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MOBO999:
You crossed the line when you try to tell me of them Black Brother and Black sister issue, you think we forgot how you Black sister refused to date your age mates high school mate and went after the older Black Brother 10 years her senior all because he got the money back then, well who is the single one now, it time we pay all your daughter of Jezebel Black sister back in your own coin.

 Black women are all for the money, thats why the White women, Chinese Women, Arab Women and Indian women are far, far, FAR, FAR, FAR ahead of you lots and thats why most Black women are single.

If that was the case Mobo when you said that other race of women are FAR AHEAD of black women THEN WHY ARE THE same ones that you said are AHEAD OF BLACK WOMEN online crying about being scammed and finding out their HUSBANDS going home to marry BLACK WOMEN?

(singing the JEOPARDY TUNE)

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=609439.msg7775732#msg7775732 date=1298324673]must always hav the last say, ,.duh! [/quote]Duh these nuts.  

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=609439.msg7775760#msg7775760 date=1298325006]heard Mrs Chima looks like Nikkki Minaj [/quote]I heard you look like the black Sir Elton John with the Las Vega Showgirl glasses.  

Leave me alone.

You said got milk?

MOBO999:
Dont you there Judge me, all you Black women were ever your location are all the same, always trying to Bring down a Black Brother, trying to Belittle a brother, trying to diss a Brother, you are all gone be shamed by us Black Brother, we going to make sure lots of them black sister are single and fustrated, i know your type, you hate when a Black brother is succesful.

See this is where you got me bleeped UP AND CONFUSED with the other chicks that you been screwing while you supposedly STUDYING for your Master's which is a bullshit lie.

I don't have a problem with black men being successful BUT WHAT I DO HAVE A PROBLEM is when a black man expect a sister not to want the same success for themselves.  Not all black sisters want to sit at home and pout with her hands out.  SOME OF US ACTUALLY like to work and make our own paper.  

The problem IS too many boys having an issue with women MAKING MORE THAN THEM and want to cross pouting to the oyindos or other race of women saying that black women do not understand you.  WHAT MAKE YOU THINK THEM TRICKS YOU CROSSING over understand you any better?  

If a sister can't understand a brother NO ONE ELSE WILL.  Respect that.

Why are you making funny of my belle?

Fortunately, you already old.

Jealous?

MOBO999:
^^^ Mrs Chima I am studying in England, doing a prestigious degree, Masters to be accurate, I am also engaged to a Black lady, dont get me wrong I love them Black women, but they must be smart, I am not ready to live England for now till I Get my stay or British Passport as a citizen.

You hate black women, but engaged to one.
You are getting a MASTER'S DEGREE, but have enough time to STUDY AND Bleep 3,100 women according to you.
You want black women to be smart, but you sleep with dummies.
You are complaining that England have too many black women populating, but YOU ARE NOT READY TO LEAVE ENGLAND because you waiting on your papers.

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kokoye:
OK. so how is what you said any different from the point I have been trying to make all along?

My point is I dont encourage people going home to bring wives because a lot of people at home supress their moral fibre (according to Mrs Chima) because of what they are trying to achieve. Nigeria has taught them how to do that.

The system in the west brings out the real you. I advice getting your bride from that kinda system.

simple enough I hope.


Mrs Chima,

Yes, there may be African values - but I never said it was perfect - it has its goodies and loadsa bad sides like everything else.

I will take the good and drop the bad.

Excuse you Koyoke, I said that IF YOU HAVE A MORAL FIBER IN WHICH YOU ARE ACCUSTOMED TO no matter WHERE YOU LAND YOUR FOOT, YOU WILL NOT CHANGE YOUR MORAL FIBER.

If these men are going home to get these women that they claimed have AFRICAN VALUES then these women who come from home CAN NOT BE INFLUENCED TO CHANGE THEIR AFRICAN VALUE IN WHICH THEY ARE ACCUSTOMED TO unless it was a FARCE. got it?

ANYWAY BACK TO TOPIC,

Mobo can you afford to leave UK?

Is that why the church people sitting on cinder blocks?

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=609439.msg7775583#msg7775583 date=1298322862]Mrs Chima. am in USA next week.: business trip. We need to link! [/quote]What are you telling me for? I don't give a Bleep. Ask Reality.

kokoye:
Now you need to calm down.

btw, I got those shoes.

What house you broke into to steal those ugly shoes?

Go right ahead.  I am thinking about getting with Rokiatu anyways.  That would be my distraction so when do you want to make this exchange?

 

REALITY101:
Then watch me sleep with Chima

You first.

koolchicco:
She's always been a confused woman. Pay no mind!

Shattap!

Brite02:
Chineke. . Mrs chima wat do u mean by dz.

Exactly what I said. You want me to change the font color?

I believe so too. Hmmm.

Would you require that she send you 200 USD every month, Mr. Cock? Do your Nigerian brothers proud and PROVIDE FOR YOURSELF and pay back the money your brother scammed to Imari.

kokoye:
I dont mind them.

I am married to the one I chose.


point is . . you know I dont want you bashing us men. it aint cute

How am I bashing men? Ms. Potato asked a question and I responded. I did not create this thread so therefore the ORIGINAL bashing go to Ms. Potato NOT ME. but of course ON THIS SITE I will always be blame for everything. I will be blamed for corrupting women as if they can't think for themselves and I will always be blamed for BEING VOCAL and not afraid to speak my mind REGARDLESS WHAT people on this site will say or feel.

kokoye:
OK. So you agree that i am a black man and that I love me some flesh.

So why the comment below:

Do you like light skinned, mixed, and white women?

Mobo,

What does me being in America and my husband being Nigerian have TO DO WITH YOU LEAVING UK since you don't want black women to come to UK?

kokoye:
Mrs Chima,

Mind you, Value is a relative word.

All what you have said it the ideal situation - what I have stated is the reality when talking about Nigerians. And you truly and honestly may not understand what i am talking about because you have not lived in Nigeria.
In these days, poverty has affected a lot of reasonings. A lot of people have made moves just to avoid abject poverty, including marrying the worng person.

And you will never know a person's true color until they have what they want - wealth and independence in the case of a poor or female Nigerian.

Here in the states, most people do what they want to do- that is the sytem they were born into and that is how they were raised.

But in Nigeria, true actions are supressed due to culture, religion, tradition, age, gender or social status. Again this may make no sense to you.

I do not know about Mexicans - I am only telling you what I know.

I have lived in both worlds so I may have a better understand of the real issue at hand. And I mean no I mean no disrepect.

I agree with you Koyoke that VALUE IS RELATIVE.  But you stated "african value" and I asked you to elaborate on it.  Now it being flipped to a different arena.  My comment were based on the value aspect of society regardless to where you live.  Poverty is everywhere even in AMERICA.  I do not need to live in Nigeria to understand how POVERTY AFFECTS people.  Again, if a person has a moral fiber of doing what RIGHT no matter where they lands their feet, their moral fiber will not change. 

That is my whole point. 

Now getting to the topic,

African men going home to bring wives from yonder expecting them WHO MAY NOT HAVE THE SIMILAR VALUE AS THEM OR EXPECTATIONS IN RELATIONSHIP to remain true to what they never were BLAMES THE WESTERN BULLSHIT.

Girl, I ain't sudden that bus riding punny begging dormitory living Mcdonald eating soup kitchen beggin arse NEGRO.

[quote author=MzD@rkSkin link=topic=609419.msg7775190#msg7775190 date=1298318625][color=TEAL]chima sis I'm sorry but LOL! [/color][/quote]HISSSSS

kokoye:
The man who goes home to marry does it because

- He is used to and wants a submissive woman.

- He is used to the woman cooking and cleaning and taking care of the children.

- He works hard and struggles to bring the woman and send her to nursing school so that she can quickly be on her feet and be able to help and support him while still being the nice and submissive wife.

He uses almost all his life savings to pay bride price - do wedding, take care of the woman's family and bring her here . . including sending her younger ones to school
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Now the woman gets to the west and realises her husband is not all that: he works too much and his social class is not something she can be proud off.

The guy sends her to nursing school, she starts meeting other westernized woman and admiring their independent way of life.

She becomes a nurse and starts working overtime. The husband starts getting pissed cos there's no food waiting for him at home and his wife is not always at home. It is like his investment is not working against him.

The wife starts having friends and realises she cant do better than the man she has - she does not need his money and even makes more than he does  . .with overtime. She starts taking him for granted.  Remember there was no real love btw them anyway - she married him to come to the west.

- The laws of the west favor the woman. So of course, the wife will capitalize on it.

- The man starts going crazy. He cant believe wat is happening to him. The reason he brought the wife was so he could have a helper and submissive wife. But nooo . . . his wife is tellign him she makes more money and is more powerful than him.

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Hope this makes sense,  I'm not saying this is always the case but very likely.

Koyoke,

I read everything you said and I can see your point.  However, I do not see what the "values" has to do with someone deciding how they want to live their lives.   I have a problem with people assuming that AMERICA or the "west" as some of you call it is homogeneous in values or cultures. Now, I might be a little rusty in the amounts of whomever in America.  But I am sure there are more Mexican immigrants than any other immigrants illegal or legal in America.  Their idea of values varies from state or region.  I have noticed that Mexicans as a whole have DIFFERENT IDEAS what lifestyle is considered "valuable".  

America is a country that diverse in cultures, traditions, and creed.  Those Nigerian sisters that you say that comes over here from yonder and get with "western" people are people from the EAST.  If you go to an average business establishment, you most likely will see an Immigrant or non immigrant THAN YOU WILL see an American born unless they are supervisors or owners.  

So again, there is no such thing as a Clustered Value when you are labeling values based on region or culture.  Because I can promise you not all Africans share the same values and not all Americans share the same values.  

If you have a moral fiber of who you are, you will not modify that moral fiber because you step in a new region.  You can pull a leopard out of the zoo, but you can't change the spots.  That is true for every aspects.

[quote author=MzD@rkSkin link=topic=609419.msg7775050#msg7775050 date=1298317177][color=teal]^@ cork put your car in neutral (right on top of a hill). Run fast to the bottom of the hill and lie down.  [/color]

[color=teal]hmmm. I know that's right.  please. gtfoh.
that's if the Naija dude dont kill her first  [/color][/quote]Damn, I felt that.  Ouch!  Sis, I know for sure that Immigration do not support same sex marriages.  I highly doubt the akatas were "females".

Why don't you leave UK Mobo?

kokoye:
it is not about money . . I will explain it:

I am not saying it is about the money Koyoke. I am just repeating WHAT YOUR BROTHERS ARE SAYING. Don't jump on me. I am just the messenger.

Koyoke,

What is "african value"?  Seriously.  Real talk.

Right Sis.  I am like damn what they do for these nukkas to be UPSET with them.  I mean if they are asking for money I don't see why that is a problem.  That what I hear the complaints from the boys is the sisters are asking for money are expecting them to have money.  

Well, that what black men do over here as well.  So again African men and American men aren't any different.

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