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VTJN:we don hear sir... every Nigerians are poor and cant afford a dna test nor can they afford to save any money, so they should instead raise bastard children in peace... have a great day! VTJN:yes o, i am super broke. i live in Nigeria in some gutter... |
superintendents:you are absolutely RIGHT.. any paternity doubts in marriage will kill that marriage, but ignoring such doubts is equally wrong. if at the time of conception, your wife cheated with your neighbor (for example), wouldnt you do ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING in your power to figure out who the biological father of that child is... OR would you just ignore this paternity issue and possibly raise a bastard child?! |
VTJN:the problem with you people is that you have such a yeye narrow minded way of thinking, so every time someone has an opinion, you make it a male vs female issue. when i bash yeye men for their actions, you are the same ignoramus that will now call me women wrapper. now if you had a damn brain, and understood common English, you would have read my initial post on this issue where i equally put the blame on MEN... but sadly, now you wanna twist this discussion as if its an issue to ridicule women. so now DNA TEST IS TO RIDICULE WOMEN ABI, BWAAAAAAAAAAAH!!!! again, the above is MY HUMBLE OPINION... you can either take it, or take it, i really do feel sorry for men like you living such a miserable life, possibly raising bastard children. |
superintendents:we are not discussing about what type of women men are carrying....we are discussing the possible PATERNITY DOUBTS that any man can have, and thereafter save however he has to to get a paternity test, to remove the doubts from his mind. what man in his right mind would want to raise/care/cherish a child that possibly aint his, for 18 long years minimum? |
superintendents:- is raising a possibly bastard child for 18yrs (that eventually will cost you 1000 times more than 100k) a joke to you? |
VTJN:yes sir, you are right !about the above, so now Nigerians shouldnt save small small for dna test, and instead they should raise these possibly bastard children, abi?! i understand you'd rather raise possibly bastard children than have a DNA test... and thats ok but pls dont expect every Nigerians to be YEYE IGNORANT SIMPs raising these bastard children. thats a simp mentality. |
UnfairLife7: VTJN:me i cannot afford 150K o (even 10k sef), so i will save every month until i save enough for the test, even if it lasts 5/10yrs. only a very foolish person would expect Nigerian men to just forget it and just raise that possibly bastard child.
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UnfairLife7:go outside, see the amount of cars queueing at petrol stations, selling petrol at god know how much, then come here trying to fool us that Nigerians are so broke, they cant even pay for anything on earth (let alone a dna test) https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/slte.gif |
1Sharon:so you believe that the average Nigerian man would happily raise a child that he has paternity doubts upon? spend the little he has on a child that he doesnt even know is his or not? yes Nigerians would rather spend 100k on a lot of other useless things, but when PATERNITY UNCERTAINTY creeps in, that would be the most important thing in their life, by far! NO RED BLOODED MAN WOULD RATHER RAISE A CHILD (NOT KNOWING IF THAT CHILD IS HIS OR NOT), THAN MAKING SURE FIRST AND FOREMOST THAT THIS CHILD IS HIS, BEFORE PAYING FOR THAT CHILD'S UPKEEP. in which world you guys are living that men are knowingly raising these bastard children (with a smile on their face)? |
RenaissanceGuy:China never compared themselves to the US or Europe.. thats why they made laws to have fewer children for their citizens (for decades) or focussed all their ressources on bettering the life of its citizen. thats what COMMUNISM has done for China. in china, every cent that enters the country's coffer is used towards the country while in Nigeria.... oh well! |
RenaissanceGuy:you see the above is your mistake... trying to compare Nigeria with China, or better yet with any oil producing countries with 3m citizen, 9m citizen and/or 30m citizen, is the reason why you will always fail on this issue. there are a lot of problems with Nigeria/Africa YES, but that doesnt change the fact that the west is robbing Nigeria blind. you cant possibly advance when you have puppets gov (being controlled by the west), signing unfair contracts that only benefits the west and that monkey (and his family) who signed that contract |
UnfairLife7:Nigerians are some of the most resourceful people on earth, and when it matters, they easily can come out on top. |
UnfairLife7:you are the one chasing yeye clout... 1st it was too expensive, now its something else... again, whether Minimum salary is 30k or even 5k. NO MAN ON EARTH SHOULD RAISE BASTARD CHILDREN THAT AINT HIS, and therefore any poor man who impregnated a woman (that he is unsure of the paternity) better go do whatever he can to get dna test rather than raising bastard children. common Nigerian family men are coughing much more than 500k for various things/gadget/businesses/cars etc out there...paternity test is no different. look around you: better phones in people's hands (how much is Iphone/Samsung sef?); fuel super high yet people are still driving cars that are worth much more than dna test; people opening new businesses; women buying yeye fake hair and all the beauty products out there that they use... if some women can go sell their nyansh to buy Iphone and wigs, then men can definitely hustle to pay for dna test TO KEEP THEIR DIGNITY |
RenaissanceGuy:YES o, that is exactly what is happening.... they use the Franc CFA and blackmail to have these countries sign yeye contracts (at penny for the dollar) for their natural ressources.,, and when they cant do that, they just use various terrorist group (that they create) to destabilize the country, so that they can enter through the back door and get the natural ressources they desire for free (under some yeye "we helped you get rid of the terrorist, now you help us get cheaper natural ressources" type deal)" What you don't seem to acknowledge is that Africa's underdevelopment is largely self-inflicted. Even the simplest of agriculture, we can't feed ourselves - we pack billions of dollars every year to import food from Europe, Asia and the Americas. Ordinary TV we can't manufacture. Until Africa copies from China and begin an industrializelation revolution, we'll continue to blame the Europeans. Let's break away from that excuse, like countries such as China, Saudi Arabia, UAE, Qatar, Malaysia, did.i fully disagree. many countries out there dont manufacture anything and yet are doing pretty well. we cant compare countries but let me help you understand something very simple (about how the west function). you see, they first work in the back ground to destabilize a gov that is not favorable to them (by arming guerillas and terrorists) then they will use fraud to get their puppet of choice elected, then they will now use that same puppets to make laws and sign decade long contracts that are only favorable to the west (and thereafter throw a thank you banana at that monkey you guys call presido) case in point: President Tinubu settled a decade long lawsuit that the Nigerian gov had against SHELL/ENI (about oil prospecting licenses)... and mysteriously, after Tinubu put his children in charge of a company called Oando Plc, that company now own all the onshore assets of Eni (Eni, the exact same company and assets that the Nigerian gov had a lawsuit against). if this isnt the biggest corrupt move, then what is CORRUPTION really?! so yes, the African governments are to blame for allowing these western nations to rob Africa blind of its natural ressources, but then again, thats what they have been doing for the last +60yrs. |
UnfairLife7:max 150k (and certainly not 1m Nairas) for paternity test... contact SmartDna in Lagos 0802 984 0246 or 0912 981 3912... thank me later: |
UnfairLife7:you are absolutely right, family is a must for any Nigerian man... but to claim that whether its this man's biological child (OR a bastard child) doesnt really matter, is absurd. THERE IS NO VALUE/PRIDE/RESPECT IN THE FAMILY OF A MAN RAISING BASTARD CHILDREN THAT AINT HIS (whether Nigerian or Jamaican). you are solely focussing on the money issue, claiming that because dna testing is expensive, Nigerian men should accept to raise these bastard children, lol. as i said again, whether broke or rich, any man who is doubting paternity should fight tooth and nails to get to the bottom of the truth (through dna testing), and get a confirmation of who that child father is (even if you have to save for the next 10yrs). |
RenaissanceGuy:educate yourself on France paying only 10% of the value of the Niger Uranium that they are forced to import to France (why do you think France was so adamant in staying in Niger/Mali etc and/or destabilize the region?)... and although these commercial agreements would still be in place decades after France has been thrown out of the country (through that last coup), these are commercial structures that are in place since the last century and will be there for decades to come... or better yet, educate yourself on why companies such as Mars, Mondelēz, Nestlé, Ferrero, Hershey's and Lindt & Sprüngl can get such a low price for cocoa that they thereafter sell for so much? or you think African Framers in Ivory coast want to get peanuts for their cocoa beans, abi? or better yet, educate yourself on how the French Giant group BOLLORE was able to get his hands on the control of various African ports... or better yet, do you think there is any Congolese companies defrauding the country of its mineral ressources (such as cobalt)?! or dont you understand that foreign companies are fuelling the local conflict in order to continue getting their hands on the Congolese natural ressources of all kind.... companies such Bangkok-based THAISARCO (a subsidiary of British metals group AMC), UK-based Afrimex, and Belgium-based Trademet. |
VTJN:what reality are you talking about? are Nigerians not opening businesses any longer? are Nigerians not buying used cars any longer? are Nigerians not traveling out (japa) any longer? as i said earlier, if you got a woman pregnant and you are unsure if the child is yours or not then you MUST find a way to do dna test rather than possibly raising a bastard child for 18yrs. all these yeye lifestyles that you guys are trying to feed us should NEVER EVER happen... aka yeye men happily raising bastard children (calling us "gay" because we suggest to do DNA test if unsure of a child's paternity)! this is not an attack on (Nigerian) women or marrying (Nigerian) women, its a direct attack on low life deceitful wh0res out there trying to have innocent men unknowingly raising their bastard children. |
UnfairLife7:save money and then do test (80K to 100k) for one child then save again then test the 2nd child etc! saying that this is not doable is as silly as saying that a man saving for opening a business and/or saving for a car/gadget is impossible. come on! even if that person saves 1kobo a day for DNA testing, then so be it. |
UnfairLife7:its called SAVING MONEY until you have enough to pay for the DNA test (which is much easier to do than raising a bastard child for 18yrs)... i suggest you educate yourself on the subject. what you wrote is as stupid as saying that a man should let his children die of hunger because he is jobless and has no money to feed. ARRANT NONSENSE!!!! just like anything else in this world, YOU FIND A WAY! - if you are jobless and broke with no food to eat... YOU FIND A WAY! - if you are h0rny and konji don scatter your brain... YOU FIND A WAY! - if you are in Lagos island with no money, but need to get home to Ikeja... YOU FIND A WAY! - when you want japa to London but have no visa, no money for plane ticket sef... YOU FIND A WAY! why the exact same thing is suddenly so difficult to do (in your mind) with DNA testing?! |
that poor woman is doomed with so many problems... constant arousal, PGAD, SSRI, duplicate vag1na etc. just one person? kai! |
UnfairLife7: superintendents:again, it doesnt matter if a man can afford a DNA test or not... if there is a paternity doubt then thats what anyone should do (BY FIRE OR BY FORCE)... because even if a DNA test is 1m Nairas in Nigeria, it will always be cheaper than raising and taking care of a bastard child for 18yrs, duh! the fact that you expect us to not say the obvious, just because you seem to be pained about the issue, is your own personal issues to deal with (and irrelevant to the issue at hand), and certainly wont change how we view this issue. |
UnfairLife7:OLODO!!!! even if DNA test is 1m Naira, if a man has doubts over the paternity of his children, then he should pay up, rather than raising a bastard child. as for you calling me gay because i call a married cheating wh0re A MARRIED CHEATING LovePeddler, yes o i am gay, me and your father have been lovers for decades, thats how we made you na! |
sista, as much as your story touches the heart, i am sure you will find help to cure your illness... as for you looking to get married, in your line of work, women like you dont look for husbands, they look for CUSTOMERS... men should continue sample you as you are soiled goods. |
ExudeLoveToAll:its obvious the person behind that profile is a woman (who probably looks down on men who do DNA testing on their kids) . BTW what do you expect from such women...? they expect all men to look at these low life wh0ring criminals (called wife), and cheer them up, instead of calling them for what they truly are. |
lol, thats how such housewife issues should be dealt with between husbands...
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is that remittance BS part of the contract you signed or just what your boss says? if you dont want to stay there then the minute you wanna leave then do so. |
UnfairLife7:
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here is my humble opinion: - in most part of the west, people dont need to have gateman/driver/security etc to live a very comfortable life. - a big reason why many non rich Nigerians want to relocate to the west is because of the environment.... aka better lifestyle, better infrastructures, better life options, sane/safe environment etc - have you ever asked yourself the following question:"why do the likes of Dangote/Adenuga/Davido etc still reside in Nigeria?" the reason why the poor are leaving is because they can get in the west what they CANNOT get in Nigeria... aka a normal non-stressful life with very easy access to basic life amenities. - if you have nothing in Nigeria, then you give up nothing when leaving... and anything you get, however small (in the west) is better. the sky is the limit when you japa. - many people japa solely because they want a better life for themselves. some may succeed while others may not... but ultimately it will be a valuable life experience to all of them. - there is no age limit to japa, its just a state of mind. if thats what you desire for your life then do so, so long as you do that in a safe/secure manner. - can you believe that someone who is a doctor in Nigeria can go to the west and do menial job, and have a more rewarding life abroad than in Nigeria? aka better infrastructure, better environment, better support, better healthcare, better schooling for the kids, better help altogether for the family. - unless you are RICH in Nigeria, japa should always be an option, regardless of your age. |
ogele:IMHO... A) i believe an equal part of the blame is on these men knowingly marrying these oloshoes (trying to turn hoes into housewives) B) as much as raising a bastard child is bad, i can easily find much worst things than that (for married men). remember; some married men get poisoned by their wives, some married men get infected with deadly diseases by their wives; some married men lose their entire fortune to their wives; some married men commit suicide because of their wife etc. C) to reduce the possibility of having a bastard child and/or a cheating wife and/or a very stressful life.... DONT TRY TO WIFE A HOE! |
essentialone:what do you hope to gain when helping male friends? whatever is your answer to that question should be the same for female friends. |
StillDtruth:of course, i do!!!!! when i am HAPPY/SAD/GENEROUS/CONFIDENT etc thats my spirit/state of mind... its real simply because you can see it on my face/actions/mood. a spirit is an emotion, a character a mood etc. when they talk about a TEAM SPIRIT in sport, it means the attitude of the whole team, not some ghost like figure playing alongside them. lol! |
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