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My husband always proposition sex on this day and that day. Don't know why!

starlingslimnet:
"No Sex After Marriage"

Yes...I can

Olufemiolaolu:
Hmmmmmm im salivating ooooo Hmmmmmm im salivating ooooo

Here is a rag.

tpiadotcom:
are your in laws Igbo?






in what way?

I think most Nigerian men are sweet talkers, as in while dating, but then, are other males not also the same way?

Nigerian men don't even do all the flower and chocolates stuff as much as non Nigerians.

Unless being very direct about romping in the hay is
considered romantic.

Yes...my inlaws are igbo. I am sure other Nigerian men are skilled talkers...but Yoruba men created the lead! IMO.

Sex isn't a romance but quality time together is romantic. I don't care for flowers as gifts.

Sing me a song on key or off key is romantic to me!

Procreation and the only reason.

Beface:
Per adventure if anything should happen to the man,most time the woman is usually held responsible. I heard they will isolate a woman that is suspected to have kill her husband and give her the water that is use to bath her dead husband to drink to prove her innocence. In some cases,they will collect all the properties from the woman.

What happens if the same incident occurred in the Yoruba family?

IamOdin:
cry me a nile cos you just exposed ur husband's frailities...Liability.

Why do Nigerians make up and assume shit? Anyway....I just exposed your faggotry!

Mhizizzy:
Women add the spice to the world

Men wud AV left evrytn in a state of uproar if left alone

Precisely.

IamOdin:
why is Engllish this hard?
I said "would have made MORE SENSE if"
i can't remember instructing u on what to say or not f00l..i gave MHO.

Is it hard for you, No where in my quote I said you have instructed me fool!

IamOdin:
would have made more sense if you wrote "my husband is no better"

I said what I wanted to say fool.

The husband is no better too!

Feraz:
Madam, did you miss this part?

Again...Why would you have unprotected sex with a with a woman that's not your wife? It would prevent you from coming on Nairaland crying that she wants to abort your deposits!

Second note...why would she insist on unprotected sex just to abort her careless evidence

Vapidness!

rokiatu:

Runnnnnnn!

Let me add a few as well!

Stop thinking that forceful thrusting is pleasurable!!! If a woman is moaning and groaning doesn't always mean she is enjoying the moment. Take your time and explore her body with your body.

it is important to spend quality time with loving talk and get deeper in the emotions UNLESS you are only focusing on ejaculating and comot!
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Suckling her face is not sexy and it is disgusting. Nibbling and pecking is a sexy way to start then build with intensity not force!

Caress her body as you look into her eyes...something about eye kissing set the tone on fire! Better connection and orgasm!

Laugh and smile as you guys share funny stories about your day or week. Laughter releases endorphins that increase insatiable pleasure.

Cuddling before sex is another way to increase endorphins because it involves touching and if she is in a bad mood....massage her feet, neck, behind her knees, hands, back, and arms. Make sure you use flavor oil and nibble her body between massages....it will change the energy to arousal.

I need to charge you!

Beface:
Beyond the romantic aspect i think the igbo's culture is also an issue.

Hmmmm. What's about the Igbo culture that's an issue?

rawlinsobas:
If u give igbo gurls an options they will go for yoruba men. They luv our way....

I am curious....what is the difference between Yrouba men ways and Igbo men ways?

I have inlaws that are married to Yorubas (3) out of 8 and they tells me the men are very romantic and skilled with words.

I have several Yoruba friends...romance seems to be a desired passover with them...not sure if it is a tribal thing but it's noticeable.

JohnPortar:
Hello NL's, I met this girl about 5yrs ago and we soon started dating, I have been introduced to her parents and she to mine. Though I have a feeling the girl's father is against our union.
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Few weeks ago, we came to my apartment around 9pm, she said 'she was hot and needed to be loved'. To cut the long story short, we made out that night without protection ( she insisted, claiming if I love her, I should trust her enough). She called me few days ago that she missed her period and test confirmed that's she's pregnant.
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I have a job that pays well, she's almost through with her youth service. We can get married next Saturday if she wants it but the problem is that she doesn't want to keep the baby claiming she's not ready to have a child and wants to face her career.
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I don't know what to do/how to convince her to keep the baby. She's scheduled for the abortion tomorrow morning and I won't be able to forgive her if she goes ahead with it.
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Guys, I need quick response abeg, how can I let her keep the baby? I called her mum to report her but as it turned out, the mum is in support of her daughter's decision.

Why would you have unprotected sex with someone that is not your wife and then come on this thread crying about the girl aborting your deposits

It doesn't matter of the father is against the union because you have bigger fish to fry!

EZEIGBO1OFIMO:
i am a nigerian, i have a non Nigerian accent, i know more about US financial system than egusi soup, guess what, there are tons and tons of overly westernized Nigerian men like me. Let me give a short example... i have 8 friends who left Nigeria for college, they all attended ivies and elites with strong passion for techie, programming, robotics etc. they all married white girls; when we had a group chat, i asked why they all overlooked black birriful girls; each one of them told the same story, black girls didn't consider them black them, they were accussed of being whitewashed amd white ass kissers; these are guys who i've complained of being overly romantic. What point am i trying to drive here; most black girls [ naija and AA] have an ironical view of relationship, they want a swaggerful thuggish bad boy who'll serve them fresh pârfaits in bed. There are tons of polite calm, nerdy , shy nigetian guys in America; but they never get noticed by AA because instead of being in clubs, bash, or a mega church, they are attending a sci-fi conference, a Quantum-physics symposium and promoting Atheism with their white friends.
EZEIGBO

Let me correct you on some of your points...I agree that many black girls in America including foreign black girls look for that Chris Brown with Cornell West intelligence type guys however...they are outnumbered by girls who want a decent man who has never Ben in jail or gangbanged.

Many intelligent and educated black women in America with good careers are single because of the hype and community portrayed black women to.be. Many black men follow some textbook expectations of what a wife material is and therefore judged the women before getting to know them. Osa is a perfect example of that. She is not the typical chick traditional black men goes after and that's fact. There are some black men who thinks outside box which is good! Sadly...too many of them are so concerned about what society thinks instead if doing what makes them happy.

Your friends chose those white girls to marry because they wanted them. Simple. They do not need to place blame for their decision to marry white girls
..no one can't force you to marrywho you don't want or have a hidden agenda with.

People need to think outside of the box if they want better progression. Real talk.

T3Amo:
This is not a bashing video but I just found it interesting especially those Nigerians in the Diaspora will definitely relate to this. What do you ladies think? Men do you agree with what she is saying?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KILpmi8f2js



Cc: Idowuogbo, Ilekeh, Subom1, Babyosisi, Cococandy, Efemenaxy, onila, coogar, sagamite, SirShymexx, truckpusher,50caliber, MrsChima

She is entitled to her opinions and it's true about some Nigerian men. We needs to stop acting like we are afraid of the truth.