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[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=620294.msg7982290#msg7982290 date=1301041060]
Forget the mind stuff. I want 100% Honduran meat!!! [/quote]Mixed with a little of Haitian meat that a deadly combination. You going to be walking bowlegged for a week or so.

Pweety4me:
[color=#550077]Wow ladies, easy [/color]

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=631032.msg7982216#msg7982216 date=1301040247]
looooool, his dog's name is Dollar. I was just foolin' around when I said Bingo. Lmao @ roach.

He better find that dog because Dollar owes my neighbor's dog a date?
Can you believe that? I was tryin' to hook 'em up an Dollar decides to go AWOL.[/quote]You know all dogs are alike both three legged and four legged.  Dollar is just like his master, punk nukkas.  When it time to settle down they both run for the hills.  Dollar prolly at the bar saying I am getting old but I can't be tied down to no beetch.  I am a MAN!   I need my freedom and Hot as hell. 

Dollar learned from his master.

I know exactly what you saying chile.  Ooh lawd.  Have you ever had a mind Bleep with him?  If you didn't have it with any guy.  I suggest you try it and no lie it is better than physical sex.  I know you like this chica is CRAZY.  The mind Bleep encompasses every thing you need for a lasting pleasure.  

I almost gave Jaybee a sample but somebody told me mind Bleep is cheating too.  Damn!

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=620294.msg7982198#msg7982198 date=1301040034]
Hellssssss yeah!!! He'd whisper in my ears in Spanish. Honestly, it was one of the most passionate moments I've ever had with a guy. Let's put it this way, I ALWAYS left his house satisfied . I've yet to have another passionate moment like that. I've been thinkin' about giving him a call .[/quote]

It is not. You can cheat and commit adultery and get away with it in USA. But if that wife or husband sue your arse for ALIENATION OF AFFECTION then your arse going to wish you didn't have that 1 minute itch.

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=631032.msg7982174#msg7982174 date=1301039788]
I have never cheated so I have nothing to confess. . . Do you have guilty conscience?

So, did you ever find bingo?[/quote]I thought it was Dollar? He lost another roach dog?

Come here Reality suga.  It gon be alright suga.  (fluffing breasts and pat the right side) talk to Godmother what the matter?

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=620294.msg7982136#msg7982136 date=1301039385]
I put an end to the whole thing. It sucks because the sex was REALLY good . Damn, now every time when I hear a Spanish accent I think of him [/quote]Awww.  Come here (fluffing bosoms and pat the right side) lay down and talk to Godmother.  Was it good girl?    (looking around to see if I am being spied on)

[size=33pt]Those who are in other people's business need to mind their own business and those who don't give a Bleep about other people's business need to shout it out loud and clear.[/size]

Phate07:
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The day i find MsChima cheating on me.
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Bite my ENTIRE NYANSH.    Don't forget the nooks and the crannies.

Pweety4me:
[color=#550077]Jeez everything must be about your perverted acts?.[/color]

You noticed that too? I thought I was the only one. Whew.

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=620294.msg7981980#msg7981980 date=1301036690]@OP: The dudes I've been with in the past hated the idea that majority of my friends were guys. There was this one guy I was with, whenever I'd leave his house, he tell me to go straight home. I didn't understand why he hated the idea, especially since his housemates were women.[/quote]Insecurity is a mofo isn't it? Well, most guys who are insecure will have an issue with their women having guy friends period. You can have one guy friend and he will flip the script. So again, it all boils down to your guy ability to trust you and know that you will not hunch any of your male friends.

That what be going through the guy's mind these days. You know what men talks just as much as the women. Ask the right question and it is milk and honey!

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=620294.msg7981844#msg7981844 date=1301034242]your response sounds like you misunderstood what i was saying - but that's ok

i wasn't looking for friends - quality or not quality

i realize quite clearly that friends generally have like traits and qualities - so i wasn't questioning quality

i just made a side comment that they were "quality" and I missed them - but I have quite a few friends - I don't lack friends on any level - as I am usually the one that doesn't attend much because of work.

For instance this Friday, Saturday and Sunday - I have 4 different events I have been invited to attend by different friends - but because of work - I might not attend any of them - I will try hard because 3 are networking opportunities that not many people are invited to because of the A-Type Guest list and those events don't come around much so I might have to put down the keyboard for those 3.

Any way thanks for your thoughts[/quote]I was only commenting to what you shared on this thread and took what you said as the basis of my responses.  I can't come up with anything other than what you shared and by no means I was not trying to offend you because you sounded though you was offended.  Not everybody are out to get you. 

You said that you do not hang with people that are not quality so therefore I stated that in order to get quality friends or I should have said hang around quality people you must in fact have quality not saying you per se but used what you said as a basis to my response. 

The amount of friends does not determine you so having multiple friends is not that important what more important is your contribution to life.  Some people do feel bad because the have this amount of friends that they are not liked or whatever which again not everybody can obtain decent friends these days.  The only friend that should matter is the MOST HIGH and that real.

The day I find Rokiatu cheating on me.

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=620294.msg7981780#msg7981780 date=1301032577]I don't hang out with anybody unless they are quality

Yes those were definitely some quality men

I do miss them - they were quite talented[/quote]I am not saying you are not but in order for anyone to want quality friends they have to possess quality as well.

You are what you attracts. Sometimes we think it is other people when in actuality it is us. I am talking about on a friendship level and not people you are just randomly talking to.

Good friends are hard to come by these days and we have to treat them the same way we want to be treated. Sadly some people take friendship for granted and miss out on a golden opportunity.

MRBrownJ:
^^well said Mrs Chima!
Not everybody get along as good with their "sex mate" as with the opposite.
If you genuinely trust your partner then there shouldn't be any problem.

Of course.  There are women who can't get along with each other because of pettiness and competition among each other seems to pull those women away.  I am not saying all woman are like that but MOST silly women do shit like that.  Women today seems to base their worth on how they look and not what they can contribute socially and economically.  Men today seems to base their worth on how much money they have hustled and not what they can contribute socially and intelligently.  

I have always said you are who your friends are.  If you keep getting shitty friends you may want to take an enema because something is definitely shitty about you.  On the flip side of it all there are people who are friendless period.  Hmm.  

It all boils down to personality and if your personality are shitty then you will have a problem regardless what you do, how you look, and what group you blend with.  With unique personality, I have equally amount of gal and guy friends and I have paired a few of them together with my match making skills but that a different thread.

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=620294.msg7981677#msg7981677 date=1301029241]I struggled with this one because as far back as my mind can remember - even at the age of 8 - guys have always tried to either date me or beat me up.

I was a tom boy as a girl - gymnastics, ballet, track, wrestling, football, tree climbing, a life guard at the local community swimming pool. (I am a water freak - LOVE SWIMMING)

I also had brothers and male cousins (lots) that taught me how to fight - I didn't know how to wear high heel shoes until my teenage years and didn't learn to actually walk in them properly until my modeling years IN MY 20s.

So I have always felt more comfortable with men and have been a man-magnet with them and they with me especially when the dating years started.

I intimidate most women because I am photo-genically attractive and also I don't hesitate to speak my mind in a very factual way because I have lived (A LOT) AND have friends in 16 different States in the U.S. - my manner is very outspoken (because of the males I have hung around all my life) though I look very, very feminine - and that's just who I am.  I am well-versed in many areas - thanks to my parents.

The guys I dated and even when I married - ALL of them have had a really hard time accepting my male friends who have been in my life for a long time.  Their female spouses and girlfriends - some are cool with it once it has been proven that we are only friends - some aren't cool with it and despise me.

A long time ago - I stopped trying to please other people - especially women.  A woman will hate you out of ignorance, jealousy, her own insecurity, uncomfortable around you if she thinks you look better than she does and she could be a beautiful woman but not know it and therefore hate you and for many miscellaneous reasons.

To hold down confusion with my mate (if he has a problem with it) and/or my male friends mates - I try to include everyone and introduce people - I also try to befriend the females of my male friends - invite them to a book club with me or a day shopping or over to learn a recipe from her and at the same time share a recipe I have learned - while the men are in another room watching a game or playing chess or cards.

That is how I handle it.  If the female is extremely hostile - I turn into a bitc.h - I don't suffer bitc.hes

I see it this way - once I have gone out of my way to give her the opportunity to be my friend - if she consistently chooses the "enemy door," - I give her what she wants - since the male is my friend before I met her and once she is gone, he will still be my friend.  She can either get over it and get with the program or I can ignore her - stop inviting her to functions and just continue to invite him and basically block her from my video.  You can't force someone to like you - but also don't have to put up with their petty BS either.  They can sulk and play the little BS female games in a room alone.  If they are alone long enough - they'll get the picture.[/quote]You sound pained did this happen recently?

You should see it Sis.  It is on Dsense facebook page and I was like BLACKBERRY BABES?  Girl, that negro talks about them blackberries like he mad or something.  But, I can understand why he would say what he said because blackberry is a phone that has no VALUE whatsoever and those chicks in the movie were going ALL out for the phone.  

Yeah, you did good.  Don't let the bullshit sweat you.  It is not worth your time and glory.  Some people can't just let shit go so what can you do but move on.

Dsense is still mad at a chick asking him about a blackberry so one of his friend sent him a movie link called BLACKBERRY BABES and we watched it.

It about 1 hour and 14 minutes long. Girl, I tried to stay up so chatting with Dsense helos me from nodding the Bleep out.

you

Well, I can't chew gum and read?

Mr. Cock,

I asked you nicely to leave me alone. I am not in the mood.

I was just laughing at the time you created this thread and the amount of views you got. GIrl, I been busy and making money. What about you?

Dsense and I was chatting this morning about the movie we both saw together well not together per se but we were chatting and viewing at the same time.

(looking and chewing gum)

LMAO@four views

Hey!

MzDarkSkin:
[color=#0066ff]i've created a thread for us/d-sense 
but how was today hectic? u and the mr. been busy?   

@cock,

that was a h3ll no![/color]

I almost said something to you in Spanish. Where is the thread?

Mr. Cock,

Can I ask you SERIOUSLY to leave me alone. I am not in the mood today SERIOUSLY.

Hold on. Let me attempt to laugh. I will get back to you on that. (yawns)


Back to topic,

Omoloa, the problem is that men are blindsided by the media and their "homeboys" to what they should expect their women to look like and not knowing that every man has DIFFERENT desires. But unfortunately, that life.