₦airaland Forum

You have to understand Whites are the majority in America and if EVERY SINGLE BLACK PERSON voted for Obama...HE WOULD NOT WIN.

It has nothing to do with racism but it also has a lot to do with the fact that after 400 years....a black person became president and that is historical.

candygosh: Those who are in this act want experience that's entirely different from the single partner.
Why wouldn't different infections be in town with advent of things like these.

Scooping is very popular in America and I am sure other countries are indulging in scooping. There are many couples who share their sole partner with different partners. it works for some people and it doesn't work for some people.

In my opinion it is for those who can't commit to one person. People do not realize that condoms isn't safe against HPV and genital warts. Condoms break, slip off, become ineffective, and tiny holes allow fluid to seep through.

[quote author=D-Explorer] @ Scooper and scoopee. Mrs. Chima has been playing the scoop. Can we make it an enterprise? [/quote]I am neither a scooper nor scoopee. You are on your own there nigglet.

iyobs7: Legal rami wetin? is there anything legal in a relationship?

I forgot this is Nairaland. In some countries...if a married person marry another person they will face legal ramification. However fornicating with multiple people isn't against the law in many countries.

Got it?

I don't agree with the percentage however....97% looks better.

Would you engage in a double or triple scoops relationship? It involves sharing the main partner with two or three different people without the legal ramification.

A friend of mine informed me that she met a guy that is a scooper and proposed to her to be his scoopee. She is divorced and doesn't want a serious relationship. She asked me what I thought about it and I kept it real with her. It is her decision to make.

I am curious to know how many chatters are in a double or triple scoops relationship or would you try it?

From what I understood is that days are split between the scoopees and each of them are aware of the schedule and no one shouldn't call unless it is an emergency.

solomon111: Na wa o!
There are no easy solutions to this kind of problem.
Besides,why didn't the guy use condoms,since it was a marriage based on temporary benefits.
Smh.

Maybe he wanted some skin.

solomon111: But seriously,i have not yet gotten a valid arguement against polygamy by monogahismists.
I am not a polygamist,but i don't see anything wrong with it.

This is bigamy not polygamy. No one is debating the pros and cons of polygamy....we are discussing OP's bigamist marriage.

carefreewannabe: ha ha ha ha ah aaaaaaaaaaaaaaa haaaaaaaaa ha aha haa ha aha ha ha ha .... can't stop.

You're a killer!

Princess1982: The Nigerian man I am dating is Christian and I am thinking he is not married at least thats what the background check my brother ran on him came back and if I do move to Nigeria and he decided he wants a second wife I would just pack up and move home if I didn't agree.

As long as you are aware and okay with it. I wish you well.

There are no records of marriage if done traditionally...only court weddings are recorded. Secondly names could be made up as well but again...listen to your heart...it will never fail you.

This isn't a trifling Nigerian man scamming a dubious White woman. The White woman knew that he only married her for papers and she accepted it. It is her choice. However, the children will suffer the most because the house is divided and he will not be able to see both of his children if he doesn't bring them together. Someone will suffer regardless and if the white wife inform Department of State that he is married with children in Nigeria...he will be charged with fraud and deported.

The White woman has the upper hand because she can threat him at any given time and he will oblige. I can imagine Nigerian men withering in their seat as they read this and foaming at the mouth of their brother's balls in the hand of a western woman.

I don't think the white woman suffer at all she actually got what she wanted and he got what he wanted but he can lose the papers if a phone call is made.

It doesn't matter which wife he choose...kids are going to suffer and it will cost him greatly. There are millions of women/men that are married to Africans know the real intention. Why do you think Africans have the hardest immigration experience? Exactly.

This is nothing new and definitely won't be the last either.

One more thing...many immigrants do not realize that even if they get their papers...they can be deported at any given time even as a citizen. it is important to read immigration laws of the country you are immigrating to or thinking of immigrating to. I am sure some chatters know what I am talking about...when requesting a visa to immigrate...you signed a clause that said that you are acting on good faith and intend not to break immigration laws however if you default on your promise...you will lose.

Sponsors are responsible for their applicants until x,y, and z are fulfilled. However the applicants still have the order to uphold immigration laws to the fullest. OP thought by getting the papers that he is free...he is not. The country owns you until you are no longer a citizen.

Princess1982: I have no sympathy for the white wife she knew what she was getting herself into before she did the deed but now she wants to change her position in the matter. If you lie and scheme to keep a man then you deserve what you get when he leaves you. However I feel sorry for all the kids involved and the Nigerian wife they are all the innocent this woman stayed in Nigeria raising your kids alone with hopes that her husband was making a better life for her family while all along you had started a new family. You owe your first wife the truth she deserves the truth.

You said that you are dating a guy in Nigeria....this could happen to you if the guy is polygamous/bigamist. As long as he stay in Nigeria there is a slight possibility he would seek wives as in plural especially if he is Muslim.

Think about it.

timifakay: This is just nemesis if you ask me, just that when sinners suffer, the innocent are affected.

Nothing can be done to make you eat your cake and have it, so just keep taking your responsibility on all the children and know that you do not have any wife because the woman here in Nigeria wont take you back and the European will send you packing when your job is done.

She was using you all along, yet you tought you were using her.

Basically what you are saying...she was enjoying that inhouse condo?

Joliecoco: White women can have them [size=22pt]could care less[/size]. Majority of white women and black men marry people from their own race.

Good. So what is the problem?

LMAO@dump the white wife and take the white kids.

NL won't kill me!

Thank God I married a citizen!