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Why a grown arse man can't obtain a job and keep a woman worrying about other people's relationships.  That should be featured on the front page.

2buff:
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vD33Qyulq34[/flash]

It was interesting that since this video was released the rate of HIV infections amongst Negroid community increased.   

The persons the men were cheating with weren't women either.   

2buff:
And your post in relation to this thread is?  

To anyone it pertains to.  Instead of telling women they need to cook, you need to teach your fellow brothers how it is embarrassing to depend on women for financial assistance and food.

Maybe the women would be more willing to cook for men that have jobs and can afford groceries.

Instead of violence obtain a job.

2buff:
Sweery, you had better go and cook for your husband and stop deceiving yourself on NL.

It's simple. In the same way you like regular shows of love from your man is the same way we like regular shows of love, care and concern from our women. One of these ways is preparing a meal for your man. Why you're all making a big deal out of it is what I don't understand. You want diamonds, gifts, fixings of various household gadgets and lifting of various objects from your man, but to show him some love back is an issue to you?

God save men from these green, greedy, self-centered monsters that pass for women these days.

. . .

Anyway. All those ones are just usual girl-talk beans. Fact is most of you would do anything to keep your man happy, cooking involved, if you had a man.  

You better go keep those hoes happy with your sticking and licking.  Stop deceiving yourself.  

Fact is most of you woul do anything to feed your ego and pay for pussy if you don't have a woman.  

[quote author=Jenifa_ link=topic=657963.msg8242427#msg8242427 date=1304299860]Most women who hyphenate their names do it for professional reasons. esp if they marry later in life after they have accomplished so much.
I don't see a reason why men should object to this.[/quote]I would think a life or death situation would be more important subject in a marital discussion than a name objection.  I guess DIFFERENT STROKES for different folks.

ogugua88:
If a name is that much of a problem, then the guy should go marry elsewhere lol. Like I said in another thread months ago, a woman is brought up with her father's name. It's her identity. Ask a man to change his name and he gets defiant. "This is my father's name! I have to keep my father's name!" You don't have to do anything lol. People keep or change names as they do because other people have done it. If it doesn't feel right to you, then don't do it. It doesn't make her a feminist lol. If she doesn't want to change it, then leave her. She may not feel comfortable with it. I'd assume that men would want their wives happy and comfortable. Abi?

Not every woman is willing to change her name so easily, especially with divorce taking over the globe. Hyphenating the name is much better, considering if they do divorce, she only has to drop his name.

If people loved and married for the right reasons, this certainly wouldn't be as big of an issue. I've heard/read from a lot of women (not most, just a lot), however, that the reason they want to keep their names unchanged, or add their spouse's name with a hyphen is for this divorce reason. Sad.

Hmm.  True.

r231:
if the s3x is good

why not

Slap yourself.

Princek12:
na waa ooo. According to some people, a man is a chauvinist because he asks his wife to drop her maiden name and bear his name.

na waa ooo. According to some people, a woman is a feminist because she can choose to keep her husband's name or not.

LMAO@he trying to fit in where he can. Poverty is stricken.

Hunger makes people laugh uncontrollably.

[quote author=Blood_Shed link=topic=144238.msg8242386#msg8242386 date=1304298546]What does Liverpool have to do with anything? Do you have any knowledge of the UK at all? Have you been to the UK?

Abeg, take your ignorance elsewhere. I bet you think Swahili is a country too, right? Many of you AA's do[/quote]Oh, I take it you are in Liverpool Have you been to USA? Abeg, take your ignorance elsewhere. I bet you thought child support payment was a weird cereal brand. Many of you Africans do.

[quote author=Natasha,, link=topic=657963.msg8242357#msg8242357 date=1304297745]LOLS I GOTTA CRASH FIGHTING OVER A NAME YOUR CHILDREN WILL NOT EVEN BEAR   [/quote] Hell nawl!  Not over a name?!!  

Most people fight over someone threatening to kill them or bust the windows out of their apartment but OVER NAMES?  

How sad.

[quote author=Natasha,, link=topic=657963.msg8242346#msg8242346 date=1304297516]
lolz[/quote]


LMAO@American men are deathly afraid of commitments.    

That one thing American men and African men in in common they both depend on wage earning women financially and other areas.

That why those white women are the prized po$$e$$ion. Cha ching!

This thread is about cooking so that what we are referring to.

[quote author=Natasha,, link=topic=657963.msg8242306#msg8242306 date=1304296592]well what is wrong if she changes her last name fully some women sef can fight uneccesary battle Its  normal for a woman to bear her husbands name after marriage what is the big deal to drop your maiden name after all at the end your children don't even get to bear it   anyway Moi will bear my sugars name along side with my maidens name   [/quote]That is what a lot of women are doing using their maiden name along side with their husbands name but THE CHAUVINISTS do not want that.  They wants the woman to take his last name and throw her name away because of some bullshit they concocted that is what's going on.  

I am sure there are women that do not mind using their husband's last name along side with their maiden name and there are women that won't change their last name at all.  The bottom line is this why is the last name a big deal?

african1:
I will never change my last name for anybody. I am sorry, but I am my own person. I tend to stay that way, I don't see no man taking his wife's name, so why I should I take a man's name?

Hmm.  Be careful the broke niggas will call you a feminist in a minute.  You might want to edit your post to agree with them so you won't get attacked.

[quote author=Blood_Shed link=topic=144238.msg8242230#msg8242230 date=1304294867]There are more men with that name though, I even know some Caribbean boys over here with that name. Yes, there may be some women, but it IS mostly men.
How can you deny that, SheQueeQuee (And YES, I've met a girl with that name)?

How do you know I go to clubs filled with chickenheads? How do you know I even go to clubs. you don't know me like that.

So where you live? U married to a Naija man? Seriously, all jokes aside,[/quote]LMAO@SheQueeQuee    Yeah, you are dealing with chickenheads!  I pray those chickenheads aren't those girls from Liverpool!      No offense to those who live in Liverpool.  I am just saying.  So that explains why you are paranoid and won't let a woman cook for you. Hell, I understand. Survival of the fitness is the key! Have you been seeing double visions lately?

Oh now you wants to get personal huh?  You are doing an interview?

A quarter?

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=657963.msg8242276#msg8242276 date=1304295847]lol--oh lawd! Mrs Chima!

Yes, I strongly believe I can soar!  [/quote]Yes, you can suga. I am sure Inky agree as well.

Princek12:
yup.

they should tell me whether their mothers and grandmothers did not change their names to their fathers' and grandfathers' names.

Those poor mothers and grandmothers.  I know they wish rat poison was available back then.  

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=657963.msg8242260#msg8242260 date=1304295561]OK! Nuff said!

190, pls I'm begging you, I respect your opinion and all, but please when you wanna address me, ADDRESS ME!
You don't have to bring my dad or my mum into this. Pls, Thank you!

There's no point in arguing because, it's quite obvious we all know where we stand.  
Nobody can change my opinion and I'm not really ready to change anyone's either.




I believe I can fly! [/quote]

I am glad that you do not need a woman to cook for you because I was thinking you are facing a life or death situation.  Good to know.  Whew!  Sorry to bust your bubbles buddy.  Cooking has nothing to do with love nor proving love.   Love isn't that easy.   

Aim for something bigger than that.  Don't be cheap.

(shaking change in my purse) A few ladies.

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=657963.msg8242193#msg8242193 date=1304293891]ok! But that doesn't mean they have to change their last names too though.

It's not a LAW, neither it is a SIN if a woman's last name is not changed. So what exactly is the problem here? It's all about personal preference at this point!

It's too trivial a matter to affect a whole relationship/marriage. Don't you think? [/quote]It is not a law nor a sin if a woman doesn't change her last name.  But you know that SOME people do have their own interpretation of what is important in THEIR marriage and wants to enforce their VIEWS on other people's marriage.  That what is going on this thread.  It is sad though.  

If a man can deal with a woman not changing her last name which shouldn't be an issue and there are bigger things that will goes on in a marriage that needs to be dealt with.  For some reasons, SOME people assumed that everyone's marriage is the same so therefore they can't believe a woman is not adhering to what THEY feel is right regardless if it has NOTHING to do with them or not.  

If a woman changes her last name because she wants to that HER decision and if the man wants to leave her because she DOESN'T change her last name there are BETTER fishes in the sea and does not cry over petty shit such as a last name change.  

Once again N101, kudos to you.  

Lord Reed is you for sale?

Damn babes! 

OP getting his arse SONNED on his own THREAD!   


N101 broke the bottle on the comment and it goes to show what is more important to SOME fools people.  Babes and Inky (Nigerian women) I see what you all mean now and it is sad.   Hats goes off to you guys though!  Handle it!

ayosmiles:
so why would a gal not want 2 cook 4 another then if she cooks 4 herself. methinks it is selfishness 4 anybody 2 think only of wht he or she wants all the time and thats why many gals end up with d wrong man

The same thing I can say why wouldn't a man cook for himself and not end up with the wrong chicks?   You was cooking before you had a woman or a LovePeddler why stop now?

[quote author=Blood_Shed link=topic=144238.msg8242171#msg8242171 date=1304293422]What? who?

Everyone I've seen with the name DeShawn/DeShaun is a dude. Deshaun Holton, aka Proof of D12 (RIP), Deshawn Stevenson (Dallas Mavericks), I could go on. Maybe there's a female or two, but it's only dudes I've seen with that name.

You disgust me, a chickenhead who can't even define the gender of the kind of names in your own community.[/quote]You named two dudes you googled but do you know any of them personally? There are a lot of women in the states with names that are considered to be boys but are now women names such as deshawn, billie, and toni.

You looking really shytty talking about disgusting and stop going to clubs filled with chickenheads maybe your arse wouldn't be so paranoid to think everyone trying to kill your ignant arse.

[quote author=Natasha,, link=topic=656327.msg8242172#msg8242172 date=1304293423]^^lolz mine has nothing to do with feminism I just can't do it not for BF and not for fiance [/quote]Exactly. They thinks because you won't cook or wash dishes you are embracing feminism. I see many of them do not hold a modern dictionary and stuck in stone age. How pathetic.

By the way, Deshawn is a girl name.  I see you been reading someone's blogs again for your information. 

Tyrone or Kevin more like it.

[quote author=Blood_Shed link=topic=144238.msg8242080#msg8242080 date=1304292031]I'm Nigerian but raised my whole life in London thank you very much.

So I take it you're AA. Shouldn't you be putting DeShawn in prison for missing out on his child support payments?[/quote]I would need to have children in order to get child support payments unless they changed the rules.  You said you was raised all your life in London? Hmm. I guess that must be the new London they were talking about the other day. So I take it you're a 419er.  Shouldn't you be kissing Dead Hair Suzy and her family to maintain your visa status until the end of probationary period?  I see you been studying with Mr. Cock.  Too bad he can't teach you fashion 101.