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[quote author=shy-one. link=topic=608521.msg7767774#msg7767774 date=1298224801]If my babe asked me for money consistently - I would look at him for the stranger he just became in my sight

helpmate - HELPMATE - I am helpmate NOT CAPTAIN

Captain guides, controls, drives, steers the ship

If I have to take care of you financially - you better have popped out of of my Va-j-j, weighing under 10lbs and ready to be bosom-fed.

It's that simple

MAN - especially MY MAN - you are showing me things, teaching me, guiding me - leech is nowhere in that instruction[/quote]I hear you girl. Tell em.

I lubs you too L. Reed!

Don't tell Jaybee and Dsense.

Why is there any beef with MY PREFERENCE? I don't dictate to ANYONE who and what they should look for and I will appreciate the same thing in return.

Thank you in advance.

Mrs. Chima FRONTING? Chile please.

Heey Roymary!

Just because he admitted that he is broke that LESSEN THE SCAMMING DEGREE?  

On the real-----

A real man that LOVES A WOMAN WILL GO BEYOND AND ABOVE to be with that woman. No real man will wait or even staggers for THREE YEARS not being with the woman he loves for three years. It is no way in hell a man even if he is broke will allow the woman that he claims he love and professed to be without him even for a day.

Now with that being said, THAT MAN IS FUCKING AND LIVING OFF OF HER GENEROSITY. He prolly right now at Mr. Big treating a girl to some jollef rice and garri.

[quote author=*Cougar* link=topic=608521.msg7767565#msg7767565 date=1298222841]pay no attention to the scums discouraging you.

granted, there have been many cases of men using americans as cash machines but this does not suggest your own boy is doing the same. if you love him, make time and visit nigeria to see what he's really up to. it might save you lots of cash you are yet to spend on this boyfriend of yours. who knows - this boy might actually be genuine. go to nigeria and check him out before sending big amounts of money to him.[/quote]The only person that is a SCUM is the one that scamming the poster.  There is nobody IN THERE RIGHT MIND is going to fall in love with someone that they haven't met for THREE YEARS. A year would have made sense, but THREE YEARS?  Even you know that don't make no gotdamn sense.  

Now I do agree with YOU on the fact that if she wants to be generous with her money and support his lifestyle that is her choice and right.  It is her money.  We can't tell her what she can or cannot do with her money.  She is the only one that will suffer the consequences not us.  

It is important to MEET the person BEFORE starting any serious relationship because the person may not be what they are to be.  BUT THEN AGAIN, people do what they want and ONLY THEY WILL suffer the consequence and the kids if they have some.  

Everybody that gave her sound advices and warnings were on point.  I got a feeling that she will continue regardless of what we tell her.  

I wish her all the luck and cosmic energy she will need.  We often confused INFACTUATION WITH LOVE. We need to know the difference.

amefi:
wacha gwam ina de yard?

That why you are online begging and looking for some attention and punny.

ogugua88:
Where's the personality option?

I guess he want to see who is shadow and who is not.

I didn't know I was suppose to answer differently.  My answer still remains.

OP====

Yes, Brain and common sense will turn me on through stage of life.

Hissssss@Mz. Dark!

L.Reed don't mind that fool Roymary. He is mad because I won't fix him any candied yams.

[size=22pt]Common Sense[/size]

It is important to have common sense when you are in a marriage. Marriage is a great union if both parties are in the same thinking pattern of life and what it is all about to them. However, we get so caught up with PLEASING others than ourselves. It is nothing wrong with pleasing your mate, but it also important to please you.

If you feel that something is not right then it is not right. It is important to use common sense and investigate by speaking out. We often time do not want to upset our mate by not saying anything but in the long run it only upset us more. If you spouse tell you that something is wrong do not tell your partner, "you crazy" or "do you need some drugs?". Find out what is going on and maybe your partner is sensing something that obviously you are not sensing. It is better to be safe than sorry even if the action is tedious.

Common sense is essential in marriage and do not leave home without it.


(why do I feel like I am doing a commercial?)

koolchicco:
Erm, I comment my reserve.

Chicco!  I know damn well you ain't reserving your comments!!  You is never afraid to SPEAK your mind.  Why now?  

You know her?  

Iranoladun:
What's height got to do with love & marriage?

Some people have preferences of who they want to marry. There are people who want to marry a short guy/girl or a tall guy/girl.

Like Tina said, What's love gotta do with anything?

googles:
lol me I'm just saying if I'm to present the case in class ni o. . . why would anyone carry dis domestic accident to court anyways

its this kind of lazy case I will like for classroom presentation jor . . .I will pull plenty stuff on it

I hear you Googles. It seems though that people want to sue for everything these days and what they have failed to realized that domestic cases aren't favorable by law unless some intentional tort has been done. If people would to sue for every domestic cases, the court system will be out of business because overtime will have wipe out the budget.

In his case, he is not going to win. There is no evidence of wrongdoing and I am sure the girl will not admit to bad customer service. If there were a video of some sort or tangible evidence outlining the store negligence then the plaintiff would have a better chance but not a solid win.

This is the question to all those who are online dating and engaged.

As Deniyor so eloquently (paraphrasing) put it that ONLINE image fools a lot of people and most people differs offline from what they are online.

How would you feel if the person whom you are dating and engaged to DIFFERS from their online image? Would you still date them or marry them after meeting them finally in person knowing they have lied about their height and weight?

I can say that every 7 foot tall man or woman is not the same and what if they aren't what they portrayed to be physically would you still continue to date them?

Be honest. It is the best way to go.

I don't get American women these days. I swear.

You is silly google!  

On the serious note-----

I did not know that you was SERIOUS about suing the shop owner OP.  I can tell you for certainty that you will be wasting your time.  If you are suing ON THE ENTIRETY of principles.  You will not win.  So I agree with Googles that the shop owner will win.  You claim specified that the sale girl was rude and unkempt.  That is not against the law unfortunately.  I am not WELL VERSED IN NIGERIAN LAW but I am well versed in common sense.  I highly doubt any MORALLY judge will allow your case to even enter calendar docket. 

In USA, a tort similar to ASSOCIATED NEGLIGENCE is when an employee of a company have performed a wrongdoing the victim can sue the company directly without suing the employee because the employee represents the company.  In this case, the only wrongdoing is POOR CUSTOMER SERVICE and the verdict will favor the Defendant. 

Sorry.

You got played. Good. Next time select a chick base on substance.

I like a man with common sense and a brain IN THIS WORLD.

I don't see why not. Marriage is about partnership and if the wife is making more money than the husband and the stability is stronger in PH then why not move to PH. If the husband was making more money and the stability was stronger in Abuja then I would expect the wife to move with the husband.

Common sense is also crucial in the marriage. People need to put their pride aside and look at the bigger picture. It is not about who have the most money should be revered. Both are equal and therefore shouldn't be a problem in the marriage.

Then again, people bicker over the STUPIDEST shit nowadays. Tell your cousin that common sense is essential and there is nothing wrong with moving to PH if she can financially support his travel and stay. He can always get a better job and make just as much as she is or more. It is not a big deal and shouldn't be.

ogugua88:
Allow? Smh,

Exactly.

REALITY101:
Lol @ 4 foot tall. You wish. . . . .

I know you have got this huge crush on Lebron James but so sad the loser is gay While Kobe is the man

I rather like a guy who is gay (although that is not my thing) than a guy who is a rapist! Now what!

Yall heffas better branch out cos there are tall men with some cobras. That what I heard.

Exactly Amina. That was my point precisely. An arsehole is an arsehole is an arsehole with or without pictures.

You can put Precious on your profile and YOU WILL STILL get a bunch of nasty, limp dick, and rabid perverts trying to see if he can hump your knees.

You wrong for that Mz. Dark!

Dsense,

I heard you got Ebola. I would give you instructions on how to treat Ebola, but I am illiterate according to you.

I think you supposed to drink rat poison and it shall remove your disorder. I think------(scratching head and looking puzzled) Yeah, I think so.

Inkie,

Since you renting wombs, I will wire you the money via Western Union and have about four children for me so I can avoid the extra sessions that come with pregnancies.

Osama,

Not everybody use Facebook to attract a sexual partner. However, I do agree that Facebook does not protects men or women from being exposed to sexual predators or rude people.

I find that regardless what status you use, how many pictures you post up, who you accept as friend, and what type of status you put on your page. People who are rude and disrespect are going to be rude and disrespectful.

I have several friends who have over 1,000 friends and only know five of them personally minus the family members. Guess what, she posted a very revealing picture of herself and she wondered why she was an instant FACEBOOK CELEBRITY.

My husband and I share a facebook account and we are very selective who we add on the page and we always consult with each other prior to accepting people as friends. MOST OF THE PEOPLE are our family members and family friends. So far we haven't had any issues. We mainly use it to contact family and friends from afar.

I know damn well African men is not going to be paying another woman to carry his child. He will do better just marrying the surrogate mother! I am just thinking like an African man! Sue me!

This is romance how?

Atreides:
@mrs c,yes her fiancee is. She's said so. You will have to forgive momma, I am always skim reading.  It is a habit that I picked up in school and 9 out of 10 it always worked for me.
Btw-Hi momma!

Hey baby!  How are you?  I see you don't date shorties either.  Your papi is tall and I love it! 


Okay, Shyone.  5'7 to 5'8 considers to be average in the modeling world.