Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Npower Kaduna State Lets Meet Here.... by Mrrespect(m): 12:27pm On Nov 30, 2016 |
Just coming from kaduna state ministry of Education where I was told there's no Info yet |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Next Step After Seeing Your Name On Npower Portal by Mrrespect(m): 12:52pm On Nov 29, 2016 |
Jaii: i received a text frm ministry of educatn KaDuna asking for ma name, LG and area of specialization. u got same? I didn't. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Npower Kaduna State Lets Meet Here.... by Mrrespect(m): 11:55am On Nov 29, 2016 |
Jaii: i receive d same text, i tink dey r doing it alphabetically. my guess sha
i rep CHIKUN LG.
i got d text saturday nyt. anyone wit me? Chikun too bt no SMS yet |
Romance › Re: Should I Let Him Have Sex With Me by Mrrespect(m): 10:46pm On Nov 28, 2016 |
Curioussme: Hi guys, I've been in a relationship for about 4 years now. We've never had sex, am a virgin and he knows. Though we smooch and do everything except sex cos we agreed at the beginning of the relationship to wait till marriage . Last time I went visiting him, to my surprise he went and bought condom, saying he got it to avoid stories that touch. Well he later tried having sex with me, which I refused. I noticed he wasn't happy after then. Do you guys think I should have given in? This is his first time behaving like this, dunno what happened Relationship isn't by force. If u Re nt ready to b bleeped stay away from it. |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Next Step After Seeing Your Name On Npower Portal by Mrrespect(m): 7:18pm On Nov 28, 2016 |
Jaii: i received a text frm ministry of educatn KaDuna asking for ma name, LG and area of specialization. u got same? Nope. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: How We’ll Deal With Fraudulent Claims In N-power Jobs – Presidency by Mrrespect(m): 7:01pm On Nov 28, 2016 |
There's an error with my date of birth; the day nd the month re correct bt the year is nt correct. I hope am safe! |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Do Not Take The N-power Job If… by Mrrespect(m): 12:31pm On Nov 28, 2016 |
Thanks. We Re nt rejecting it. |
Phones › Re: 6 Symptoms Of Android Infection by Mrrespect(m): 6:22pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
evansjeff: What makes a phone appear charging but wouldn't add power, even with an original 'follow come' charger it shows charging only to meet it later the way you left it, maka why? C8 right?? |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: N-power: FG To Disqualify Those Without Teaching Qualifications by Mrrespect(m): 3:43pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
Op no gt joy atal |
Celebrities › Re: Davido Hangs Out With Chelsea Players After Their Victory Over Tottenham by Mrrespect(m): 12:01am On Nov 27, 2016 |
Haters go say Na photoshop |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Chelsea Vs Tottenham Hotspur (2 - 1) On 26th November 2016 by Mrrespect(m): 11:13pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Next Step After Seeing Your Name On Npower Portal by Mrrespect(m): 5:42pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
Jaii: is there anyone from kaduna?
Kaduna south or chikun precisely Yea me. I stay at sabo |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: N-power: What Brand And Model Of Tablet Would be Given To Participants ? by Mrrespect(m): 1:57pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
bashydemy: But i think we should just thank God for giving us a President who can stand up to fight corruption even if it's lopsided, If GEJ have done the same i believe we would have been on a right direction.
most of those in the opposition are not in the past Govt, They never share from the Dasuki arms Saga so tell me how lopsided is Buhari anti corruption fight? Guy I swear I respect ur maturity. Despite all the insults he threw at u yet u never allowed ursef to be so low to extent of exchanging insults. I like Dat! |
Politics › Re: Probe The Reported Killing Of 150 Biafra Agitators – South East Senators by Mrrespect(m): 5:34pm On Nov 25, 2016 |
nwaanambra1: the fact is - the world is taking note.
United Nations is aware
Transparency International is aware
Ecowas is aware
the day of reckoning will be here sooner than we expected.
as for the Nigerian Army, despite their numerous weapons, Bokohamaram is defeating them mercilessly with ordinary AK47 - i cant help but wonder how they will withstand serious uprising from the south east - a people who can not just only afford to purchase massive weapons but can also manufactures weapons that will amaze the world!
DON'T PUSH THE IGBOS TO THE WALL AGAIN - THIS IS 2016 NOT 1969! WE ALL KNOW THE ROAD TO THE WEAPONS MARKET NOW - ITS NO LONGER THOSE DAYS WHEN WE WERE DENIED ACCESS TO SOPHISTICATED WEAPONS!
THE NIGERIAN ARMY SHOULD STOP KILLING THE IGBOS - WE WILL NO LONGER ACCEPT TO BE A SITTING DUCK. *Yinmu |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Npower- Fg To Engage The Remaining 300k By Next Year by Mrrespect(m): 2:08pm On Nov 25, 2016 |
Supplanter: Please, I'll like to know how much will those in the teaching sector be paida nd when will payment begins? 30k |
Family › Re: Bad Cooks Don't Make Bad Wives by Mrrespect(m): 8:25am On Nov 25, 2016 |
DarkRebel101: With the exemption of Christ who fasted for forty days and forty nights, what man and what woman can do without food? The answer to that is as plain as a pikestaff. No man, no woman, no earthenware vessel under the sun can do without food.
It's an established fact that feeding is a basic necessity for human survival; why then would one shortchange him-herself by not learning this simple yet vital life skill which is almost as essential as the very air we breathe?—the skill of cooking that is.
Why do men believe the process of nourishing themselves is effeminate and a task so inferior that it must be exclusively reserved for the office of womanhood? Isn't that a rather obtuse way of looking at it?
Why are husbands who lend helping hands to their wives in the kitchen said to be henpecked and of the sissy variety? Is the raiment of masculinity to be shorn of tenderness and the capacity for love and care?
Why are our sons dissuaded from being with their mothers in the kitchen where they might pick up these crucial culinary skills? Why do we believe it's mandatory that our daughters be immersed in the art of cookery, but that it isn't necessary for our sons to be? Are we implicitly stating that our daughters are worthy of knowing how to go about in feeding themselves, but that our sons aren't?
Don't we think it's unwise if one is incapable of slaking his-her hunger unless he-she is to rely on the efforts of others? Isn't that akin to having to urinate with another person's gënitals?
Why is it customary that all women should know how to cook but not all men? Is it that they cook better? – surely that cannot be true -- after all, many of the top chefs in the world are males.
Can we say women have a heightened sense of taste and smell which enables them to cook better than men? Is it that they were born with cooking genes which makes them immanently adept at knowing just how much salt, and how much curry, and how much grinded pepper would suffice in making that pot of stew capable of exciting even the most apathetic taste buds? Surely that is not the case as well.
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The purpose of this piece is to upend the notion that bad cooks make bad wives, and to encourage men to put on those dazzling aprons and learn how to cook—even if it's only the staple delicacies of the climes in which they are domiciled.
We – men – would realise just how numerous the benefits of knowing how to cook are when we give it some thought.
Think of it, if you happen to have just had a huge quarrel with your wife and you know how to cook, you wouldn't have to wait until she comes around before you regale yourself with a nice meal. Knowing how to cook would also reduce the workload for your wife and anneal the emotional connection betwixt the twain of you, and believe me you when I say your wife would greatly appreciate your contributions and adore you the more.
For the bachelors inept in cooking, do you mean to say that you would live solely on junk food and continue to patronise eateries and ‘Mama Put’ until you decide to take the plunge? Not only is this unhealthy, it's also a major economic misfiring.
This – cooking – is also a skill that could generate lots of income if mastered to an expert degree. There's never a time or season when Caterers and Cooks never flourish – especially in a party-loving, owambe-ridden country such as ours where each week is characterised by the efflux of wedding parties, birthday parties, naming ceremonies, school parties, office parties, etcetera. Why deprive yourself of something which promises such prolific dividends?
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I'm sure some people must have asked us this about our bride-to-be: ‘Can she cook?’. We must have also heard statements like: ‘A woman had better know how to cook, otherwise she would lose her husband to other women’.
Are men now such ‘self-controless’ and debauched beasts that mere food would drive them to infidelity?
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Being the curious philosopher and true-blue adherent of Cartesian skepticism that I am, one of my life's purposes has always been to scrutinize social mores and practices of dubious provenance which we've embraced without questioning, and also in unearthing the reeking worms of falsehood that have bored their slimy selves into the tapestry of our lives—lives which our arbitrary, man-made cultural precepts and conventions have made even more difficult than they are supposed to be. It is for this reason, doubled up with an innate cynicism, that I decided to reevaluate society's stance on the topic of cooking—the pulse-beat of domesticity.
And it was during one of my brooding sessions that I segued into an oasis of inward calmness and clarity of mind which led me to the pearly gates of this interestingly revealing epiphany:
“Before the early men accidentally dropped meat into fire and figured it smelt and tasted better than the raw meat which they ate hitherto -- before that inadventent discovery, the burden of cooking never rested on the shoulders of women. Women were never relied upon for feeding.”
It was in that Eureka moment I realized that women aren't naturally disposed to cooking, they were only socially-engineered to see it as a task requisite to being a valid member of the female gender. In other words, society conditioned women to see the art of cooking as one of the cardinal gender roles which they must embrace.
Now that we know women are not born with cooking genes, men should never use a woman's cooking skills as a yardstick when wife-hunting. Cooking skills should never be used as parameters in judging a woman's personality or character. A man that cannot cook is just as guilty as a woman that cannot.
Now that we know women have no cooking genes, parents should ensure that both their sons and daughters learn how to cook while they are still young and tender. Our sons should not be handled with a free-wheeling hand in this regard.
Now that we know women have no cooking genes, no husband should expect his wife who has returned home after a long day, and who has been treated to the numbing biffs of lassitude, to waddle her way into the kitchen and conjure up a meal in that rest-deprived state. Why couldn't he have fixed himself a plate? Because he didn't know how to cook? What's stopping him from learning?
Now that we know women have no cooking genes, a woman who knows how to cook but doesn't like cooking should not be subjected to derision and name-calling—feminist devil, liberal witch, left-winged Jezebel, Betrayer of the African tradition, etcetera. A woman who knows how to cook but doesn't enjoy it is no different from the man who knows how to cook but shirks from doing so because he derives no pleasure from it.
I cook fairly well too – thanks to my loving grandmother – but were it optional, I'd rather choose not to cook—the heat, the tardiness of the process, the steam, the almost-neurotic stirring and tasting of soup...All these are why I never like to cook except on special occasions. So you should understand why some women, though are excellent cooks, are not smitten in the least by the idea of cooking.
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The ideal thing, especially in this fast-paced, digitalized age where the percentage of housewives dwindles by the minute, is for men to dispose of the notions inherited from our forbears, to let go of the vestiges of the remote and irrelevant past, and to make bold tectonic shifts toward a more progressive and bespoke mind-set—a mind-set specifically tailored for this era, a mind-set which sees clearly the inanity in what society has beguiled us into believing for centuries – the inanity in the belief that cooking is out-and-out a woman's job and that a man need not know how to cook.
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Who says a woman cannot cook from Monday to Friday while her husband takes care of the cooking during the weekends? See? -- now that's what we call a cohesive and tandem partnership.
Happy cooking... So because of cooking u typed al dis? I feel ur pain |
Education › Re: What Is The Difference Between B.sc And B.eng by Mrrespect(m): 8:20am On Nov 25, 2016 |
iluvpomo: BSc = 4 year degree
BEng = 5 Year degree
Team EE  Nt in Federal Universities |
Romance › Re: If You Are Asked To Marry Me Or Collect 100million Which One Will You Go For by Mrrespect(m): 2:28pm On Nov 24, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: See Reasons You Don't Need A Curvy Girl With Big Ass by Mrrespect(m): 12:03am On Nov 24, 2016 |
Op is this wot u Re talking abt for number 2??
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Romance › Re: The Finest Girl In Nigeria Appear In New Pic by Mrrespect(m): 11:26pm On Nov 23, 2016 |
Kdiva: please show me the makeup on her face She used beatyplus |
Romance › Re: The Finest Girl In Nigeria Appear In New Pic by Mrrespect(m): 11:21pm On Nov 23, 2016 |
This gal no fine pass Tessy na |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Next Step After Seeing Your Name On Npower Portal by Mrrespect(m): 1:44pm On Nov 23, 2016 |
Situation001: Simultaneously as in.. Asin I logged in wt my email nd I also used my fone number to logged in. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Next Step After Seeing Your Name On Npower Portal by Mrrespect(m): 1:38pm On Nov 23, 2016 |
haryorbarmie83: pls what letter did ur surname start with? for those that gain access to log in. thanks My Surname starts wt a |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Next Step After Seeing Your Name On Npower Portal by Mrrespect(m): 1:05pm On Nov 23, 2016 |
I was able to login using both my email nd fone number simultaneously as username nd Surname (Lower key) as password bt am getting connect to ur social media. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Next Step After Seeing Your Name On Npower Portal by Mrrespect(m): 12:27pm On Nov 22, 2016 |
I feel ur pain |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Buhari Presidency Kicks Off Job Scheme For Half A Million Unemployed Graduates by Mrrespect(m): 7:25am On Nov 21, 2016 |
The list is out! Name seen, glory b to God. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: 200K Selected N-power Applicants To Be Notified This Weekend ~ VP Spokesman by Mrrespect(m): 11:44pm On Nov 20, 2016 |
Name seen Glory b to God |
Business › Re: How The Current MMM Will Likely End - As a Scam by Mrrespect(m): 8:03pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
TB Joshua everywhere |
Romance › Re: I Won't Marry My Girlfriend, She Doesn't Like To Cook, Clean Or Wash My Clothes by Mrrespect(m): 8:04am On Oct 08, 2016 |
Good ladies don't want to pretend again. Gone are the days that they Would do anything jst to get that ring nd before u knw it they would show you their real characters. |
Art, Graphics & Video › Re: Checkout The Beauty Of These Artworks By this Corper With Gifted Fingers by Mrrespect(m): 10:44pm On Aug 20, 2016 |
Mehn! D guy is gud. Ve seen his work, its (the hunter) there in FCE pankshin. |
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