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[quote author=Mynd_44]**speechless**[/quote]Wait a minute...what is mumu? Is that a king in pidgin?

Princess1982: Hopefully I can convince him to move to the States even though I would love to live in Nigeria my whole family is in the states and I wouldnt want to part with them but if his heart is in Nigeria and we marry then I would pack up and move to Nigeria. If he said he had more then one wife then I wouldn't marry him but only because, I already asked him if he was married and he said no.

Polygamy is legal in Nigeria and if he wants another wife he can have another one. That's why I asked if you are comfortable with polygamy.

It is good that you love him and great if he loves you back...but love will not last long if there are many hurdles in the relationship. Having a relationship online is entirely different than having a relationship in person.

You guys should spend as much time together before marriage because marriage is a trial in itself.

Marriage isn't a necessity but it is a choice.

[quote author=D-Explorer]and who is he.......your handbag?[/quote]A mumu.

Because I am married...I will not disrespect my home by providing funds to my past.

omotola1: I hope this will not scare the hell out of Chima.

hink I de

He will never know. I dey carry belle for oga spirit ooo

[quote author=D-Explorer]Nah! She's warm [/quote]In my fuzzy slippers!

Yeah I have a spirit husband and I am cheating on Chima with my spirit husband.

It is a myth.....a woman can be without a man and a man can be without a woman. You do not need to have a mate just to survive.

[quote author=D-Explorer]That's obvious! Kudos to your oga.[/quote]Yeah it is obvious! I wear the crown!

He is not my oga.

vivian chinaza: I think its very immature and poor judgement on the lady's part if she thinks every man that approaches her has the motive of asking her out.

"Hi, excuse me, pls do you know so and so place or how I can get there?".............."Hi, I know, or I don't know." I don't see a big deal in that. Then if the handshake wants to extend to the elbow, take a walk!

As mean as i am.....i am always helping out with directions...it is fun!!!

Princess1982: I am a African American women and Im dating a Nigerian man who I met online. when he first messaged me on a social networking site I was very rude I shot down him and his whole country because, what we hear in the states about African men is that they are all scam artist after our money or a green card. So after a lot of his annoying messages I finally started to communicate with him in a civilized manner. So after months of messaging and really high phone bills we fell in love he completly swept me off my feet and helped me grow out of my steryotyps I haf about African men. So I finally agreed to come to Ikeja and meet him and his family and I fell in love Im learning his language by the way he is yoruba, I am learning his culture and I talk to his mom often and she is teaching me to cook food from their culture. I love 9ja just as much as my boyfriend if not more. Oh and he has no desire to live in the states because, business is good for him in Nigeria he has the nicest GRA on the block.

Wow...you went from annoyed to in love.

Does he have any wives? Since he is not "interested" in coming to the States...are you planning on living in Nigeria forever?

If it comes down to it...would you be okay with him having another wife?

dont8: ...I wish he willed you to me, I would have shown you what I'm made of (I'm not a gentle man)

LISTENING TO FELA *I be African man original... *

African men isn't exempt from asswhoopings. You all been dealing with weak and scary chicks.

ikekings: Hmmmm.... Later jare... Goodnight...

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Sweet dream suga.

ikekings: Lol... Are you that costly?

Hmm. I will eliminate a few stock shares but dammit that it!

ikekings: Lol... Very funny... ...

Keep laughing suga....(looking at the wallet in your back pocket)

I would not marry Igbo men.

ikekings: Ooooppss I forgot... Will do just that next time...

Yeah right...your paddy told you to get an official quote for my bride price.

ikekings: ... Hot “mrs chima” I missed you shaa... ...

Did you tell your paddy about us?

roymary: Such a beautiful girl but thanks to technology Trannies now have babies.

Too bad you are impotent.

[quote author=Inked_Nerd]What happened to your husband? All of a sudden you have a boyfriend. Damn, I missed out on a lot [/quote]Chima is on the bed playing with Chimette.

Shhhh...don't tell him about my greek stallion.

ItsModella: Gay nigga.

Girl...he came out two years ago!

Ikeking's internet expired so he had to sell his goods for some nairas and kobos.

[quote author=Inked_Nerd]Awww, she's cute!


Greek boyfriend?!

You been holding out on me? I demand that you direct me to his brothers (if he has any) [/quote]Girl...he has plenty of brothers but they are hoes.

Thanks! Baby C got her daddy's nose. Arggggh.

[quote author=Inked_Nerd]Hey sis! Missed ya. Been gone for a while but I'm back now. What's up?[/quote]Say hi to your niece. Missed you too! Got me a Greek boyfriend.

odumchi: By the term "black race," I'm referring all of the black-skinned peoples of Africa and their descendants in the diaspora. My own ideology is that being aware of one's origins is empowering in its own right. There is no need for one to necessarily "feel" or even embrace a connection to the motherland [of all black peoples], but I do think that it is necessary to acknowledge the significance of Mother Africa in our pasts.

Now, don't get me wrong, I'm not a Pan-Africanist. I'm not saying that long ago all of Africa's peoples coexisted harmoniously in perpetual peace and harmony without discord, no, off course not. However, what I am saying is that, today, due to the conditions that the "black race" finds itself in, it is almost imperative for us to find ways to work together and achieve the things that matter to us. Sitting around and tossing around phrases like "African booty scratcher" or "field negro" won't do us [the children of Mother Africa] any good; it's not enough to simply solve our immediate problems and worry only about what immediately affects our lives.

Even if we take away phrases that you find offensive will not change the fact that the damage have exceeded past repairs. There are "blacks" who have taken steps to "work together" but you will always have spoiled apples in the bunch even in your own families. It will not change the fact that the mere notion of "unity" will not surface at the volume you dreamt of.

It is good that you are not a pan africanist because I was beginning to worry that I may have to pull you from la la land. Your ancestors have fought over 600 years to even put in place that all "blacks" work together. It will never happen however nothing wrong with being hopeful.

Not saying something offensive will not change the mindset. We have to always remember that. What is also sad to hear some
"blacks"feel and say that they trust non=blacks more than "blacks" If those can't trust those that look like them...team building will be difficult task...impossible but achievable in nano years.

I am curious to know what is "black problems?"