olaric:


Wondering where you got your stats [75%] from. You guys just want to commit suicide over Christianity. Depression is a bad thing ooo.

75% (China + Far East BUDDHISTS, India + South East Asia HINDU, MUSLIMS, BUDDHISTS, Arab + Middle East, MUSLIMS, Europe predominantly ATHEISTS)

That’s nearly 5.7Billion people. The world’s population is estimated at 7Billion. And remember more than half of Africa is MUSLIM.

There is my proof.

Don’t just read the old archaic bible, look around you and see the world you live in.

chinedumoooo:
You can forget about marriage and enjoy your frustrated life in future.
Some people sound senseless and claim to be entitled to their opinion when they had influened some weak mind With their stupid thought.

Dey there dey deceive yaself. There is much more frustration in marriage, in both rich and poor homes. Marriage? I am single at 53 and I sleep better than many overstressed, financially drained, unhappy married men walking around like zombies.
Abeg free the lady

Rhaspody:


Doesn't mean that they are no good marriages out there. What I'm saying is that this will favor men more than women. Aam of 50 can get married easily. But a woman of 50 will find it extremely difficult to even get a loyal man

Look well my brother. Most of the marriages you see, with women over 50, are redundant marriages. If the woman has no economic value you will observe a major disconnection from the man. If she brings in good amount of cash then you see some romantic behaviour on the part of the man. A lot of women are actually abandoned though under the same roof with husband. Who is fooling who?

How many men of means do you see hanging around his 50+ wife?

victorian:










Ok. That's your idea about marriage.
And if we are to ask millions of people what marriage is all about, they will have different views about it.

Anyways in Nigeria, I've come to understand 80% of people both male and females view marriage as poverty allevaitaion scheme and an avenue to have constant sex anytime Anyday without feeling guilty but seeing it as God's mandate on humans.


Anyways why I wish to get married is this : I was born in a family where there is father, mother, brothers and sisters. Although it was a polygamous family but I grew up in the setting of knowing the love & responsibility of a dad, love & motherly responsibility of a mom and love of my brothers. But Years later, I lost my family to death, through natural causes. I can't complain. That's how God want it.

I'm not used to live the rest of my life alone even though I'm financially balanced and I've been trained from day one, having a family through marriage is good and the best. I'm a family and traditional oriented woman.
I frown at having kids through insemination or through adoption or through bf and gf. Those kind of lifestyle is strange to me and I don't want it.

I wish to marry for Companionship wit one man not with numerous men or women and also have my own nuclear family that will us bind by love, Responsibilities ,God, and the law.
Mind you I'm not lonely but I don't fancy being with different men,day in day out all in the name of I can have any man I want. That's not my kind of person.

So that's why.

Make sure you find someone who share your values 100%, and not just for today but till eternity.

I wish you luck oooo

Mkayfrenzy:
Eleribu

Wetin dey pepper you. If I chat your wife now she’ll be sending me her nudes on WhatsApp. Link me let’s test your wife.....oya

Rhaspody:
What she does not know is that older women find it difficult to get married. If after getting married for 10 uears and u decide to separate as a woman of say 40 years, she may not get married till 44. And by then na older men go dey look at her. I pity any lady that subscribes to that mentality.

So you are relying on all these fake marriages around town? I dey laugh you......all these hateful resentment filled marriages? Do you know how many married men are crying inside?

IDeyFlogAllah:
I'm sorry Aunty but just because you personally lack the discipline, maturity and integrity to make a marriage work doesn't mean that the rules must be changed to accommodate your unserious type.

Stick with your ólòshó lifestyle and stop trying to pour sand into the jellof rice of those who are better cooks than you just because you envy them

Dey there dey deceive una self!

Charly68:
Na so you no fit keep your home..na you go change God standard for marriage ..very funny Olosho

Which God?

I asked because there are variety of Gods known to man.

The one we carry for head was given to us by the thieving and murderous europeans.

ODJ124:

yeah... sometimes responsibility... ,the super beautiful mama are very few in numbers

Only if you are marrying for beauty, which fades in no time.

olaric:
Just because it didn't work out for you doesn't give you the right to say nonsense about marriage. [b] God instituted it [/b]and He made it a lifetime commitment.

Provide the proof!

I don’t mean random Christian mumbo jumbo in the bible (75% of the world don’t know anything about the bible)

ODJ124:
If marriage have expiry date..... let say 10 years after marriage... and u divorce or separate..
the woman won't be appalling to the eyes again na..
Marriage is sometimes for better for worse..

Biggest lie!

It is responsibility people are avoiding not the old mama. Some mama are super duper! Matured and very marriageable.

adelove1914:
Na true she talk.. staying with one person for years is just scam and nothing else..Even your kids after a while will leave the house and go elsewhere.

In some years time marriage won't be desirable anymore.. whether we like it or not na wetin go happen be that.

100% correct.

Nigerians are incredibly stupid people. See as church full ground everywhere yet we are the most dis-speakable hypocritical people on planet earth.

Tope is seriously on point. Too many marriages are full of hatred and resentment. Many married women are forming loyal only because most of them are BROKE!

Seun360:


Ogun kill ur Papa dia.

You should seek help immediately. If you are ok you wouldn’t make this terrible statement.

All the best.

donlystra:


My prayer for you is that God should take away that which as darken your heart and may the light of God shine upon you before it becomes too late in Jesus name Amen

Bro or Madam, please concentrate on saving yourself. I am happy (as you are) with my own beliefs.

abeggnow:
men it crazy my uncle went thru the ssme thing d only driffence is he drank him self to death. but why wouldnt he after loosing everything he had inNigeria and the US to a woman he trained and sacrificed all for and d said wonan threw away her african culture and heritage to adopt d akata life style. what is a man without him familly and his hard work?? wat is d point living.??

The answer= a functional upstanding full human being!

All these rubbish about family.............what family?

Men who adopt this mentality die early mostly out of pain and bitter disappointment.

LaEvilIMiss:


1: Is it FOREVER? does it not fade, wane, wax or die?
2: Is it a feeling, a behaviour, an ideal, a medical condition, a mental state or a spiritual state
3: Can you bet your life on Love?

It is just an illusion, it is something we want it to be - it is always what it is not

Well said!!!

victorian:





Before I answer your question.

What's marriage?

In a sane country, outside the cunning mentality of people in Africa and Nigeria, why do people marry?

Answer these two questions first, before I proceed on yours.

Marriage is an unnecessary legal or traditional entanglement of 2 individuals who seek exclusive sexual intimate relationship. That’s all it is.

People marry in the BELIEVE that they will support and look after each other, establish common goals and have a life together. In recent times this belief has proved to be shaky, complicated, unreliable with hidden motives. In Africa poor family have turned it into a breadline.

Ok questions answered.

Seun360:


Let ur Father know.

You have resoundingly proved your idiocy. I don’t insult other people’s father. Goodbye idiot!

Jazzafizzy:

A late colleague of mine once said a standing penis has no conscience

That’s why he is already LATE!

Na him penis kill am.

joyandfaith:


they want to tax poor people to death

One of my poor cousins just born twins at 51 y/o.

Do the poor have sense?

WE SHOULD HAVE ALLOWED BIAFRA TO GO JEJELY! WHICH KIND EVERLASTING WAHALA BE THIS?

perdollar:
am not here for noise making, go round Lagos, d poor immigrants are ur landlord. stop sleeping under d bridge or motor park. go and get a plot of water in d lagon.

Delusional yam leg. Keep deceiving yourselves, you think we are not watching you?

FRANKOSKI:
MARRY YOUR FRIEND

You make me laugh!

Friend ke? Not after she starts getting the dollar.

Kobojunkie:
Are you at all sane?

Look in a mirror and ask yourself.

GMBuhari:
May you not marry a witch

Someone who was so angry that he knows if he breaks the law there he cant bribe his way through , i know of a couple , husband does not beat his wife but will shout till the whole neigborhood will wake up , and what normally causes it ? whenever he gives his wife presents, maybe money or gifts and tell her to go have a nice time, she will always screw up , for instance this lockdown, he gave her about 80k , told her to buy bedspread and some baby stuffs, believe me this wife left since morning, came back in the evening, she didn't buy baby food, she bought curtain no bed spread, so where was she all morning till evening ? worst still she took their young baby along, and it was very very cold that day

the husband kept saying this is all she does all the time


stpry seems unrelated but my point is the husband is very frustrated and feels unappreciated , now imagine a disobedient wife taking husband's money building a house for her parents from husband's sweat( did i mention wife's unemployed?) giving command, going out and coming late, endangering their baby with cold and possible corona infection ??


needless to say he wants her out of his house now , then the whole neigborhood started begging the husband , assuring her she would change , what that man must have endured is beyond what he shared , you could see in his eyes he was in pain, frustrated and tired of having to fight over the same thing everytime

RIP to the dead but some women can be witches

The man will soon die from shouting or maybe stroke. He better drive her away or live apart.

hammer8:




MY BEST ADVICE TO MEN IS UNDERSTAND THAT WHICHEVER WOMAN U MARRY IS YOUR BOSS.


NA SO SHE TAKE UNDERSTAND IT, ESPECIALLY AS THEY GETTING OLDER IN THE MARRIAGE.


YOUR BEST BET IS TO MARRY YOUNG, HIT THE GYM AND MAKE SURE SHE UNDERSTAND U ARE A STRONG MAN ESPECIALLLY IN THE BEDROOM.


WEN SHE DONE TIRE, EVEN IF YOU ARE TIRED, TELL HER E REMAIN SMALL, DIG DEEP AND LASH HER AGAIN.


THEN ON ROAD, BE VERY TEMPERMENTAL WITH ALL THE MEN THAT GET IN YOUR WAY.

THEN TAKE HER TO THE GYM AND FOR A RUN AND TRAIN HER TO BE FIT.

SHE GO FEAR ABI NA RESPECT U AUTOMATICALLY.

ALSO MAKE MONEY BEFORE U MARRY.

You no get sense!

victorian:






I have extended my explanation about men and their selfish wicked longer throat.

Most marry village women Anyways.


While the ones who married graduates and entrepreneurs like us, want us to hand over all the proceeds of our hard work and buisness to them, because they are doing us a huge favour to marry abi?
When I was suffering and trying to make headway, where are they? Smhhhh

If I be God of thunder? Only God knows what I would have done to greedy wicked men!


Chai! Only God knows!

What do you need marriage for?

Ishilove:

Your sisters and your other female relatives may be goldigging wh0res but I know I'm not. You sound very bitter. Were you duped by a lady smarter than you?

Going by your satanic generalisation, the answer is a resounding 'YES'.

Fvck off for life.

Foolish men! What do they need marriage for when you can get everything you want from a marriage without getting married? Foolish weak men, I cook my own food, clean my own house, nurse myself, keep myself company and spend my money on myself. I will live longer and healthier than these mumu marriage-seeking Nigerian men. They are idiots.

Kobojunkie:
That is what this crime is all about. He wanted to control the outcome of it all.

Shut up idiot, most of these men become DEADLY only when they have lost everything, acquired over 2/3 decades to the woman.

All these control BS is rubbish.