wany:

Authority without money.park well abeg

Wolgrace:


Most of white male precisely. The occult system is given to women because "the woman listened to the devil in the beginning." America system is programmed to alter God's marriage and family order, and enthrone women as the head AS EVE TOOK OVER ADAM'S HEADSHIP AFTER LISTENING TO THE DEVIL. Fear America system o! A sick system indeed!

Satan is all-eye and torch light bearer of the America. America's secrets can't be hidden (jer 23:23-24), so never believe any quack manipulated and brainwashing stories how their forefathers who planned and built America were Christians bla bla bla. A stolen land for that matter lol? Most shocking thing is that Rome through Roman Catholic and Vatican Jesuits) is behind it all (rev 17).

Some of us know and have their secrets in our palms... Almighty God is watching them all.

ModestGal:
Many comments here are disgracing, Nigerian men agreeing with MURDER.

There is nothing to justify murder you these shameless people. No matter what she did, the solution is not KILL. Its annoying that Nigerians still need to be lectured on how evil murdering is in this 21st century..

Now I see why I read so much bad news, many of our men are SICKOS

joseph1832:
I believe some Nigerian men abroad likes to keep their wives here in Nigeria, because they're afraid of what they might do, when they discover what it truly mean to be free.

Rest In Peace Lady.

perdollar:
guy! bring it on

unclecycs:


Normally I would take my time to school you but you lost the right to a comprehensive response from me when you concluded my post was "ramblings" Feel free to form whatever conclusions come to your mind I would no longer engage u if u think my post is mere "ramblings " the anonymity provided by a faceless forum allows you to say whatever to anyone you do not know ,I do not blame you , enjoy and by the way no where in my post did I say I had gone to zero , if someone "looks at price tags on goods " does that suggest someone in the zero ? If u had read my post without a childish prejudice you would find I implied I had gone from buoyancy to tight budgeting, damn I've said more than I wanted to you , you clearly do not deserve a decent response and are not worth the typing , I do not like been engaged by people who use insults to make an argument so please have a nice day

perdollar:
we wl submerge u n ur ppl and ur land that is 70% ours now wl be 100% ours soon. we r waiting for d noise makers.

DexterousOne:



The country belongs to every Nigerian actually

Even the Souty East


With the migratory trend of abokis to the Sputh East

In the next 20 years, they will be to the South East what Igbos are to Lagos

A visible minority

So it's a good trend actually

perdollar:
we wl soon drive all ur ppl into d ocean from ur land

plessis:


People on ground know this.

Yorubas cannot oust Hausa's from idi-araba. They cannot oust igbos from festac or ajao estate. We now have major settlements. The only way to oust us is to take back our properties which is almost impossible in this modern age. The yorubas might control the leadership of Lagos but it can change at anytime.

Lagos now belongs to everyone.

perdollar:
yes. a big one, he wl soon sell Lagos to the Masters that r putting fear in him. he wl chicken out like d two ppl that were thrown into prison in the 80s & 90s respectively. he may die of poison sef

ma373733:
Skull miners wont like this

mrchineke:
RUBBISH!!!!

Where will they run to?

To barren, hopeless, erosion ravaged states full of primitive poverty stricken village people?

Forget the hardworking BS, Igbo are desperate refugees hiding under one Nigeria. Invading the Nigerian terrain like homeless people! Empty tiny unviable igboland

Abeg forget that Amaka rubbish. Tiny

mrvitalis:

No body is dragging osun , ibadan with u ...Lagos was built by all of us ...

Komu1048:



Blessed are they that blessed thee and curse are those that curse thee.

Your poverty stricken life will be legendary

unclecycs:
The points raised by the original poster are somewhat unimpeachable , a man is better of planning a sustainable future , but life can happen to a man and someone who doesn't know better might suggest he hadn't a plan, I use myself as an example ,before I decided to get married , i had at least 50m in raw cash and probably worth about 80m in assets and cash summed together , I had two cars (2010 spiders and lexus rx350) and a very comfortable apartment wit a plan to commence my home project after marriage , of course everything looked set for a very comfortable sustainable future and the ever ambitious guy that I am I married a woman who brought serious value to the prospect, fastforward to 2 years after marriage throw in series of investments that went very bad and a couple of not very informed financial decisions and everything is gone, I just laugh when I think of it all ,these days I look at the price tag of goods lol!! Again a man is better of having a plan for his future but life is just bleeped up and one never knows it all ,some.may counter argue that I made bad decisions as result responsible for the unfortunate turn of events but you never know it all and there is such a thing as good luck,yeah I said it cuz I know people who lived life carefree and continue to beat the odds with opportunities after opportunities , not everyone has this luxury , there is no one true path to a successful life , just millions of paths unique to everyone else,when a man sits and has the opinion he has it all figured out and can now talk authoritatively on very sensitive subject bothering on life , it's almost as if fate decides to take a bet against such a man and fate wins always .you could be rich and comfortable with investments and all and one government policy diminishes your wealth or wipes u out , and you could wind up like the guy living in the uncompleted building, would it then be fair to accuse you of not having planned your life ? Sometimes some of us young guys , when we start making a lot of progress ,it brings some kind of faux
wisdom , you got it all figured out ,you Marry a lady who got it all figured out and you both make decent money and lifes good , then you tell your wife honey! We got this let's not have kids for 3 years let's save up and grow wealth etc cuz you both are educated and have everything figured out and then when you do want the kids , just maybe, fate decides to give you general picking , no kids and sex becomes a job that gives you blisters on your member , or you have a kid and it wont breath or some weird birth complication science ain't have name for.yet and u spend /liquidate half or all of your savings/assets to save the kids life cuz then wealth wont matter,you just wanna see your child survive and u wind up broke and then you become a philosopher asking rhetorical questions to your POP roofing .Sooner or later everyone grows older lonely and in need of companionship , I used to "life coach" too wear business suits and tell people how to be successful and how not to live their lives and I realise I do not have all the answers for the folks discounting the presence of God in the affairs of men I can only say a big sorry as you may find truth indeed when it has become too late , who decided blood must be red? Ad most flow through veins in a humans body, Science can explain how but science cannot explain why , why did it have to be blood and why did it have to be composed of cells that turn red when in contact with oxygen, why not mercury or HCL these are mystries some of us attribute to the workings of a supreme being and science respects this , all of us young men who are doing fine must become humble and stop talking in finality about human affairs,you dont want to take a bet against fate, paddle your canoe quietly and help a brother whenever and wherever you can and keep your mouth shut , when u are 50 or 60 and have beat the odds of life then you can speak to younger folks and not be deemed arrogant ,,,,,,, I don talk my own

Efewestern:


When those who have experienced life talk, I know, Bless for this sir.

Most people think because they are financially stable, then they have life figured, life can be funny, and in a twinkle of an eye, everything can turn in favour or against you.

I understand some points the OP raised, like we should limit the rate we give birth to uncountable kids, but that shouldn't be directed to poor people alone.

Luxurydriverng:


Yet to read but I already love the topic. Right now i am on the verge of dumping my marriage. I was so pained when my suppose wife didn't let me rest after hustling and coming home to relax this woman just dey nag me over money for pad. I just had to rethink the entire thing. And wonder is it really worth it. Guys think am well oh don't let society push you into what will kill you. Because if u die another man go shine that Congo.

horpigee1:
sorry to say! ur I.Q is low!, it better you keep silent than to spit rubbish out from ur fucking mouth, Bible never lies......... if you av an elder in ur house, you can jt go to him/her to explain the phrase for u.

chiol:


My advice was for those between 30 and 40 years with sources of income. For you, don't marry, continue planning till you retire. Wait until you have billions in your account.

We are still in Nigeria. If you like, continue behaving like the whites. Their countries have plans for them at old age, whether they have children or not but your country has no plans for you. Get a family and train your children well.

chiol:
In as much as I support some of your points, you should be mindful of the fact that in this part of the world, there are no provisions for the aged by the government. They do not pay ordinary pension talk more of making provisions.

As you are enjoying your youthful age, also be thinking of your life when you get old. In Nigeria, it is solely your own children that can take care of you at your old age.

In Nigeria, family seems to be the only thing that is a bit constant. One can be rich today and poor tomorrow and vice versa. So, don't rely solely on being rich before having your own family. If you are up to 30- 40 and have a source of income, whether you have billions or not, try and have your own family.

Children grow very fast nowadays. If you marry now, in the next 16 - 25 years your children will be independent and even be helping you. Don't wait till your retirement before getting married. A stitch in time saves nine!

SeanBeezy:
Hey, you can say anything to credit your claims but don't in your life ever disrespect the Bible!

Wolgrace:
This post is a total mockery when it comes to grassroot assessment and understanding. It is a total rubbish wrapping up that married men with a poverty stricken background who are still poor is as a result of the marriage they plunged themselves into.

I totally disagree with this aggressive analyses without first knowing and understanding the system or pattern of the society they were born into. Is he the cause of the stinky and rotten system polluting the society?

General view, some are born into an ugly system where they face disastrous disasters where they have no power or means to control and tame them like flood, tsunami, hurricane, famine, lack of education and basic amenities, physical and mental diseases, other darkened abject situations. But all these don't stop them from reproducing because how long will they wait to change the ugly system affecting them? Is there no government? Is our tax not meant to take care of them like empowerment, education, etc? WHERE ARE THE BLESSED MERCIFUL HELPERS TOO??

scokoro:
Why are you guys blaming the young man, is he not some lady that accepted him to be her husband. Does the lady not have parents or relatives who supported her to go on with him?
The wife and the kids are not his problem but his inability to get hooked with something before settling down. So, if one is dragged in my the life's web, he should wait till when he is off it and settle down then. Who knows what tomorrow brings? We all live by hope and the hope if structured well leads us get something substantial. Back to marriage, though society demands one should get married at some point in their lives, the truth of the matter is that we must bring someone here before we leave. I know many people that are not married that can not feed themselves. Life woes come to everyone in one way or to other. I encourage people to marry and procreate and leave a legacy behind. He who must die must die regardless of whether married or not.
When we reach the age of walking as babies, we start walking...
When we reach age of running, we walk too
In the same manner, when we get to the age of marrying, we must marry and fulfill our destiny
That is how it is in Africa .

Komu1048:




God give them children to compensate their lack n hence putting smile on their face. That’s why the Bible said Many are the children of the desolate....

SweetCunt97:
Take it easy with the grammar Bro. The man you helped knows no better. His life revolves around that uncompleted building, no dream, no ambition. If he's not careful he'll die in the uncompleted building. Life has simply been unfair to him and he probably needs a divine helper at this point.

Not everyone who marries plunges into poverty, some women bring their special innovation, business ideas, good fortune to a man.

GboyegaD:
In as much as I agree with your position, I have learned that you cannot win such battles with Nigerian youths. People believe in having children no matter what and an interesting conclusion would be "God who created the mouth would make provisions on what the mouth will feed on".

donlystra:

The word of God is a lie? may God forgive and deliver you from that spirit that is speaking through you and leading you to eternal destruction.

Olawrites:
Your opinion. Naso una go do till u enta late 40's

Poseidon000:


If this is your idea of recrimination, then you suck at it. Just so we're clear; it's been eon I last had a relationship. I'm comfortable, but I presently don't have a woman friend not to talk of a wife, so, your postulation is balderdash.

Let me pretend to believe what you said about your brother: that your brother have a different story, does not mean it's the prevalent case. In fact, his case is miniscule on the scale of 1/10 as obtainable in our society. Now, no sensible man will predicate his future on the probability of 'one' against 'nine.' That's akin to looking for a needle in a haystack. Not that there's no needle in the haystack, but what are the odd of finding it.

* No, I'm not God, but even the Christian Bible says: "A man who can't provide for his family, is worse than an infidel."

Just so you know, marriage give you this hustling mindset to be on your toes.
The highlighted is one of the major lies I aforementioned.
Let's put it into perspective. If as a bachelor you earn 4k per day, then spend 1k for feeding and another 1k for miscellaneous, leaving you with 2k to save for future investment that will avail you the financial laxity to venture into other enterprise or expand existing one, thus increasing your earning power to say 10k per day. At this juncture, you're to a large extent impervious to the cost implication of running a family. So, it's fine.

Now, let's say you got married with an earning of the same 4k per day. Remember you were spending 2k as a bachelor and saving the remaining 2k for the future. What you'll discover as a married man, is that; 4k will be barely enough to service the family, leaving you on the path of stagnancy, cause you'll be feeding from hand to mouth with no savings to venture into new waters of financial promise. Basically, you'll be retrogressing with the rise in inflation and graduating family expenses. In no time, you'll be wizened with dejection and suffering, consequently embroiling the innocent children you sired, in your self inflicted debacle.


Nuff said.