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DarkAngel86:
Boy and man is a state of mind in a relationship rather than an age thing. Boys love, love and men love to demonstrate love. Let me give you an example: A boy is new or even addicted to the chase and the moment they catch the prey they look for reasons to leave. Classic reason " she's crazy" I can replace her blah blah.

Men: Don't enjoy the chase as much because they know what they want and the search for that. Men are chased by women. Once men find what they're looking for they are happy because they can now un-burden themselves of that love they want to give. They want children so they could pass on love and wisdom not for their lineage.

So I hope that makes sense lol but I think being a man and a boy is a state of mind. I have met 22yr old men and 40yr old boys.

Great post!

I do agree that it is a state of mind thing and I also believe that it is the level of emotional intelligence as well.

Emotional intelligence is a notion that people achieve greatness through life experience or exposure . It is also said when boys are raised by men...they are exposed to things ahead of their time.

It is possible that older men lack the maturity because of lack of life experiences and/or exposure. How is it possible? Being sheltered or oblivious to reality.

Great post!

swaggzo:
I TELL YOU MAN.

TODAY SHE CLAIMS SHE MARRIED.
ANOTHER DAY SHE CLAIMS SHE SINGLE.


BASICALLY FROM THE CRAPPINESS OF HER POSTS.

AS NEAR AS I'M CONCERNED. ..THIS THREAD IS BULLSHIIT

ALL THESE GIRLS JUST WAKE UP ONE TIME AND COME TO NL TO FORM SQUAD FOR THEM FATHERS!
NONSENSE!!

You needs to deal with your mommy issues.

There are no way to know if a man is cheating unless you have evidence and caught him in act. MOST MEN WILL NOT CONFESS TO CHEATING so you will just have to decide if it is important to investigate or let it be.

A man can come home every day on time and still cheat.
A man can kiss and hug you every day and still cheat.
A man can go out for a smoke and still cheat.

If you have to worry that he is cheating....you need to leave him.

Ladies...do you think there is a difference between boys and men when it comes to relationship and their perspective of relationship?

Hello Ladies/Sisters!

This thread is mainly for the women/sisters who may have random thoughts and conversation about romance involving men etc.

This is the way many threads are not derailed by randomness.

Let ask honest and raw questions with healthy dialogues. We can learn things and encourage each other in every aspect of romance.

Let's get it popping!

Ausra:
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Can bi-sexual women join?

nepp:
Bible does not say marriage is mandatory. God does not plan for everyone to marry (1 Corinthians 7:38). Jesus didn't. Jeremiah didn't (Jeremiah 16:2). Neither did Paul (1 Corinthians 7:7-.

Read more: http://www.compellingtruth.org/Bible-marriage.html#ixzz3WKcdvQz3

That's true. Everyone isn't equipped for marriage nor destined to be married. Harsh truth.

MduZA:
you mean shoe repairers and barbers

Buhhhhhaaa

all4naija:
But, our men are more handsome than Ghanaian men.

It's a tie. Sorry bro!

all4naija:
Is that how you defend your people against Ghanaian attacks sometimes?

By speaking the truth? Yes!

all4naija:
Why don't you move to Ghana if you like them so much?

Huh mumu

This boy drunk too much alomo bitter oo!

nepp:
What is this??
Some Nigerian men... God forbid!

He has issues with women being more educated than him. It is a global thing!

Dick!

hollandis:
Masters has no benefit in Nigeria

Really?? Damn!

all4naija:
Smh... That means you like midgets! You don't know what you are missing by not having personal interest in Nigerian men the way you do to ugly Ghanaian men. It is your choice though.

Aki and Paw Paw are Nigerian midgets! There are short men in all countries!

all4naija:
Jeez! That is disgusting thing to know about.

And your gay ass responded!

LOL AT DICK OVER A DEGREE

I will not forego my education for a dick. Sorry.

Help Chima is butt nekkid!

Swallu.....

You still didn't answer my question. ..why would a Nigerian American with citizenship marry an American if he ONLY WANTS AN AFRICAN WIFE?

What the point of marrying an American woman if he ALREADY has his papers and American women are sooooooo horrible according to you?

swallu:
African women are home makers and they know the rudiments of taking care of a man unlike western who dont have a clue about how to take care of a home.All a western woman can do is smoke,drink alcohol and go to nightclubs.Maybe this could explain why even nigerian american men are coming back to nigeria looking for african wives.Mind you the nigerian american women are just as heavily westernised as the white and black american women.

LMAO at the generalizations between African and American women.

Thank God am not ignorant.

Give him my contact info...I am looking for a sex slave.

Mavor:
@ swallu 95 percent of nigerian men living and married to western women overseas have nigerian wives in secret back in nigeria!!! What type of weed are you on? Quit posting trash please. Back up your stats with actual credible references.

He is smoking that oooohwee weed! I want some!

I am baffled by the statement of Nigerians with Citizenship marrying for paper Why marry an American if you only want a Nigerian wife and you got papers ALREADY

Just thinking outloud.

Swallu...I bribed a Nigerian official at the magistrate court to give me some bullshit statistics as you have stated on this thread.

He said 96% of Africans born in USA including Nigerians with American passports have 12 wives! One for each village and 200 kids!!

He also said those born in America with American passports will be dumb enough to marry an American woman and have an arranged marriage with a chicken they have never met!!!!

He will send his arranged wife money and sperm to carry Belle for him while he has American kids!

[quote author=swallu post=32155297]If your husband does not have an arrangee wife back home in nigeria then count yourself lucky but that does not stop the fact that 95 percent of nigerian men living and married to western women overseas have nigerian wives in secret back in nigeria.
PS
You said your nigerian husband is very traditional and nigerian men who are traditional usually engage in polygamy.So what are the chances he has another wife somewere? Just saying.[/quote


Arranged wife? I will entertain you a bit because your ignorance is hilarious. He.is a Christian and his entire family is more religious than Jonestown Clan! There is no practice of polygamy in the Chima family.

He is traditional as in old fashioned....not jungle bush like you.

I told my in laws of what you said...they said you sounded bitter and jealous of Nigerians. They said you are clearly trying too hard to "exposed" the truth about Nigerians.

swallu:
Wether fresh off the boat Nigerian man or a nigerian man who has resided in the west for some time most of them have wives back in nigeria.Many of such men request for nigerian wives through their parents or close friends back home.Their are many reasons nigerian men overseas have nigerian wives for one thing most western women dont know how to keep a home,they are lousy and quarrelsome and they cant cook unlike nigerian women even with their flaws can still keep a home.Your nigerian husband probably has a wife back in nigeria and its not possible for you to know.Most western marriages always end in bitter divorce so its wise if he has a wife back in his country.

Nigerian American is a person who was born in America from Nigerian parents. I highly doubt Nigerian Americans will marry for papers. .

My husband didn't have to be a wore to survive and eat. JUST SAYING!