₦airaland Forum

mulattoclaro:
why are silly and senseless?

Is that how you felt when you wrote that shit about Nigerian girls and the mothers?

I didn't steal your blackberry. Direct your angry at the theiving who're

mulattoclaro:
hey you shut up and stay the Bleep off my mentions if you have nothing tangible to say. How dare you compare the generation of our mothers and your current messed and bleeped generation of females?

Why are you mad?

leanfarmer:
Morning, Cherlene, yeah! Personal experience.I think the downturn in the economy here hasn't made some women financially independent.You can't crucify them.Somehow, they've got to hang on.Some men too would do the same.For white women, however,at least, the ones I've got in touch with, there seems to be this sense of independence: oh, I'm fine...I don't need anything from you..

You like women that doesn't depend on you?

mulattoclaro:
a lot my dear. Foreign girls are more loyal, more respectful, more industrious, more caring and more caring than their Nigerian counterparts. Nigerian girls are hungry, dirty, unkempt, uncivilised, rude, ill-bred and lack courtesy. They believe a relationship is a financial bail-out from poverty and a meal ticket. I'm currently engaged to a Brazilian and believe me it's the best thing that ever happened to me. I don't regret not dating or wanting to marry a Nigerian girl. Not all of them are like that. Let's 98.9% of them are like that.

So your Nigerian mother are those things you have mentioned above?

You don't have to thrash Nigerian girls to get or impress a Foreigner. Am just saying#

Did you fall on his kobo accidentally?

GodblessNig247:
U would have used fornicating. Is apt!

Smh.

esosuo:
I support the no breeding tins expecially the ones that don't have plans on marrying ,any one who makes mistake as an excuse shud always be ready to raise the child with support

Precisely. I don't get why people can be so laid back with unsafe sex.

I see fatherless kids all over and wonder how the father sleep at night

Use condoms people!!

leanfarmer:
There's no one size fits all for this.I think foreign ladies are more open-minded.They tell you what they want up front.

Not all. Women in general wanf a man to accept them for who they are and be true to them.

Personality varies and desires changes daily. It has nothing to do where they are from.

Juvante:
I will have to correct some of your impression which I think is wrong
1. I don't need her to go to Europe or America because I got several offers of admission to study for Masters in Ivy League universities in the US and also to conduct research in some of the best engineering departments in the UK, but I turned them down, due to strings attached! If I wanted to visit any country on earth, the worst they will ask of me, is to provide a bank statement with the equivalent of 11,000 Euros! That's what is required to visit Oslo, the most expensive city in the world, not to talk of hungry Portugal and other broke ass European countries! It's not about documentation! If I wanted paper, I can get an arrangee marriage this week in Stuttgart , Germany or any broke ass countries in the Schengen zone, without paying a dime. My friends have got my back on that!
2. From the first day that I met her, she told me about her fascination for the Nigerian culture, especially our food and clothes. She reeled off websites showcasing weddings and other info from Nigeria . So she is not trying to impress me. Her oldest friend is a Nigerian guy from the East! She was already "Nigerian" before I met her .
3. She was born and raised in Africa, Cape Town to be precise! So the African culture is not alien to her. She has been schooling in Europe since high school but I can assure you that she is 100% African.
4. We have already discussed issues about relocation back to Africa. We are already planning her first visit to Nigeria later in the year, whether I am around in Nigeria or not, my family has already agreed to welcome her! And I assure you that they will spoil her silly if given the slightest opportunity. You already know how strangers are taken care of in Nigeria, not to talk of a daughter inlaw!
5. She has already read your post and I can assure you that she is livid with some of your assumptions, which is understandable, because , you inferred that she was trying to impress me that's why she was trying her hand on cooking Nigerian dishes!

You can't correct me on a damn thing!

I have never said you wanted her for papers. I said it is easier for one to enter Naija than to enter USA or EU. I don't care about her being livid...it is fact.

Oh..random people can be Nigerian now? Did it get that bad?

esosuo:
If the father does not support his child who will? only those planning to recreat the world anew with different women get scared of child support,all actions comes with responsibilities dats why b4 one tinks of leaping looking well is considered

why wouldn't a father not support his child? I know some women personally who are on child support with African baby daddies.

Some of them ended the relationship because of issues but some African baby daddies refuses to support their children and those women were forced to take them to court.

I am not saying all American women are innocent but not all African men are truthful nor supportive. It is bad either way.

The best solution is not to breed babies.

[quote author=Juvante post=32393509][/quote]Excuses! If you as a black man knows the country you are visiting judges you for the shade of your skin then why in the hell would you have a baby with a non-Black woman

You can sex those oyinbo bishop all day but breeding kids knowing that you may not stay for long due to whatever?

Use common sense brothers!! Abeg!

[quote author=Juvante post=32393561][/quote]You made a mistake of asking me such question because I am going to give it to you salty truth.

The reason why that lady coming to see you is because it is easier and cheaper for her to enter Naija than you enter America or Europe.

She has googled several links of how to cook Naija food because she doesn't want to look stupid and that you have been stressing her how important Naija food is to you and your culture.

If she is not Nigerian then she can't be a Nigerian wife. IF she doing all these extra steps to please and impress you...it is a bit desperate especially if you are not reciprocating as well.

You are not the only Nigerian man that snagged a Western and some made it past 5 years and some died in 5 years.

Good luck.

GodblessNig247:
Formication is a noun pls

(Facepalm) It was obvious I was speaking from the action perspective of the word.

Sighs.

Juvante:
Personally,I actually didn't fancy foreign ladies, though, I have met a lot of them( in the dark, all dogs may bark different, but they look alike!) until I met one on August 2nd,2014,On Nairaland of all places! I can assure you that my life has been one happy whirlpool . She is the best thing that ever happened to me since I started dating! She has her issues ( everyone does), but the way that she handles it, that's what knocks my feet off! I will say she is actually different from other girls that I have dated because her simplicity , honesty, compassion , open mindedness , empathy for the less privileged, is scary! She is best friends with my Sisters and their kids,my grand mom and actually takes time to call my grand mom, which is actually shocking because I have never introd
uced any girl to my grand mom because she have her own ideas about marriage and might reject my girls for one reason or the other! My grandma actually loves her and threatened to deal with me if I breaks her heart!
I will say that deep down in Nigerian guys, though, we don't actually admit it to the ladies, we love ladies that offer something different, and skin colour is not definitely a barrier. The foreign ladies have a different mentality and approach to their relationship. Though they have their own issues e.g the need for regular communication, constant expression of your feelings, full disclosure of your past, family planning, relocation if you are in different time zones...., they are different to most modern Naija babes, and I repeat most, because there are still good girls in Nigeria, even, better than most foreign girls. They don't ask for regular Blackberry subscription , they don't bother u for Indian or Brazilian weavon, etc! My advice is this- be careful o because some foreign girls nor good o! Dem go use child support take dabaru your life! It's not always about obtaining a passport or having kids with exotic looks (those are just
bonus), just follow your heart! Auf wiedersehen !

If all you are worrying about whether a foreign chick will trap you for child support then do not have kids with one. It is that simple. Stupidity is human beings worst enemy!

Cherlene:
Super, you're welcome.
Oh congratulations on being number 100 to comment.

Cherlene

Yay!

She twerks eductively.

incrediblestev:
lol.... Try find the center of gravity and your complaints will be over.

Most guys can't even spell center of gravity let alone find it!

incrediblestev:
lol.... Are you an Edo chic

No comment.

incrediblestev:
lol..... Now that us too obvious.. Only bad a$$ chics do that....

Edo girls got guts!

Cherlene:

I believe I wrote the term [foreign] without categorizing.

Anyway, I apologize. Have modified it due to possible misreading.

Cherlene

Thanks sugar.

She rubs her boons and licks her lips.

Cherlene:

I supposed any non-native nigerian female, NOT non-african. Not directing entirely to causasion/white as you sensed.

Cherlene

Then you should have made that clear originally then I wouldn't have sensed that.

Carry on.

okoloto:
I'm not speaking for ur husband but I do have similar issue when i get back home.....a lot of distractions and believing u have a wife that trusts you, somethings don't matter. Don't be deceived by what you get here, it doesn't make ur hubby less loving. the system is different

Stop with the excuses. There are thousands of husband's who travels to their home country for business, personal or professional every year or whatever. The system is a bunch of bulls hit and at some point the nigga got to eat and shit. There are many apps available which make communicating easier even under busy times.

10 minutes is more than reasonable time to check in with your spouse and the fact that he is not being consistent with that smells foul.

Let hope the nigga isn't cheating or has a wife because this woman clearly think the Man is a saint and I strongly hope he is!

At the end of the day....She came on a faceless forum asking strangers to help her communicate with a man she said does no wrong....which I said if she didn't think nothing of it..she would of contact his family in Nigeria where he is currently.

I smell bullshit but hey...she got to live with it

Igbowife1:
He doesn't know ppl in his village - only his family.

If he has family in his village....then he knows people in his village! Damn you okay

Wtf?!

Toks2008:
This world don spoil finish.

Sex has now become an easy thing between unmarried people that we now see nothing big in it.

When the time for marriage comes one stwpid father will now ask me to come pay exorbitant bride price for one over-bleeped girl.LUBBISH

Everyone is just marrying another person's left over.Crazy world

Fornication is the oldest verb since beginning of time! Hell...those virgins back in 1600's were not innocent!

2dice:
ok seems you are already a Diluted Virgin
and why do you think your husby wont like U TearRubber

LMAO@diluted virgin

You said to keep my legs closed and he won't like that!

Ipledge:
yea so many mixed,all I met are fine

You are color struck.

2dice:
my child.. Sex is sacred
sex should be between husband and wife.. So my child your body is the Temple of the Almighty
Pls close your legss and Pray
Thank U

Uhmmm...OK don't think my husband will like that!

Ipledge:
Maybe because have not come across ugly ones...lol,but mixture of color is very cool

There are t
housands of half Nigerian and White kids/adults in the States...They look though Six Khalid is their father! Ewww.

2dice:
Am a God fearing Pastor
Pls Pls i dont do weed
Thank you

Hello Pastor! What should we tell the men when we want sex?

Ipledge:
every mix are bomb,mixture of any race,be asia;hispanic,caucatians or native

OmG! Every mixed person is not blessed with beauty. It is usually the composition of a parent look that determines how your child looks. Not all mixed people comes out looking "mixed".

Shear Moore is mixed and he jas to tell people he is mixed because no one thought he has a white mother!

Ipledge:
I didnt meet online oo

Hmmm.