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jaybee3:
Crazy binch

Where you been gurl?

o atijo love-vendor! I was pregnant and on maternity leave!

You missed me oko mi?

TobiBabiOO:
We've been talking for 2 months, to me that's too soon to be confessing love but I respect how he feels. I'm not one to use that word so loosely because I dont want to say it and not mean it. I'm practical, he meets all the characteristics I want in a man and we get along very well so I want to date him, the decision for marriage will come later if it's meant to be but how am I supposed to get there if I do not have the support of my parents in dating who I chose??... saying he can do better hurts my feelings because I know I'm a good catch and so does he.

There are different layers of love. You can love someone but not be in love. He is not in love with you but I am sure he love you for being you. It is okay and it is not a big deal. Once you guys know each other more....the love will intensify if you guys are genuine and the foundation of your relationship is built on honesty. The love is not the culprit but if he is possessive and controlling then you need to be concerned . Don't be concerned about the man loving you...accept it and feed into it with prayer and understanding. Many women don't even get the blessing of love from a man....the real kind!

See...you just made me appreciate my husband even more cos that man loves me! Let me go kiss my baby!

One more thing...people including family didn't want me to marry my husband because he is Igbo. NO OTHER REASONS and I followed my heart and mind...we are still strong approaching a decade!

Don't let anyone dictate your happiness even your family. Family supports each other even when they don't like the decisions. You can get a man that your mother approved but ends up being the end of your life. Do you and trust God.

Good luck!

Teempakguy:
sexual and moral perversions in your kids.
also, i think your parents want a nigerian wedding for you.

She can still have a Nigerian wedding. Many non-Nigerians are open to other cultures. Maybe Nigerians need to be open as well.

Teempakguy:
just quote the above verbatim to your parents. meanwhile . . . i think they're concerned that introducing non nigerian genes into their bloodline might lead to undesirable traits.

Excuse me....Nigerian bloodline has been diluted for centuries! There are millions of half Nigerian children/adults around the world! Too late!

Doortun:
My initial concern was poor family orientation and up-bringing. African Americans with sense of direction are rare to find. You have one right on your feet so what are you waiting for? Enjoy before he grows wings and fly away and be a good Ambassador to other Nigerian ladies.

The same thing can be said about Nigerians...let us not lead with stereotypes but common sense.

Ipledge:
I think from thé description,your guy have good background.thé fact that he was raised by both parents...one thing i know common to them is aggresiveness

It doesn't matter if he was raised by both parents or not..what is important is the type of parenting he has been exposed to. I know several people from 2 parenting homes are now in prison because of the exposure they had which wasn't inspiring.

rokiatu:
Lmao wifey my side ohhhhh.

Watch that post gets 300 likes!

The sexiest: Rokiatu, if I was a lesbian I would surely wife her!

The most hated; Mrs. Chima

The Most Bitchiest: Mrs. Chima

The Man Slayer: Mrs. Chima

The Notorious Feminist: Mrs. Chima

RedBenson:
Konji why?

MrsChima, i hope Chima wont do this to us the day he will catch us doing the deed?

I don't cheat on my man.

mulattoclaro:
lost soul.

Yes..you are child! Missing Soul Inc has rejected your application!

WYman2:
[size=15pt][b]happy married lyf bro.
U did exactly as u said.

Time to port too,I rather marry a sudanes,gongoloses,malawian than nigerian gals.

Can u imagine bro,I hooked up with one sophiscated babe..money oozing all over her,coming from a rich family..this gal no they wear anything apart from gold and silver jewery,that is for the once I have seen judgin by the small time I spent with her,with two powerful ride to top am..HEAVEN BEAR WITNESS WITH ME ON THIS

Within 4days of we knowing each other,this gal cooked up a story,about her landlord wantin to do renovation in his house and he gave her quit notice.;so I should assist her with money for house rent,for the new house she got,I asked her about her dad and she said,she doesn't want to disturb him..shoo,me way dey try carry myslf financially,go start pay rent for person wey I no even sure wheather the story na true.

Sincerly speaking,I was financially down,and I xplained to her,how I was scammed by a close pal and I am just floating financially.
She said ok,can u imagin.a person I just told dat am down called me 3dayz after to tell me,dat her Ipad got spoilt and I should help her replace it..I posted her.
After 1week and somdayz,she sent me "hi" on BBM and I replied and I letter asked her,yy she hasn't been coming online,she said her BB subscrition expired,dat I should send her money for SUB and I should double it,bcs she wants to make an international call.
This is the same gal,dat has been changing her DP almost everyday..going by DP,u can tell.dis gal is not broke..even me self nova enter the places I dey see her for her DP..mehn u need to see this gal,u will mistake her for dangote pikin.

I posted her again,that same dey..I was in a deep thought abut the whole ish.
Why should I send a gal money,who knows my financial situation,but was bent on extorting from me,while I still have a mum who needs care,attention and love.
The irony the greed and selfishness of the everage naija gal,.having had same xperience with all others i have come across..got me irritated.

I went to all my social network acct and deleted all femals,in my contact list,except my relations

It so painful,disheartnenin to see this generation go down the drain.
I have made It my duty and piority to teach all my sisters,social values,moral,to be independent and irony of lyf.[/b][/size]

Jesus Wept.

mulattoclaro:
I said they're not Asians. I've lived with them and even asked about their ethnicity and they never mentioned anything like Asia.

Poor child.

Atmmachine:
_{Yes, a 60 year old woman can give birth}
It is called [size=30pt]IVF[/size]

You also date younger gus, that makes you a [size=70pt]COUGAR[/size]

No. My husband is older than me.

mulattoclaro:
they're not Asians but south Americans.

Those people in that first picture are Asians!

Atmmachine:
You're same age with my mum
She's 60 years old but behaves maturely Go, care for your [size=60pt]GRAND-CHILDREN-.[/size]

#   COUGAR #

Young girls can't be cougars and what 60 years old woman you know have birthed baby recently

The whole family came? The first picture is of Asian background.

Atmmachine:
You're a punk

Your mammy.

DaZion:
Hmmm...Buh, wat if u luv him very much?

Accepting a surname has nothing to do with love but a choice to accept it.

I am a ball buster!

Who has called me?

DaZion:
Yup! Just a name..What if he's surname his "Aborisa"-"Idol worshiper"?

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I still say no.

RedBenson:
How? Say it with facts. If there are no diccks, to what use would it be of pusssies? Without Chima's dicck, to what function would it be of your pusssy?

A pussy doesn't need a dick. Fact.

AncientJerk:
half of everyone ranting here simply just don't get this. especially the females. smh...if you aint got it by now , you just aint getting it!!

Only a few women has spoken on this thread and the rest Of them were bishes with dicks talking about intelligence and smartness more than anything.

of course, you say it the women because only 2 real men has spoken on this thread! I would be confused too!

RedBenson:
MrsChima, between dicck and pusssy, which is more precious to the society?

Vagina.

Why do men buy prostitutes?