Omo Urhobo:

Most Africans especially Nigerians always have a story to tell after bringing a Wife to Western world. Their behaviour change from the same respectfull Lady that you knew in Nigeria. Some Nigerian Men who could not control their shock ended up in Jail. Some were very happy by bringing their Wives. Why would you bring your Lady to Western world and Why would you think otherwise?

kokoye:

it is not about money . . I will explain it:

Mrs.Chima:

Koyoke,

What is "african value"?  Seriously.  Real talk.  

kokoye:

^^^

They are not bad. But the western system is different - ladies will react to it and most men (especially those who go home to marry them) may not be able to handle it.

The guys who go home to bring ladies do it cos they want someone with African values - the ladies get here and those values fly outta the window.

Hope I make sense MzD@rkSkin

Yeah you make a lot of sense to me but what I am saying is. . .blah 4get it. I'd rather the 'African ladies'
come in here and speak their peace. I'd rather be on the sides lines and "learn" after all I am western so. . .
I will never understand.  

Mr, Cork:

huh?  Nigeria? Black woman?    HELL NO!! (no oofeinse)

they not wifey material & they not usualy presentable (no oofeinse)

^@ cork put your car in neutral (right on top of a hill). Run fast to the bottom of the hill and lie down. 

fstranger3:

Oh yeah,

I only dated akatas for 4 yrs for paper. Which right thinking Nigerian would marry Akata, its like signing your own death warrant.

hmmm. I know that's right.  please. gtfoh.
that's if the Naija dude dont kill her first 

kokoye:


They are not bad. But the western system is different - ladies will react to it and most men (especially those who go home to marry them) may not be able to handle it.

The guys who go home to bring ladies do it cos they want someone with African values - the ladies get here and those values fly outta the window.

Hope I make sense MzD@rkSkin

you have spoken well but the truth is women in general are problematic
i wish i could just get a woman, she gives me kids and dis-sapper's for gud  

kokoye:

The man who goes home to marry does it because

- He is used to and wants a submissive woman.

- He is used to the woman cooking and cleaning and taking care of the children.

- He works hard and struggles to bring the woman and send her to nursing school so that she can quickly be on her feet and be able to help and support him while still being the nice and submissive wife.

He uses almost all his life savings to pay bride price - do wedding, take care of the woman's family and bring her here . . including sending her younger ones to school
______________________

Now the woman gets to the west and realises her husband is not all that: he works too much and his social class is not something she can be proud off.

The guy sends her to nursing school, she starts meeting other westernized woman and admiring their independent way of life.

She becomes a nurse and starts working overtime. The husband starts getting pissed cos there's no food waiting for him at home and his wife is not always at home. It is like his investment is not working against him.

The wife starts having friends and realises she cant do better than the man she has - she does not need his money and even makes more than he does  . .with overtime. She starts taking him for granted.  Remember there was no real love btw them anyway - she married him to come to the west.

- The laws of the west favor the woman. So of course, the wife will capitalize on it.

- The man starts going crazy. He cant believe wat is happening to him. The reason he brought the wife was so he could have a helper and submissive wife. But nooo . . . his wife is tellign him she makes more money and is more powerful than him.

_________________________

Hope this makes sense,  I'm not saying this is always the case but very likely.

Well. . ."When in Rome do what, __________."
HEY! 

MzD@rkSkin:

^@ cork put your car in neutral (right on top of a hill). Run fast to the bottom of the hill and lie down. 

hmmm. I know that's right.  please. gtfoh.
that's if the Naija dude dont kill her first 

Mrs.Chima:

Damn, I felt that.  Ouch!  Sis, I know for sure that Immigration do not support same sex marriages.  I highly doubt the akatas were "females".  

     
pls. let the HE/SHE talk. what is more pathetic than to admit to using
a woman for residential status? granted there was s3x involved. Hey sis isn't that a form
of "pr0stituti0n"? 

190:

Buahahahaha!!


cock is talking 2 himself and quoting himself

190, bro, when I need a skinny B!tch, I will call on u, until then, U can F*** off!!

MzD@rkSkin:


Well. . ."When in Rome do what, __________."
HEY!  

Mr, Cork:

190, bro, when I need a skinny B!tch, I will call on u,   until then, U can F***  off!!

so. . .ure gay   btw I noticed you juss spowk gud inglish. . .hmmm.

Omo Urhobo:

@Fstranger4.  Two of my Friends married Akata.  They were so happy that they never attempted going back to Nija to get one.  Their Wives are very respectful to their Mothers-in-law.  Another one in England regretted it.  Whenever one of my Friend's Mother is at home, Nija Wife would off the Heater.  My Friend's Mother almost passed away before his Junior visited her in England from USA.  He immediately got next available plane for his Mother to go back to Abeokuta before he finally brought her to USA.  The Akata Wife took care of her, in USA, better than Nija Woman in England.  [size=18pt]Pray to get a good Akata or good Nija as a Wife.[/size]

Cheers to you!   I respect that!

fstranger3:

Oh yeah,

I only dated akatas for 4 yrs for paper. Which right thinking Nigerian would marry Akata, its like signing your own death warrant.

kokoye:

The man who goes home to marry does it because

- He is used to and wants a submissive woman.

- He is used to the woman cooking and cleaning and taking care of the children.

- He works hard and struggles to bring the woman and send her to nursing school so that she can quickly be on her feet and be able to help and support him while still being the nice and submissive wife.

He uses almost all his life savings to pay bride price - do wedding, take care of the woman's family and bring her here . . including sending her younger ones to school
______________________

Now the woman gets to the west and realises her husband is not all that: he works too much and his social class is not something she can be proud off.

The guy sends her to nursing school, she starts meeting other westernized woman and admiring their independent way of life.

She becomes a nurse and starts working overtime. The husband starts getting pissed cos there's no food waiting for him at home and his wife is not always at home. It is like his investment is not working against him.

The wife starts having friends and realises she cant do better than the man she has - she does not need his money and even makes more than he does  . .with overtime. She starts taking him for granted.  Remember there was no real love btw them anyway - she married him to come to the west.

- The laws of the west favor the woman. So of course, the wife will capitalize on it.

- The man starts going crazy. He cant believe wat is happening to him. The reason he brought the wife was so he could have a helper and submissive wife. But nooo . . . his wife is tellign him she makes more money and is more powerful than him.

_________________________

Hope this makes sense,  I'm not saying this is always the case but very likely.

Mr, Cork:

Mrs.Chima <<<<<< Dracula is awake

chima sis I'm sorry but LOL!