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yusufhaji:
the guy just took a big risk. Wasted his money

Lalas247:
our goalie is a hot mess.

all he has to do is stop those goals .. standing there doing nothing while Salah n co doing all d work .. tired if him

Perfectnumber6:
. It is well with us, mine deliberately blocked me on all her social medias, but I just felt I loved her so she over stretched the rope i gave to her and was still asking me for money which sometimes I just use my mind, but when I told her it was over just few days ago she thought I was joking. She's gonna keep calling me but it would be too late. These girls are wicked and heartless and they don't feel any remorse atall , just because they felt you loved them right.

KOPT33:
I am the first son of my father who is now late.

When my father died some 11 years ago, I relocated to Lagos to finish my schooling. I lived with my aunt then but I had to leave their home because I was being abused. Upon leaving my aunt's house, things became so difficult for me but I persevered with my education till I finished my bachelors.

During my lean years, I fell out with most of my family members. My mom refused to speak to me for three years, I was essentially the outcast of the family. During this period, my mom and some elders in our family gave out my sisters hand in marriage.

The couple had a trad/white wedding. Bride price was paid, all the customs of our people were followed save for one: the consent or knowledge of the first son. I wouldn't get to hear about this marriage until six months later. That night, I cried because their action proved that I was nobody, a nothing to my mom and siblings.

Anyways, I kept on working hard and soon became comfortable. I mended fences with everyone in my family, but even at that, no one offered an explanation why things unfolded the way it did or an apology. I didn't make any noise, I just picked up myself and moved on after committing the lessons learned to mind.

Six years and two children later, my sisters marriage has hit the rocks.

Now they're asking me as the first born to mediate and talk to the man.

I REFUSED.

The man (sister's husband) won't speak to my mom or the other elders he had been dealing with regarding a possible reconciliation. My family know me to be a good mediator and peace maker and they are not wrong.

I refused because there is no point mediating in a marriage that was done over my head.

As it stands now, I have no interest in playing head of house or anything of such nature. I send money, I help make connections, I foot bills for everyone in the family but I leave their decision making to them since they discounted me right from the very beginning. I have no interest whatsoever in becoming a leader in that family.

What would you do if you were in my shoes?

TheCabal:
Dont need soothsayer to tell you this.

Finance and Technology(IT) is dominated by the west.

MORNDEW:
See them, the illiterates am talking about. No level of comprehension, have no clue of any headlines, just rush to a post to comment out of sense. And fellow illiterates will like it. What has these got to do with the topic?

Hashimyussufamao:
Keep shut for life!!!

Matthew 10:34
“Do not think that I have come to bring peace to the earth. I have not come to bring peace, but a sword.

Psalm 144:1
Blessed be the LORD, my rock, Who trains my hands for war, And my fingers for battle;


Exodus 22:20
"Whoever sacrifices to any god other than the LORD must be destroyed.


LET ME KNOW IF YOU NEED MORE. BRAINWASHED KOOK!!

BluntTheApostle:
The Europa League draws is what I can't wait for.

How I wish Arsenal would draw Atletico Madrid and get the thrashing of their lives.

Donald3d:
I dont feel bad .I forget peoples own too sometimes .
Man dey hustle, dey write code like werey, make we blow like Seun, me wey get the birthday sef I remember say I dey do birthday ?
Na money and hustle sure pass, when we blow we go dey think of birthday

LadyHeaven:
E no work o

blackpanda:
Shut up.

hiroz:
how did Sanchez complete this match.
man utd played with 10 men cus sanchez was soo useless.
i don't see the reason why we bought him.
Sanchez should sit in the bench for the rest of the season...

LadyHeaven:
E no work o

LadyHeaven:
Kia, pls where can one stream this match

lalasticlala:
Source: https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2018/1/watch-the-explosive-interview-of-daddy-freezes-fiancee-elechi-where-she-talked-about-catching-her-ex-husband-with-a-man-how-he-allegedly-sent-touts-to-kidnap-her-how-he-made-life-hell-for-her.html