet:
Pele o seer. Become a man first, then come back and talk to me. Gimme your mother's phone number, I got some gold for her. One love

I'm sorry man-child with little I have today , this morning, I mean now you can't get near my mother again probably I might be the one asking for your mother, sister and daughter number not the other way around.

boolet:
I said what I said, and I don't owe you an apology. FFK is a money bag too, either you like it or not. None of my family members is in the news for tomfoolery. Meanwhile, your own mother dug for gold, but met your lowlife dad, who only had lies and deception. That's why they birthed you, a frustrated mofo. One love

If we are to mark our results ourselves no one will fail, you have scored your family High .... Na who go talk say her Mama soup no sweet for outside.
All I see here is frustrated man-child whom lack mother's care and Love while growing up.

greenie77:
A doctor's report can be wrong especially when covering up mismanagement of cases. If Nigerians follow up medical cases,you will realize some doctors are not fit to practice but preying on the ignorance of their patients and relatives.

You are now trying to pin it to the doctor now , please this is not right. Let's call a spade a spade jare.

HacheNoire:
You too dumb! Didn’t the gold digger have access to FFK’s history with women before diving into a relationship with FFK?

And you kinda proud you got a mother and father, cos I can see you claiming to have one! Please don’t call those losers your parents. You are an orphan.

If they have invested the right resources and put you through quality education and training, you won’t be here spewing gibberish about my parents that could employ your entire generation as gardeners and still get a thank you.

Who is your father on Earth?

Lol I'm extremely happy to see how miserable you are to the point of writing all this episodes ....
How stupid you are to thing you are only one who think they can abuse someone Mother and got away with it. Before calling Precious golddigger ask yourself if you were her kids will you allow anyone to tag your mother a golddigger.
As your Papa & Mama money na for your family e no help me ..... Hey I'm doing absolutely good

HacheNoire:
If you had spent enough time with your mother, she would have instilled etiquettes on how to delve into issues!

Are the kids not also FFK’s children? Why she acting like a traumatized victim?

Okay, she should continue paying bloggers and lawyers for social media presence.

FFK is already in romance with another lady and eating as usual, and she busy claiming right to have access to her kids.

Her bank account will communicate to her at the end of the day. She should ask Atiku Abubakar. Bloggers and lawyers will empty her.

The same Ffk who can't stay with his previous two-three marriages , I can only see how your father took you away from your mother whom would have at least breastfeeds and show you mother's love for a while before your king kong father took you away.

boolet:
Relax boy... This ain't about tribalism. She's a gold digger who didn't realize that not all that glitters is gold. Tell 'your girls' to stop being gold diggers, it will save them unnecessary pain.

This stupid assumption because only her beauty alone can get her money bags men not in person of FFK whom was politically jobless as of the time of the marriage.
Ps
Calling her golddigger hopefully you includes your own mother ,sisters or your own daughters on the list of golddiggers

Opperwezen:
If she genuinely wants to see her kids she needs to go their fathers house to see them, we all know how things work in Africa.

She might as well go with a few individuals just to be safe in case of any attacks, if she's not willing to compromise then the ranting needs to stop.

This is stupidity, the agreement was reach by compent court , and they made a formal request before hand through her lawyer, why attacking her instead of attacking the idiot that flaunt the court order. .. it's obvious that Ffk want to keep her against her wish, Abi I no wan marry you na force again.

HacheNoire:
Why all this social media attention?

When she was gold digging with her fathers age mate, Nairaland never knew, neither were we updated on how they met and how it was successfully thriving.

And now that the business alliance has been dissolved, we can’t even go a week without update about how they kidnapped or adopted her children.

Didn’t she know she was dinning with a power she cannot contest against? Or what’s this comic show all for!

She better continue with life and stop letting lawyers feed on the remaining little she is holding on to.

As far as Nigeria is concerned, where power and money rules, she is just wasting her time. She should reunite with her ex-boyfriend and start making new babies.

Is that how your mother left you behind and rekindle her romance with her Ex
Talk with sense jare , we are talking about kids here not an adults.

Karlovich:
She should go to the man's house if she wants to see her children, she's making it seem like they were kidnapped.

As early as 4.24am you woke up to talk NONSENSE.